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Dear Abby: She's angry because dog has same name as daughter - Philadelphia Daily News

She recently adopted a 10-year-old rescue dog and changed the dog's ... I understand your feelings, but I hate to see a friendship of 30 years ... My problem is that Erika will, from time to time, ask me questions ...

Kim Kardashian Explains Why She's Not in Trouble Like Lindsay - Entertainment Online

but she's not out there getting repeatedly ... So I always felt this sense of pride that he had in me as the responsible one, so I've always wanted to make him proud. "And," Kim added, "I hate the taste of alcohol." "

Why I Hate Subways - Associated Content

... me in a desperate attempt to save my friend a seat. After she sat down, I noticed a man staring at me ... But it's not only seating matters that make me hate the subway. It's the personalities that enter those ...

I’ll hate myself in the morning - Boston Globe

guides to music and movies (“that tell me what I should like ... She is the sister I find easiest to take as a person. Her excellent collection “Poison Penmanship: The Gentle Art of Muckraking’’ has just been ...

Dear Abby: She named a dog after my daughter! - The Wenatchee World Online

... she would name her dog after my daughter, her godchild — so much so that I no longer wish to speak to this woman. How do I get past this? Dear M.M.: I understand your feelings, but I hate ... ask me questions ...

Homeless increasingly targeted for hate crimes - Seattle Times

Last year was the deadliest in a decade for hate crimes against the homeless ... homeless man multiple times in the ribs and hitting his girlfriend in the face as she tried to intervene. "They were just picking on ...

Too Young, Too Fat, Too Ambitious, and Other Reasons Mothers Hate Each Other - Associated Content

there was the mother who came right out and told me that I shouldn't have children when she found out I was twenty with two babies. There were the mothers who assumed I was babysitting, and when they found out I was ...

Ann Coulter Doesn't Hate Gays Enough for WorldNetDaily - Huffingtonpost.com

... she was speaking to GOProud, Coulter said: "They hired me to give a speech ... WND was turning up the anti-gay hate on its commentary page: An Aug. 16 column by Nancy Pearcey asserting that homosexuality is a ...

What you love and hate - San Jose Mercury News

... me know they are about to pass. -- Sally Banks, Danville I hate "... ... when TV commercials are repeated ad nauseam ... Doesn't she know that this is a wonderful opportunity to teach her child about the world ...

Teenager's T-shirt a sad case of sexist hate speech - Deseret News

but last week she surprised me. She was sitting on a curb across the street with a bunch of other kids and, instead of offering my usual wave and a called-out "hello," I wandered over by them to chat for a second.

Open Question: Years ago, I hated kids when my wife wanted it, now it's SWITCHED!?

Ok anyway, my wife keeps telling me that she doesn't want kids to ruin marriage. It hadn't been the same thing I told her when I convinced her to not have kids, I just said that I want to have fun with my childhood while it lasts. Anyway, I've had enough fun and I think kids are the right time. We've been married for 5 years. She's 26 and I'm 25, but anyway, she now says that kids are going to ruin our relationship and I'm starting to think that this could be true. Personally, I'm willing to not be a parent if I have a happy wife, but I also want to know if having children could make us even happier? more

Open Question: I need some advice !?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for a few months now and he's brought up that he wants to become an online webcam model.. If you don't know what that is, look it up. Basically, he told one of his "close" girl friends and she's said she promises to watch every session of his. I don't know if this was a joke or not, but it worries me either way. I'm not comfortable with the fact that he'll be getting off on cam for another girl period, and now the fact that he's going to be doing it for this girl is just even worse. They both claim to be very close friends.. I haven't even talked to this girl, but I already hate her just for the simple fact of messing with him. Yes, that sounds harsh, but I'm the jealous type and in my opinion I have every right to be jealous. Now one of my friends has told me that he has told another girl (not sure if it was the same girl, he didn't give me names) that he broke up with me. He claims he couldn't have done this because he met this girl online and my name is all over everything he has on the internet. BUT, this was around the same time everything about me suddenly disappeared from his myspace and everything. He claimed his ex hacked into it and deleted everything, but it makes me suspicious how that happens the same time I get told he's told another girl we broke up. Should I be worried about him lying to me or messing around with other girls? :/ And we're both 18I can't really remove anything.. that's needed information to answer the question accurately. Assuming you just did that for the points more

Open Question: My wife got a tattoo of my name and she got mad when i said it looked nice?

Its nice really it is. Now whenever I'm hitting it from the back I get to see my name..that seems to be the only plus side of that tattoo. Now she didn't tell me she was getting it because I probably would have told her to get me a card instead. When I told her it was nice she started crying and called me insensitive. Why? First of all I love her to death but I got that I love kim tattoo covered up ages ago. She's taking it as me not thinking our marriage is going to last long...but uh I can't tell the future. We've been together for 9 years and have been married for 3 and so far things look good. I hate to be a pessimist but she's the one who threatens to leave me everytime she gets mad. She's overreacting right? Now I'm sitting here waiting for my pizza because she refuses to cook for me either that or baby food. more

Open Question: New kid, Hate school please help?

New kid, Hate school please help? New kid, Hate school please help? Hi today was my first day and OMG I hate it. I'm a girl and im 12 and in 7th grade (this school started in 6th). I have 2 friends Sydney and Ying. IM NOT ASIAN BTW YING IS. People were looking at me weird on the bus and when the bus driver did attendance on the bus people laughed at my last name Wagner my first name is NOT Lucy it's Brandi. They started saying Wang-her. People were staring at me throughout the school and whispering to their friends. Tomorrow in Gym class we have to change infront of people I CANT DO THAT! You also cant wear tanktops. Sydney is kind-a mean and looked annoyed she was helpful but I aksed her questions she had this p-off look on her face and was like "Okay I dont know! or, I'm sorry I dont like repeating myself and im like "sorry im annoying you arnt I? shes like" oh no no your not dont think that. She said I could sit by her at lunch I did EVERYBODY AT THE TABLE WAS STARING AT ME. NOBODY TALKED TO ME. I dont know what to do??? I REALLY DONT WANNA GO TOMORROW? Sydney also said "I dont give out my number or personal info until i really get to know somebody." I said oh sorry. She's like" I'm not saying ur mean But someone could turnmean or turn prank call. Also Sydney walked fast in hallways. Does Sydney even like me? more

Open Question: Should I ask him out, (needs guys to answer)?

