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Open Question: Do YOU know the answer....i dare you to try? i need the help?

SORRY ABOUT HOW LONG IT IS..but 10 points to best answer and 2 points to all answers :) well there are these boys in my estate and im afraid (not so much afraid as intimidated) to walk past them in case they say something to me. Even if i hear them from my house i get intimidated. they have yelled things at me a couple of times before and i try to ignore them but i think they get satisfaction from that. This has been going on for nearly 3 years now. I no there just boys being boys and im not going to tell there parents but im serious when i say i cant pass them.if i hear them i just turn around and try avoid them. They play football in my estate (its like a group of houses or what the call blocks in america) .I cant walk my dog anymore cause i get scared. I no i sound pathetic but i just get so nervous i have no idea why. They never say anything when theres only one on their own . But theres nearly always a group of them and most of them are in the year ahead of me. Im not a chatty person with people i dont no so i cant just talk to them. They used to play dares on me like theyed ring my doorbell (and say something) and i only ever answered once but i said something completely stupid then shut the door .i dont no what there problem is. I also dont want them to hate me?? I no if i try to talk i will say something completely stupid and i will look like an idiot which would only give them more reasons to continue. Its really bringing down my confidence ..as far as i no some of them are quite popular which doesn't help the intimidation side of it :( P.S im 15 and they range from 15-17 this only happend a few days ago but when i was walking my dog they like slowed down in a car and started sayin stuff but i couldnt hear them so i just kept walking....and they were all smiling and laughing and they waved so i waved back but i have a feeling that they wont stop with this stuff and i cant talk loudly and confidently when theres so many shouting at me and making a joke of me (thats what it feels like) i now have to look out for cars..... the amount of times a guy has yelled at me from his car on my walk is just annoying.....a car went seriously close to the kirb (and speeded up) while i was walking my dog....i dont think its the guys from my estate but maybe they told them to do it.....even though now its been goin on for awile i think there random guys btw....i do have friends but not in the area...the only girls that live in my area i dont talk to anymore more

Open Question: i need a guy's point of view on the problem!?

I have this guy friend who I have known for a while and we hang out a lot... And I always get the idea that he kinda likes me and I like him too. But everytime I start to feel assured that he likes me, he turns things around and im left really confused about everything.some stuff he does is when he sees me, he keeps waving and wont stop waving until im next to him. he is always smiling and trying to get my attention...he is always teasing me! And one timee.. His friend was messing around with me and I said: stop following me! And he said: ya stop following her! She's mine!...he would text me at 12 am and he and his friends called me twice and all I heard was laughing and howling.. Then when we were talking he asked me : sooo you like someone? And I said yes and I asked him if he did but he said nope.. At the end of our conversation I said btw I like you and he said thanks so do I. And I told him yur lying! You said you dont like anybody.. And he said yaa I like you as a friend duh! .. Now im confused as to what to do next.. I have no clue what this guy is doing to me and whats going on in his head right now more

Open Question: Can anyone tell me what this bird is?

We had a large bird land on our pine tree. It looked like a crow but was too big.When it turned around it had a bright red beak.It took off too fast to get a really good look. It didn't make any noise. We're in Milwaukee Wisconsin more

Open Question: Why do I get this feeling when "big" things happen?

It all started a few months ago. When, for example, I look at the work I have done on a page and imagine that I scribble all over it (I imagine it, I don't actually do it) then suddenly I feel sick, my stomach feels like it does if you go on a rollercoaster (you know, butterflies? i think), I feel as though I am falling from the sky and that i'm basically going to pass out! This happens whenever something "big" happens. I can't explain the causes very well but it's basically looking at "big" thing such as scribbling on a page or looking at a massive maths table or something - lol. Sounds stupid, I know. But it's terrible. I feel like screaming and crying when it happens. Also, last Thursday it was a school trip and my friends managed to drag me onto a ride called Submission where you all sit on chairs on a rectangular base and it does full 360 degree turns and then hangs you upside down for around 10 seconds. I had this feeling then as well. Could anyone help this? I only just started getting this and it really is terrible. *Quick reminder of what it feels like; -I feel sick -I feel as though i'm going to pass out -I feel as though i'm falling from the sky -I get that horrible feeling in my stomach. more

Open Question: Help me figure this out, plz?

I went to my OB on June 9, thinking possibly I was pregnant. She only did a pee test which turned out negative, she only sent me home and told me to come back on June 24. This time pee test came back positive so she did the whole routine. Pap smear, blood work and even an ultrasound. She said I appeared to be 6 weeks, but I am worried because we didn't pick up a heart beat and from what I gather here on the internet a heartbeat should be able to be detected at 6 weeks. I'm thinking I was probably more around 5 to 5 1/2 weeks. I will admit, the doctor said everything was fine and seemed to be progressing normally. Doesn't it seem logical that I would be more at 5 to 5 1/2 weeks than 6 weeks considering pee test 2 weeks ago was negative? Also, I am having pregnancy symptoms as in the nausea, tender breasts, etc.Yes, trans vaginal ultrasound more

Open Question: rate these rap lyrics?

Please Tell Me Chorus: Please tell me/why/I am/over and over again/met wit the same/old hate…/and can you tell me/how/I can/possibly find a way/to escape I’m the master of ceremonies cuz I’ve mastered ceremonies/ I’m no Soprano but still just as ill as Tony/ I spit defensive lines so there ain’t no way you can hold me/ I only trust those that ain’t threatening or don’t seem to be phony/ I can smell a leech before they even know me/ get the **** away I’m not gon be your homie/ but you still gon latch on when you see me/ just so you can ride my success to sell your stupid *** cd/ somebody tell me why everyone I meet is so greedy/ I’ve yet to meet somebody who ain’t askin me for something/ and even when I try to help what do I get in return/ the answer to that **** is absolutely nothing/ just more rage for me to store away/ just more pain to store in my head that makes it ache/ I’m so pissed off that the next person I meet will have me deciding they fate/ all because they had to ****** use me and turn out to be fake/ when I meet the next person who knows what’ll be at stake Since the day I picked up a pen/my world’s done nothing but go around in circles/ but at least it continues to spin/ i stepped into the trap and it caught me/ I love this **** but still it haunts me/ I’ve tried to bring it to a dead stop/ but just thinking to myself makes the rhymes in my head begin to pop/ speakin of pop it’s been 13 years since I seen or spoke to my dad/ but don’t worry bout it mom was just doin what she thought was right I ain’t mad/ it’s funny cuz I try to make it seem like everything’s alright/ but on the contrary the result of that is writin sad rhymes all night/ two days ago I got the best sleep I’ve had in months/ cuz the nightmares I’ve had for the longest time wake me up/ my worst fears brought to my eyes/ I lost the ability to do the one thing I enjoy and my loved ones died/ but whether it’s just dreams or possibly an omen/ ima stand up to the obstacles in my path/ I’m not a scared lil kid no more/I’m a grown man Born a bastard and met wit nothing but hate/ that’s just my luck I don’t call it fate/ but I don’t care what people think of me or what they say/ if they got a problem wit me they better say something to my face/ I don’t take too kindly to rumors behind my back/ as innovative as the world is brains is what it lacks/ yeah I’m white but I rap and that’s a fact/ ain’t nothing you can say that’ll ever change that/ I’m not a gangsta and have no reason to be strapped/ my words are the only weapons I use to attack/ goin crazy wit rhymes scattered throughout my room/ the chances of makin it are slim so i dunno what I’ll do/ my pen and pad hold the records of my past/ but in the end I’m not sure how long this’ll really last/ I’ve been in the shadows my whole life so I don’t know if I can survive/ I don’t gotta be cast to hell I’ll just take the dive/ maybe my soul will find happiness in death if not when I’m alive scale of 1-10 (10 is best). please provide real feedback, not just "sounds good" or "needs work" tell me why it sounds good or needs work. more

