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Open Question: Question about girls and my last question.?

I don't get it, I have such bad luck with girls. I think I am a fairly decent looking guy who works hard in university and eventually pursuing my Masters in Chicago later in my life, I cook, I clean, I earn my own money, I'm great with kids, I love to listen but love to make people laugh, stay in shape and I know how to stand up for myself and not being a pushover, plus I don't do things that turn a girl off like being cocky, horny/stupid, or nerdy (e.x - collecting comic books and playing videogames 24/7). I'm sorry if I had to list all that stuff but I just don't get how I can't get a girl and meanwhile I look at my cousins and guy friends and they don't do or achieve as much as I do but yet they do get the girl at the end. I'm so lost and confused, I don't even have the passion to look anymore, since I dealt with 5 years of pretty girls with drama and ego issues. I've tried everything with girls to try to succeed on that level but i've always failed and the competitive nature I have to excel in my academics and athletics...I hate to lose or get rejected. - I've tried being the bad boy...doesn't work - I've tried being Mr. Nice guy...doesn't work - I've tried listening and comforting girls to break the ice to date them...doesn't work I just like to add that the question I got before when I posted this question is f-ing ridiculous...It seems like people don't understand my question or don't understand the psychology behind it. When I said I tried being someone that I wasn't...That is when I was a young teenager, I'm in my early 20's now and know better then to stoop that low, people say I have low confidence! R U F-ING KIDDING ME! I fight my way damn way to get good jobs, to make a name for myself in the class or on a sports team. Someone said, maybe I come across as being gay?! r u F-ING kidding me...DO I HAVE TO STATE I GET BONERS OVER HOT GIRLS?! I've had plenty and plenty of pretty girls who have given me their email addies and phone numbers that I met online alone who didn't even see my picture until a month later...what does that say? obviously I have some way of talking to girls and even in person I am myself when I talk to girls. If anything, I reiterate to my friends and family members to be themselves and be loyal. I am not pushover, If I am driven to pursue my masters and earn my own money...how would that put me into a category as being someone who lacks confidence...seriously guys, learn how to answers questions on here. Ridiculous. All I asked for was that I was fed up with girls and looking, and some of u took it out of portion and called me out and insulted so F-U. I really wanna see how the ppl who just insulted me in the last question how u handle your problems...becuz at the end of the day were all humans ok. more

Open Question: Mariah Carey is the greatest aristest of all time?

Carey's vocal style and singing ability have had a significant impact on popular music. G. Brown from Denver Post said that "For better or worse, Mariah Carey's five-octave range and melismatic style have influenced a generation of pop singers."[195] According to Rolling Stone, "Her mastery of melisma, the fluttering strings of notes that decorate songs like "Vision of Love," insipired the entire American Idol vocal school, for better or worse, and virtually every other female R&B singer since the Nineties."[196] Beyoncé Knowles told that she started doing vocal "runs" after she heard Carey singing "Vision of Love". Carey has had three songs debut at number-one on the Billboard's Hot 100: "Fantasy", "One Sweet Day" and "Honey", making her the artist with the most number-one debuts in the chart's 52 year history Carey is also credited for establishing R&B and hip-hop into the mainstream pop culture, and for popularizing rapper as a featuring act through her post-1995 songs In 2009, Carey's cover of Foreigner's classic, "I Want to Know What Love Is" became the longest-running number-one song in Brazilian singles chart history, spending 27 consecutive weeks at number-one. Carey has spent a record 79 weeks at the number-one position on Billboard's Hot 100, becoming the artist with the most weeks at number-one in U.S. history,[204] On that same chart, she has eighteen number-one singles, making her the solo artist with the most number-one singles in the chart's history.[16][17] In 1994, Carey released the holiday album "Merry Christmas", which became one of the best-selling Christmas album of all time, selling over 12 million copies.[205][206] It also produced the very successful single, "All I Want for Christmas Is You", which became the only holiday song and ringtone to reach multi-platinum status in the U.S.[207][208] It also become the best-selling single in Japan by an international female artist 18 NUMBER ONE SINGLES OVER 300 MILLION ALBUMS SOLD http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WFhpgfCDv4U&NR=1 more

Open Question: i need a friend that's a girl & rly nice & caring. plz help!!!!?

well i'm 15 turning 16 in bout 2 months which is september & sadly i don't have a girl. well i do have some friends that r girlz but i don't think of them as a true friend cuz they never tlk 2 me that much & we barely hangout together. i live in new jersey & there r bunch of hot pretty girlz here but almost all of them r bitches & they r so bipolar!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! for once in my life i wanna have a friend that's a girl & is truly amazing & can dazzle me. i want someone that is caring & really nice. ooo & not to be picky but i like blondes & brunettes... i get jealous how most of my friends all have a girl friend & i don't.... the some friends i have that r girlz all describe me as rly nice & outgoing. they also say i'm very helpful so idk wut the problem is. wut is it that girlz hate about me? i mean it's not that i'm ugly or annoying... i mean not 2 brag but i'm a decent looking guy. i'm 5 ft 9 currently & i have a 4 pac wit decent biceps & all & i'm korean. so wut's the big idea??? for all the girlz out there wut do u look 4 in a guy??? i seriously need help. i'm at the state where i just wanna kill myself cuz i think i'm a worthless piece of shit....ooo plus i like skateboarding, baseball, swimming, & ma favorite movies r transformers, clash of the titans, toy story 3, despicable me, & yeah i can keep going & this is kinda nerdy but i most importantly like star wars plus ma dad's company created the movie believe it or not. (fox) but it seems like most girlz find it boring wut i like & wut i like 2 do... more

Open Question: I am 33 yrs old I have neither job nor marriage should i continue this horrible job?

