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Don't Hate the Markets - Seekingalpha.com

... hate everything right now. We hate Congress ... It's also a little early for me to start the "never underestimate the American consumer" refrain, but what the heck.

Rare opportunity exists now for peace in the Middle East - Deseret News

Because all the extremists are now doubling down. Last week ... Trust me, this is just the throat-clearing and gun-cleaning. Wait until we have a deal. Even if Israel agrees to swap land with the Palestinians so that ...

Letter: No Place for Hate Committee should support mosque - Abington Mariner

... drones and now ... me. It’s not good for me and can break me. I try forgiveness and healing instead, at any location or place. Since its start, I have been a member of the city of Salem’s No Place for Hate ...

What Happened to Make Me Hate God so Much? I Repsond to a Question - Associated Content

Now I know all the arguments that will be brought out in defense ... Celebrities and the wealthy who claim to owe their success to God are saying "look at me, I'm important to God." When someone like Glenn Beck tells ...

FBI: Marines won't be charged with hate crime - Oregonian

... hate crime. Stephen Emmett, spokesman for the FBI in Atlanta, said Wednesday the Justice Department opted against pursuing hate-crime charges after reviewing the case. "The matter now rests ... damage to me.

Hicks: Here's a confession -- I hate Internet surveys - San Jose Mercury News

now Were you named after anyone? After everyone who was named before me. Do you like your handwriting? Only because no one else can read it "... and I'm a spy. What's your favorite lunch meat? Poodle. Have kids?

Hate equals hope for Jets - New York Post

Now Tomlinson is not alone. And all this hate could be just what the Jets needed to get their thoughts off ... Those who have stuck with “Rescue Me” have been rewarded. Some ran when it got a little too weird in ...

Love To Hate You: NHL Players Who Have Been on Both Sides of a Rivalry - Bleacherreport.com

... hate the most, you suddenly loved to hate him ... and please feel free to let me know if you have more examples of players who jumped ship. If you were the fan who found yourself choosing team loyalty vs.

Ann Coulter Doesn't Hate Gays Enough for WorldNetDaily - Huffingtonpost.com

... me," he said. "It will destroy this country." When Signorile asked Farah if he now agreed with gays who had previously criticized ... WND was turning up the anti-gay hate on its commentary page: An Aug. 16 ...

Does the Bible Promote Hate Against Homosexuals? - Associated Content

I for one do not believe anything that cannot be said to me personally. How can one believe everything ... Now I ask you, does the Bible and those that teach the Bible promote hate against gays? The answer is yes.

Open Question: is it common for a child not be potty trained at the age of six?

okay, im worried about my little cousin. well actually he is my cousin's son. he is six. its really sad that he still wears pull ups and hasnt been potty trained yet. its also sad that my aunt raises him. she is his legal guardian because my cousin, her son doesnt want to raise him. and also she says his mother never wanted him. its horrible that the kids parents didnt want him. but i think she was lying somewhat because his mother did try to visit him throughout the years and my aunt refused to let her see him he calls her mom but ofcourse he would think that. anyway he also has 2 brothers that he never seen. she told me to never tell him the truth. that she is actually his grandma. she doesnt want him to know he as brothers and who is real mom is. i think thats wrong. when he is older i think he deserves to know the truth. okay back to the topic. so he will be 7 in march. he is not a slow kid at all. he is very smart. he is a normal kid to me. although she claims he has adhd. but i dont think he does. i think its the candy and sugar she gives him all the time that makes him hyper. because he can be calm at times and he knows a lot of things.he doesnt go to school(probably because she hasnt potty trained him) she does home school him. and he knows a lot of stuff already like the states and capitols. so thats a good thing. well. she told me she thinks he's unhealthy because his poop has always been mushy and he never pooped a turd. even so i dont think thats an excuse for him to wear pullups at his age, i mean its crazy to not have your kid potty trained by 3. unless your kid is not normal and either retarded or something then i think all children need to be potty trained at 3. its not healthy to let a kid continue to poop his pants and not use the toilet. whats odd is oh he can pee in the toliet but not poop. i just dont get it also its also not right for a kid to be sucking a bottle over 4 years old or to be breast feed over 2. these are unhealthy to kid also. they will be made fun of later for it and might cause them to not develop normally. he doesnt drink a bottle or is breast feed. i just wanted to throw that in there. anyway you have to teach your kid to walk,talk, and potty train at the right age and to try. parents that dont try or neglect to do this, then i find that bad parenting. i just hate what my aunt is doing to my cousin's kid. i think she doesnt potty train him on purpose because she wants money from him. its sad but i know my aunt to be very manipulative. shes also two faced and lies about everything. on the brightside she doesnt abuse him but she hardly diciplines him either. its so sad. and the fact that she has the nerve to say i cant raise a child? when first of all she never raised her son. her aunt did. second i dont know if she is raising her grandson now because she missed out on raising her son and wants a second chance at being a parent. or third because she just wants to use to the kid for her own benefit so she can get money. im worried this kid will be made fun of when he's older. now hear me out. do you think popping in your pants on purpose is just as bad as peeing in your bed? i dont think so. when kids pee in the bed its an accident. but pooping.. that different. unless the kid has loose bowels or has diarrehea then he should go to the bathroom on his own. well can anyone tell me what they think? i dont think its normal for a child over 4 not to be potty trained. unless they have mental problems and really cant help it. but if they can send a text message, beat other people at numberous video games, say all the states and capitals at the top of their head.. then they should be smart enough to do number 2 on the toliet. i just dont get it... more

Open Question: Do you ever feel like your significant other is also your kryptonite?

I've felt invincible for most of my life but there have been moments of weaknesses here and there. Something strange is happening right now. Something unfamiliar, like entering uncharted territory. I love this girl and she just makes me feel weak and very sissy-like. We first got together last year exactly around this time and we spent 5 happy moths togther, hanging out alone away from everyone. It was all very idealistic, until she had to move out of town- far. We ended up breaking up in February. Last month she came to visit and we decided we can not afford to give up. I do love her. I've realized, I love her a lot. She's the only girl I've never doubted that her feelings are real. She makes me feel warm and kind of safe/ at peace when we are together. Physically.. I mean within 10 feet of each other. She lives in California now and I live in New York. Idk if its the distance or what it is, but my love for her, thinking about her makes me feel very vulnerable, very weak. When we broke up she took a lot of emotional stress and cried a lot and became an emotional mess so she showed me a very fragile side of her which I wasn't entirely aware that it existed. Now I take a lot of stress knowing that she is so delicate. I keep thinking messed up thoughts that are my fears- pretty irrational. i know. like someone is gonna kidnap her and rape and murder her. sometimes, I think about taking her and running away to a remote place away from everything where it would be safe and we can be together finally in peace. Someone please reassure me that this is normal and the root of all the problems and fears is this distance, and that things will be right as rain once again when we move in together and she's within a 10 feet radius of me. I don't know why I am so fearful that I'm going to lose her. I hate this. I hate falling in love. If I lose her then I'm pretty sure, I'm just going to close the book on all things romantic for good. I'm just going to focus on other things like career and making a name, maybe changing the world a little bit or something. more

Open Question: Should I move schools?

Okay please read its a lot to explain! Well, at my school at the moment I have 'friends' (if you should even call them that) they backstab me alot. I mean expect it from two of them but my so called bestfriend I wouldn't but she does, she just wants everyone to like her even if that means making me feel like crap in the process. If someone bags me she doesn't stick up for me she just goes along with it, and she sucks to the other two because they are seen as popular or shes scared of them I am not sure. I use to get along with them great, I would hardly be home at all on the weekend even on school nights I was always doing things NOW I do nothing but sit at home big turn around hey? So anyway when one of the friends who everyone sucks does somehting mean or bullys someone else I get the blame! So all the boys give me crap just cause they are in a fight with that friend, they give me more crap than the friend themselves. Pretty much all the boys hate me, one because I went out with one and dumped him so he just holds a grudge so his friends copy him and treat me like crap pretty stupid hey? Than theres a guy that just in general likes to ruin my day constantly saying stuff. Than today I get bombarded by five people yelling at me :S Is this worth staying at this school? I mean I am doing fine academically even though I am starting to find it hard to concentrate. The other school is known for great academics and students get great results! But I know absolutley no one there... and what happens if I don't make friends? At the moment I am pretty much crying all the time, in the last 4 months I have pretty much cried every night... Do you make friends when you move? Or do some new kids have no friends at all! And I am worried if I move, that even in the future if I don't make friends there I nnever will what do I do? more

Open Question: If I gave a girl the cold shoulder will she go away?