Open Question: whats the name of this song!!!?

No body wins when everyones losing its like one step forward and two steps back... and iii can't change your mind, its like trying to turn around on a one way street... cant give you what you want and its killing me. and i finally see.. maybe we're not meant to be. more

Open Question: ok. very childish and unnecessary drama.?

so i have this friend, we'll call her C. anyway, she has this guy she calls her boyfriend. i'll name him J. he got this friend who wanted to speak to me, we'll call him L. Anyway, i meet L i think L is really sexy. we all normally hang out at J house. Anyway, it just so happen that C talks and spend more time with L than she do with her so called boyfriend B or than i with L. stay with me please. anyway, that is not the issue, now i haven't seen or talk to either J or L for a lil over a week now, they both turned out to be very trifling. couple weeks ago, B calls me at 3 in the morning trying to get me to come over his house talking bout its not like C is his girlfriend blah blah, u know how guys be. me i figure i'll do wat a real friend would do, tell C bout it. well seem like a big mistake since she's im sorry to say real stupid, she listens to everything that man says. Anyway, i dont know what the man told her, now she all over facebook talking bout females don't know how to find their own d***, then she text my phone with a whole bunch of craps, talking bout u think somebody's your friend, then they go stab you in the back and all these...... when i ask her what in the world she talking bout? she just say to stop playing dumb for once and stop acting like im msz perfect. then she going around telling ppl all kind of crazy shit... i just dont understand this at all. anyway, i have deleted her out f my facebook as well as my phone i just figure a true friend would have ame up to me and talk as 2 adults since we are adults. anyway, im confused cause i dont even know whats going on.my bad B or J is the same person. name make up thing didnt work out well more

Open Question: What Do You Think? Is This Legal Or Illegal?

Is It Legal To Hold Somebody In Custody That Is Innocently Apart Of Somebody Else's Crime And Prolong The Case Because They Cant Find Any Evidence Towards The Innocent In Order To Lure The Primary Suspect? When At The Same Time That Innocent Person Is Only Tryin To Better Him/Herself By Joining The Military...Basically That Person Was In The Wrong Place At the Wrong Time And Blindly Helping The Criminal Do His Crime By Doin Somethin Totally Legal And The Criminal Turned It Around And Made An Illegal Move Outta It Without The Innocent Knowing What The Criminal Was Doin And That It Was A Crime?? more

Open Question: A story about Carnevale di Venezia?

I used to live in Italy, and I remember a story my Italian teacher told me about Carnevale di Venezia. The problem is, I don't know what it's called or the name of the main character because it's been five years. Here's basically how it goes: Carnevale is coming around, and at this school, all of the students are excited. They all have extravagant costumes to wear. One boy, however, is really poor, so he can't afford to dress up. The teacher asks for each of the poor boy's classmates to cut out just a little square of cloth from their costume and give it to the boy. They do so, and the boy's mother sews all of the squares onto a sheet. It turns out into an incredibly lovely costume, and everyone lives happily ever after. And that's all I remember. Help? more

Open Question: do moths nest in the house, and what do the nest look like?

i get lots of moths mainly in the lounge, kitchen and hall , do they nest in the loft , and how do i get rid of them , i seem to get rid of a few at a time and turn around and there another . they are driving me nuts , please help, more

Open Question: i have a golden retreiver/shepherd mix. y does he sleep with his nose actually in the corner ?

he makes a point to turn around and lay down with his nose literally in the corner and his backside to me. he does the same thing in the doorway. he is more golden then shepherd. more

Open Question: Has anything like this ever happened to you?

This happened back in second or first grade and I was outside with my friend. We started talking about my dead dad and her dead aunt. At this point we remember no clouds in the sky except for one, plain circular-ish cloud. Seconds later, when I was talking about my dad, I turned around and the same location the normal cloud was in was in the perfect shape of a capital 'R', the first letter of my name. My friend thought it was some sort of 'sign' from my dad..could there have been any sort of logical explanation except for just a coincidence because that doesn't explain how a cloud suddenly just turns into an R. Also, all the other kids just happened to go inside at that time so only me and my friend saw it.No, I think you were just high on drugs, beauty_exprt more

Open Question: Question for Call of Juarez: Bound in Blood players?

Question for Call of Juarez: Bound in Blood players? What's with the iron sights? It's like your gun is at a 45 degree angle and there are no sights on it. I have a Colt Navy from the Civil War and it has a notch sight on the hammer and a brass ball sight on the barrel. And is there any way to turn off the stupid aiming reticule; it really draws you out of the game. Also there's no sound nor impact from getting shot, just a mark on the screen. Is that how it's supposed to be? The whole feeling of movement in this game is so unpleasant. I feel like a geriatric who can't move around coming off playing FO3 and Far Cry 2, like I'm trying to run in a dream and everything is in slow motion. How do you get used to it? For all these reasons I've stopped playing this ten minutes after starting two days ago. more

Open Question: Where is a good place to buy a German Shepherd puppy or adult?

Ever since I was young i've always wanted a German Shepherd, but my parents would never let me have one. I just turned 16 and they believe i'm responsible enough for a dog, but I have to buy it myself. I don't have much money, around $200 at the moment, and all the places i've looked sell them for well over $200. I live in Pleasanton, California, so if you know a good pet store or website that sells German Shepherds for a cheap price then please let me know. more

Open Question: Were We Being Stalked?