I feel so bad that I have to resign from this job of medical representative as it is taking a toll on my health. I am not getting any job satisfaction neither I enjoyed doing this job for the last 5 yrs. Now i want to get into IT or something decent in-house job. Will i be able to get a job? I work in a pharma company as a medical representative and I feel am being harassed there as the General Manager/Country Head of this company is none other than my own brother-in-law .And he is torturing me and making me unsuccessful in my life and career for last several years.I am, or, have been misguided into this profession.Even in case of marriage my parents r conspiring with them( with my sister & b.i.l.). I have a total work experience of near to 5 years in 2 pharma companies.In both the companies I got the chance because of my b.i.l.(brother-in-law) who was in top management. Actually my parents started misbehaving with me after i left my full time MBA in 2003.so i retaliated that i left MBA due to ragging (i went to a small town called meerut leaving Calcutta,my hometown) ,so I often had fight with them and in the process i got angered and broke things in the house ,used verbal slang against all including neighbors and relatives . They told bad things about me to all these people and make me a boycotted person.I now dont have any friends and in my locality no one talks to me. When i call someone of my relatives or any batch mates of yester years they after hearing my story never takes my phone again.I feel like a ostracized ,miseried person. So they dont want to give me marriage. I am presently doing MBA from Sikkim manipal and also a sap course. The SAP institute assured me of giving chance in interview calls but no job guarantee. I desperately want to change my pharma sales line and dont want any sales job anymore in the future. I am B.Sc.(Physics,Chem & maths ) pass course graduate under old mode(10+2+2 system) from Calcutta University. I really cant take the pressure of this job anymore & feel like I will get heart attack or stroke anytime in the field or that i will feign on the streets.Then what will happen to me? Furthermore i ride a heavy bike which makes it difficult to handle with a manager sitting behind & lots of items like a bag on my shoulder. a tie to be worn which makes it pathetic all the time under such hot weather conditions in India particularly Calcutta.And in rainy season u have to manage a raincoat as well !! I seem to perspire so profusely. Ufff!!! I cant continue, it's a horrible job. And in fact my brother-in-law's major fault is that he shouldn't have got me into this job and ruined my career.He should have given me right advice .What u friends say? Is this not a conspiracy? And another reason is that they do illegal things which they want to hide so my parents do these. I mean they dont have any kids and my sister got aborted 3 times as she had miscarriage so i feel they went for some surrogate mother in Jaipur or Delhi or from Kolkata( I am not sure but she might be a Bengali woman and very sexy too).This could be another reason. Today i have decided to file my resignation.But i am afraid as my parents and others say that i am not going to get any other job as I dream of. I feel my parents r biggest ill wishers & that its a conspiracy that I am unmarried. It seems the whole Indian system preplanned this for me and treats me as if i am a devil!! I too wanted to get married while doing this job but when i go to the field i cant tolerate the fact that i have become a salesman.This realization i didn't had for so many years. I feel very low self esteemed I dont know why after so many years i have this feeling.I should have quit this job quite long back ,in my initial years when i was younger.Actually when i go & see young or matured couples , or in doctor chambers I feel very disgusted upon me I dont get the motivation to do this job anymore.I realize that i have become poor and getting poorer & older everyday. Also no rich or good looking woman will marry me & even if i have a chance my parents r ruining all my chances of getting married to a good female.Also at this age it is difficult to get good woman as most normal l woman gets married by 28 or 30.And most attractive Indian Bengali female get settled by 25. My mother daily curses me that since i am a failure i should commit suicide.My father discourages me saying there is no way left or it is too late. But i can't or dont want to leave my house as I can't leave the security of my home in spite of their misbehavior and all this hostile environment around me & lack of scope .We have our own house in good locality in south kolkata.(Sorry I tell all the details here). Whats more I have no girlfriend to share my sorrows with whereas I find local guys some even not properly employed getting good looking gals and marrying them.in the locality.It makes me angry as well as jealous on my luck or plight. I too read in a good English medium school and all my peers r well established or abroad doing good job. And I have very small savings ( i wasted my savings money on eating out and going to movies, majority on my bike and spending on various educational courses etc). Now i am left with very less finance. So under such condition should I do this dreadful job and get married?Sorry ignore the earlier details (Yahoo pls add a delete option to these add details section) most of them r supporters of some political party and having some shop in the locality.It makes me angry as well as jealous on my luck or plight. I too read in a good English medium school and all my peers r well established or abroad doing good job. And I have very small savings ( i wasted my savings money on eating out and going to movies, majority on my bike and spending on various educational courses etc). Now i am left with very less finance. So under such condition should I do this dreadful job and get married? more

Open Question: At 32 yrs old I have neither job nor marriage should i continue this horrible job?

I feel so bad that I have to resign from this job of medical representative as it is taking a toll on my health. I am not getting any job satisfaction neither I enjoyed doing this job for the last 5 yrs. Now i want to get into IT or something decent in-house job. Will i be able to get a job? I work in a pharma company as a medical representative and I feel am being harassed there as the General Manager/Country Head of this company is none other than my own brother-in-law .And he is torturing me and making me unsuccessful in my life and career for last several years.I am, or, have been misguided into this profession.Even in case of marriage my parents r conspiring with them( with my sister & b.i.l.). I have a total work experience of near to 5 years in 2 pharma companies.In both the companies I got the chance because of my b.i.l.(brother-in-law) who was in top management. Actually my parents started misbehaving with me after i left my full time MBA in 2003.so i retaliated that i left MBA due to ragging (i went to a small town called meerut leaving Calcutta,my hometown) ,so I often had fight with them and in the process i got angered and broke things in the house ,used verbal slang against all including neighbors and relatives . They told bad things about me to all these people and make me a boycotted person.I now dont have any friends and in my locality no one talks to me. When i call someone of my relatives or any batch mates of yester years they after hearing my story never takes my phone again.I feel like a ostracized ,miseried person. So they dont want to give me marriage. I am presently doing MBA from Sikkim manipal and also a sap course. The SAP institute assured me of giving chance in interview calls but no job guarantee. I desperately want to change my pharma sales line and dont want any sales job anymore in the future. I am B.Sc.(Physics,Chem & maths ) pass course graduate under old mode(10+2+2 system) from Calcutta University. I really cant take the pressure of this job anymore & feel like I will get heart attack or stroke anytime in the field or that i will feign on the streets.Then what will happen to me? Furthermore i ride a heavy bike which makes it difficult to handle with a manager sitting behind & lots of items like a bag on my shoulder. a tie to be worn which makes it pathetic all the time under such hot weather conditions in India particularly Calcutta.And in rainy season u have to manage a raincoat as well !! I seem to perspire so profusely. Ufff!!! I cant continue, it's a horrible job. And in fact my brother-in-law's major fault is that he shouldn't have got me into this job and ruined my career.He should have given me right advice .What u friends say? Is this not a conspiracy? And another reason is that they do illegal things which they want to hide so my parents do these. I mean they dont have any kids and my sister got aborted 3 times as she had miscarriage so i feel they went for some surrogate mother in Jaipur or Delhi or from Kolkata( I am not sure but she might be a Bengali woman and very sexy too).This could be another reason. Today i have decided to file my resignation.But i am afraid as my parents and others say that i am not going to get any other job as I dream of. I feel my parents r biggest ill wishers & that its a conspiracy that I am unmarried. It seems the whole Indian system preplanned this for me and treats me as if i am a devil!! I too wanted to get married while doing this job but when i go to the field i cant tolerate the fact that i have become a salesman.This realization i didn't had for so many years. I feel very low self esteemed I dont know why after so many years i have this feeling.I should have quit this job quite long back ,in my initial years when i was younger.Actually when i go & see young or matured couples , or in doctor chambers I feel very disgusted upon me I dont get the motivation to do this job anymore.I realize that i have become poor and getting poorer & older everyday. Also no rich or good looking woman will marry me & even if i have a chance my parents r ruining all my chances of getting married to a good female.Also at this age it is difficult to get good woman as most normal l woman gets married by 28 or 30.And most attractive Indian Bengali female get settled by 25. My mother daily curses me that since i am a failure i should commit suicide.My father discourages me saying there is no way left or it is too late. But i can't or dont want to leave my house as I can't leave the security of my home in spite of their misbehavior and all this hostile environment around me & lack of scope .We have our own house in good locality in south kolkata.(Sorry I tell all the details here). Whats more I have no girlfriend to share my sorrows with whereas I find local guys some even not properly employed getting good looking gals and marrying them. most of them r supporters of some political party and having some shopin the locality.It makes me angry as well as jealous on my luck or plight. I too read in a good English medium school and all my peers r well established or abroad doing good job. And I have very small savings ( i wasted my savings money on eating ou and going to movies, majority on my bike and spending on various educational courses etc). Now i am left with very less finance. So under such condition should I do this dreadful job and get married? more

Open Question: At 32 yrs old I have neither job nor marriage what to do?