This girl use to be my best friend and now she annoys the #@!# out of me and i still hate her but i have ot be around her sometimes in class. i hang around guys and older ppl alot and i can see her trying to come in . i go silent sometimes but she comes and mingles with the groupo im w/ sometimes and i really dont want her by me or socailizing with ppl i am at the moments.The thing is it that after me and her had a BIG argumen tcus shes so annoying i told her we should at least make it so that we could work together in a group for school. i regret saying it and i cant take it back. now it would be werid to hate her all of a sudden. well i do hate her but to show it would b weird x). To make her go away i think ill stare at her and go a bit silent and ignore her. in this situation would u feel ocward and avoid me a bit less? If a girl u arent great friends stared treating u that way would u stay a bit away? because i want her to stay away w/o me tellign her and taking back my words like an idiot. pls give me more ways to make her feel univited. thx. i hope u understand more

Open Question: How long can i wait to get my cavities filled?

I have six, yes 6 cavities, from teeth the dentist has been watching for over 5 years (although i wasnt told until i went in for a normal cleaning recently, but thats another long story) and they will cost a total of $580 to fix (with insurence) i have no job right now, though ive been looking. they took x-rays and they are small cavities and are about 10% in the teeth (but they are between teeth, which is why i didnt see them) and i havnt felt any pain from them im not trying to put it off, i just, need to know how fast i need to get a job to work before i have to pay for root canals....so, how long before they turn into root canal and how will i be able to tell? like will i have tooth pain? for six cavities, is it possible for them to put me to sleep? i hate needles, ive gotten a cavity filled without the numbing stuff before, but the only issue is my teeth are sensitive and they blow cold water and air, which kills me inside, i start to cry. but....i dont want 50 shots in my mouth and is there anyway to prevent them from getting deeper? i mean, i know they will keep growing till i get them filled, but what are some ways i can slow them down? more

Open Question: General info about nose jobs?

Okay, so im now 18 years old and im able to get a nose job. I've wanted one for as long as i can literally remember andi can't wait (I hate my nose!) I just wanted to know basic information about them: 1. How much roughly will it cost eg: Lowest possibe price, highest possible price 2. What percentage of people are happy with the outcome? 3. What are the risks involved? 4. Where would you recommend i get it done? (I live in the UK) 5. Are there any things restricting me from getting it done eg: age too low? 6. If you have had it done, would recommend it? What are your opinions on it? Do you feel better about yourself? Thanks, any other information I would really appreciate, i want to consider this throughly before i do anything to my face.Ohh, and how do I go about explaining what i want doing? more

Open Question: HELP FAMILY PROBLEM !?

Thank you very much in advance-it might be a long story, i might babble on and on. I just feel so weird and gloomy these days. I immigrated to NZ when i was 8 years old with my mum and older brother. Not one of us could speak fluent english, and although i don't really remember it must have been quite tough on my mum, looking after two children alone without any help. Then suddenly one day my dad rings and announces that he's got a girlfriend. And, my brothers not seeing us anymore because he had a huge (silly!) conflict with mum over his gf (a total b****). Well, so now its just mum and i living in a big old empty house. Mum's going through menopause and WOW does she get angry sometimes! I'm the only one who she can talk to about her problems and sometimes i CANT STAND how she carries on saying how bad my dad is, and how he didnt use to be like that. Also, i get really annoyed when she keeps on asking me "are u ok? i don't want you to feel sad because of us" because infact, im NOT moved- its as though ive lost all my emotions, i dont feel sad or angry. And i HATE it when mum still calls my dad from time to time because she hasnt moved on and dad is so rude to her! but she carries on. i CANT understand why she still wants to call him even though she gets DEGRADED every time. and these days, im increasingly becoming envious of my friends when they talk about their dads and i hate watching movies/shows about dad and daughter relationships. AND i just cant focus on stuff and mum again thinks this is because of dad (but i really am not bothered by it, its their problem is it not?) But i keep on thinking that its not my dad fault. i mean mum and dad used to be the friendliest couple in my hometime, everyone used to envy their unconditional love and just imagine dad's intense loneliness and insecurity when suddenly he found himself alone. at least mum had us... i can understand him getting a girlfriend. and im quite happy for him. but i feel so guilty because i feel as though i should hate him for deserting us! and i hate how mum is so desperate to talk to him and listen to his voice while dad is indifferent. Am i going crazy? i feel as though i dont feel affected by the whole thing, but maybe i actually am..? Im really confused. Please help. i need some comfort, im afraid to tell my friends because once i told a friend and she thought it was the most obscene thing in the world! she even started mocking me by slyly saying to my mum "I know that ALL doctors are cheaters" (dads a doctor) implying my dad of course....... i can really use some comfort. GAHH i feel so much better already getting that off my chest! I really appreciate the time u took to read this! Thanks you very very much!AND just think! dad couldnt see us through our childhoods and missed out on making beautiful memories!. and im really sad that i didnt have a good father-daughter relationship because its really awkward when i talk to him, not because of the conflict, but because i just didnt have many interactions with him and i feel as though hes a stranger... more

Open Question: My boyfriend won't let me go to parties?

I've been with my boy for two years. We've never had issues with trust and neither of us have cheated. But now I'm in college and I want to go to parties - and he won't let me. He said I'll get in trouble if I'm around alcohol and that guys will try to get with me. But I'm not going to get drunk - I hate being drunk, I just like having a little to loosen me up because sometimes I get anxious. And even if guys were all over me, I'm a big girl and I know how to defend myself. I just want to hang out with girlfriends, dance and have a good time. Is that so bad? He also gave me an ultimatum - "Its either me or them". What should I do? I invited him to come along but he doesn't party. more

Open Question: Would someone staring at you make you go away?

Open Question: I lied over the internet... •more info•?

hey guys :) so one of my close friends I met over the internet (never in real life) thinks I'm 16, when in reality, I'm only 14. OMG WHATS A 14 YR OLD DOING MEETING STRANGERS OVER THE FREAKING INTERNET? I dunno. but, normally 16 year olds are supposed to be in soph. or junior year, even though now I'm only in 8th grade. [*Note*: she is a freshman] I'm very mature for my age, so I pulled it off. she added me over FB and me being stupid, i accepted. buuut something slipped my mind; as a status, I put "ima 8th graderrr!!! ...[blah blah blah]" so, instead of being a normal 16 yr old, I'm either a 16 year old that got held back or a 14 year old that lied. we havent spoken since, i'm sure she saw it and she knows my true identity. yeaaa yeaaa i'll probably get a lot of hate comments, but i hate how people treat 14 and 16 year olds so differently based on age and not on actions, which is exactly why I did it. Hey, i pulled it off for a while! :) so how do I approach her and tell her I lied? Should i wait until she speaks to me or should I break the barrier? THANK YOU!! :)) more

Open Question: R&P: Don't you hate it when people tell others to listen to "good music" or "real music"?