My Two 11 Year Old Friends And I. went On A Midnight walk In Chestnut Drive Which Is In Hout Bay In Africa. We Have had Abit Of robbery's Around The Neighborhood. But Here's What Happened We were Walking We Were All Feeling ok Then we Stated To See People Figures Moving Around We Heard Weird Noises But Before We continued. I Saw A Man Run Behind A Car I Told My Friends Lets Go Home we Walked Slowly Backwards We heard Run Behind Us. So We Ran We Were Almost Home But We Had So Much Bad Vibes Coming From around Us. So I Was The Oldest a 14 Year Old Turned Around Frequently Just To Check. Then I Saw A Shadow Of A Man Running I Could Also See That We Had A Blade Which Was Shining in The light We Had distance From Him so We Ran We Got Home And Know Were Are At Home. Now We Are Hearing Crazy Noises And Lights Flashing Around....P.s we Are Not Crazy. more

Open Question: I am an 18 year old with parental issues what should i do?

yea..i just turned eighteen about a month ago. and i recently graduated from high school. ever since that very day my parents have been soooo strict out of no where. I mean i understand I still live under their roof and everything but come on I am seriously barely granted any freedom. I am restricted on the time I get to see my girlfriend and friends. I always have to be back at certain times. they always depend on me for helping around and i do my fair share of chores around my home. All i ask in return is to be my own person. they always involve themselves in what i do and i seriously never get to do my own thing! being an 18 year old with this issue is getting to me. I have tried to talk to them but they are too stubborn to listen to anybody..i have never ever done anything wrong to lose their trust. i am not the type of person to do something stupid becaue i value trust more than anything..but i feel like tied down and its starting to get to meyea so i guess im screwed if my only option is moving out..i really have no where to go and im currently looking for a job perhaps you guys can help me on that i live in the san bernardino/la county in California more

Open Question: Why won't he approach me?

First of all I'm not scary looking so that rules out that possibility. so there's a football player in my class, very cocky attitude from what i can tell; he talks alot in class, doesn't really care much about what other people think of him, etc. He stairs at me in class , and I at him, but he doesn't seem to be making the effort to approach me. After I got my hair done, the day I came to class, he stood outside the door to wait for his friends he usually waits down stairs. Anyway I was talking to the prof. standing by the door, and when i turned around, he was looking at me and when I came out he looked down. The second time, he waited outside the door, and moved to the side.. then when i came out he came back by the door while i was on the phone, then he saw me and moved down stairs. I went down stairs through the other door and sat down to red something. He eventually came down stairs with his friends and his best friend stared at me and tapped him. He didn't come over. What do you think is going on? more

Open Question: will rose petals dry in 24 hours?

i am attempting to be romantic. my girlfriend is coming to visit me tomorrow. she has keys to my house. im going to be at work around the time she arrives. i want her to come home to rose petals in the bed with a note. but, i have to leave early in the morning so i would like to set it all up tonight, sleep on the couch as to not disturb the petals and go to work in the am. but im wondering will the rose petals be dry and hard when she gets here, probably 20 hours or so from now? will they turn black?my apartment is generally cool. about 70 degrees or so. more

Open Question: Can I sue the police department?

I am 19 years old and recently moved out of my parents and into someone else's house, where we split the rent. I knew nothing about him--I had only answered him from an ad placed on a college bulletin board. I also took my 7 year old border collie with me, originally a birthday gift that turned into a beloved family pet. Anyway, about 3 months later, I was sitting in the living room watching television when the police burst into house and demanded for me to get on the floor. I immediately obeyed, although I had no clue whatsoever what was going on (I later learned that they were serving a search warrant because my roommate was a suspect in a robbery). My dog ran up to greet the police officers like she always does with any stranger, and an officer immediately whipped out his pistol and shot her dead! I screamed at him that he had absolutely no right doing that, but they all ignored me as the searched the house and placed my roommate under arrest. When I was allowed to get up, I screamed at the officer that he didn't have to shoot my dog, but he casually said, "My safety was threatened." I asked him how the hell could a 30 pound border collie be threatening if she is running up and wagging her tail. He responded by making a mocking crying voice saying "Oh no! Poor Fluffy bit the dust! What a tragedy! Are you contemplating suicide now? Do you need a grief counselor? Cry me a river!" and then wrote down a number and said, "Here, this is the number to the humane society. Get yourself another for about 50 bucks. Grow up!" You know, I have had that dog since I was 12, she was a part of the family. I feel like a part of me is gone, over something I had absolutely nothing to do with. I did absolutely nothing wrong at all, just sitting and watching television. Actually, you know what? Even if I *DID* do something wrong, that still doesn't justify shooting an innocent pet! Could I sue the police department for mental anguish? This isn't right! Just because you have a badge doesn't give you the right to go around and blast other people's pets away and just shrug and say "Grow up!" I have completely lost every ounce of respect for the police force now...and the next time I hear about one being killed in the line of duty, I think I might very well laugh.LEO53: No thank you, I can handle my problems by myself--I don't need rogue criminals with badges to help me.S C: I sure hope that your opinion was worth the 10 point violation you're about to get slapped with shortly. more

Open Question: HELP!!!! Really am worried about this?

I just bought a Pentax k1000, seeing as to how I am a beginner at photography. I decided to try and load film today, and I was looking on to a guide. After loading, I pressed the shutter release a few times (3 or 4 I think) and the rewind knob turned like the sheet said it was supposed to if the film was loaded correctly. Then, I decided just to take a few more shots, just around the house. But after I took these shots, I realized that the exposure counter didn't move at all. It just stayed at like 2 little dots before zero. Now, I don't know what this means, so what does it mean? Did I do something wrong along the way? Or is it something I shouldn't really be worried about? more

Open Question: i can't forget about him, what does this mean?

this guy would walk past me dead close and stare deep in my eyes, then i didn't see him until a year later and he did the same thing, his eyes were like magnets and i couldn't look away. then a couple weeks later he came into my college and he walked towards me and stared deep in my eyes again, then i walked past him with my friends laughing at something and he had a big grin on his face and looked me up and down, he only spoke to a couple of his mates but he was mainly sat on his own staring at me, then he was sat with his back to me talking to his friend but he wasn't listening to his friend he just kept turning around looking at me. before he left he opened the door looked back at me for a few seconds then left. that was the last time i saw him :( its been 3 years and i cant forget about him, ive tried to forget about him but when i wake up the next morning he's there in my mind again, ive never felt this strongly about a guy before and i don't even know the guy. i think about him and i feel happy and excited and get a warm feeling in my chest. i get a feeling im meant to be with this guy. im sorry this is so long, please help me x more

Open Question: another dog question?

my pit pup is all black except for the bridle around its legs. is there a good chance my pit will turn all brindle more

Open Question: Story (: give your opinion.?