I feel so bad that I have to resign from this job of medical representative as it is taking a toll on my health. I am not getting any job satisfaction neither I enjoyed doing this job for the last 5 yrs. Now i want to get into IT or something decent in-house job. Will i be able to get a job? I work in a pharma company as a medical representative and I feel am being harassed there as the General Manager/Country Head of this company is none other than my own brother-in-law .And he is torturing me and making me unsuccessful in my life and career for last several years.I am, or, have been misguided into this profession.Even in case of marriage my parents r conspiring with them( with my sister & b.i.l.). Actually my parents started misbehaving with me after i left my full time MBA in 2003.so i retaliated that i left MBA due to ragging (i went to a small town called meerut leaving Calcutta,my hometown) ,so I often had fight with them and in the process i got angered and broke things in the house ,used verbal slang against all including neighbors and relatives . They told bad things about me to all these people and make me a boycotted person.I now dont have any friends and in my locality no one talks to me. When i call someone of my relatives or any batch mates of yester years they after hearing my story never takes my phone again.I feel like a ostracized ,miseried person. So they dont want to give me marriage. I am presently doing MBA from Sikkim manipal and also a sap course. The SAP institute assured me of giving chance in interview calls but no job guarantee. I desperately want to change my pharma sales line and dont want any sales job anymore in the future. I am B.Sc.(Physics,Chem & maths ) pass course graduate under old mode(10+2+2 system) from Calcutta University. I really cant take the pressure of this job anymore & feel like I will get heart attack or stroke anytime in the field or that i will feign on the streets.Then what will happen to me? Furthermore i ride a heavy bike which makes it difficult to handle with a manager sitting behind & lots of items like a bag on my shoulder. a tie to be worn which makes it pathetic all the time under such hot weather conditions in India particularly Calcutta.And in rainy season u have to manage a raincoat as well !! I seem to perspire so profusely. Ufff!!! I cant continue, it's a horrible job. And in fact my brother-in-law's major fault is that he shouldn't have got me into this job and ruined my career.He should have given me right advice .What u friends say? Is this not a conspiracy? And another reason is that they do illegal things which they want to hide so my parents do these. I mean they dont have any kids and my sister got aborted 3 times as she had miscarriage so i feel they went for some surrogate mother in Jaipur or Delhi or from Kolkata( I am not sure but she might be a Bengali woman and very sexy too).This could be another reason. Today i have decided to file my resignation.But i am afraid as my parents and others say that i am not going to get any other job as I dream of. I feel my parents r biggest ill wishers & that its a conspiracy that I am unmarried. It seems the whole Indian system preplanned this for me and treats me as if i am a devil!! I too wanted to get married while doing this job but when i go to the field i cant tolerate the fact that i have become a salesman.This realization i didn't had for so many years. I feel very low self esteemed I dont know why after so many years i have this feeling.I should have quit this job quite long back ,in my initial years when i was younger.Actually when i go & see young or matured couples , or in doctor chambers I feel very disgusted upon me I dont get the motivation to do this job anymore.I realize that i have become poor and getting poorer & older everyday. Also no rich or good looking woman will marry me & even if i have a chance my parents r ruining all my chances of getting married to a good female.Also at this age it is difficult to get good woman as most normal l woman gets married by 28 or 30.And most attractive Indian Bengali female get settled by 25. My mother daily curses me that since i am a failure i should commit suicide.My father discourages me saying there is no way left or it is too late. But i can't or dont want to leave my house as I can't leave the security of my home in spite of their misbehavior and all this hostile environment around me & lack of scope .We have our own house in good locality in south kolkata.(Sorry I tell all the details here). Whats more I have no girlfriend to share my sorrows with whereas I find local guys some even not properly employed getting good looking gals and marrying them. most of them r supporters of some political party and having some shop in the locality.It makes me angry as well as jealous on my luck or plight. I too read in a good English medium school and all my peers r well established or abroad doingBut I dont have money to go abroad or anyone to finance me. more

Open Question: WHAT DO I DO?! PLEASE HELP!!!?

Ok so me and my sis were on chatroulette and she got jealous cuz she would be like "hi" and then she would talk for a while and she would be like how old r u and they would usually say 14-17 and she would say ooo and be like im 15 (which she isnt) and i alway say im 14 (which i am) and they wouldnt believe her cuz im just bein honest she looks fucking 12!! she has no chest and she has the face of a 12 year old!!!! then they are like "how old is ur sis?" (me) and id be like "14" and they would be like "oo ur waaay hotter than the other one" and she would get all jealous... i feel bad!! what do i do?? how can i help her?? ps we are friends but we say we are sisterz X-p oh i dont have a pic of me ill get one asap =) more

Open Question: Muslim guys.. would u think i was good looking to date?

ok i think muslim guys r really hot.. im indian hindu and im just curious if u would think i was pretty or not. BE HONEST!! here are some of my pics: http://www.flickr.com/photos/52459179@N02/4835124952/in/photostream/ http://www.flickr.com/photos/52459179@N02/4835125314/ http://www.flickr.com/photos/52459179@N02/4835125266/in/photostream/ http://www.flickr.com/photos/52459179@N02/4835124988/in/photostream/ more

Open Question: why r people so jelous of sluts?

i know the truth is that alot of girls r jelous that we get all the hot cute guys and they never ever will ...cause guys dont like sweet innocent stupid girls and ya they r just jelous cause we get all the attention and notice how we dont have a problem with the guys cause they all love us and ya say what u want i know i am hot or random guys would not just come up asking for sex ....cause personally i feel bad for virgins more

Open Question: sluts get all the guys haha!!!?

lmfao this is to anybody who is not a slut or anybody who is a virgin [ cause virgins r stupid] ok u will never get a guy becuse guys only like sluts and all u ugly@ss virgins r just jelous that sluts get all the guys and u never will haha ...i know u wish u were like me but ur not hot enough to be a whore ........ya and i know i am hot or guys would not randomly be asking me for sexguys dont like stupid little innocent girls and they will never and they only like girls like me so hahaha .....u r missing out on so much fun and i hope u all die virgins more

Open Question: What is the physical part of air force BMT like?

I leave 4 basic in a week & im extremely nervous. The part im most nervous about is the physical stuff. ive heard dif. things.. ive heard u should be in shape b4 u go but ive heard of stories where ppl cant do any push ups, sit ups, etc. and still graduate on time. i am good with my sit ups & with push ups i can only do about 10 "correct" push up. it is the running i am most worried about. im worried because right now i live in el paso & its hot and i have a hard time running in the heat.. my throat gets dry and its miserable & im worried about not being ready in time for the final pt test. i know its gonna be hot in san antonio so im just worried im not gonna be able 2 do it. did anyone else have trouble with the running? r we going to be running alot in the heat or mostly in the mornings when its cooler outside? does it sound like i am not rdy physically or do u know ppl that were like me & still made it? im so nervous so i rly appreciate any advice & plz no negative comments.. i know they say the air force is the easiest but im just rly stressing it & doubting myself. thx more

Resolved Question: i need help with my situation!?