I do. Like, I see a kid who listens to BOTDF or Bring me the horizon or hell, even Ozzy Osbourne. Or the Beatles. whatever. and then when someone asks a question they say "stop listening to that shitty music and listen to good music like [insert band name]." Now it's one thing to bash a band, it's one thing to state an opinion. It's another thing to go on a question which is most definitely not addressed to you and tell the questioner his/her taste in music sucks. now that gets EVEN MORE annoying when the band they post a link to is one you hate, or one the questioner hates. I've seen a kid who linked to Black Veil Brides...and it was a question about country music. I seriously wanted to punch whoever it was in the face. I honestly don't care if he likes BVB. I hate them but that honestly doesn't matter. that's just stupid. I bash bands, I even cuss out at over-obsessive fans sometimes, but hell I don't go on a random question and bash them just because they happen to disagree with me. Yea I know I sound like a self-righteous b*tch, I promise you, I'm not :Pscrew you guys -_- yea, everyone has their opinions, that's not my point. My point is why go and bash a stranger asking a question for what they like? Music is entertainment and everyone is different. We should accept that and get along. I bash artists and bands, and even then, I don't go on a question that says "bands like brokenCYDE" and say that music sucks. I'd rather ask a question about it to rant. Instead of ranting about it to someone who likes it.the thing is, there's one purpose in answering questions to say 'listen to good music.' to offend that person. and for what? their personal taste in music. more

Open Question: how to REALLY APOLOGIZE ?! HELP !?

ok so its bit of a crazy story but here i go ! OK i found out my now ex was cheating on me and became extremly angry !! i asked my cousin (who always has my back) to ride with me when i went to confront him ! The confrontation turned into a heated car crash (which i ended up doing 3days in jail for) but my cousin broke her leg !! All because i asked her to ride with me she ended up breaking her leg !! I know she hates me but how do apologize and get her to forgive me !??? i fell awful !! HELP more

Open Question: Do I have aspergers syndrome?

A few days ago I was looking up the symptoms for Aspergers because I heard about some of the symptoms which sounded similar to what I'm going through. I hate change, and have imaginary conversations with people in my head before it happens (to avoid awkwardness -- I don't think it's a schizophrenic thing at all because I don't THINK I'm the other person and I'm usually speaking as myself and imagining their answers.) I read into body language, a LOT, which helps me in acting. I usually over-use words. I HATE HATE HATE HATE change and I have bad OCD. I come off as aloof and arrogant to others when actually I'm neither. I'm a great listener/advice giver. I hear that loving music a lot has to do with aspergers, and I do have a weird obsession with music because it just calms me down. The thing is I'm not shy at ALL though. I used to be but I've broken out of my shell in the past year, and I've made a lot of friends. However I don't like hanging out with friends so much, and sometimes I secretly wait for them to leave. (Nothing against them or anything, but sometimes I get nervous.) I also have trouble making eye contact with people which I noticed two years ago and it's still a problem for me. I really only have 2 or 3 major hobbies which I've been focused on for the past few years now. I have a good vocabulary though and I don't have problems communicating, but I hate too many sounds at once. Does this sound like aspergers to you? I'm kind of afraid to tell anyone... Is their a treatment for aspergers? more

Open Question: MJ Fans! Did u ever write something unrelated to the question u asked when u gave best answer?

I asked a question about what you would do if you had met Michael and he gave you one of his tight hugs. Now, when i gave the best answer i mention how heavenly it would have been to kiss his sexy lips, because i was thinking of kissing him, lol. but i realize after that the question i asked was about hugging him, not kissing him, so It's kinda embarrassing, because i feel stupid, lol. I hate that if u make a mistake when u give a best answer u can't go back and change it. This is what i mean, here is my question. http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Amy55EooHgn0MfcKADEKBjDsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20100902023039AA1834X more

Open Question: Do u hate life right now?

i do, dont ask why. more

Open Question: Should I buy an AK 47 Clone?

I have wanted one ever since I shot one as a kid at Ft ****** with my dad. The armory had several foreign guns for the soldiers to get aquainted with enemy guns an learn to maintain/use them if needed. Well, I grew up and have the $$$ to get one, My mom doesn't want me to though-Now let me give some more detail-My dad was in Desert storm 1990-1991 and used the AK more than his M16. He told me that he has been shot at with them and returned fire with them so there is a love hate thing going on. My mom believes they are the "bad guy" guns. I have 4 guns as of now- 3 mosins, and a mauser and figure an AK would be a proper step up. I have $250-300 to spend on a used one. looking into a pawn shop or two. I have been around guns all my life and my dad has two-Gonna get one regardless just wanted to ask people who aren't in my house-I am 20 years old no crim record to speak of, and am a life member of the NRA and have a full time job-basic good citizen. Should I get one? my dad thinks yes, but says :up to your mom" My mom doesn't like guns and my dad has kept his collection in his sisters hause 2 states away :( more

Open Question: I am adicted to him but he is cheating me?

Hi I love my husband so much but he hide the truth that he was already got married with 2 kids ? But i cant live without him as am a very sensitive person i cant hate him for anything wht ever he do i love him... But being very loving wife am not even getting a basic respect as his wife in front of his relatives.... I serve him like a slave every day and want to do so bcoz i love him madly. I took care as a mother to him but he is not divorcing his first wife as she is asking a big amount as settlement wht can i do now... I know its my mistake to marry him befr divorce and i also know my marriage is void.. Wht ever it is he is my husband and want to live with him. I am ready to take care of his first wife children also as she wont take care of them properly. All his relatives supported him that his first wife is unfit to live with so i married him but now no body is considering me and my kid .. Am honest sincere and a loving wife to him but he is not keeping his promise.(divorcing his first wife) Wht can i do to correct my fate i want my husband Please help dear friends...Am from a very small village so i cant go out of this relationship i respect my marriage wether its valid or not i got mangalyam from him(kind of wedding ring) if i left him its very hard to survive in this society.... I want to live with him... Wht i can i do to make him to divorce him from his first wife please suggest some good ideas.I dont hav anyone to discuss consider me as a ur friend suggest me a good way please more

Open Question: What is it with women? Do they hate me?!?

Ok just recently I have just come back to college. I have had a recent number of events where i'd get rejected in the WORST way. I asked a girl out before i went out to college and she didn't give me an answer. I gave up then i found out she easily wanted to go to the cinema with my best friend. Also another thing I noticed is that I always seem to get the women that I am NOT attracted to that have no respect for themselves if you know what I mean. I don't get it. Lots of people say i'm a good looking guy and that I'm funny & kind. Recently at college this really nice looking girl who was very shy from my college class got her friend to ask me if I wanted to go with her on holiday. I had a feeling she liked me because she kept looking at me in class and gave me flirtatious smiles. I said "um sure" and we all parted home. The next day she completely blanked me as if she had never witnessed me before in her life. I'm so sick of this same thing happening over & over again like "close but no cigar" luck. And i'm tired of the girls with no self respect coming up to me and pretty much asking me for sex (pretty much) I just want a decent girlfriend I have been single for a whole year now. My friend phoned me and told me he was joining a couple of girls for a drink last night and i just told him no...because i'm sick of trying. What's everyones thoughts? more

Open Question: Falling for someone online, help!?

It's a complicated long story, I'll just give important details. He added me in February, saw a picture I uploaded on a facebook fan page. We talk on Facebook everyday, I was always cautious I assure you! Thanks to a friend of mine's coaxing, we started Skyping in June, and we talk pretty much every day. I'm 16, he's 18. Oh, he lives in fricken England, great. I am going to see family in Germany.. and him for the first time. He's moving to America to live this summer, and I'm part of the reason. I'm just scared that this is all too good. I used to not say anything to let on that I like him, but as of the past few weeks... Well, we both know and stated we like each other a lot. Oops. I know it's all unlikely, but as of now nothing bad has even slightly occurred, so I'm actually optimistic.. for once. Any kind of advice would be great. I hate keeping it all bottled up. more

Open Question: Advice neeeeeeded!!!!!!!! NOW. Fashion!!!!?

Hi what kind of clothes do you think will be cute this fall im going shopping soon so i need an anwer also have you ever had leggings or jeggings and are they comfy Please dont say skinny jeans i hate them An what kind of winter coat do you think i should get what kind of skirts are i n too Thanks so much P.S. Im 12 more

Open Question: Which color should i dye my hair? Hair extensions or no hair extensions?