I asked it earlier, but I need more of a guys oppinion. Would a guy be cool with it? So i have been crushing on this guy for almost 5 months, and after the summer ended I thought I'd never see him again because his friends moved out of my apartment complex. Well fast forward to the first day at my school, and I'm sitting in one of my classes waiting for it to start and who walks in but my crush. He didn't see me right away, but once he did he smiled at me and took the open seat next to me. (There were tons of seats further back.) After class, he walked to my next class across campus as we caught up. He didn't have to go anywhere for a couple of hours so he didn't have to walk across campus. He has done this everyday. Well a friend of mine had a birthday dinner, and since she knew how much I liked him she said to invite him. Well I did ask him if he want to go to the dinner, and before I could gage his reaction to the offer. I blurted out that it was for the friend. Then he said he was busy, but them he said it was because he doesn't want to go because of the friend. He thinks she has a thing for him, and he said she just wasn't his type. I said maybe another time. On that weekend, I was a Walmart looking for a tool and I ran into a friend of mine and his roommate (also a friend of mine.) We chatted for a bit, and then his roommate said, "Hey I hear you have a class with Him." (He really said his name, but you know.) I said I do then, I looked to my friend. She was smiling, she knows I have a crush on him. Since she hangs out with his roommate all the time, I assume that she has told his roommate. I know this sounds really middle schoolly, but I was happy that he talks about me. The next time we walked to my class, I told him about the run in with his roommate. We began talking about how we both know that the pair likes each other, but the girl is playing hard to get. I then said that why can't people just emit that they like each other, and see how things work out from there. I then said I hate playing game. He then responded by saying he hates girls who play games. We then joked around about what happened in the hallway, and we chit chatted before I had to go to class. He later changed his facebook quote to the thing we talked about in the hallway. I have been thinking about him non stop and I just want to know if he feels at least a little bit of a spark. I've tried asking guys out before, and they have all blew up in my face. No problem I moved on, but this one I'm afraid for that to happen. Should I just bite the bullet and ask him to go out? more

Open Question: How do I convince my mom that me and my ex are just friends so she'll let us hang out?

Me and my ex had some issues in the past and now my mom hates his guts. But he's changed and we decided we want to be friend so what do I tell her to convince her to let us hang out and be friends again? more

Open Question: Is Sanford Brown Institute a good school?

My sister wants to go to Stanford Brown Institute to be a Dental Assistant. I am going to assume their website is here: http://www.sanfordbrown.edu/About-Us I am concerned that this school is not well recognized among employers. Additionally, I am concerned that she will not have a good chance of finding a job after completing the Dental Assistant program. According to their website, they have a ACICS accreditation: http://www.acics.org/contact/content.aspx?id=2446. Now, the first thing I did independently for her was to Google reviews from other people regarding this institution. It seems like 4 out of 5 people hate this institute and are complaining that it is either a waste of money and/or they are unable to find a job after completing the program. Review 1: http://www.guidetohealthcareschools.com/healthcare-school-reviews/sanford-brown-institute Review 2: http://www.viewpoints.com/Sanford-Brown-Institute-reviews Review 3: http://www.ripoffreport.com/adult-career-continuing-education/sanford-brown-instit/sanford-brown-institute-waste-b8x56.htm Can any of you shed some light on your experiences or knowledge of this school? more

Open Question: Should I be worried...?

Open Question: My friend is planning to run away for a while, how could I convince her to stay?

My friend says her family hates her and that she's unwanted. Her plan is to run away for a while and then come back so that her family will be sorry that they ever treated her badly. I really care about her and I don't want her to get hurt but she won't listen to anything I say. Please help? more

Open Question: Im being bullied because of my bestfriend ... ?

Hey Guys My bestfriend is seriously hated by two girls in my schoool and now they have started picking on me but i havnt said anything my bestfriend told her mother and my mother knows and she blames me for everything i just really feel like killing myself what can i do ? more

Open Question: I hate my mom and aunt ? ...?

Lets just say.. mom=cindy aunt=jenny With jenny.... ever since i was little i would go to my grandma's and grandpa's house and hang out for a bit when i was a bit about 7 (im 12 now) one day she came home and i was watching tv and grandma and her were gonna go shopping and i was watching a movie with my grandpa and jenny came in and is like rachel your coming to the shopping mall with us im like i dont want to this speical movie is on and shes like i dont care your coming with me and grandpa. problem is i was worrie about my grandpa sinces hes blind ): i just really hate her ugh! not only becuz of the move but when im in a room alone she put her but in front of my face and fart in in my head im like WTH DONT U HAVE ANY MANNERS? GOD! i really hate her we just got back from a beach house we rented and on saturday she drrop in and the day b4 we left they were spilting the money and my aunts like im not paying i came for free everybody got all mad and started yelling it was like ohmigod seriously? now my mom.. i always wash my hair in wensday and sundays and today is tuesday and im like i can wash it tomorrow!! but noooo she wanted to wash it! IM 12 FOR CRYING OUT LOUD! HOW LONG R U GONNA WASH MY HAIR? UNTIL U DIE???? OHMIGOD and i hate her becuz she and my dad r child abuse!!! if i talk back which i dont! ITS CALLED ANSWERING!!! or just YELLING my dad would hit me last year on chirtmas my mom got mad at me i cant remember y but she started chasing me with a knife i just hate my parents and aunt!!!!!!!! i wish i didnt have this family!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! sorry 4 bad typing im not usually like this i just so mad right now!!!!!!! ugh! i like punding the keyboard what should i do?! and ohmigod i cant even have sleepover cuz my dad think im gonna get rape like WTH!!! ugh! im going to so much pain right now! more

Open Question: I like it when girls are into me but I hate it when guys are even slightly interested.. Am I bi or les?