I pulled the metal spoon away from the lighters hot flame as it began to bubble. Watching the powder turn into liquid always fascinated me in a way. I reached out for the syringe in Madolynn's tiny porcelain hand and continued fixing her shot. Somehow the next few hours flew by and before we knew it, it was 1:00AM. We were both in a very euphoric mind set by this point. The Looney Tunes cartoon we were watching had apparently entertained us for quite a while. As my mind began to wonder away like a loose leaf in the wind the room began to spin a little bit. Like I had a mild form of vertigo or something. I focused my eyes on the old painting that hung crooked above the T.V on Madolynn's wall to try to straighten myself out. "This stuff is strong! Where did you get it?" I asked curiously. "I don't really remember." She said staring at me blankly. We both chuckled at how hard the heroin was starting to hit us. "I got to pee." Madolynn boldly said rising from her seat. She had to use the wooden coffee table to steady herself. Looks like vertigo is getting the best of both of us. I giggled silently and walked towards the kitchen for a glass of water. Cotton-mouth. "Hey, you want anything?" I hollered noticing she had already shut the bathroom door. "Hey!" I hollered more impatiently. "Are you okay?" I asked slowly opening the white door. As it creaked open I saw Madolynn's body pulsing on the blue tile floor. My mind flew to a thousand different endings to this situation. None of them seeming good. I ran and sat next to her. Tears flooding my pallid face before I even had a chance to hold a thought still in my whirling head. I placed my hands on her shoulders to hold her shaking body still. Her convulsions slowed as did her breathing. I took my trembling hands off her upper body and placed them to her throat. Her milky skin was clammy and ice cold but more importantly, didn't feel a pulse. As I bent over to put my ear to her chest my tears left a wet stain on her green tank top. There was no heartbeat. So I tried to recall what little bit I learned in medical class. Push. One one thousand Two one thousand Three one thousand Four one thousand I blew my hot breath into her cold flakey lips but there was no response. "You can't do this to me! Come on!" I yelled at her lifeless body. I repeated the CPR and cried for her to wake up through breathless sobs. When I still had no movement form her I reached into her left pocket and grabbed her cell phone. I searched through her contacts and found her boyfriend, Ryan's, number. all the words on the screen ran together. Bad time to be really high. My hands quivered as I told him what had just happened. “Call 911!” Was the last thing Ryan said before he hung up on me. While the 911 operator robotically announced that the officer was on his way (and other things like that) I felt envious of her steady composure. How would she react if the situation was hers? Would she be as calm as she seems now? Her voice became monotone and repetitive as my mind escaped me again. I leaned over and cried into my free hand still holding the cell phone in my other, placing my forehead against Madolynn's stomach. My best friend’s body laid under my shaking hands and there was nothing I could do to help her. She had not taken a breath in over 8 minutes. She wasn't coming back. I don't need medical skills class to tell me that. As the operator repeated the words, “Ma’am? Are you there?” for the third time, a big husky police officer pealed me off the bathroom floor. My mind in such a state of shock that the handcuffs didn't even phase me. He pulled me outside and as he read me my rights Madolynn's body passed by on a yellow metal gurney and I broke into another series of tears. The cop placed his hand on my head and pushed me into the back of his squad car. As I turned around in my seat the red and blue flashing lights hit the brown Buick parked thirty feet behind the cop car. Me and Ryan connected eyes for just a second before we both hung our heads and cried. The misery on his face haunted me for days. I still see that pain when I look into his deep green eyes. 3 years of Jail time on a possession of heroin charge and 2 years of probation later and me and Ryan visit her grave together once a week. more

Open Question: Why are girls more catty than guys in their teen years?

I had a friend and lately she has been turning on me. Why do girls have to be centered around beauty and popularity? It makes them really mean. more

Open Question: A very shy guy! ADVICE NEEDED!!?

OK so there is this guy. He is extremely shy when me and him are alone, he stutters a lot and can't meet my eyes and turns red. When i sit next to him he doesn't engage with me, like he doesn't want to talk to me. But when we are around a big group of people he does pick me out and can talk to /tease me without getting nervous and i see him looking at me across the room. Yet I see him perfectly fine with other other girls and he is not awkward when they in his space and when i come near him he acts like he very fidgety like he wants to go away. He sometimes acts like he doesn't want to know me and then it just makes me think whether he likes me or not. Its it because he is shy ir am I deluded? Advice please!!! more

Open Question: My girl friend wants to have a 3some with me, but I'm not sure if I should ... should I?

My girl friend and I have been dating for almost four years now. I'm 29 and she's 26. We both share a passionate, comfortable, and loving relationship together. I believe she's definitely the girl that I would want to marry. She just recently told me that she would like to have a 3some, but I'm not sure if i should ... should I? She wants it to be a 2 female 1 male 3some. I asked her saying, "what if your friend tries getting sexual with me in the 3some?" She said it's ok that I can have sex and fool around with her friend. With her allowing me to have sex with another girl makes me second guess our relationship ... wondering if she really does love me. I asked her if she'd get jealous seeing me having sex with another female, and she said that she'd be extremely turned on a lot from watching me do that. She told me that it's always been a fantasy of hers to watch her lover being sexual and intimate with another woman. I don't know though, I'm still thinking about it ... should I have a 3some with my girl friend? more

Open Question: Purple banana blue panda bear eating onion roll?

lalalalalal I was driving a car and I saw the sky turn red and i looked around me and saw lots of trees and the sun glowing sickeningly in the sky and people mowing lawns and i see dolphin too and he was chasing a koala up the tree and my mounted my horse and rode to china to get my waffles and my mother called me a naughty boy so i go to ocean and look for fishie but there no fishie more

Open Question: Question for the guys!?

I was hanging out with this girl last night alone. We were at her house and I had my arms around her waist and my hand on her leg. i dont really know what she was thinking though. i was leaving and asked about a kiss goodbye and she said "how about a raincheck", but she said it with sort of a flirty smile. was she turning me down? was she flirting? what should i do next time we hang out? more

Open Question: Can you tell this story was written by someone who speaks English as second language?