Which color should i dye my hair with my skin tone its apricot;which would look better? http://i53.tinypic.com/9srlfn.jpg http://i56.tinypic.com/4hwr6f.jpg Should i get hair extensions or no before I had long hair but I messed it up from neglecting it.So after I got a bob and it's growing back nicely.Will weave alter how its growing back now by any chance?P.S my boyfriend hates extensions. more

Open Question: Im writing a story so i want to know what you think?

It's a story about a girl who gets pregnant by her ex who she trys to make things work out with him. in the end she couldnt but a guy comes along and trys to take care of her. heres the first couple pages of the first chapter what do you think? “Please you cant do this” she cried out to him. Her hands began to shake as she fell to her knees, while tears flooded her cheeks. Her body started to shake but not from the cold it was a warm night this was a shake that was caused through anger and sadness. “You promised! You swore! You said you would always be here for me!” she cried in a blubbering mess. “Alice please calm down” he said trying not to look at her face, he couldn’t bare to see the pain he was causing her, he rested a hand on her shoulder. “No!” she cried out as she pushed his hand away. “You swore you loved me! You wanted me to be your wife!” she cried out throwing cheap blows at him. “Alice, Alice look at me” he said sitting beside her in the cool grass. She looked at him wanting to protest “shh” he said before she could speak. “Alice I do love you. I never lied about that. I just need time.” he said trying to calm her down. She stared at him believing him for a second. For just a second her tears stopped as if she was taking in what was being said. She stared at him her expression changed for a second to being calm. Then it was gone. She pushed him away from her as she crumbled to the rest of the ground. He couldn’t stand to watch her like this. She was always so strong, the one that held together no matter what happened. She’s been mad before and she has yelled at him but she has never cried like this, she has never shown her hurt like this before. “You said you loved me, and we’d be together no matter what” she cried, her words coming out in hiccup-y sobs. He pulled her toward him and held her. “Alice, I’ll be her for you no matter what I just need time please don’t cry” he pleaded. Tears flooded her cheeks, she hated showing this much pain, but she just couldn’t see how he could this to her especially now. He knew that there was a huge possibility that she was pregnant right now. She fought against him not wanting to be touched by him. “Just cause your scared doesn’t mean you can run away! I’m scared too but I can’t run!” she cried at him, her hands started to hurt from trying to push him off. “Is this what you think its about?” he asked shocked. Of course he was scared how could they raise a kid. She nodded, reminding him of a kid. “Of course I’m scared but that’s not why. I just need 2 weeks. 3 tops, to think things out” he said, knowing no matter what he said it wouldn’t help. He released her and she fell away from her sobbing. “I hate you!” she cried over and over. He rested his hand on her face so she’d have to look at him. He brushed the tears away pushed her hair behind her ear “I love you Alice, can’t you please just give me this time? I wont leave you and I wont abandon you. I will be here for you and the baby” She looked at him defeat filling her eyes as her shoulders slumped. “Fine” she said. He studied her face the look of sadness shadowed her face. Just then his phone beeped. He looked at his phone and quickly put it away. “Who was that?” she asked. “No one” he said as she got up. “Let me see your phone then” she said her eyes suddenly shifting to distrust. “Alice it was no one” she watched him. “Liar” she said her hand reaching into his pocket before he could stop her. She flipped to his texts and read the most recent one it said. Erik, R U coming over? My parents want to meet you since Ur my first serious BF. Alice’s looked up at him, her face showing a mixture of pain and anger. “Alice I can explain” he said. She walked over to him her body language showing she was calm but her eyes we’re filled with anger. She stood in front of him silent. Without warning she threw the phone on the ground making it shatter into pieces. Without a breath to spare she slapped him, she slapped him with such force he staggered back words. She walked into her house without a word to him. He watched her leave unsure of what to do. He steadied himself from the sudden blow and walked to his car. He didn’t know she had that kind of strength in her. She walked into her room and gathered everything he ever bought her and gave her and walked back out. He was leaning against the car when she came out. He wasn’t sure what was going on. “How could you do that!?” she screamed at him throwing a shoe at him. “You said I could trust you” she yelled throwing the other shoe. “You said you we’re different” She threw a photo frame at him. He stared at the picture as it shattered on the ground beside him, it was of the two of them 9 months together. “I believed everything you said” she screamed as stuff animals hit him. She collapsed to the ground, squeezing the first present she ever received from him.You can go to >> http://anotsopolishedlife.blogspot.com << for more i add to it as i write it only has one part so far more

Open Question: whats wrong with my mom/parent! (it would help if parents answers this)?

I feel so stupid and upset and == up that i cant take it anymore. right now i feel like crying cuz im so sick of my mom! i love her a lot and she loves me and stuff, but im starting to hate her so much that i feel like screaming in her face. ok so im 13 right now but when i was 11 i asked my mom if i could shave cuz i had bad leg hair (it was black and noticeable and i looked like a freakin guy) but she yelled at me saying that i dont need that stuff and im too young and that i have no leg hair, but i was pissed that she said that because she KNEW that i had bad leg hair and she even said so 3 months before i asked! i kept on begging her over the years because my leg hair got so bad i couldnt be in a swim suit or shorts or skirt, only pants even in summer. then at 12 i looked around the net to see what age ppl started shaving (i had bad leg hair, u could see it and it was black) and most of them said at about 10 or 11 so i told my mom and she started yelling at me that i cant shave my legs till im older cuz im "too young to care about my looks and that i should pay more attention to school and not guys" i finally convinced her to let me shave a few days after my 13th birthday (its almost my 14th) and it took 2 year. but now i have a new problem, my upper lip hair is starting to get noticeable and my eyebrows are just strait big and shapeless (all are black and stuff cuz i got my dads traits -.- oh the joy) iv tried asking my mom but she would get so mad that it was scary and i would shut up, but now im so angry and desperate that i woudnt back down an tell her ALLL my reasons for why i should be able to pluck my eyebrows (god i dont even want to ask her about my lip cuz i swear i wouldnt live to tell the day) and she got enraged and asked me how old i was and i said 13 almost 14. then she said "EXACTLY U ARE 13! U ARE TO YOUNG TO BE THINK ABOUT HOW TO SHOW OF TO GUYS OR TO EVEN THINK ABOUT THE WAY U LOOK! YOU ARE PERFECTLY FINE AND BEAUTIFUL THE WAY GOD MADE U!" and i told her why she always thinks im doing this for the guys (ps im not the type of girl that goes slinking over to guys and flirt with them, i just find it dumb) cuz i just want to look at least decent and be more happy with myself. but no i have to be a cave man and be stared at by the girls in my class and get made fun of behind my back. am i too young to be thinking about this stuff and how old do i need to be to pluck my eyebrows and wax lip. im so fed up with this that i feel like just screaming (oh and did i tell u that my parents dont allow me to go to friends house or invite friends or go outside without an adult or go to mall with friends and other places (even when i have to do a big project in a group, i end up having to do the whole thing alone), my mom said i should got outside more and i told her that i cant cuz there is nothing to do in the yard, i want to hang out with friends and go places and not rot away in front of the computer. my friends always have something to do because they are more free. so i have spent the last few years inside and never hanging out with friends or even going on walk because"i might get raped or kidnapped like in the news" my parents got sick of me asking to go out with friends. then my mom would some times say "what made u like this? i never wanted to go around ppl's houses when i was young. i was fine with my own house. U must have gotten it from somewhere in ur father's side..." but thats not the point, so about the plucking and waxing? plz and thank you) PS my mom also said that no one my age does these things and that parents would laugh at me (-.-) and when i said that she doesnt go to school anymore and doesnt know about the current years (trust me she is old fashioned) she would just repeat the same stiff about guys blahhh, too young blahh, and so on;; i have heard it more then a hundred times sorry for the rambling but im kinda depressed about this stuff and want answersWoah. I feel a lot better after rambled about all that stuff =)oops i forgot to add that im in high-honers and my mom still wont let me, but ill try to do that more

Open Question: I feel like I hate my sister?