my story is like this, i went out with this guy, E, on a few dates. and you can say that we really had chemistry. on the third date we were together and his friend R called and asked if he wanted to go clubbing later tonight. E asked me if i wanted to join and i said sure, and we all went. R is gay too and it was obvious that he likes E. after like an hour R got a phone call and said that he had to go somewhere for about an hour and later will come back. Then i asked E how long has he known R for, he said about a month, and that R likes him, but E only likes him as a friend. And i said cool. Then we went on the dance floor. We danced and we got close, and we kissed, it was our first kiss : ]. And then we were making out for like a whole 30 minutes all around the club hehe. E told me that he really likes me sooo much. And he liked me from the first time we met. And he was like really sweet and very protective of me. But he told me not to tell R yet because he's worried that he might lose him if he knew. Then when R came we all went dancing together, and there R came to E and kissed him on his cheek. E didn't kissed him back, instead he turned his face and looked at me and held my hand tight and later when R turned his face he came to me kissed me and said sorry. He was really innocent and i totally believe him. When we got home he left a message saying that he had a memorable night : ]. Now i really like him, but i just don't know what to do. This R guy is like really super rich, and unemployed!. so he's like free all the time and keeps on hanging with E always!. Im just worried that as time goes on, he might take him away from me. I mean i know i am hotter than him obviously hehe, but he's like extremely rich, he wears a 5000 dollars watch!. Should i feel insecure? today E texted me and said that he missed me, and i miss him too. What do u think i should do. This is only my first relationship ever!. And that was my second kiss!. so i really have no perspective on these kind of situations. sorry for the long story. I actually tried to cut it short!.@Steve's Web Hosting, no, our date was supposed to end around like 9, but then when his friend called he was like we'll go at 11. So actually he didn't like cancel the date to go clubbing. it was supposed to be after. And asked me to join him : ] more

Open Question: how does this girl sound 2 u?

she is kinda tall shes not skinny but shes not fat she uses the bumps 4 her hair she has black hair i think 15 years old and she has medium boobs every guy likes her 4 her ass and she is very hot in person. and we r kinda starting to talk to each other. so i wanted 2 know ur guys opinioni care about her personality and yes she is very nice with every 1 more

Open Question: Leave her or stay with her...think she's cheating?

so me and this girl been dating a little over a year blah blah. recently she deletes me off facebook because "she doesnt want her friends breaking us up, and saying stuff about us blah blah" well this other guy thats crazy about her and has been wanting to get with her for awhile now she adds and doesnt add me. which kind of bothers me cause it came off to me like she was hiding something. we got in a huge fight yesterday. it was pretty bad. we ended hanging up on each other. and i took off in my car to cool down, she thought i was going to go be suicidal or whatever. she calls me tells me to come home we will work it out. i come home and her new boyfriend messages me saying "leave my girl alone got homie she left u for me now stfu and dont tlk to her" i was completely shocked..i missed like something there cause now it's his girl.. so i said "yer girl bro? since wen?" and he said "like a fuckin week ago leave her the fuck alone before i smash ur fuckin head in u fucking fagget" so i asked her about it and she said that they only started dating because i left blah. then she calls me back saying she doesnt want to be with him, she wants to be with me and she made a mistake and she loves me and all this stuff. and we talked all day etc. then i get on fb today and her "new boyfriend" messages me saying this: 2:12pmBraden sup bitch 2:12pmMe hey 2:12pmBraden if i were u i wld leave he alone before u make me mad 2:13pmMe dude im nt fightn wit no one. alrite. jus chill. shes stressed out. u nd me fightn. addz ta it. 2:13pmBraden then dont tlk to her or ur going to have a prob with me dont call her saying ur going to kill ur self cuz she wont tlk to u or date u 2:14pmMe dude there aint gunna b n e probz. shes been my life fer tha last yr ight. im gunna tlk ta her. shes gunna tlk tta me. get ova yerself 2:14pmBraden hahaha u better wach urself 2:15pmMe bro ha im nt doin shit. nd im nt scared of u dude. 2:15pmBraden haha u sld b 2:15pmMe nt even 2:15pmBraden i will fuck u up 2:15pmMe ha ya ok. keep thinkn tht buddy 2:16pmBraden were r u right now me and u let fucking go u think ur hot shit come on u fuck cock sucking pussy 2:16pmMe woah cock suckin pussy! no way! u jus called me tht. tht hurt soooo bad. im deff gunna lose sleep-sarcasm im at my house. where tha fuk do u think i am. 2:17pmBraden y dont u just go kill ur self no one is going to miss u noone 2:17pmMe na im good. 2:17pmBraden haha ight mother fucker were and when 2:18pmMe yo jus don fuk her ova ight? she don deserve tht. we r gunna have probz if u fuk her ova dude no one is fightn. jus chiill tha fuk out. u don got a reason ta have a prob wit me. 2:18pmBraden oh but i do and u better wach ur back is all i go to say homie 2:19pmMe watz yer reason huh? ha ya ight. 2:20pmBraden u wont leave my girl alone saying ur going to kill urslef if she doenst tlk to u well do it dued no one will miss u 2:21pmMe wat do ya mean i wont leave her alone? u don knw wen we tlk. ha u first bud 2:21pmBraden she tells me when u tlk to her and freak out on her 2:22pmMe ha ya she tellz me wen u freak on her cuz she wont tlk ta u nd nt date u nd u nd u call her everyname in tha book nd call her friendz nd bitch at them cuz she wont tlk ta u. so bro we r one in tha same 2:22pmBraden right right well how about u take her cuz i dont need it 2:23pmMe wat do u mean how bout i take her? ha id take her n e day dude. 2:24pmBraden u can have her i just ended it peace out my nigga **braden being her "new boyfriend" and me being me.** so im confused as hell. anyone got any thoughts? she cheating? no? yes? leave her? stay? idk? no smart ass answers pleaseee. thoughts? more

Open Question: is my marriage over? threw out husband after he didnt cheat? wht do i do?

never used this site before, got marriage problems don't no what to do. well i will explain my life. me and my husband both grew up on the same council estate in worst area imaginable, my mother was an alcoholic and his mum was dead, he grew up with his dad and he beat him up a lot kicked him and belted him and would whack/punch him for nothing. his father drank, used drugs. We been together since age 16 and he never slept or been with anyone in any relationship (same with me), we known each other since 11. I am now 28 and he 29, nearly 30. We have good life, we got good income and mortgage will soon be paid within a year if we stilll keep the current income comin in, I got good qualifications in school, after years of college and finally going to uni after workin my a r s e off in mcdonalds and pizza shops to get by and gettin grants i went to uni and i am now a gp, been gp for past 3 years. he works in construction and owns a building company which he works on building some of the finest houses with his team of people, 2 and 3 million pound marble floor houses with acres of gardens. we have a 3 year old son who my husband adores and he brill dad and things have been going well until the past 2 weeks. i was happy, we have good life, he is amazing dad, wouldn't harm anyone, he is one of the good guys, he's a mans man if you get what i mean, plus he is an absolute hunk, works out, got great bod and sexy in everyway. we have/had great relationships no secrets, i dont no what else to say apart from he is a brill guy. our baby sitter who is 18yr old, we let her into our home and gave her a chance, gave her a lot of money, more than most, she looks after our son cause we got a lot on (workwise)until we come home at night and then we spend quality time together as family. a couple weeks ago my husband home early, i caught her naked in bathroom with him, he was out shower naked. my son was in playroom, my husband is a loyal and faithful man, he promised it wasn't what it looked. she ended up saying she loved him, it ended with me knockin her out with a punch. i was mad, my husband is as i say loyal, even my best girlfriend told me he would never cheat. i know he wouldnt. ended up i kicked him out before telling him that things havent been workin out between us and that i did not love him anyway and slapped him twice. i lied about not loving him. was mad and jealous, not of her (a got huge boobies and keep in shape, she not as hot as me), just the fact he was with another woman with no clothes. turns out my friend found out from a friends friend the same thing happened to her, turns out a similar thing happened to her and is clingy bitch and wont leave men alone. it same person, the lat guy she hit on was married police officer, turns out when he didn't have sex with her she accussed him of rape, her name annonomous, we know its her though. she went to newspaper, he suspended. she is evil. my husband came round to see our son but i ignore door. he left flowers and 100 voicemails and even talks to the front door when it closed. how do i fix our marriage? he is the most important man in my life, how do i get him back and apologise. I never trusted him>>> i did but i was angry.??? what do i do???? be honest??>.do u think my marriage is over>> if i cant trust him why shoudl he be with me?? now i cant stop cryin 24/7 feel sick and dont no what to do. everytime i go to call him i feel sick. more

Resolved Question: So I like this guy...?