I consider myself straight but slightly bi curious. And I don't know how to say this in any other way but I guess you could say I'm pretty attractive.. and people do tend to crush on me a lot since I was in 4th grade. When guys crush on me I get annoyed and I try my best to make them not like me, so I ignore them, give them dirty looks, ignore their calls and whatever. But this girl likes me and I LOVE it for some reason. I love the attention she gives me.. it's more physical than the attention guys give you, for example she plays with my hair, calls me sweet & cute names and tries to hold my hand, things like that.. And when we meet up and go out, she wears really short skirts, shows me her panties and says "do I like them ;)", does anything to get my attention, only pays attention to me, keeps touching my a** (which I should have said something to her but I didn't because I was shy). She also does very sexual "come ons".. (it's too explicit to say on here) basically without going into detail it's obviously the reason for her wearing a short skirt. But when she goes that far I do sort of get uncomfortable and that annoys her that I'm not giving her the attention she wants. I won't allow it to go any further because she's my cousins BEST FRIEND of 10 years and my cousin will be furious if I lead her on and then don't date her (I don't think I could date a girl). Actually I have KIND of lead her on but I really do love the attention and she's quite hot so you can't blame me. Anyways, quite a few other girls have liked me in the past but this is the most recent. I'm just flattered when girls like me (I live in a very gay friendly area so a lot of girls here are bi or gay), where as I'm offended when guys like me. Am I a lesbian or bi because I love the attention from girls or do I just like the fact that she's trying really hard to get me?? Please help I'm really confused. Btw if your wondering, I'm 18. Can you please give me some input on what you think? more

Open Question: Girls: why would you dress...?

I was walking to one of my classes today (in college) and have to go up a really really big hill. so ya the girl in front of me had her butt about eye level with me and I couldn't help but notice that her shorts were so short that when she walked you could see her ass, her friend wasn't dressed much better. Not only that but they were talking (nearly shouting) loudly about how much they wanted a smoke and oh why did they have to quit and oh i'll never make it until tomorrow without one and how after a day your life is so horrible because you don't have a cigarette. Honestly everything about them just shouted "I'm easy and will do anything for a light". Why honestly do girls act like this? Yes I dress on the (I hate to say it but it is what it is) slutty side sometimes (just like tight clothes or something that makes my butt and boobs look good, but my ass and chest are not hanging out) but geez take a little pride in yourself.Not only that but the girl was on the bigger side too more

Open Question: am i turning lesbian or something??? what should i do?

alright i gotta best friend named Mattie. we tell eachother everything and once we even told eachother we masturbate and were completely fine knowing the truth. she told me she watched porn before and that she feels guilty for watching it. but once she texted me saying she has to tell me something and she said she wanted to try to kiss a girl. i know she isnt lesbian, because she dated only boys and so did i. but i admitted to her i wanted to try it to with a girl. and we planned to kiss eachother but i cancelled the plan because i didnt feel ready for kissing a girl. Today in steel drums class we shared a drum and it was her turn to play and i putted my legs kind of ahead of me and she accedently almost tripped on them and then she laughed and so did i and sad on my leg and i was going to get up so i putted my leg higher which kind of touched her down there and she rubben against it once and it turned me on D: Then later in class she rubbed her foor against mine and i was like:"what are you doing?" she was like:"thats what lesbians do haha probobly what hannah does (hannah is the girl that hates us.)" and i knew she was jocking cause she jocked about it before. But i think i kind of want to try kissing her D: idk if she feels the same way. i feel emberrassed that im bi-curious like this and i would never admitt it first to her. what should i do??? please no rude comments. oh and we are both 14. more

Open Question: I have been feeling really sad and lonely lately, like no one cares about me.?

I don't know why but I have been feeling like no one loves me. I am really overwhelmed by all the homework I get and my grades are slipping. I seem perfectly fine at school, I laugh, and joke around with my friends but when I am at home, All i want to do is cry. My sister acts likke she hates mme, she gets mad really easily, my dad does too. I want to live with my mom but my dad wont let me. I only have 2 real friends and sometimes, i dont even feel like they care about me. What should I do? D:thanks so far :] but i talk to all my cousins and old friends. they dont talk to me at all though. right now the big problem is homework. i have so much that i wanna die. :[ more

Open Question: IS THIS A HATE CRIME!?!?!?!?

please help me give me your opinion....this might be a stupid question but yeah haha so my grandma lives on a culdesac and we are asians so my grandma has like 4 cars...and yeah i was visiting her after school one day...so i parked straight towards the house but on the street and close to the side walk, i wasn't on the curb or anything. if you can picture what a culdesac looks like you would know what i'm talking about...but yeah we've been parking like that for 4 years now and no one has said anything...but today after i visited my grandma i decided to go home and i saw the ticket lady she had like a little meter thingy in her hand, idk what it's called but yeah i was like excuse miss what are you doing? and she's like oh someone called us to come out here, your car was parked illegally...i was like really? then she was like yeah cuz it'll block the firefighters if they come, then i was like oh okay that's always how we've been parking, then she's like okay i was gonna give u a ticket but since you're here i won't...so i got lucky, but still i wonder who called them to come after us....i'm guessing it's our new neighbor...since my grandma got new neighbors they've been there for only like 4 days i think....so yeah is this a hate crime?Alright thanks guys...you all had a good point more

Open Question: idk what to do D: help! im scared?

Open Question: Is there something wrong with me?

ok so back in the 11th grade this girl used to make fun of me. it wasnt a good time for me so i really hated her for what she did. then senior year (last year) i started seeing her on my way to 6th hour and sometime 3rd. as i saw her i started less resentment toward her and i guess i started liking her, but now im in my 1st year of college and i cant stop thinking about her. before i would be like everyday but now every so often i think about her, being with her and all. what does this all mean? more

Open Question: Teens: What should I do about this guy?