It feels like my sister is always flirting with my boyfriend. I still feel really bad about hooking up with her boyfriend when I was like 14 and I feel like she wants revenge or something. She told my boyfriend that I hooked up with her boyfriend. Why would she do that? Then he thought I was like hell slack but I have felt bad about it for years. I dated the guy before she did- she always wants what I have. Now it feels like he always looks at her when he comes over, and sometimes he ignores me and will go off and talk to her. Then when I ask him about it he says that I am always going off and talking to my sister for hours while I'm there. But its' like always the opposite... more

Open Question: My soul mate is misunderstanding me.What should i do 2 start relationship again with him?

My best friend was fallen in love with another girl.I was agreed 2 help him but we could not go so far 'cause the girl hated him.Meanwhile,another classmate of mine wickedly spread this gossip that i fall in love with him.So he stopped talking with me and blamed me that i didn't want him be happy & didn't try 2 help him in impressing the girl.But i tried heart & soul 2 do that and didn't fall in love with him.There is no chance 2 talk with him now 'cause our school is closed for vacation.I didn't try 2 talk with him 'cause i was afraid that he will insult me.I miss him too much.Plz help me. more

Open Question: He pushed me into the ladder and it fell off the ladder and broke who should be blamed?

K so I'm 11 and my brother is 21... he gets angry really easily and he takes advantage of us with simple stuff like the computer and tv.... so tonight(1:02 Am) is my moms bday and she is out with her friends and i was on the imac in her room. There was a ladder with something to cover her light on top.. it was glass and easy to break.. she had been changing the lights or maybe my other brother was i dunno... anyways back to the point. My brother came in and asked if i took the batteries from his air condition remote and I said no (which was the truth) and he said "I know you took the batteries!" and I said "No I didn't!" and he said "Little liar!" and hit me hard on my arm and it really hurt so I pushed hit him back but not even hard although I could have done it way harder... and he got angry (er) and pushed me into the ladder and I fell and of course hit the ladder and the thing for the light fell down (luckily not on my but it was close) and broke... then he shouted at me and said how I broke the thing "Look at that! You broke the light thing! And on moms birthday! Youre gonna get in big trouble!" he shouted at me accusingly and I said "It was you! You pushed me not my fault you ave anger issues!" and he got angry and said "Why did you hit me?!?!?!" "Cause you hit me!" "No I didn't!" and he said how i had to sweep it up and to have fun walking on the broken glass with he light off, turned off the light and stormed out of the room.. now obviously, it was his fault and obviously when my mom finds out someone's gonna be in serious trouble. Who should get the blame? I swept it up and if mom doesnt notice then my 13 yr old brother and I will tell her after her birthday cause we would hate to ruin it.... bt who do you think should get blamed? She'll be angry cause she hates us doing anything wild near the new iMac as its really expensive like fighting, arguing or pushing. And she doesnt like us fighting of course and she would be angry we broke the light thingy... now who do you think should be blamed what I should do if I get blamed cause my brother always lies and says how we did it and he'll probably say how I hit him first and then how he pushed me and I fell and hit the ladder 'by mistake' and my mom probably won't believe him but if she does what to do and who do you think should be blamed?Exactly! But he might turn this on my cause I hit him and I'm like the only one who would hit him back cause my 13 year odl brother doesnt... I'm the only one who ever really stands up to him a lot.. my brother just talks to me about it and agrees with me about it...Lol yeah but he was going to sleep and I was thinking of my mom because it broke and she would be angry and I really wanted it to be a great birthday for her so I cleaned it up more

Open Question: Instead of what would Jesus do should it be what he wouldn't do?

I see to many people say they are Christians but act like they can do anything without remorse. Take our politics right now how they can lie about one party and still say they are Christians. I see many Christians following people who preach hate for political and money gains. Jesus would not be a fan of either political party so why do Christians let politics control their lives? more

Open Question: Can a duck from Central Park survive in Riverside Park? Read details first!?

Ok, so the other day (really early in the morning) i was biking in Central Park, NYC and I saw a duck lying on the side of the bike path, not moving. I felt really bad because birds are animals too, so i took him back home with me in my basket, careful not to harm him (or her, im not an ornithronomist) Anyway i put him in my bathroom so i could call my vegetarian friend because she could help (she pretty much has to, right?) anyway i walk back in and the damn bird is apparently alive and well, and dont get me wrong but i was a little disappointed, veggie girl was looking forward to nursing it back to health. I have to get this squawking thing out of my house ASAP so he doesn't wake up my brother who HATES water foul, dont ask why. Anyway i get on my bike, it's a Schwinn but i dont want to ride all the way back to Central Park, so i take the duck to RIVERSIDE Park and put him next to some nice looking geese. But now im worried, will the duck be ok in Riverside? is the environment too different, like did i take him out of the ecosystem he evolved from? IF the duck dies cuz of me my vegetarian friend will prob never talk to me again, so if i need to rescue the lil guy i gotta do so liike, nowish. thoughts?? more

Open Question: I hate my mom and my dad.?

I'm not too sure as to whether this is teenage angst or whatever, but I hate them. My dad's an irresponsible alchie and my mom is a catholic who likes to pretend that her marriage isn't a complete fucking failure. She goes to church all the time, yet never even bothers to even TALK with her husband. They can't get a divorce because without my dad's money, she wouldn't even be able to support herself. If she moved out, I'd have to move with her, work two jobs, and kiss all dreams and ambitions I ever had goodbye. She never had a future. I simply hate my parents for who they are and that they just don't care. My mom likes to pretend that she's involved in my school work, but she simply doesn't know shit. My dad doesn't even try. I rarely have a conversation with him; the only thing we say to each other is hi when he comes home smashed from the bar at 5 pm. Occasionally I have to constantly bug him about bills and shit that he doesn't pay, but that doesn't really count. My mom goes to work, comes home, never cooks, never cleans, and berates me when I ask her why she doesn't. She says that if I can cook food, I should cook food, even though I counter that 20 years ago when my brothers were my age, she cooked 3 meals a day for them. Now, I get something around a sandwich and a bowl of cereal each day. I just want to move out and never have to speak to them again. I just want them to be gone. They never raised me, they don't know anything about my personal life or what classes I'm taking or how I'm doing in school, nor do they care. My mom doesn't care about anything I do, she doesn't care as to whether I sit on my ass all day on this computer, or if I go out and hang out with friends, but she insists that she knows where I am. She treats me like I'm some god damned 12 year old that's light his arm on fire and would jump in front of a truck. She assumes that as soon as I hit 18 I'll be a mature and responsible adult who will know how to manage his money and do everything correct. I fucking hate her more than my dad, because at least my dad doesn't pull all the stupid shit she does. I am completely independent at my house; I work a part time job, buy my own food, cook my own food, and am self-efficient. I guess I should be grateful for my dad allowing me to live in his house, but him being a poor excuse for a father doesn't fucking cut it. Just because you pay the bills doesn't mean you're father of the year. I don't really have anyone to talk to, and I just wanted to let this out. I've disliked my parents ever since I was 9, when I discovered how real, functional families work. I'm not looking for sympathy, or a pat on the back. I just want someone to read this, and just listen. Nobody knows how I really feel about my parents, I try to fake everything with my friends; I imply to them through lies that I live with a functional family, and my mom and dad love me very much. I never invite anyone to my home, since I don't want them to see my dad when he comes home in the evening completely smashed. I don't even know how he's fucking alive, he practically drinks beer and bacon grease everyday. He eats like shit, just goes to a bar all day, and he's still alive. Yea, his knees may be giving out, but he doesn't seem to be dieing anytime soon. One of my closest friend's father died. I knew his father, he was a fantastic and awesome father who worked his ass off for his family, and loved them all. He was a great guy, in great shape, and guess what? He dies of a heart attack. Now my friend is mentally unstable, and without a dad, and is in deep financial shit. It's not fucking fair at all. I'd much rather have my dad die than his dad.I try to just act completely normal and want to blend in, but I can't fucking take it anymore. My mom is as bad to my dad as he is to her. They both make fun of each other and mock each other. Sometimes they act like god damned 9 year olds. My mom makes no attempt to reconcile with my father, even though she is a die hard Catholic. Sometimes I really just want to go to the church she goes to, tell the priest/father about the situation, call her out on it, and FORCE her to stop avoiding her damn problems and FACE THEM like a RESPONSIBLE, MATURE ADULT. I really want to do good in school, I want to get good grades, do community service hours, and just get the fuck outta my house to Calstate. I don't ever want to see my mom and dad again. What the hell should I do with them? Should I seek counseling? Is this normal? Should I talk with them about it? Should I talk with my brothers about it? more

Open Question: Am I being too particular, or lazy...?