I met a guy a couple weeks ago. He is 15 and a half and a junior. I'm 14 and a freshman. He's really smart and adorable. He got moved up a grade. He's kinda nerdy (glasses, really tall, kinda skinny) he says he likes smart girls, and I go to a private school and he goes to public school, and I'm really smart, but I don't look nerdy at all, i'v been told that I'm hot. (I've been labeled our team's "hottie") I met him through tennis, we are on a co-Ed team together. We've hung out playing tennis just the two of us after practice for a couple hours a few times. Hes hugged me whenever we say goodbye, but we were talking with a 9 year old that I gave a hug to about how he thinks when ur little, hugs r gross from girls, but when u get older, u hug people all the time just a friends, and then he looked at me and said "and sometimes when u like them" He has had like 2 or 3 girl friends b4 and they all have been asain he said. I'm not, I'm caucasion. He wants to be my doubles partner all the time and be on my court whenever we split into groups. He also came and wathched my match. We've become kinda close, not like best friends, but yeah. I want to tell him that I like him, but I don't know what to do. I think that he's just shy. Should I text him or what????? Does he like me? Oh, and my parents have seen us hang out together and they both say that he is in love with me. Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh! Thanks. Oh, and this is our last week of tennis coming up! more

Voting Question: Guys: answer this?? be HONEST?

when u see a group guys like of 15-16 & they see a cute/hot girl : WHY DO THEY STARE AT HER, WHISPERS TO EACH OTHER & LAUGH W/ AN OFFENSIVE SMILE WHILE LOOKING AT HER?? ARE THEY MAKING FUN OF HER?? WHAT R THEY THINKING?? more

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Voting Question: bng is an awesome game?

your are 28 ur husband with initials k and last name b askerd to marry you 1 year later you get married where is it what is it like on you honeymoon to ___ u get pregnant with a baby girl with blonde curly hair and baby blue eyes http://www.google.com/imgres?imgurl=http://images.veer.com/IMG/PIMG/PDP/PDP0304023_P.JPG&imgrefurl=http://www.parentsconnect.com/connect/boards/hot_topics/name_games/chat_it_up_thread.jhtml%3FtID%3D88621%26sortBy%3Dreplies%26sortOrder%3D2&usg=__t_Vzy9nNBa3igM3VsStTg-0909s=&h=400&w=292&sz=124&hl=en&start=10&sig2=CotgfecPKuH0-tjaYjkb0A&tbnid=36Q24zEAUlyLGM:&tbnh=124&tbnw=91&ei=yVBLTJPmM4K-sQOL0eVI&prev=/images%3Fq%3Dnewborn%2Bgirl%2527%2Bwith%2Bcurly%2Bblonde%2Bhair%2Bblue%2Beyes%26hl%3Den%26biw%3D1021%26bih%3D509%26gbv%3D2%26tbs%3Disch:10%2C25&itbs=1&biw=1021&bih=509 her nickname is curly Q her name is ur name and her middle name starts with a p when she is 2 u try having a baby and end up with quads (4) 2 girls 2 boys but 1 boy doesnt make it :( in honor of him u name him his dads name and no middle name the 2 girls and one boy have ryming names that start with k and have no middle names to honor there bro http://www.google.com/imgres?imgurl=http://www.capturedbycarrie.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2008/01/triplets2.jpg&imgrefurl=http://www.parentsconnect.com/connect/boards/hot_topics/name_games/chat_it_up_thread.jhtml%3FtID%3D108420%26sortBy%3Dreplies%26sortOrder%3D2&usg=__xDnhrS7571sxbBVTgd5hlvJvzkw=&h=330&w=330&sz=40&hl=en&start=0&sig2=PzDePEEHOHUPeG5gk9UKzw&tbnid=zv-QlLrcsxRWoM:&tbnh=123&tbnw=125&ei=P1JLTP-RCYTksQOlq-hI&prev=/images%3Fq%3Dtriplet%2Bbabies%26hl%3Den%26biw%3D1021%26bih%3D509%26gbv%3D2%26tbs%3Disch:1&itbs=1&iact=hc&vpx=117&vpy=190&dur=171&hovh=224&hovw=224&tx=159&ty=108&page=1&ndsp=16&ved=1t:429,r:5,s:0 u r 32 curly Q is 3 and the quads r 1 u try for another baby and u get 6! 5 girls and 1 boy they all have to hav a name with a nice meaning like hope and there middle names start with an A http://www.google.com/imgres?imgurl=http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_52UlUa6gHfA/SjUeXR41h2I/AAAAAAAAA3w/xqNL_2J7Ex8/s400/sextuplets%2BII.jpg&imgrefurl=http://europeanlifenetwork.blogspot.com/2009/06/sextuplets-gift-from-god.html&usg=__dB2bMtUdZZNaE-jqSKMFoAemVOk=&h=350&w=305&sz=35&hl=en&start=21&sig2=j49UWNyO9YgL1penqXBV1Q&tbnid=PyzxykcLGjqS1M:&tbnh=120&tbnw=105&ei=nlNLTNL7E5OmsQPI7qlJ&prev=/images%3Fq%3Dsexteplets%2Bbabies%26hl%3Den%26biw%3D1021%26bih%3D509%26gbv%3D2%26tbs%3Disch:10%2C1298&itbs=1&biw=1021&bih=509 u and ur hubby get divorsed cause u were cheating, 1 month later u marry johny white and he has a 14 year old daughter with the intials sn http://www.google.com/imgres?imgurl=http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_52UlUa6gHfA/SjUeXR41h2I/AAAAAAAAA3w/xqNL_2J7Ex8/s400/sextuplets%2BII.jpg&imgrefurl=http://europeanlifenetwork.blogspot.com/2009/06/sextuplets-gift-from-god.html&usg=__dB2bMtUdZZNaE-jqSKMFoAemVOk=&h=350&w=305&sz=35&hl=en&start=21&sig2=j49UWNyO9YgL1penqXBV1Q&tbnid=PyzxykcLGjqS1M:&tbnh=120&tbnw=105&ei=nlNLTNL7E5OmsQPI7qlJ&prev=/images%3Fq%3Dsexteplets%2Bbabies%26hl%3Den%26biw%3D1021%26bih%3D509%26gbv%3D2%26tbs%3Disch:10%2C1298&itbs=1&biw=1021&bih=509 more

Resolved Question: help,its my 1st time im sooo nervous!!! im 17yrs old,plz no rude comments?

okay so,im 17yrs old and ive been with my boyfriends for 3 years and he is 19. He has had sex b4,like at least 20 times but i am still a virgin. We did have "the talk" b4 about sex and i told him i was nervous,and he said "i dont want you 2 feel pressured.i can wait as long as u need,pz dont feel like we have 2 have sex right away,we can wait as long as u need." and i actually teared up because ive never felt so loved and understood. but we have tried twice to have sex,my idea,and both times as soon as he got close 2 pushing in i f.r.e.a.k.e.d out. im just so scared that its gonna hurt! i wont even let him finger me,like what the hell is wrong with me?and its not that i dont get turned on cause beleive me i do. im just worried cause my guy is hot and charming and beleive me other girls got their eyes on him. and even though i know hes not pressuring me i feel like if i dont do it soon,he'll leave me or cheat on me :/ . o dont know,lately ive been gettin cold feet from him. plz give me any advice,thanxx more

Resolved Question: Girls? help! 10 points for first person to answer thats a girl!?