Ok, this guy, let's call him Zoseph, dated my ex-best friend uh Cammie in the 8th grade during homecoming. Cammie thought he was stalker-ish but didn't want to break up with him so on a day we and our friend uh Belsey were supposed to hang out he wanted to spend time with her so she sent me to tell him that she didn't want to see him that day. I rode my bike to where he was at and told him but then we got to talking and I found out his friends ditched him that day like my friends, mainly Cammie, did me a lot so I saw it like kicking a lost puppy if I ditched him also. We went back to Belsey's after an hour and a half and hung out with them in the park across the street with Cammie giving me evil eyes while doing that whispering about a person right in front of their face while saying "Oh, nothing." when you ask them about it with Belsey. I found out later she wrote a blog calling me a ***** and a "boyfriend stealing hussy" along with breaking up with Zoseph the next day. I began avoiding him after that. In 9th grade I talked to him when I had nothing better to do but still hated him. He apparently has liked me since 8th. A lot of guys like me but I never see them as more then friends no matter how hard I force myself. He gave me a pink rose for Valentine's Day. Now, in 10th I talk to him often and consider him a friend but feel nothing more for him. Apparently, he doesn't really have a lot in common with most girls at our school and finds me unique since I like to be myself. But, I hide a lot of my self and when people get too close I push them away. He deserves a girl that will like him back and can be her complete self with him. I know deep down I can never be that girl. I can't like him back and I can't force myself to. So, what should I do?I've told him that I feel nothing for him but he just shrugs his shoulders at this. He has asked me out about twice or so times when he already had a girlfriend. more

Open Question: Really shy friend who likes this guy, but acts likes she hates him and doesn't know how to talk to him! HELP!?

My friend is really shy and doesn't do make friends easily and she has no clue how to talk to guys, especially if she likes them (she gets crushes that last about the length of a school year and then the next year when she doesn't have any classes with the guy, the on that guy magically disappears and she gets a crush on some other guy). She thinks that all the guys on earth who she hasn't been friends with since she was three thinks she is weird. Therefore (don't ask me why she does this, how am I supposed to know?) she ignores most guys and is as quiet as possible around them and doesn't talk to them. When she does talk to them (ex: their partners in a class) she takes on a "Well, DUH! Boys are SOOOO stupid!" attitude. When she has a crush on them, she doesn't know how to act and acts like she hates them (more "DUH" and then she leaves the immediate vicinity of the guy, tries to camouflage with everybody else and become invisible, or act like she loathes him). There is this one guy she's had a crush on for many 2 years and she's in a lot of his classes this year. He's also good friends with one of her close friends (nope, not me.) and has been around her a lot and probably thinks she hates him or is really weird. What advice can I give her on how to talk to him and act nice around him and not clam up when he's around (which is a lot of the time)? more

Open Question: i need help :(((----on how to convince a stubborn mother?

well i went a real bad school---and all of my friends are there--and they r the bestest friends anyone can have----& i got out of the school cause of my grades--and a specific guy.00so my mom transferred me out of there-and now im in my sophomore year at in all girl school--so please-oh please anyone got any ideas on how to back to that school :((( -because i hate the new school==i really do hate it.& im doing all of my homework and im never late at my classes- and im putting a lot of effort---so does anyone -have any ideas that how to convince my mom--she keeps on saying"we'll see aimee" --but i think she is lieing to me--she is gonna tell me on December/January--so please u guys help me on how to make my mom let me go back -to that school ---im getting good grades And she even knows that--but im so unhappy and miserable when i go there-so please help :l more

Open Question: How would you spell this name?

I really like the name Melia (May-leah) but I really really do not like this spelling because i think that is is a bit confusing with this spelling. So... how would you spell it? Mayleah, Maylea, Maylia, Maeleah, Maelea, or Maelia? i think that i prefer Maelia because she could have the nickname Mae :) i hate Mae spelled May..... more

Open Question: do u think this girl hates?

my friend gave me her number. i text her saying who i was cause we don't know each other. we are in different grades that's why. i also told her i liked her and she said just friends. i was ok with that so we started to be friends. i was texting her for about 4 days. then she just started to ignore me. i thought she was busy or sad. but my friend said he was getting replys from her. i told myself what did i do to get ignored. i didn't say anything to hurt her. also shes been ignoreing me for about 3 months. i really need help more

Open Question: very stressed, tensed, and depressed! help!?

So I go to this school that I completely hate. I hate it for all different reasons, and basically, going there has developed my depression more because of the main reason WHY I'm attending there (long story). And please don't tell me to suck it up - as I've tried for 2 years, and obviously things have gotten worse... The reason why I haven't transfered is because my dad wants me to go there. I don't really understand why. It's a catholic school, but it's very low on education. I tried discussing transfering to him, and it ended with a debate and him yelling at me. After midterms last year, I had a bad case of depression, where I stopped eating and was even taken to the hospital. It was because my mom had lied about transfering me out of the school, and when I found out she didn't do anything, I fell low. At the hospital, I didn't tell them the truth though - what's the point anyways? Then, I also got a bad case of depression in the beginning of August, but it only lasted for 4 days. I didn't eat anything again, and just stayed in bed. So now, I have a feeling that tomorrow might just be the same way. To make it worse, the school I want to attend is right across the street from me, and they start tomorrow so I'll see everything.... I don't even feel hungry right now. What can I do? Please don't suggest joining sports and clubs either - I did cheer, softball, dance club, and this festival dance there, but dropped down from all of them in the middle of last year due to depression and lack of motivation.This is the form of a question..... I just asked "what can I do?" more

Open Question: Does this make me a bad person?

Ever since i turned 13 i felt so unloved. I was always nice to everyone but they all seem to hate me because of my mental illness. When i turned 16 i stopped believing in love. I don't believe in family love, god love, friendship love, bf and gf love or husband and wife love. does this mean i have a serious problem? The main reason i stop believing in love was when my grandmother pass away last june of 2009 from stomach cancer. she was the only person i know who loved me and she was always by my side. i miss her so much. more

Open Question: Very stressed, tensed, and depressed right now!! Help!?

Open Question: I hate my family and I'm so jealous of my friend's family! What should I do?