I got accepted to nursing school (early) when I was 17. I didn't really know what I wanted to do with my life, so when someone told me to apply for nursing school, I just did it. Then, I followed the four-year plan and graduated with a bachelor's degree in nursing. I externed (like a nurse's aide) for two years when I was in nursing school. I cried on my first day, cried all the time before going to work, would get nauseous, etc. I worked as an RN for a year and hated working holidays (worked Christmas, Thanksgiving, New Year's... every year for three years in a row w/ my externing), hated night shift (even though I'm more of an owl than an early bird), hated the job. There are some parts of health care that intrigue me, but highly disliked my job from the beginning. Didn't drop out of nursing school because I wanted to finished what I started. So, now I am in college again more than halfway through a degree in elementary education. The schedule is nice and I don't have to worry about driving in bad weather (because school gets delayed or called off; driving in bad weather was a huge issue for me because I was expected to be at work, regardless). I think I'll enjoy it, but I can't be very sure. I have substituted many times because I was able to since I had a bachelor's degree. My first round of college was completely paid for (little above average intelligence, but very determined and don't want to make myself look bad by getting bad grades), and this round is costing us (my husband and I) around $20,000 in student loans. Anyway, I already think a lot about the future, having kids... how it is going to feel to have to leave them and go to work. I just don't think I'm ever going to be satisfied because I want to be a stay-at-home wife/future Mom. I want to cook, clean, bake, and care for children all day. I just feel like most families need two incomes and society isn't set-up for women to stay at home anymore. I sometimes wish women wouldn't have pushed for so many rights! I mean, I'm all for a woman working if she wants to, but now I feel like because there are some who want to, I HAVE to do the same. I have panic disorder and recurring major depression, have been very suicidal at times, etc. and have been under treatment on and off for nine years, so I feel as if this contributes (have panic attacks before work, get very upset and in big suicidal slumps for hours and hours at a time... a doctor diagnosed me as being bipolar about a year ago, but I don't see it really). I just feel worthless again. And like, since this degree is costing so much, I should not just not use it and stay at home. I'm so crafty and bake tons and would love like, six kids (not going to happen, just two or three because of costs!) and like, love to be the Mom on field trips, organizing youth sports, etc. I just, don't know anymore. Sorry it's so long. I just kind of want an unbiased opinion.My husband thinks, for the most part, that women should work outside the home. I do not think he realizes how much goes into child care and taking good care of a home though. He has said recently though, that he hopes to make enough money so that I am able to stay at home one day, until at least the future children are all in school. more

Open Question: Does my pet rabbit have a reason to live still?

I know the title sounds mean, but it's a serious question. My pet rabbit had a cataract growing in his eye around 2 years ago, but it was too late to do anything about it. A year later, he had a cataract in his other eye. This one must have sprang in about a week, because there were no signs of it before. Other than that, he's pretty healthy for his age. He's 6 or 7 I think, and the only really bad thing he has had was something to do with built up gas inside of him (large amounts of gas in his intestines, it made LOUD gurgling sounds. Took him to the vet and got it cured). Now that he is blind (or can he still see a little, even with the cataracts? Because I wave my hand in front of him and he doesn't respond) he doesn't do much. All he mainly does is sit in his cage, sleep, eat, and drink. I mean, before in our old house, he would run around freely upstairs, and we would play with him once in a while (He's not very playful, so spending time with him is very hard, and it's impossible to do now). And ever since we moved, he only went outside his cage once in a while. But ever since his cataracts, he just remains inside his cage 24/7, even if we leave the cage door open. We've tried picking him up and putting him outside his cage, but he just jumps back in. Do you guys think my rabbit has a boring life? Do you think he would be better off if my family put him to sleep? I hate making decisions like this, but I don't want him to be trapped in a world that he doesn't like. But, neither do I want to take him away from it if he doesn't want to leave. Someone please help :(@ tielcrazygirl We would let him live with another family, but it would be too sad doing that. Even though we don't spend much time with him anymore because he doesn't want to do anything, it would be too sad to give him away. We still love him, it's just I feel bad for him. We try to give him a good life, but it's hard to because of his condition. more

Open Question: TTC #1 for over a year now.... need advice?

I've tried what seems like forever and it's getting to be to the point where I just want to give up sometimes..... I guess I psych myself out where I just feel pregnant (like RIGHTnow for example). Bloating (and I have NEVER had that til this month), fatigue, feel nauseous but not like i would be if I was sick early morning and afternoon, increased appetite, no weird cravings but I can't stand some of my favorite foods... It seems like pregnancy is possible this month! (period was due today and it's a "no show" yet) But I feel like I'm over looking into some things.. and I hate to go spend MORE money on pregnancy tests (those who are trying to conceive I'm sure know what that's like! Hahaha) Any advice for a (potential) "Mom-to-be"?? Advice on TTC, pregnancy, or baby! =) more

Resolved Question: I've never done so bad in school before in my LIFE. It has never been this difficult for me. I feel stupid:(?

I'm a freshman in high school. Not even a month into it. And I'm freaking out. That's how difficult this all is to me. I'm taking Spanish... terrible. Honors Biology... don't even know what we're learning in that class right now. Geometry (I'm a year ahead of most people. Only problem with that, is that I should have payed better attention in Algebra the last 2 quarters. It's totally ruining a lot. What can I do about that?)... Geometry is okay, but slightly confusing. I have a low B in Spanish. Borderline C. And I'm thinking of getting a tutor. I'm so worried about not being able to get a scholarship. I have to have 2 credits (2 full years worth) of Spanish. Otherwise I would NOT be taking it. My Spanish teacher is teaching her first year here. She has experience. But she goes VERY fast paced. We've done more than I've ever even heard of in Spanish. Alphabet, numbers to 40, dates, sayings, 5 kinds of hellos, seasons, weather, and there is so much more. Did I tell you we're not even a month into school? I've had to retake 2 quizzes. I did worse on one, (Around a 70%) and better on one by .5. Yeah, POINT 5. I need high grades. And I study for hours and forget it. I just forget it. I don't know what to do. I hate feeling stupid. And I'm sorry for rambling. But please help me:( Advice?? more

Open Question: How can I help this guy? Trust problem.?

I am the kinda guy who trys to be friends with the people who need a friend yo uknow. The people who have no one else to give a shoulder to cry on. The person who want let someone get picked on. Anyway I have decided to be friends with one of thet schools biggest emenys. All the kids leave him alone cause he curses you out if you get near him and he will fight easy. Like if you try to give ihm something it's always "I'll smash your head against the wall!" He only talks to his brother and I have only worked with him once. He did the whole projects when I forgot the one we where going to turn in. He didn't help me with it either just did another project and acted like I did so no one would know he was smart or something. Anyway I spoke to him the other day. He was having a hard time in english and I am helping him with it. Turns out when I got to his home he lived in a bad neighborhood. He lives with his brother and his Grandpa. His mom or dad was in jail and the otehr was dead! It all happened when he was young and his brother told me that he doesn't like people because he thinks they are all evil. I told him he could talk to me whenever when we got doen with his homework. He told me that I did';t want to talk to him and he knew it. Either way I am tutoring him so I see him a lot now. How do I get him to like me a little more or at least trust me some? I don't want him to hate me when I have to see him three tiems out of the week!I know I should juist toruto him but in a way I don' want him to have no friends cause he shouldn't ahve the whole shcool hating ihm cause they think he is unlikeable or is just some punk! more

Open Question: I am so scared what can i do?