Ok i really like this girl. we used to talk ALOT! and now we barily. we r good friends. and we used to like each other and now i still like her but she dont. how can i win her over again? and please dont say "u need to move on" i am the funnyest out of all my friends. Im the second hottest and second sweatest. please help! thanks :) more

Resolved Question: my thyroid is swollen after taking synthroid? I am just 21--- plz heeelp me if u have any idea?

ok so 3 months ago i went to doctor and she gave me a medician for magrine, headach. One day i took this medician and it very small tablet and i felt my neck is hurting me and something is sticking or somone seqeezing my neck. After that I was so scared,, when i sleep at night i feel tension in my neck, i kept drinking water and nothing improved. After that i went to the docotr in one week he told me there is nothing wrong and i asked him for a blood test . he said i do not need it...(dumb fuking i wish i can go slap him) anyways i knw at that time there was something wrong, in 2weeks my period did not come but it did after 2 weeks. Then my neck started to a bit better, but i start to feel tension there when i drink milk.. the next month i noticed my period also came late.. i went to the doctor i told her that and she says u r just stressed. I told her no i am not, and i told her my neck is hurting me sometimes. So on i did a blood test and she call me and say u have hypothyroid and she gave me this medician (synthroid levothyroxine-0.025mg or 0.25mmg) and guess wut , when i took it i felt so tired, my neck was swollen on 3rth day , and cant even move my nick and i get angry so fasst , my boob was black on 1sth day and sometimes i am hot or cold/ also now my voice is completely gone .. i used to scream before. i get headach and cants sleep. And before i has non of these syptoms. So on the day 3 I went to another doctor and she told me to stop taking this medician and go for ultasound. I did it the other day and i dont knw wuts the result ..So wut do u think is wrong with me .. plz if you knw help me here.. Iam very scared.. these symptoms were very hard for me .. also i had organic test on day 2 when i was on this med :-( and now my nick is swollen but less than yesetrday but still hurten :-((((((sorry i just read wut i typed and my grammer sucks.. pardon me coz i am french waiting for ur help thanks more

Voting Question: Might Commit Suicide Tonight..(Read My Story & Help Me)?

Hey i'm at a really, really low point in my life i'm 22yr. i made a lot of mistake in my teen years. first of all, i didn't graduate due to me having to much fun & not doing my work. now i been working on my GED but, i can't seem to pass the test. I made it to the 12th grade tho. I've lost all my friends due to the fact i been a 4yr relationship with a girl who made me cut all of my friends off to be with her. but, now we're not together & haven't talk in 3 months due to the fact i started getting really depression from all the fighting & so i cut her off & it really took a lot out of me. I've i change a lot since hs i've use to be into rap & r&b music. but, now im into rock, pop in country. I dress way different from how i use to now i wear rocker, edgy & mostly skater type of clothing with black frame emo glasses. & no baggy clothes or jewelry. I've thought i find myself but, in fact i'm more lost than ever. I've also been some what struggling with my sexuality. I use to tell my ex gf i fine certain guys hot & she use to tell me i would rather u be with a guy than another gf outside of me. i think i might be bi but, all my mom does is bash gay people. Plus, i'm still stuck at home with her into i pass my ged to get into college. In to make matters worst my mom have a sister who's just drink beer & do crack so, now my mom taking a 3yr who's 6 now.(we've kept her for 3yr) in she very crazy & have a lott of problems not a avg. kid. that's took a piece out of me as well. It just seem like nothing going my way i have long hair in now im starting to grey. i woke up this morning & my straight teeth are starting to turn & now i have small gap. I lost a lot weight & now im working out again. but, im just now happy & funny, cheerful like i use to be. i fill like the whole worlds on my shoulder & im sick of it. what should i do? Also, i took the college sat today & i know i did just awful on it. My ex gf keep stressing me out & trying to force to my text & be friends with her at least. i've have alot of hurt in my life from my bestfriend stole & hungout with my brother for the past 5yr. my dad not here for me all he does is put me down. my sister, 2 brothers & me not that close. there jelous of me cause, my mom spoil me. I don't go out & i lack a lot of confidence that i once had. I'm not ugly alot of girls try to hit on me but, most of them are black. I've felt in love with rocker girls but, i'm afraid to ask them out. so, what should i do about this? more

Resolved Question: What should i do about this?

I was txting one of my guy friends and i thought he had a crush on me but he never told me until today but it was way more inapropett first we were talking about a tv show and then this is what our convo was. The guy is Boy and i am Girl. Oh and we r both 13... Boy: well u r Girl: i am what? Boy; funny sweet hot and nice... Girl: umm Boy... Boy: what? Girl: i dont like you like that i just like u as friends...i am sorry Boy: i kno im just sayin Girl: ok i just want to make you knew Boy: yep do u want me im sure u do Girl: do i want you? no i dont want anyone Boy: why not you luv me? Girl: cuz i only like you as a friend and a friend only Boy: i kno u want 2 do me Girl: umm no remeber i just want to be friends Boy: ya bf and gf Girl: No just friends whats wrong with you i thought you werent gonna act like this anymore Boy: well i like you Girl: but you shouldnt talk to a girl like that Boy: i know what would turn you on Girl: umm no you dont Boy: ya i do u+me=BED Girl: no Boy: o ya i know ur horny Girl: no and plz stop Boy: why dont u luv me honhun Girl:because i just dont Boy:haha u luv me i knew it Girl: NO I DONT Boy:o yes u do u dont cumm 2 my house Girl: what? no i dont Boy: u kno you want to have sex and i dont blame u Girl: please stop Boy Boy: k then if u dont ull send me a naked pic of urself and if you say no then that means you do Girl:( I have no clue what he ment btw) no i am not like that!!! Boy:o yes ur a naughty dirty girl Girl: WTF no i am not Boy: oh yes you r horny baby and then he stoped after i asked him to but i was wanting ot talk to him tomorrow in persona dn tell him to never talk to me again like that. Is that a good idea? more

Resolved Question: Spiritually speaking, do u find it funny that i saw a "Hebrew National" ad in the R&S section?

i was crusin thru' tha R&S section and in the advertisement section there was an ad for Hebrew National hot dogs. more

Voting Question: wat are some good shoes to wear with skinny jeans?

not to high not to low? i mean i was thinking about etnies and im a girl btw. and i wear a size 4 in skinny jeans and i need some really cute shoes 4 like evryday use? thanks soo much!!! wat do u recommend that r really hot and in fashion? and its my first day of highschool. :) wanna look good ha! noo rude comments plzzz more

Resolved Question: What did he mean by this text?