OK So like the other week my family and I went on a beach vacation and @ the hotel i met these 2 kids, 1 was my age like 15 the other was 13. I am 15 I was with my siblings sister Eliza (12) and bro David (10) and so we talked and hung out and I even got a crush on the older one. They were wealthy and they lived in the same city as me. then hey had to go so we said bye. i remember thinking "wow theyr so well-dressed and poysed" and they had great manners so yeah l8r i saw them at the hotel bar. They were with their parents talking in spanish (They r Hispanic, Colombian i think). I was shocked at how nice this family is. All four of them (kids, mom, dad) were so attractive first of all! The father and sons were handsome, and their mom was GORGEOUS! She was 1 of the prettiest woman ive ever seen! And they were laughing and talking, the boys in vests and collared shirts the dad in a suit and the mother in an elegant dress. My family never dresses like that. we r always dressed casual. their dad is some executive making 500,000 a year and their mom is a housewife, my dad makes about 50,000 a year and my mom is also a housewife. As I realized they lived near me we started to hang out They lived in a mansion. They were so nice and intelligent, they spoke fluent Spanish and english, and decent French, Italian, and mandarin. My family is from israel and we only know hebrew and English and being Hispanic they r strict Catholics whereas my family and i only celebrate like Hanukkah we r not big on our religion. I get C's, my sister does horrible and my brother also gets C's. They all have Straight A's and by A's I mean like 100% in every subject. They say it's because of the opportunity they have here that isn't in Colombia I decided to rather than envy them i should be more like them. SO I studied more and learned more and my grades have improved but not by much. I tried telling my dad to work harder so we can be rich and he got mad so I yelled at him. my sister is like a slut so i told her to shape up and we got into a cat fite then my mother and father scolded me and i got so angry. my little brother is autistic and i screamed at him to be normal. i felt awful afterwards. now i hate my family i wish we were like them What should i do? was i right to try and improve us? more

Open Question: Verryyy stressed, tensed and depressed!!! Help please....?

So I go to this school that I completely hate. I hate it for all different reasons, and basically, going there has developed my depression more because of the main reason WHY I'm attending there (long story). And please don't tell me to suck it up - as I've tried for 2 years, and obviously things have gotten worse... The reason why I haven't transfered is because my dad wants me to go there. I don't really understand why. It's a catholic school, but it's very low on education. I tried discussing transfering to him, and it ended with a debate and him yelling at me. After midterms last year, I had a bad case of depression, where I stopped eating and was even taken to the hospital. It was because my mom had lied about transfering me out of the school, and when I found out she didn't do anything, I fell low. At the hospital, I didn't tell them the truth though - what's the point anyways? Then, I also got a bad case of depression in the beginning of August, but it only lasted for 4 days. I didn't eat anything again, and just stayed in bed. So now, I have a feeling that tomorrow might just be the same way. To make it worse, the school I want to attend is right across the street from me, and they start tomorrow so I'll see everything.... I don't even feel hungry right now. What can I do? Please don't suggest joining sports and clubs either - I did cheer, softball, dance club, and this festival dance there, but dropped down from all of them in the middle of last year due to depression and lack of motivation.Oh, and school starts in 2 days. I didn't get ANY supplies, not even a bookbag, I didn't finish any summer assignments, nor did I even get my uniform ready. I'm just not motivated to do so....I asked in this category since it's teens, and probably teens can relate. more

Open Question: I Have Mild Undiagnosed Paranoid Schizophrenia And I Need Help!?

I have undiagnosed paranoid schizophrenia. I say it's mild because I can still function in normal life. I refuse to take medication, so I see no point in seeing a doctor about it or being officially diagnosed because all they'd do is talk to me and confirm what I already know. And then try to sell me medication. Anyways, since I'm not on medication to control my paranoia (I don't mind the voices) does anyone have any tricks to help keep down the paranoia? Please don't say to confront my fears because I just get a panic attack if I try. Plus, my fears would probably hurt me if I did that (also my voices advise me against confronting them). Also, does anyone have any tips/tricks on how to stop having random spazz attacks? By spazz attacks I mean I randomly go really insane and start clawing at my arms and face and thinking about horrible things for a few seconds for no reason and then I stop. Any tips? And how can I help stop these things while I'm at school? I hate having these moments at school. I'm not going to go to a doctor or therapist so please don't suggest that. I would go see my school counselor but if I told her all this stuff wouldn't she tell my parents? Last year when I cut myslef (with no suicidal intentions at all-I stopped a while ago, suicide is not a worry :]) they told my parents because I was "in danger". But my having schizophrenia isn't a "danger" to me. So would they tell my parents? My mom works in the office so I don't want them talking and then the counselor to let is slip that I've been seeing her. Thanks for your help everyone! I really need those tips :)Hey guess what! I just thought of an option OTHER than medication! Want to know what it is? NOT taking medication! Wow! Shocker! I'm not taking any meds for this. I'm not going to hurt anyone else. I'm not going to the doctor for this or a therapist. I just want to know answers for what I asked please. Thanks for taking the time for answering, but please just tell me about the school counselor and the tips for not having melt downs during school :)Part of the problem is that if I tried to tell my parents, my mom would probably be like ok well I'll make an appointment with the doctor but then she doesn't. My dad would mutter something about how I'm always trying to get attention or be sick (SO not true. I really am hypoglycemic hyperglycemic lactose intolerant and I thought [so did my mom] that I had ADHD but schizophrenia explains those symptoms too) and ignore the issue at hand. So I'd be better off just visiting the school counselor. more

Open Question: please help. depressed 31 weeks preg and 2yr old?

I feel like I can't take things anymore. My daughte who is 23 months is drivng me f-in crazy!! She's being picky about everything! If I want her to eat I have to actually feed her, she's not listening and just being a total brat. I've come to the point of where I hate being pregnant and just want my son here so I can lose this weight and be happy again. My hubby gives me crap everyday cause we never have sex anymore. He makes it a joke but I can tell he's getting annoyed and I am to. But I just have 0 sex drive. All of this is adding up day by day. Soo my doctor gave me Zoloft to help. But really that's not gonna help with all the bs I deal with everyday in this house. Has anyone else felt like this? Cause I have never felt so hopeless and like a p.o.s. in my life. more

Open Question: Why am I so numb? What is the point of life?