* This isn't the whole story and it's the 26th of a series, so, it doesn't make much sense out of the context. I'm posting just for grammar and vocabulary* The sound of the alarm beeping woke her up. The bedroom was dark; nothing but a little light that came through the blinds. Anna Stanley opened her eyes, feeling her head throb. How late had she been out the night before? She didn’t remember. She remembered barely anything. If it wasn’t for the killer headache and the queasiness in her stomach, she probably wouldn’t even remember she’d been drinking. A lot. She took a deep breath and closed her eyes. She forced herself to sit up, feeling her body ache, her whole body, from head to toe. She could practically guess the shoes she’d worn. She knew the different kinds of pain each of her pair of shoes caused, based on design and heel size. She noticed the bed sheets on the floor. Had she brought someone over? God, she hoped not. She took a whiff, inhaling the scent in the air. Nope, no sex. So, she had left the pub alone. Gone alone, left alone. Seemed to be the mantra of her life. She forced herself to stand up, feeling more sharp stings all over her body. Bile burning up her throat. Oh, God. She ran to the bathroom, making it just in time. Never, ever again, she sworn to herself. But, then, she’d made the same promise many a time before. She brushed her teeth, gagging as the water touched her mouth, the remains of alcohol mixed with toothpaste. Never, ever again. She looked at herself in the mirror and shivered, the dark circles around her eyes standing out. She looked so tired. She felt tired. And old. Hadn’t she just turned 32 a couple weeks before? Why did she look so beat down? She knew her features were beautiful, her freckled face was anything but plain, her grayish blue eyes were engaging. But something about her appearance made her look sad. Was she unhappy? She couldn’t afford to give it a thought. Not anymore. She knew, the more she looked into her life, the worst it would become. The trick was to ignore. Ignore that she was 32 years old and had nothing but work. That she came home to an empty flat. Every single bloody night. She felt the tears burning her eyes and washed her face, breathing. She could almost hear the pounding of her head. She opened the medicine cabinet and picked up some painkiller, not even bothering to look which one. It made no difference, she’d take anything to get rid of the pain. She took a handful of pills. Four, five? She didn’t know. Didn’t care. She walked back to the bedroom, turning on the lights and blinking hard. The throbbing in her head stung, and she felt queasiness again. Bloody hangover. She sat on the bed, staring at the window, there was hardly light outside. Was it rain she was hearing? Probably. She could bet it would be cloudy again, the sky gray, rain. Pouring rain. It was London after all. Her mobile rang and she cursed, startled by the annoying song. She looked at the display and smiled. At least it wasn’t someone calling her at work on a Sunday. “Hey, mum.” she said and realised her voice was merely a whisper. A strangled whisper. “Good morning, dear. Or shall I say afternoon?” Angela Stanley greeted her chipperly, stopping when Anna didn’t respond. “Hangover again, darling?” she asked her daughter with a soft laugh. “That predictable, aren’t I?” Anna muttered and heard her mother laugh louder on the other side of the line. “Somewhat.” Angela responded. “You haven’t forgotten you’ve got to pick up your cousin at the airport in an hour, have you?”. She asked and Anna shivered. Bloody hell. She had forgotten. “Of course I haven’t.” she said and felt her head throb harder in protest. The last thing she wanted was to go out in this rain to pick up some cousin she barely knew. “I’ll take him to the house for tea”. “You’re a star.” Angela said. “Yeah, yeah.” Anna muttered, taking a deep breath. “Listen, I’ve got to go. Talk to you later, alright?”. “Off you go, dear.” Angela said and hung up. Anna put the mobile back on the nightstand, her eyes stinging with tears again. She didn’t want to go out. She didn’t want to get off the bloody bed. Her head throbbed harder, and she felt the bile come up her throat again, burning its way up. Full throttle. And all she could do was run to the bathroom and throw up.Yes, I've written it. People are often impressed with how well I can speak/write in English. But, since my first language is Portuguese, I'm always scared it'll be obvious if I ever go to a publisher and they'll never want to read anything from me again. Though, publishers, are in a distant future! :-)Yes, I'm going for simple words on purpose. I can use bigger words if I want to, but I don't find it attractive. It usually feels forced and pretentious, as if the writer spent a long of time looking for words that would make people go 'wow'. A quote I really love is: "It's hard to write a book that is easy to read". That's what I'm going for, not for lack of knowledge, but because it's how I like to read, and find more interesting.Ahhhhh, thank you. The *end* of the line was a distraction... it happens. And the other one I found weird, but wasn't sure. Thanks! And of course someone will proofread and I've got to have an agent.lintu, while your advice is interesting, it's most about style, not language, that was what I was looking for. I do enjoy cutting my sentences, but only in my short stories. This isn't a novel. When I write a novel, I usually use a whole different structure. And everything I read is in English, unless I have to read something in Portuguese for Uni. I can't stand translations. more

Open Question: Are deep pores a turn-off for girls?

I'm sixteen and I've had oily skin from when I started puberty. I get deep pores around my nose and chin. I've got facial hair around my chin so they're not that noticeable there, but they're quite visible on my nose. Is this a big turn-off for girls?Ofcourse I wash my face daily with an exfoliating scrub, so there's no need to tell me to wash. more

Open Question: What is the french horror film..?

What is that french movie where the two college girls where going to the country side *one girl short blond one girl brown hair* To visit the brown hair girls family of three *Mom Dad and brother* And a guy in a truck comes in at night and kills the family slits the moms neck while the blond is in the closet watching kills the dad on the stairs shoots the brother kidnaps the brown hair girl and the blond girl chases after her, but it turns out the blond girl is really the killer and the guy is the one trying to help Its hard to explain it but i saw it along time ago I believe the cover had the blond girl with a plank of wood with bob wire wrapped around it.. GRR its bugging me please help! thank u lolz. more

Open Question: I am a co-owner of a duplex and am wondering whether I have to pay rent for the unit I am living in?

My cousin and I both inherited a duplex which was co-owned by our respective parents. I took out a mortgage to buy out my brother's share, and am currently living in the lower unit. My cousin does not live upstairs and it is sitting empty and has never been rented. If she chose to do so, would I be entitled to half the rent income? Also, could she turn around and ask me for half the value of the rent for the lower unit, if I am presently living there and it is my principle residence? more

Open Question: My girl friend wants to have a 3some with me, but I'm not sure if I should do it ... should I?

My girl friend and I have been dating for almost 2 years now and she said she wants to have a 3some, but I'm not sure if i should ... should I? She wants it to be a 2 female 1 male 3some. She said it's ok that I can have sex and fool around with the other girl. With her allowing me to have sex with another girl makes me second guess our relationship ... wondering if she really does love me. I asked her if she'd get jealous seeing me having sex with another female, and she said that she'd be hella turned on a lot from watching me do that. I don't know ... should I have a 3some with my girl friend? more

Open Question: Can you turn gay over night?

Alright, one day i went to bed as per usual and i was 100% straight not gay at all! fully into females, and i had a dream about a male when i went to sleep (I thought it was sick, i hated it fully!) and from this day around 5 days ago, i've been worried about it like afraid about turning gay, because i actually dread it.... and now i'm sure i'm not gay but i think the worry has gotton me down and now i've been that worried i'm not really paying as much attention to females, but not looking at guys at all. Any help will be great, thanks alot guys in advance! (Please no religion point of views i'm not interested)19 by the way and have had sexual relations with females from the age of 15.aha but thanks guys for the comments, made me feel a whole lot better. Life savers! <3 more

Open Question: how do i check a capacitor on an ac unit?

i have a trane ex100 (outside) i heard a humming noise. I tried to remove the Panel and look around a bit. The unit is not getting cold anymore. I turned the air conditioner back on and it seems to draw excessive current, (while buzzing or humming) for 2 to 3 seconds then the fan starts slow and then runs it seems that the compressor is not staying on i went back in and the fan is blowing air through the vents luke warm (the copper pipes are not cold.) so it seems the freon is not going through the compressor so do i need to change the compressor or can i start with the capacitor or something first? and how do i check the capacitor ? more

Open Question: What is wrong with my girlfriend? Is she abusive?