He knows that I like him and he told me like a weeek ago that he feels bad because he doesnt like me back, but we are friends. and i was texting him last night and he was asking me questions about what exactly i think of him, and I said, "Well I value your opinion more than anyone elses, you give me butterflies, the littlest things remind me of you and you make me happy in the weirdest way" then he said "Well when i read that text I got a lump in my throat and butterflies worse than my first time on top buzz(big rollercoaster) and u know how that feels" I asked him if he meant it in a good way and he said yes. Does he mean he likes me ??? what does he mean? :/ he also told me after that he loves how I like him and arnt afraid to hide it from everyone and that we are close and can tell eachother everything. Also he keeps saying that he isnt hot bcuz i said he was and he said 'no u r bbz' and I said 'sarcasm much?' and he said 'no babe ur like the sun' But i dont know if he was bein sarcastic or not :/ Thanks more

Voting Question: why does everybody think i am bisexual?

a lottt of ppl think i am bi bcuz of the way i look nd the way i act i guess...some ppl thinks its cool nd some ppl are wutever about it...but i tell them i am not bi im straight....nd honestly i have told them i might do stuff with a girl (but like making out nd stuff) but that was after they have asked me if im bi...ok i just want to know y ppl think of me this way nd how to change that...nd making out with a girl doesnt make u bi...bcuz i would never have a relationship with another girl...on second thought could u guys also give me the definition of bisexual...bcuz does it just mean that u r attracted to both sexes or wut??? Thank you guys...nd i just want everybody to stopping thinking that i am bi nd i just want the guys to know that i like guys nd guys only..it is a little irritating bcuz they think its hot nd they focus on trying to make me do stuff with some other girl when sometimes i just want to focus on me nd that guy...thanks again!!!Lol...u guys r crazy but i told them this stuff after they ask me if im bi....like y r they thinking im bi b4 i tell them this stuff....thanks for the crazy nd serious answers....it doesnt really make me mad or anything bcuz i know im not bi...kisses...thanksthanks lyss but i dont look at girls boobs or @ss nd i just said that like for the fun of it one day i would make out with a girl....i wont just do it outta no where...sure i think some girls are pretty but i dont start to like them i like guys nd i like d***s....i dont check out chicks i only check out guys....but thank u anyways nd thank u for ur serious answers. more

Resolved Question: who's hotter, JB or TL?

Justin Bieber or Taylor Lautner????? Tell me the reasons why u like them plz choose TL!!! no offense but if u guyz r stupid: JB's for Justin Bieber TL's for TAYLOR LAUTNER!! more

Voting Question: y do ppl knock down pretty girls?

lots of ppl mostly girls but sum guys will come up to me and say mean stuff like i'm ugly or fat or fake or whatever lots of times i don't even kno them i hav friends who r hot and pretty and ppl do this to them too y beat down the pretty girls? we didn't do anything to u more

Voting Question: gaming desktop building quesitons help!!?

alright, so basicly im deciding to maybe build my own desktop... i wont care about the cost. i care about the performance and kind of noise. also looking at how hot/cold it will/can be. so far all i have is this to run on. Case: is def. full-tower... i just dont know which one to get yet... suggestions please for this as well~ Processor: Intel® Core™ i7 980x Extreme Six Core Processor (3.33GHz, 12MB Cache) (heard theres a way to make it 12 cores? im new to this..) Operating system: Genuine Windows® 7 Ultimate, 64bit, English memory: not sure weather to get 6 gb sticks or 12 gb sticks.... and if i should get 2 or 3/4 hard drive: 512GB Raid 0 (2x 256GB Samsung Solid State HDDs (if theres a better hard drive suggest please~ must be SSD) (solid state) Video card: Dual 2GB GDDR5 ATI Radeon™ HD 5970 CrossfireX™ Enabled or Dual 1.5GB GDDR5 NVIDIA® GeForce® GTX 480 - SLI Enabled??? (if theres a better one again~ please suggest) optical drive: Slot-Loading Dual Layer Blu-ray Burner (BR-R, DVD+-RW, CD-RW) (again suggest better ones please?) sound card? (is it needed...):Creative Sound Blaster X-Fi Titanium (suggest?) and of course the optional Killer Xeno™ Pro Im wondering which liquid cooling system i should get and which motherboard would be best to handle all of these... i know its a lot to ask but i really really wanna know and it would be awesome if u could share your knowledge. (btw if im missing stuff tell me and ill edit it in... my bad in advance ^^;;) thanks a bunch more

Resolved Question: POLL FOR GUYS 19 questions.....................?

POLL FOR GUYS 19 questions..................... 1 would you prefer to be hairy or not? 2 would you prefer to be white or tanned? 3 would you prefer to be skinny and toned or buff? 4 would you prefer to have blue,green,hazel or brown eyes? 5 would you prefer to have blonde,brown,red or black hair? 6 would you prefer to have long legs? 7 would you prefer to have long arms? 8 would you prefer to have a nissan titan or a nissan armada? 9 would you prefer to have unlimites nikes or vans? 10 would you prefer to have unlimited ed hardy or aeropostale? 11 would you prefer to have a big or small house? IF YOU ARE UNDER 16 PLEASE STOP HERE THANX 12 would you prefer to have long tounge? 13 would you prefer to have a medium or big 8===D? 14 would you prefer to have it curved? if yes to the left,right,up or down? 15 would you prefer to have medium or big b a l l s? 16 would you prefer to have long or short fingers? 17 do you like blondes or brunettes better? 18 do you like o r a l , a n a l, or v a g i n a l? 19 if there was a really hot girl lets say the girl of you dreams that would let you do anything to her (s e x things), but with one condition that you f u c k her with another guy and let the guy at leasr give you oral and you to him would you do it? thanx i was just curious for all those things i love to chat, take polls, answer questions so hit me up JESSI11991@yahoo.com more

Resolved Question: Does he like me or does he want me for sex?

There is a guy and he is a bad boy and really popular. He has a girlfriend but on he keeps on starting faceboook messages with me saying "heeyyyyyyy Sexyyyyyyyyy" and we chat on facebook and he keeps on flirting with me big time. and his friends start messages with me and they say things like "do u think taylor is hot" (his name is taylor) and i dont know if he actually likes me or if he just wants to take my virginity (we r both 14)and im like one of the unpopular ppl more

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Resolved Question: My young wives are disrespectful and treacherous. What can I do with them?

I'm a 49 yr old man who is married to four 16-18 yr old women. All my wives have their own seperate houses. They are all good friends and visit, call and email each other often. I regret having allowed them so many freedoms. I recently installed a keylogger on their computers for security purposes and I was shocked to discover their treacherous behavior behind my back. I found many emails and chat transcripts such as the one below: Yahoo IM 7/16/10 Lyla: hi Yas: hi, is that u, whats the password? Lyla: party in the usa Yas: heyyy... what r u up2? Lyla: not much... wrinkle-face will be home soon Yas: oh... that sux Yas: umm so are you guys going to do it today? Lyla: yeah..... probably... *shudder* Yas: lol ! i know what you mean... turn the lights off at least then u wont have to look at his old man body!! Lyla: thanks for the tip :)) lmao Lyla: i can't get the image out of my head now! ewww grosss Yas: its okay.. just imagine he's Iqbal or some other young hot guy.. thats what i do Lyla: omg.... u have a crush on iqbal??? Yas: umm maybe :P not saying Lyla: whatever :P dont we all... he's a hottie Yas: im talking to noor on facebook Yas: did u go see safiya today? Lyla: nooo she has a cold.... poor thing Yas: i would love to be sick with a cold... whatever keeps that creeper away Lyla: i don't know what i'd do without u guys Yas: awww i know.... luv u 2 Lyla: ok have to go! talk 2 u later!! Yas: bye.. good luck! lol.. call me tomorrow Lyla: k.. i will... byee I just spent two hours reading emails and IM conversations and I'm FURIOUS. Lyla and Yasmine were the worst two but Safiya and Noor weren't much better. My initial thought was to divorce all of them and send them back to their parents. But I have decided to give them a warning first. I will call a meeting tomorrow, confront them and make it clear to them that they will be replaced if they do not act like proper wives. Do you think this will make a difference? Any other ideas/suggestions? more

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man,,. what games do u ppl play..(multiplayer) m bored of counter strike,, din try WoW but played cod4.. kinda bored in 1 year...!!!!! what r d hottest games right now more

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can you please name like 10 or more if u can only name a couple thats ok..i wont hunt u down and kill u haha :P thanks every1 :) more

Resolved Question: Does he like me or just want to sleep with me?