Well i am in Student Council. We are going to a conference.. All the high schools all over the city are going as well. And i will be seeing people in my old school that hated me. And well look, i was 12 years 13 years old at the time. I did things that made people so scared of me. Like everyone would run away. Im not gonna say what i did because probably all the yahoo community would block me. And every time i see these people that were scared of me, they remind me of the past 6 years ago and the bad memories. Well i have friends in my school and if those kids do this in front of everyone, i will lose all my friends and everyone will run away from me. Like no joke. Even the staff will get scared. And i was 12 years old and i didn't know any better back than and now its haunting me. What can i do? I wish i was never in student council now because i might have to switch school because i joined. I am so scared they r going to remember me and ask me about what i did. Please i really need help. I might lose all my friends and ill be at least 100 feet distance from everyone if they were to tell them. Please i need help. Anyone can help me? more

Open Question: How come I become best friends with a lot of people who find it hard to find a really good friend?

For instance, i'm friends with a lot of people who all know eachother, but all my friends know who my other friends are and they all seem to not want to have anything to do with eachother. Im really good friends with anthony, tyler and derek. Tyler hates anthony, Anthony hates Derek, and Tyler doesnt like anthony at all. And everyone else I know is pretty much a dbag. Then they get mad at me whenever I hang out with someone else. Tyler-my cousin, hes 2 years younger Derek-best friend in high school Anthony- knew in high school, but didnt really hang out much til now. Closest friend since ive been in college.Yea i know smoking weed together is the best way honestly, but Anthony wont smoke weed. I dont think I can ever get him to. All my other friends do though. Yet Anthony will drink and drive and take an extra pain pill just for the fun of it while my other friends dont do pills and would never drink and drive more

Open Question: My supposed friend hates me now (I know its kind of long but I really need help)!?

So one of my friends and I got in a fight. She was saying how I didn't know what a hard life was? Just trust me on this one, I KNOW what a hard life is. So she tried to say god quotes in my face because she went to youth group one time? I have been going to catechism for as long as I could remember, so that got me mad at her. And then I found out she was talking about me behind my back? I tried to clear the air with her, but she just told me that tons of people have hated me for years? I am basically nice to everyone unless they lose my trust. I just don't know what to do. She has repetitively hurt my feelings for the past years. The only reason I just don't stop being around her is because she is in my group of friends so I would still have to see her everyday and I don't think my friends would believe me because I've had problems with another girl that was in my group of friends? I just don't know what to do with this girl. more

Open Question: How long would you wait to call? (relationship/breakup question)?

Me and my girlfriend broke up last night. Here's how it went... She texted me while I was in martial arts, asking if I could come over to talk. I asked what about and that I was in class, she told me that she didn't want to talk about it over text, so I automatically knew what was going to happen. So after class, I drove to her dorm. I met her out front, and this is how our conversation went: Me - "I think I know why you wanted to talk to me, and I'm hoping I'm wrong" Her - (extreme sad face, almost to tears) "Yeah, I'm sorry... but I just don't think it's going to work out between us, we don't have much in common, and all we ever do is play cards" (which isn't true) Me - "Well I mean, I still want to be friends with you, I'd rather have you as that than nothing at all." Her - (starts bawling, smiles and nods) Me - Hugs her and tells her to not be sad and that the only thing to come from being sad is pain Her - (still bawling, looks at me and smiles a little) Me - I asked if she wanted to talk Her - (Shakes her head no, still crying, still with the extreme sad face) Me - I again tell her to not be sad and that all it does is make you hurt, then I tell her goodnight. I watch her walk to her dorm, at which point I feel sick to my stomach, almost on the verge of puking, I sat in my car for the better part of 20 minutes, crying. This was last night... but at 4ish am this morning, I woke up and literally the first thing I thought about was a mental image of her face when she was crying and the look of pain in her eyes. I have known this girl since the 7th grade (in college now) so we aren't exactly strangers. I really don't want to lose her friendship. We never argued or anything and never had any disagreements whatsoever on what to do. And we only dated for about a month. But I want to call her soon to see how she's doing, I hate to think that by asking her out that it would have brought her so much pain... had I known it would come to this, I would have stayed in the friend zone and been happy. more

Open Question: Free horse am i insane?

the owners have been very open about his issues and layed them all out for me. He was abused by his handlers at the tracks and the biggest problem is when he see the trailer. he is an absolutely beautiful horse and i believe if i can get him over the biggest hurtle of loading him to bring him home i can work though his other problems. Most of the horses i work with now have come out of abusive situations and they have their issues but we work thought them. i have had him vet checked and he is sound and he has a negative coggins. I would hate to see a horse like him end up in the slaughter because he was beaten and no one took the time to gain his trust. now am i just crazy? more

Open Question: periods.. answer ASAP please!?

ok so im going to give you alot of info so you can help me. im 14 years old i have had my period since i was 12. it has ALWAYS been irregular. this month it came like the 19th of august... and it is still here sept 3rd.. :( no one knows im on my period cuz i have some stuff in the BR i use. but its almost gone and my periods still here and kinda heavy.. i have never had sex. im really worried. i have a poor diet and im really sad and i may be stressed. do you have any tips on how to maake the period go away or get really light, or has this happened to you? do you no what it is.. i have gym tomorrow and i have 1 tampon left after that i have nothing, i really hate my period and i dont really want to go to the doctor, right now.. and i dont want to tell my mom. can u help? more

Open Question: my mom is tearing the family apart.?

well i gotta say my mom is very selfish, unorganized,unreasonable, show off, gossiper, etc. she's very mean too. i love her, but because of what she's doing she's making me start to hate her.many people say: oh, this is between your parents not you or anyone else." yes, i totally agree, i to that, but no matter how much i stay away, my mom follows me all the way to my room and tries to get me involved! she talks bad about everyone, she twists many stories, and blames everything on my dad. she tells me that my dad has no idea how to budget and yet we've been able to get food on the table, have roofs over our head, get clothes and even by my school supplies and her stupid jewelry! she says all these crap about my dad, but that is not true at all! he's not selfish, he always puts family before himself and knows many things, he was in the military for 37 years and he was the vice pres. of a company, he retired 7 years ago, because he became disabled with a disease that's affecting his whole body. we finally got his retirement money 2 weeks ago, and so my mom started acting nice for a while, but then bought all kind of crap: clothes etc. and one afternoon,a jewelry person came by our house, it was for mom, she started picking all these jewelry etc.. the total was 30,000 dollars, my dad said: honey, i can't afford this" and my mom looked at him like he was crazy and said you don't want to share any of you money huh? so now, my dad has pay monthly for her stupid jewelry. my dad loves her very much, and after my dad bought her the jewelry she was like i needed to buy these before i go to work so i can show my friends.after she got wat she wanted she was back to being a meanie, she told my dad: i'm glad i tricked you into buying me these jewelry! she also was like: i hope my friends gets laid of from her job so she'd envy me.and again just now, she was coming up and down to my room telling me all these crap lies about my dad and then shows me a pic of her dead ex husband saying: he's so handsome" i was like i dnt know him never met him. and she smacked me with that pic. and said i wished i didn't give birth to you. she's done soo many crap but this is already tooooo long. i dnt know wat to do anymore, i cant leave i'm underage, we cant kick her out, where is she gonna go? i'm really getting sick of this crap, i dont if i can endure it any longer, i might just lose control and punch her. i really think she has a pschological problem but she doesn't want to admit it! she dsnt want to go to the doctor. more

Open Question: Why do people hate so much? (Regarding VIRGINITY and INTIMATE life.)?