Ive been in a relationship for about 5 years. In the beginning I moved in with her from my parents to her parents. During the time i spent with her at her parents, there was multiple times when situations around the house became very heated due to the fact of her brother's huge drug problem and all the crap that goes along with it. To make it worse her mom would give her brother money and keys knowing that her car may be wrecked and he would spend the money on drugs! She really didn't care and did nothing to prevent his bad actions due to his drug problem. I told my girlfriend that she should try to help her brother but she wouldn't. I have had to live with all this drama for so long, its making me sick. After totally changing my lifestyle to accommodate her silly family, i had to quit my school 13 credits from my degree. I have given up my aspirations("school") so she could go to nursing school, while i take care of our baby. After moving out of her parents into our own house it seem that her parents troubles keep following me around. This is just a little background so you can see the situation i am in. Now a days she seems like she doesn't want me anymore. We argue constantly, over really simple crap. Today after cleaning the kitchen, table, chairs, basically making the house spotless while i sweat, she told me that i couldnt make a mixed drink, basically being really mean to me. to make it worse her friend("who is very controlling herself") who just moved in yells at me like shes my mother and being 25 i dont need any one telling me what to do. She doesnt do anything in the bed, sex is really bad, i have to beg for it, i even have to beg for kisses. often if i approach her she turns away or pushes me away. she is starting to act crazy like her mother. She makes me feel unloved, after i try so hard to keep her happy. Im starting to think that I should leave her. I often have to go to our room because I dont like getting into fights infront or my roommates. So i just sulk and get angry and go to sleep. She is emotionally and mentally abusing me. No sex No loving No touching. I told her about this lazyness crap and how i need affection. But she dont care. Im about to tell her i cant be there for her emotionally, but i will stay for my kid. What should i do? more

Open Question: Does this sound like a mother to you?

I can still remember the first time i ever saw him, and gosh i was scared to death when his cries went louder than that of his older brother. I became concerned and really wanted to run for my life, how was i going to take on another one when i was having big enough problems with the one i had already. His mother must have been able to see that i wanted to get out of that room and like her other son, she wanted to ditch him on me and give me no place to run. Without any warning she stood out of the hospital bed and threw the baby into my arms and locked herself in the bathroom. I knew how baby's like this were so i wanted to give him to the next person who came in the room and run for my life out. I was thinking this not even aware of what was happening in my surroundings. When i finally came back to reality, i noticed that the baby that was screaming when he was placed in my arms was quiet and looking up at me with his big dark blue eyes as if questioning 'Where have you been?' I stood there holding him for a while and soon i didn't want to let him go. When somebody finally came in the room and offered to take him i didn't want to let him go, he had fallen asleep. At last because my arm had fallen asleep i handed him over and as soon as he was in her arms he started crying again, she handed him back to me and ran out, quiet again. It was a few days later that we took Cameron home, and even then his mother didn't want a thing to do with him. Pretty much every second i was home i had him on my hip. You know what she even tried getting me in trouble when i took him to the library to get a book i needed for school, even though she wasn't there and i had told her i had to go. Everybody sided with me on that, and you know what soon enough she even started ditching him on me in the middle of the night, leaving him in the living room crying. I couldn't stand hearing this baby cry so i would get up out of bed even though i was only 14 and tend to the child. On top of that Cameron wasn't even two months old when his mother left leaving him to my mother who worked two full time jobs at the time. Mainly i became a mother to him and i soon came to notice, that he was a lot like my son. Like the first time he spoke most babies would call out for mama or Dada, nope not little Cameron, only seven months old and he shouted out clear as day "Shannon". If I wasn't wrapped around his finger before that, I was definitely after it. I couldn't believe i had such an influence on him that he called out my name first. then shortly after that he was crawling and guess what, the first time he crawled, i turned around and tripped over him because he was following me around. I also remember when i came home from school when he was only ten months old, my soon to be step father was trying to tech him how to walk. I stopped at the door to watch and as soon as he saw me, he walked right over to me, that was one point i was so happy that i cried. Anyway Cameron is older now, but me being there for him when he was just a little guy has had a lasting effect on him. Since his mother left when he was so small he doesn't know her at all, and all my mother told him was that his mother was her daughter. So automatically he turned to the only one of my mothers daughters that he knows... Me! He thinks i'm his tummy mommy and even though i tell him that I'm not he still tells me that he knows i am. i have done everything for this kid but birth him since the day he was born and he is getting to be more difficult to deny. I don't think i could love him any more if he was my own child. Does this sound like a mother to you? more

Open Question: Can you help with my air conditioner?

Open Question: <windows root>\system32\hal.dll?

Ok, i think this question belongs here, so here it goes. a little background info on the problem: i have 2 computers in my room, right next to each other. i turned them both off at about 3 am and went to bed, they were both working fine. today i woke up at about 2 pm and turned them on, both had the error in the title. the computer im on at the moment is a compaq, while the other is a northgate. the compaq is about 4 years old while the northgate is around 7. i ran a system recovery on my compaq, and now everything is up and running, surprisingly better than before. the only problem is on that on the northgate, when it boots up, there is no system recovery option. i know that if you put in the windows xp cd that things should work, only problem is that the compaq was bought off a friend, and neither of us have the cd, and the northgate is 7 years old, and i have obviously lost the cd. i have put the file onto a flash drive, but when i put it in and turn on my pc, no button will do anything to do, and i know that hitting escape is supposed to load it. i have also tried contacting northgate, but of course, they are out of business. if you have any way that could possibly help me i would be very grateful. 10 points for best answer! thanks sincerly anon more

Open Question: Is it my fault the friendship ended?

My friend and I went to high school together, and I had a hugh crush on her, and after high school, but we stopped talking for 5 years. Then a year and a half ago, we started working together again. We both were getting out of bad relationships, and I thought maybe this was our second chance. I took things slow, we started hanging out a few times a month, then in september we started hanging out a lot. We would go out at least once a week, dinner and movie, and we talked everyday, sometimes non-stop, and she would say things like sorry for being a bad date. She came to my house for thanksgiving, and we made half of each others plate, I got her the turkey, she put corn and stuffing. We would always do things like that. After 2 months of this in December, I decided to tell her because I thought she felt the same. She didn't. She said she didn't want a boyfriend, she wanted to focus on school, and the church she goes to was really strict on dating, like they have to go to the church, and ask the preacher for permission to date, and no kissing until they married. Since then, things have been getting bad. We still hung out at first, but we started talking a little less, although it was still everyday. Then, in April I got her flowers as a april fools joke to make it seem like she had a secret admirer, but the people at her work told her I got them, and she didn't get the joke. At first we jokes about it, then a few hours later, she said it was weird and that we had to stop talking and hanging out. After that, things got really bad, we didn't see each other for a long time, and when we talk, it felt force. I felt bad, like she didn't really see me as just a friend, and I got upset that she turned me down, so I started talking about us dating, and she would get mad. She told me she saw me as two people, the friend, and a guy who was trying to date her. We wouldn't talk for a couple weeks, then start talking again only for us to come back up. I felt like she didn't really give me a chance, especially since she only dates mexican guys "romantically" and I'm half white. (She said she dated other guys, but not romantically, which I didn't get?) I asked her if we could go out a few times, see if anything was there, since we use to get along so well, I felt there was. She said she didn't have those feelings for me. We stopped talking for a couple weeks, then we had lunch again on Saturday. We started talking about us again. She told me her friends had talked her into dating again, and she was looking for a boyfriend. I was shocked, and felt like it was a complete change for her. She told me I would have to get use to it, and that the dating was going to begin, and that the only reason we hung out so much was that she felt bad saying no. I thought about it, and my feelings for her are so strong that I didn't think I could be around her and a another guy. I really want to be able to be friends, but I have never liked anybody like this, and every time I tried to talk to her, she told me to stop asking Questions. We have been fighting all week, and she would say that she didn't feel bad, at least she tried to be friends. I told her it would be better if we stopped talking, and all she said was "goodbye chris... thx for everything" Was it my fault we stopped being friends? more

Open Question: Why does my cat do this?