I am a 24 yrs old woman. Some weeks ago I met a guy of 30 and we became friends soon. There was a spark and connection the moment we started talking (which doesnt happen with me all the time). After a week of our meeting, we used to chat, talk regularly. We met twice after the first meeting due to our busy schedules and the fact that he stays quite far from where I live (2 hrs car drive). He told me he would like to date me as he is starting to like me in more than a friendly way and wants to see how things work out between us. I agreed and since then he sends naughty texts and chats to me. On phone, he is like a gentleman and the maximum he says is that I want to hug you or cuddle you which sounds quite sweet to me. But in texts/chats he has written, "U look hot in shorts in ur fb display pic, i just wanna taste ur thighs and kiss them", "U have a sexy cleavage. I want to kiss that"," I wanna see you in a bikini". " I want to make love to you baby", "U r so hot and sexy. U dont let me sleep." "I wanna give you a nice massage and kiss your neck", "What u wearing inside today?" When I teased him abt his naughty texts/chats, he said he finds me too desirable and wanted to be honest abt how he feels. I know we both r adults and physical intimacy is a part of an adult relationship. But isnt it too soon to say all this. We just decided to date and have not even gone on one. Does he just want to sleep with me? He sounds quite caring and affectionate when he talks to me and says he wants to take care of me and love me. But his texts/chats r confusing me little bit. I am not saying this is bad, but isnt it just too early or am I overreacting? more

Resolved Question: why didnt she respond?

"ok, so i have a facebook and a formspring. i almost never use my formspring. Today after about a month of not checking it i finally checked it, and this is a question i got: Hey, so umm i've been scared to tell you that I like you because i always think that youwon't like me either because of the way i see you talk to other girls. I think your really hot (ps LOVE the profile pic ;) ) are you interested in anone? Let me know! ok, so i answered that question saying something like 'no, but give me an fb message telling me who u r' but nicer than that. What should i expect? will she actually message me? she could have asked that as early as june 27th (thats when i changed my profile pic), do you think that she would still be checking it to see if i answered it? I dont have any expectations, but what should i expect from this?? nd btw my profile pic was of me flipping off the camera at a pool party XD" that was copy and pasted from one of my questions a couple of weeks ago. she still hasnt messaged me or anything, and i have no idea who she is still. more

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Resolved Question: poll: beach or no tomorrow?

its going to be 96 degrees, my skin is already naturally tan so i dont really want to get a tan. should i go to the beach with my friends or not?? if i dont go, i am their only ride and they wont be able to go either. and due to thier schedules we cant go earlier or later.. so it will be hot. should i call it off or not?? quick decide!!!! BQ: what r u doing tomorrow? more

Voting Question: did he like me and wanna ask me out?PLEASE READ?

OK SO GET READY FOR ONE YEAR OF MY LIFE... AND MAYBE SOME MORE srry if it's long :/ i was 10 and my parents had just told me we were going to move. (14 now) D: i was liiike no i don't want to but i had no choice so i had to so when we were ridnig in our van to go see my new school and get my class i saw these boys playing soccer on the street like maybe 15 blocks away from our house i saw this bblonde boy and i totaly fell in love with him i had no idea who he was. i never saw him in life. well after a few days of unpacking and stuff i decided to go to the small park near my house like maybe 2 houses down. i saw the blonde and found he lived DIRECTLY across from my house i was like omg no way this only happens in the movies. i was pretty excited because i had my first crush at my new house in this new neighberhood before school even started and i didn't even know his name. well guess what I FOUND OUT that wait just guess he was in MY CLASS AND I SAT RIGHT BEHIND HIM what is this a secret movie they're filming that i don' know about?!?!?! i was so shocked by then i got so nervous so it was a pretty upsetting 1st day because no1 at ALL talked to me.. it was torture. then the next day i just met my best friend that i would know for a long time. i just didn't know it yet. I KNOW THIS HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH ANYTHING BUT I JUST WANT YOU TO KNOW EVERYTHING THAT HAPPENED TO ME. IN THIS YEAR. SO PLEASE JUST READ ON so the same day the mystery crush said to me " hey i know you you live across the street from me -street name- am i right? and i was like uh uh uh uh what -.- so nervous..en finaly i came out with a yes think i've seen you .. then he says wel hey my name's d-r-e- I DON'T WANT TO SAY THE NAME becuz wel just cuz i tell him my name nikki and he says k c u around and i found out he walked the same way home that i did -.- WUT A COINKIDINC MY BFF TO BE lindsey... i told her who i liked and i trusted her not to tell AND GUES WUT SHE DID she told every1 at the whole school and then ppl started saying aww you like dE--- and OF COURSE HE FOUND OUT wel after that he started treating me differnetly like more perverted like he'd say hey nikki look and his pants wud be off like halfway and he be showing me his boxers nd i luk away quikly the non-perverted girl i was and he would just laugh. WELL after i saw that there were alot of cute guys i and the girls that i thought this guy was hot they'd tell every1 and that is how i became the slut of 6th grade i don't even know how that works out being a slut by liking alot of guys like one time when i was at my crushes houes de--- and his friends were there (I DON'T EVEN REMEMBER HOW I GOT INSIDE HIS HOUSE ) but i DID nd one of his friends was liek eww that girl likes me and im like wtf who is this dude i had no uidea who he was IM LIKE DUDE I DON'T LIKE YOU hes likes stop lying u no u do slut im like DONT CAL ME A SLUT U F4G I DONT LIEK U ok another question that same day him and his friends stole my 2 scooters and wudn't giv it back thy did this when i went to my house to get something WHY DID HE DO THIS I DON'T UNDERSTAND... WAS IS JUST BECAUSE HE WANTED A SCOOTER OR CUZ HE WANTED TO MESS WITH ME u no i stil don't have that scooter i wundr wut he did with it -.- sumtimes he just pisses me off -_-' he was mean to me since he found out i liked him i don't understand this what was this about and i wasn't that popular at the time btw his sister 2 years yunger thn him was also mean 2 me -.- wel let me tel u tht wusnt fun and her frend 2.. now this is A YEAR DIFFERNENCE whn i was in the mid of 8th grade my frend --rk invited me to there house because he was praticaly over there all the time and he wanted to hang and give make overs (i think he's g4y) he told me that de--- and his sis wanted a truce so im like ok wutev thn he startd being nice to me i was stil realy shy around him now im in highschool and all my friends know him and my friend marrissa knows him and hugs him like evryday so i see him alot he never talks to me idky why is this? this has been bugging me since i dont know how long this is a really stupid question but i like telling people about me because no1 else listens and actualy responds 2 me in real life so there it is thnx 4 readin and possibly answerin mt qyestions ^_^ more

Voting Question: are my red eared sliders sick?

hey do u knw how cn i get rid of my sliders constipation?? dey also r producng bubbles in water and they have sun white stuff on their carapace and one of them sneezed too today?? do u think they are sick?? i searched alot but iam not getting them......i provide them wid warm water despite that i live in an extremly hot country...any clue?one of them is 2 n half inches n the other is 3 n half inches.....d lil one swims with its front legs n rarely uses its back ones...... more