No one knows this story but me, and of course yahoo users, but since you guys are people (I hope, lol) then I can get some honest feedback. When I was 21, I desperately wanted to loose my virginity so I won't be known as a virgin. (It was like a personal self conflict.) It costed me no more than $50 dollars to bang a ho from the newspaper escort ads. I began to feel much better after wards, and I would love to discreetly continue this matter, but I see how people think of such individuals, even though I am doing very well in life. I am 22 now, and don't plan to have a g/f or wife. Why do people think this is not the way to go if it totally makes me hot inside, and there nothing like going back from work after a long day, and all you need is....money, without drama or relationships. Im just an ordinary guy. more

Open Question: Should we be friends again?

Okayy so I first want to say that I know this will be really long, but if you could all be so kind enough to actually read this! I am about to cry right now, and need answers!!! Okayy so it all started around March. Melissa (the girl that im not sure if i should be friends with) had kept bragging about how good she was at track, and how all the guys like her. So me and my other friend went and talked to her, but she really didn't stop bragging...so i kinda just stopped like, being her bestests friend. Then one morning I asked if she liked this boy, and she said NO. But then later that day, the kid told me that Melissa was hot, so I told her. Then all of the sudden she "liked him for a long time". I was really mad, and I just ignored her. Then she finally got a hint that I was mad at her. We talked it over, and we both started to get really upset! Melissa denied being desperate, and said "that i always have liked oj (the kids that thought melissa was hot)". I then said " so u lied to me" and she just said no. Then I kinda blew up in her face, and was really pissed! We didn't talk for a few weeks, until she went around one day and asked everyone if they liked me. She bragged in my face that a bunch of ppl thought i was "annoying, rude, bratty ETC.". Then I told her that alot of ppl hated her too cuz she bragged and thought she was sooo cool (which is still true). At that point I hated her guts! Every now and then we would call each other names, give looks to each other ETC...My other best friend (maddie) was still both of our friend. Time went on, and we still hated each other even after 2 and a half months, me and Melissa STILL weren't friends!!! But Me and maddie (my best friend) agreed that every other day she would sit next to me. Then on the last day of us being able to eat in the cafeteria cuz the last day of school we went to a park) she said she wanted to sit with Melissa and not me! I was so sad and pissed! I started crying, because my own best friend wouldn't sit with me like she promised. (I later found out that Maddie wouldn't sit with me cuz Melissa convinced her to not sit with me). Then on the last day, Maddie did not say one word to me, the whole day! I cried again, and left school crying to my dad. The summer went on and Maddie & Melissa did not say one word to me! But on my birthday, July 4th, maddie texted happy birthday! Then we got into this whole convo about how she left me hanging, and went to Melissa but she said, that Melissa convinced her that I wasn't a good friend. Maddie also said that she realized how bad of a friend Melissa was. Then Finally! In August me and maddie finally hunhung outut then got in another fight the other day, about Melissa and the whole thing!!! Maddie also constantly texted Melissa but "still didn't like her" Then today melissa facebooked me, and said that she was sorry, about everything! and she doesn't excexpect to want to be her friend, but wants me to forgive her. I said its really hard to forgive everything she did. She also said "I only went arlound asking ppl if they liked u, cuz i thought u never wanted to see me, and was mad". and I said ill think about it! Then here I am.....alone and very sad! Thank you sooo much! :)) more

Open Question: If religion is true that mean we all going to hell ?

Sex before married is sin ( ok i go to hell ) Blasphemy is sin ( ok i go to hell again ) Eating pork is sin ( yea yea i know go to hell " again " ) Hate is sin ( this time we all going to hell ) So we all going to hell , happy now ? more

Open Question: How to deal with being yelled at?

I love playing Football. i always have. but these last couple years i have started to hate it. I am not starting to dislike it because i can't stand being yelled at in film sessions by the coach, they always look at the bad and not the good. when i am in the game, its all i think about is not messing up so i don't get yelled at, which this causes me to mess up. i use to look forward for friday nights and now it's coming to point wear i don't wanna play. How do i deal with this?Can i take medicine? Start thearpy? more

Open Question: Me and this dude clicked over texting.. But when we talked on the phone It was awkward?

We've only been talking for like two days.. And I like him alot... Just It's awkward now... No I haven't met him... But I feel Like i'm about to cry. ]; I hate being so sensitive.. I quit texting him.. more

Open Question: should i speak up to this teacher about my depression?

my dad has cancer, theres a weird creepy guy living in my house who smokes weed and trys to touch me, i had to leave someone who i told everything to and am attached too, my mom and her boyfriend broke up and now she stalks my dad, my mom cheated on my dad, my sister bullies me, im having this feud in my family because im Christian and they are not, i basically hate my parents, my dad has a bad temper and im afraid he will hurt me... I want to tell someone because i dont want to do this alone anymore I can't sleep, i have no appetite and rarely eat, and i have recurring stomach aches too... btw i am 13. so i tried out for softball today and i was on the team last year and the coach is really nice, i really like him, hes also the health teacher and my favorite teacher at school. and today since i hadn't eaten or drank anything up until practice and it was almost 100 degrees out i had a really tough time. i still did okay but everyone knew i was out of it. towards the end i felt like i was going to pass out or throw up and i almost dry heaved, couldn't stop coughing. so after i told him i was having a tough time at home, i wasn't getting much sleep and stuff. he said its okay, don't apologize. then he said if i ever need help hes just an email away. i want to email him! but i don't know what if you give me a guideline of words to say then ill probably give you best unless it sucks. more

Open Question: -Night- Tracks You Grew To Love?

Last question of the night. Name a track that when you first listened to it, you though it was garbage. But, after hearing it a couple of times, you grew to love it? BQ2: Name a track that resulted in the opposite; you grew to have it over time after initially likin' it. BQ3: What are you listenin' to right now? Me: Grew To Like "Ain't I" - T.I, Young Lay, etc... I just grew on me. BQ2: After hearing Jay-Z "Diamonds Are Forever" over and over again, I can't play this song anymore. I don't hate it, but it annoys me to listen to it, haha! BQ2: NRHH: Kem "Why Would You Stay?" -- Smooth track by Kem. One of the best R&B tracks of the year. more

Open Question: People always mistake my eyes for brown, would should i do?

When i look in the mirror my eyes are obviously hazel, i can see the green and it's obvious to me. But other people always call them brown. And they aren't. Here's a picture of my eye Replace (DOT) with a period I resized it so you could see my eye better so it's not the best quality http://i52.tinypic(DOT)com/288qha9.jpg If you can't tell, my eyes are like a dark forest green with brown in the center and a really dark green rim. I hate it when people call them brown because it makes me feel so ordinary. And i hate it when i point out that they're hazel and people look up close and say all they see is brown. I don't understand how they look completely brown! I know my eyes change colors sometimes so they look brown, and on rainy days especially, but on sunny days they look super pretty. What should i do to make them look greener? What hair color should i have? Right now i have a medium-dark brown, basically my natural color.Oh, and what like shirt colors should i wear?I definitely meant to say "what should i do" sorry about that.I didn't mean to get carried away or anything. I was just giving as much detail as i could.. i was just looking for some suggestions.. more

Open Question: There's this guy that I really like...?

Okay so me, my twin sister, and our friend April are in 8th grade Orchestra. So it's our third year in Orchestra. On Monday it was the first day of school, and we noticed this new hot guy. He's super smart and really good-looking. He looks like a mix of Cody Linley and Justin Bieber. Anyways, on the first day we made the mistake of freaking out about how hot he was right in front of him. Now he knows that we like him, and he probably thinks we're stalkers. But on FB this morning, he friend requested my sister. I don't know what to do. I feel so embarrassed! Btw I hate Justin Bieber. His hair looks like his though. more