It seems like every time my cat passes by the corner of a wall he arches his back. He will be walking fine, but then when he turns a corner in the house he will arch his back really high and then turn around and look at me lol. It can be any corner, the corner of a cabinet, a wall, anything with an edge. My boyfriend says he is trying to act tall but i dont think so. what do you think? more

Open Question: Is the end of the friendship my fault?

My friend and I went to high school together, and I had a hugh crush on her, and after high school and we stopped talking for 5 years. Then a year and a half ago, we started working together again. We both were getting out of bad relationships, and I thought maybe this was our second chance. I took things slow, we started hanging out a few times a month, then in september we started hanging out a lot. We would go out at least once a week, dinner and movie, and we talked everyday, sometimes non-stop, and she would say things like sorry for being a bad date. She came to my house for thanksgiving, and we made half of each others plate, I got her the turkey, she put corn and stuffing. We would always do things like that. After 2 months of this in December, I decided to tell her because I thought she felt the same. She didn't. She said she didn't want a boyfriend, she wanted to focus on school, and the church she goes to was really strict on dating, like they have to go to the church, and ask the preacher for permission to date, and no kissing until they married. Since then, things have been getting bad. We still hung out at first, but we started talking a little less, although it was still everyday. Then, in April I got her flowers as a april fools joke to make it seem like she had a secret admirer, but the people at her work told her I got them, and she didn't get the joke. At first we jokes about it, then a few hours later, she said it was weird and that we had to stop talking and hanging out. After that, things got really bad, we didn't see each other for a long time, and when we talk, it felt force. I felt bad, like she didn't really see me as just a friend, and I got upset that she turned me down, so I started talking about us dating, and she would get mad. She told me she saw me as two people, the friend, and a guy who was trying to date her. We wouldn't talk for a couple weeks, then start talking again only for us to come back up. I felt like she didn't really give me a chance, especially since she only dates mexican guys "romantically" and I'm half white. (She said she dated other guys, but not romantically, which I didn't get?) I asked her if we could go out a few times, see if anything was there, since we use to get along so well, I felt there was. She said she didn't have those feelings for me. We stopped talking for a couple weeks, then we had lunch again on Saturday. We started talking about us again. She told me her friends had talked her into dating again, and she was looking for a boyfriend. I was shocked, and felt like it was a complete change for her. She told me I would have to get use to it, and that the dating was going to begin, and that the only reason we hung out so much was that she felt bad saying no. I thought about it, and my feelings for her are so strong that I didn't think I could be around her and a another guy. We have been fighting all week, and she would say that she didn't feel bad, at least she tried to be friends. I told her it would be better if we stopped talking, and all she said was "goodbye chris... thx for everything" Was it my fault we stopped being friends? more

Open Question: I'm nearly 30, I have no friends and find it hard to meet caring, nice people?

I am almost 30 years old. I was recently at the height of my career, as a Producer, making music videos and music programmes for bands / singers like The Zutons, Lily Allen, Corrine Bailey Rae, etc etc. My career packed in with this credit crunch, I couldn't get any work. I have been working as a receptionist since then and for the last 7 months, it was the only job I could get for decent pay after my last music job with Yahoo! Music. I feel a bit low about this but feel lucky to have an income. Maybe this career thing has contributed slightly but I was the way I am now, whilst at the height of my career as well. My problem is that I don't have any friends. I had only ever had a few friends all my life, but they have moved away and I have realised they were never that genuine anyway, because it was always me making the effort. I was bullied at school so I don't really have any childhood friends. My boyfriend is fantastic, I love him very much and I have met people through him that are very nice people but they don't live in London where we live. Everyone I meet through work or in other situations outside of my home life - they don't seem to be the types of people I can be friends with. I hate being fake, that's why it took me so long to get to the height of my career, because I didn't do what others did so easily, which was to suck up and to act like someone that I am not. I know that you have to act appropriately within different situations but I don't think that you should have to pretend to be someone that you are not. I find it hard to meet kind, nice people, who are genuine and have similar interests and so forth. I do venture out into social situations, I do volunteer work, I go ou ton work nights out, and so forth but I find myself loosing more and more confidence not only in myself but in people in general. I meet so many people that seem to be two-faced, or talk behind other peoples backs, that will use people to get further in life and will pretend to care about you but then they're not there for you when you need them. I tend to listen in a group, more than talk. I get nervous when I start a conversation and everyone looks at me sometimes. I don't like being the centre of attention but I can confidently manage a set and crew when Producing a music programme. It's weird. I am still being me, but confident within my work role in music. Although it's been 7 months now that I have been a receptionist rather than doing what I love to do, which is work within music and I am getting slightly afraid of gonig back to it, in case I find that I am nervous there as well or that I have forgotten how to make something good! I know it is a confidence thing and it seems silly to still be this way at almost 30 years old. Am I big-headed or a horrible person for thinking a lot of the time that the people I meet, from all walks of life, are usually very fake, not genuine and really self obsessed? If I start talking, I usually get talked over. People seem to wait for their turn to speak and don't listen to what I am saying and they'll try to turn conversations around to themselves, people like to bitch and moan. I'm sure everyone can't be like this, but I meet all sorts of people, of different ages, from different backgrounds and in different careers and I tend to find most people are fake and devious in some way. Is there something wrong with me? I find it so hard to become close to people and trust them. I suppose I have always been a bit of a "love, peace and happiness" kinda person - I don't like to speak negatively about anyone I care about or know well and I like to be there for people if they need me, I like to cook for other people and care for others, I like it when I make people laugh or feel good about themselves, I like to hear about other people's cultures and backgrounds. I do know people that think of me as a friend, but only when they seem to need something or someone there for them. Then they come to me, because I listen and try to help as much as I can. But it seems that they are never there for me when I need to talk to someone. They don't think of me when going out or doing something social. I feel used a lot. I am easy going and find that people can take out their bad moods on me and know that I wont mind. Everyone can have a bad day. I do things wrong like everyone else. I have done stupid thigns that I have learnt from. I know that everyone can have a bad or an off day. But why can't I meet some nice people anywhere and make some really good friends? Is it me? Or is it just that it is actually a hard thing to do? more

Open Question: How to get abs and Pectorals?