Since the age of eight I self harmed regularly and have been suicidal. Even from such a young age I remember lying in bed at night, crying myself to sleep and praying to die.I am now eighteen yrs old and although I don't self harm on a regular basis, I've attempted suicide twice and am utterly lost with myself. I can't bring myself to care about anything as I see no point in life; I'm totally numb and unable to feel any sort of emotions. However, sometimes I'll wake up and I'm so depressed I can't do anything, but stay in bed and sleep as I have no energy or on the rare occasions when I do feel emotions, it's just anger whereby I hate everyone and have thoughts of killing people. As I'm so use to feeling so emotionless, when I do feel a strong emotion I can't cope with it and as a result turn to self harm, conversely when I'm numb I'll self harm to make me feel pain. I've been to the Dr's and they're absolutely hopeless I've tried counselling and it's useless. I see a psychiatrist, but I spend most my time lying as I can't admit to the truth as I'm terrified she'll section me. I can't stand it anymore and am at lost as to what to do. I've never suffered sexual or physical abuse and therefore can't understand what would've triggered this, unless it's a chemical imbalance in my brain. I can't even cry anymore unless I force myself too just to prove I'm not dead inside. My ex boyfriend couldn't cope with my negative perception on life (which is understandable) & as a result our relationship failed. I can't come to terms with what is wrong with me? And why I can't be happy?! more

Open Question: What should I do about this guy?

Ok, this guy, let's call him Zoseph, dated my ex-best friend uh Cammie in the 8th grade during homecoming. Cammie thought he was stalker-ish but didn't want to break up with him so on a day we and our friend uh Belsey were supposed to hang out he wanted to spend time with her so she sent me to tell him that she didn't want to see him that day. I rode my bike to where he was at and told him but then we got to talking and I found out his friends ditched him that day like my friends, mainly Cammie, did me a lot so I saw it like kicking a lost puppy if I ditched him also. We went back to Belsey's after an hour and a half and hung out with them in the park across the street with Cammie giving me evil eyes while doing that whispering about a person right in front of their face while saying "Oh, nothing." when you ask them about it with Belsey. I found out later she wrote a blog calling me a bitch and a "boyfriend stealing hussy" along with breaking up with Zoseph the next day. I began avoiding him after that. In 9th grade I talked to him when I had nothing better to do but still hated him. He apparently has liked me since 8th. A lot of guys like me but I never see them as more then friends no matter how hard I force myself. He gave me a pink rose for Valentine's Day. Now, in 10th I talk to him often and consider him a friend but feel nothing more for him. Apparently, he doesn't really have a lot in common with most girls at our school and finds me unique since I like to be myself. But, I hide a lot of my self and when people get too close I push them away. He deserves a girl that will like him back and can be her complete self with him. I know deep down I can never be that girl. I can't like him back and I can't force myself to. So, what should I do? more

Open Question: my mom is not letting me do my h.w!!!! WHAT DO I DO?

most parents force their children to their h.w. my mom is the exact opposite. she hates nerds and i happen to be one. and now she wont let me do my h.w. because she thinks im getting too nerdy!! she is so unbelievable n we never seem to get along. This h.w. is a project, it's worth 50% of our grade so if i dont do it i fail!!! what do i do?!! and dont tell me to fail cuz im not a dropout i care about my education more than anything!!! more

Open Question: Don't know what to believe or do...so confused about bf and communication with ex?

So, this has been an ongoing issue for me and my BF, and although things were great during the first few months of our relationship, this has consumed our last month of being together. (And we're very early in our relationship). We are long distance, so it's even harder to build that foundation and trust, but I'm trying....(she lives where he does though, actually only about 10 miles away.) So the chances of them running into each other are high.... My boyfriend told me about him and his ex and why they ended things, she was unappreciative, and ended up lying to him about various things and at the end, went back to her ex. (To sum it up). This being said, he had a lot of dislike for her and didn't like talking about her much. Well about 3 weeks ago, I found a FB message she had sent to him, which he doesn't know that I saw, and I told him I didn't like the fact that they were still friends and such, and wanted him to cut that tie. He explained to me that they don't talk, and he didn't want to start now to open up that line of communication, because it was stupid when so many months have passed. I let it go, b/c the message from the girl, did start off saying "I'm writing you again, because you don't respond to my other messages I have sent, and it hurts".....so he was telling me the truth about them not having talked. Well over the next couple weeks, this continued to be an issue, and we would argue and fight about it constantly. Well just recently, I happened to find his cell phone bill with the details of his calls and was shocked and disappointed to find out that they had been communicating fairly consistently (ie- almost every day/every other day), for a few minutes here and there for the past 3-4 weeks (since I found that message).....their was no communication before that message, but only after. I brought it up to him, and he told me it was because I made him open up the communication with her, just like he told me it would do.....(because I asked him to communicate with her and tell her to stop contacting him b/c he was now in a relationship with me)....... When asked what they talked about, he said, she had just wanted closure, b/c they never really got it, and it was mostly her telling him she missed him, loved him, etc etc. and that He just listened to her and would tell her that she had her chance and now they're done. However, as I looked at the report more (b/c I have a copy of it now)....I saw it was at all times of the day, and he would sometimes even call her immediately before or after we got off the phone. Well since I brought this up to him, he hadn't called her, so I thought he was going to cut the communication and respect me and try to work on us, but just as I thought that, I spoke to soon....he contacted her today after about 3 days of no contact. Sorry for this being so long. But I am so confused, he tells me he cares about me, and wants to be with me, and there is nothing there.....but I don't understand the sudden change of heart towards her (remember he used to hate her and talk so negative towards her), and also don't understand why if he feels how he says he does about me, why does he continue to do this as he knows it hurts me? I don't know if I'm just overanalyzing it, and it really is just innocent, because their conversations aren't long, only 5-10 mins here and there at the most maybe 30 mins. But if he says that it was her wanting closure, why is HE the one calling her so much?** I was thinking it was because maybe her feelings/thoughts she says to him is messing with his head and clouding his judgement, b/c we have been fighting so much.....maybe it's just a comfortability factor** more

Open Question: Does he like me help confusion lol?

Ok so i know this guy and lets call him drake and i used to like him in the 5th grade but my friend screwed it up and he told her he wouldint go out with me but i didint hear that from his so i don't know if thats true or not and during sixth grade we didint talk at all really and now in 7th grade he sits with me and two of my friends at lunch one of my friends hates him and she asked why was he here and he said because he is my friend what is going on now he has been doing this for over a week and i dont think he intends on stopping soon? does he like me or just want to be my friend right now? more

Open Question: Having serious doubts about getting married?

I'm supposed to get married next month but i am having serious concerns if it is the right choice or not. My fiance Kayley and i can't agree on anything. She wants to get married in Georgia where she is originally from. I want to get married in Ohio where i have lived my whole life and where Kayley and i both currently live. She also wants to move back to Georgia after the wedding. I don't want to move mainly because of my 5 year old daughter Merissa. Kayley and Merissa don't get along. Merissa wants her mother my EX fiance Savana to be together. Savana and i haven't gotten along since Merissa was born. She had Merissa when she was 16 and we both weren't mature enough to handle raising a child at such a young age. Savana and Kayley despise one another. Savana told me although we might no be lovers anymore she still cares about me and she said i shouldn't marry Kayley because she is a immature child. Kayley told me Savana doesn't want us to get married because she has feelings for me. She also told me she is a shitty mother. I took exception to that comment she is a wonderful mother. My parents hate her and have told me they prefer Savana over Kayley. They also echoed the same immature feelings Savana brought up. I do love Kayley and we have been 2 years. However I'm willing to sacrifice my life for her. She seems to be jealous of Merissa and told me she doesn't understand why she is my number 1 priority. She is immature i admit she loves to party and get drunk but she is only 21 and so am I. Should i get married or not?I think i might still have feelings for Savana but i know she doesn't have any feelings left for me. more

Open Question: after so many months i still dont know what to do with my ex and its killing me!!! :(?

first off, im so sorry for the length but pls read on we dated for 3 months,went abroad for summer after that,and fought every night over stuff like her chatting with friends and a guy i hate till 7 am or more or about her not trying to change for me and when i spoke to her about all our problems, she ignored it sometimes and said i was mean too, (and i was and used to sometimes swear at her :$ :$), but she rarely said she was sorry or that she'll change her habits... even after we returned back from summer,small stuff she did that i wouldnt care of before, hurt me a lot like her being too friendly with her best guy friend (but no flirting) and her staying up so late and not getting to talk or text me in the mornings cause of that, and it seems she can't change any of that... or her sending me vivid texts and kinda keeping me waiting, sometimes cause shes busy,, or her not trying to call me from somewhere else when her mobile's outta credit and knows i get worried if she doesnt reply to my texts and it seems she cant change all that too much.. eventually after going on-off for 3 months, i broke up with her, but she says she does love me , but makes these kinda mistakes sometimes, and it hurts me a lot, however i do love her a lot, and i want to do everything we had planned to but couldnt do before summer, like kiss and just be happy together...:$ :$ she is an amazing person btw and is great to me, but i do get jelous and upset a lot when she does stuff like that and more... is she worth going after? should i give us another chance..? pls help me cause this has gone too long and i need to decide what to do about it thankyou! :) more

Open Question: Celine Dion future shows?

I know she has shows coming up in 2011 in Vegas from March to August, but I can't go to any of her shows in Vegas. One, because I have to have at least 3 tickets, and we have to pay for hotel, flight to Vegas, and so forth. Im not 18 yet, so I cant go by myself. My dad would go (my mom hates celine dion), and a friend. anyway, my question...do you think theres a good possibility of her doing future shows? maybe after her new album comes out, she'll do a world tour after her twins are old enough?? cuz i would really like to go see one of her shows, because i hear they're spectacular, but i cant go to her shows in vegas :( more

Open Question: Do you think Paris Jackson has a crush on Justin Bieber?

I hate her if she does. Michael knows Justin's mine too. more

Open Question: Should i quit the team?

Okay, so i'm in eight grade, and volleyball started, i made jv (C team, the lowest team). And so we only had one game, and the coach has favorites, she's driving me crazy! There's millions of stories, that shows proof. She also really hates me, im not kidding. I had her as a teacher in 6th grade, and she loved me, same in 7th grade volleyball. But now, she's always nagging and yelling at me even if its something as stupid as, 'quit cheering on the team!' and ya, she said that to me. Well anyway today she was yelling at me and my other 2 friends that how were not paying attention, and i tried to tell her we were but she said 'if u say anything, Ms. Wong, im calling your parents' so i kept my mouth shut. And when we have games, she never puts in kids with skill, she justs puts kids in, if they haven't had a turn, and all the 7th graders on my team suck, im not even kidding. she took me out of the game, right when i get to serve, and if a 7th grader misses the ball, she says politely 'can u go get the ball and get back in line' but when i missed the ball she made me run 5 laps, it was on the same day, too. But today, my stomach was killing me, i dunno why, i think it was cuz i had to run the mile in gym but, so i kinda laid to my side, to watch the scrimmage, and she came over and said 'amber, if you don't sit on your butt, right now your gonna run laps! this is what im talking about amber, you need to stop slacking off.!' and then she walked away, and i was soooo mad after that cuz there was some 7th graders, doing the exact same thing, and she saw them, but didn't yell at them. I really want to quit the team, but my parents are gonna get mad, but i don't care. I just wanna quit the team, but should i, and if i should, how will i tell my parents more

Open Question: My friend is getting on my nerves?

School just started.. and (C) and I were in the same class together... So is this girl that I recently became friends with (E) is in the same class with us too with one of her close friends.. But the problem is "C" hates "E" she thinks she's an attention who** and really dislikes her.. Has always.. So I can't change that.. But I want to hang out with E in school but I know for a fact that C would get really mad and call me a ditcher and if we drifted apart she would think that "E" changed me and "brainwash " me to not be friends with "C".. Because she thinks bad about people that she doesnt know even if she doesn't know know a thing about them.. And I HATE when people think bad about me.. "E" Already came over my house and "C" didnt like it too much... So Imagine how she would be like if I started hanging out with "E" in school she would say that I've changed to all of my friends. :( I don't want " C" to hate me.... !!!!!! She'll think I ditched her if I hang out with "E" in school... She even got mad at me today for pulling "T" in the bathroom cause I had to tell her something private that I didn't want other people to hear so imagine how mad she'd get !!!!!! ( This girl that "C" use to hang out with EVERYDAY went to highschool ) and she never use to hang out with me last year.. so? that's being a bit of a hypocrite.. Thanks for all your answers!!!! more

Open Question: my girlfriend broke up with me because her mom!?

ok, i need some help, my girlfriend that i have been with for two months, broke up with me bc her mom found out she was bisexual, and we were dating, and her mom hates me bc of my mom and her got into a big fight a couple years ago, and i keep telling her to jus tell her mom the truth and it should be fine, and her mom will except her for who she is, and she told me she still loves me, and wants to be with me,but i dont kno what to say, what should i tell her? more

Open Question: Does anyone hate the country they live in? Why?

I live in the United States but I really hate this country. I don't hate the country itself but the people in it. Like all the ignorant people. I'm just going to put it out there I'm an Obama supporter. I know a lot of people hate him but why? I really want to know why?! Is it because he's African American?!! If that's why then your racist. Another thing I hate about America is religion. I was baptist Catholic but I don't follow it. I don't believe in religion. I hate how people force their religion on others. It bothers me a lot. I don't like how its in our money and in the pledge. The times have changed can we just move on. I really hate how people want to tell what the Muslims should and should not do. It's wrong. If they want to put up their Mosque let them!!! Today I heard on the tv someone wants to burn the Qur'an. That's like burning the bible. That's horrible. How would you Christian followers like that if someone burned the bible I know I wouldn't like it. America is asking for another 9/11. I don't want that. I have to say something to the Republican party if you elect Palin to be the next President. Then your idiots. You think America is already in the hell hole it'll be even worse if she becomes President.The only reason I live here is because I'm still in High School. As soon as I graduate I'm leaving. I'm going to Europe! I know many of you hate to here the word EUROPE! I hate to break it to ya. It's much better there. There is hardly any issues there. Not compared to our problems!Oh and what freedom do we have! We don't have any!!! more

Open Question: Songs that describe hate towards your BF'S EX GF?

Every time I think about my boyfriend's ex girlfriend (of 1 yr and a 1/2) it makes me sick to my stomach just thinking about them "being together" and the fact of how bad she screwed him over in the first place. She is one person in the world that I can honestly say I hate. And Im pretty sure she doesn't think too keenly of me. Whenever I see her I get eye daggers from her and her friends cause 8 months later whos he still with? ME BITCHH The only song I can really think of is Taylor Swifts "Permanent Marker" I know he loved you A long time ago I ain't jealous of you Just thought you should know You were never good enough for him Or anything like me So you might as well sit back cause I ain't trying to show maturity X is the shape I drew through your face in permanent marker, oh Just like the mark you knew you were making Who do you think you are To write on his heart in permanent marker Well I found that picture Of you in that green dress Sure had a good time Cleanin' up that mess He found thirty other pieces But he'll never find them all Tried to tape them back together Now he knows to keep them off the wall X is the shape I drew through your face in permanent marker, oh Just like the mark you knew you were making Who do you think you are To write on his heart in permanent marker Well I don't appreciate you callin him to reminisce The only reason is you're seein just how much better off he is X is the shape I drew through your face in permanent marker, oh yeah Just like the mark you knew you were making Who do you think you are To write on his heart in permanent marker X is the shape I drew through your face in permanent marker, oh Just like the mark you knew you were making Who do you think you are To write on his heart in permanent marker In permanent marker Permanent marker **Anyone know any other good songs about hating your boyfriend's exes? more

Open Question: Songs that describe hate towards your boyfriend's EX gf?

Open Question: I want to ask out this girl but shes my friend?

Theres this girl i like but we are friends and if we break up will she hate me or not? more

Open Question: Should I quit the team?

Open Question: My dog refuses to poop!?

Ok so I have two pit bulls. The smallest one is about one and a half and sometimes- very rarely- just plain out refuses to poop. I have to walk all the dogs- we're watching a third pit bull- at five every day and I have super over active sweat glands so whenever I just walk one to pee I'll sweat. I hate taking them out to poop after five because I take my shower after five but if I take it and then walk them I'll sweat and I don't like getting my bed all sweaty and stinky. Ok so the littlest one sometimes refuses to poop. She won't eat so she not hungry, she's not thirsty and she hasn't gone poop since probably eight this morning. I don't know why she does this. She's the only one and I'll walk her all over the neighborhood- I just walked her three separate times and still nothing- and now I'm so angry! I'm going to try one last time around seven thirty. If that doesn't work then she's going to have to go without it until tomorrow morning. Does anyone have any suggestions and please do not say pumpkins or pumpkin seeds and do not dare say that dogs don't always go poop at the same time. She and the other two dogs have ever since. This only happens rarely with her but it drives me insane. more

Open Question: What should I do if someone is threatening to beat me up?

This girl at my highschool came up to me today, and started pushing me and saying she was going to beat the shit out of me for her guy friend. Her guy friend hates me so much because of some really not serious drama from a YEAR ago. I'm really concerned for my safety-she's a big girl- and I don't know what to do. Pleeaasseee help (:So, I talked to my friend who runs in the same circles as her. I guess when she says she'll beat someone up, she means it. And if I tell, and she gets in a whole lot of trouble, one of her friends will just carry on the task. :/ more

Open Question: My wife and my pets cannot co-exist, any advice?

OK, so I own 4 goats... Well my wife hates these goats... Eventhough, I do all the work in taking caring of them, and she doesn't have to lift a finger in regards to them Now one of them just had a "kid"... Well, the mother is sick, so I have the baby goat in the house... Now my wife can't stand it... And the other night she flipped out because it found it's way into our 18 month's old crib... Eventhough the goat didn't really hurt the baby... It was just chewing on some of the toys in the crib... I tried to explain to my wife that it is just because the goat doesn't have any toys of it's own and probably nipped our son, because he wouldn't share... Which I think is a good lesson for our son to learn, if you don't share, you get bit a little... Not too hard though. Well that didn't work, she is still mad and says either the goats go or she goes... Now I was obviously gonna get rid of the goats but now I wonder, with such a selfish attitude, maybe she isn't the right one for me. And advice? more