I know that their are many places to find out how to get abs and what type of food to eat to get them but i believe that that information is not for everyone i. I think that it depends on your weight, height, strength and much more. I weigh around 145-155 lbs. and I am about 5' 8'' tall. I really have no muscle and i have a stomach but not a big one. Would i would like to know is what i should eat daily and what workout i should do to get abs. Right now i am doing the 8 minute abs video but i know it takes more than that. I also have "man boobs" and would like turn them into muscle. If any more information about me is needed please let me know and thank you for you help. I appreciate it more

Open Question: What is this song called!?

okay I really like this song and i don't know what it's called or how the lyircs went but, in the music video it had a guy just sitting down at a piano in this room and everything around him changed just like the weather. Like in the music video it rained. And then it turned sunny and then it turned winter. But at the end of the music video the piano fell apart. It's a really god song and I really liked it. Plz help. more

Open Question: my wife and i have not had sexual relations in year any help?

i had posted about we were headed for a divorce well we talked she doesn't want that and neither do i am older she is 25 i am 36 we both were married and divorced before we got together.we have A son we split last year for 8 months she talking with someone not seeing and i turned to drugs and alochol in the last 4 to 5 months i am clean and sober completely and i clean her place we live next to each other for got that we have a son that is challenged and i have him alot during the day and in the evenings i have a other children to they are 21 doughtier a son that is 11 and a doughtier that is 7 we have no time really to do alot together but its been a year she helps her mom on a sunday and works at a stand i dint have a car at this moment financial reasons she stays saturday night and watches her niece.we go for walks we fool around with one another but the activity stops there she is a diabetic and before she got with me a guy we know rapped her we hit a dry spell then understandable then one bang and she got pregnant since birth of our son she hasn't been active here and thee this is the longest we went with out not even a kiss for the most part now it gets better but as soon as she gets us to the point of attack she stops and i back away not going to force her the other problem is everyone says get something on the side i been so devoted to this women i cant and i had trouble in the past she 25 long brown hair weighs about 90 pounds 5 foot and is the most Beautiful women i see i dint really look around she is my world and my children.but it is getting to much the waiting she says it will be just a little while yet.i love her so i wait but its getting bad and the stress is building.as far as screwing around on her i cant i love her to much to do that and i cant just do a animal act like that its not my nature i have to have feelings for someone to actually sleep with them with this one when we were active it was more than just sex it was amazing and not bragging about it i have experience in that department.any help tried everything and i even tried the romantic stuff to the just get naked and go at it but nothing she is always over at me talking when im in the shower and trying to get a peak i think when we met i was 350 pounds i am down to 170 and im not a small guy in that area she does like that she says that isn't the problem the size matters i have the size she likes.any help would be great she did say a while ago it hurts a little at first and for a white guy she was shocked. more

Open Question: What does this dream mean?

I get off the bus and dropped off at my house. Only my house isn't really something I am particularly familiar with. I start walking down a cobble stone path to my "home". My home apparently was a haunted castle with lightning striking above it. The wind blew across my shoulders. "Brr...", I complained. I heard what thought to be be a ten though folds of footsteps marching behind me. Turning around I saw a military formation stampede of gignormous Pacman Ghosts. They were all black and white with Darth Maul's Lightsaber. "Oh crap..." I said under my breath. I bit my lip as I took off running towards my castle's entrance. Grabbing the handle I realized the doors were locked. "KATHLEEN LET ME IN!!!" I yelled. "Can't you see I'm busy?!" She replied annoyingly. Looking behind me, they were getting a lot closer than before... "KATHLEEN!!!!!!!!!!!" I hollared. "ALRIGHT THEN, SHEESH!", She used some magical source and pulled me in as the door shut on it's own. This was not the home I was familar with... The ground was medievil cobble stone like. It was unbelieveable. Kathleen was in a lazy boy chair next to the fireplace with her 3000 Cross-stitch machine. I watched her place a cross-stitch pattern through a slot and it stitched the patern out on fabic perfectly in less than 2 minutes. I was impressed. "Kathleen, will you help me with some homework?" I paced towards her and placed my black backpack down besides my leg. "Go ask your father... I'm busy." She said as she was placing another pattern in the slot. "Ok then...", I picked up my backpack and paced to the corner of the room where lead a spiral staircase going up. When I got up I opened a door...it was so sudden... "Oh baby... I would so leave you for my wife..." Steven said. My jaw dropped open. He was talking to a red camaro... Steven kissed his camaro affectionately. "Oh baby...let's make love!!!", He ran his fingertips on the camaro's side. "VROOMM VROOOOM!!!!!" The camaro roared back. I sank back leaning against the entrance. "Baby...oh you're so sexy..." He cooingly said. "VRRROOOOMMMMMM!!!!!" The camaro roared again. "Oh really Sexy?...Well...I have been...you know...working out..hehe." He smirked. "Hey...how about you and me...lets make love baby... Don't worry...I'll be gen--" He turned and looked my way. My mouth was still hanging open. "KITTEN!!!! DIDN'T YOU SEE THE DO NOT DISTURB SIGN?!?!!?" Steven spazzed. "N-no..." I gasped... He slammed the door in my face. "Now...where were we..." He seductively said. "OH YEA!!!" He moaned. "VROOOOOMMMMM VROOOOOMMM!!!!!!!!!!!" The Camaro roared. I slowly walked down the staircase with my backpack in hand. "Awkward..." I sung in my thoughts. "Kathleen... Will you help me with homework?" I asked. "I thought I told you to go ask your father!!!!" She yelled. "Uh...he's too busy doing something..." I said. "And by doing something I mean literally screwing...wow... I will never look at our car the same ever again...neither my father either...wow..." I thought inside my head. "GO ASK YOUR FATHER!!!" She yelled. "Hold up... I'm dreaming..." I said softly. I looked around and paced towards the 3000 Cross-stich maker machine. I picked it up and threw it in the fireplace. "KITTEN ANGELA SPENCER!!!! YOU'RE GROUNDED!!!!" Kathleen screamed. "IDC YOU'RE NOT MY REAL MOTHER ANYWAYS!!!" I punched her in the face knocking her out and woke up. So what does this dream mean? more

Open Question: What shall i get my best friend?

Its my best friends birthday and i wanna get her something (shes turning 15) around £20. Any ideas? more

Open Question: How do I turn my life around?

When I was a teenager my mother always told me I was a loser, weird, crazy, out of control, even though I didn't ever do anything to deserve being called those things. I grew up thinking I was stupid, so I never thought I could do anything. As soon as I graduated high school I ran off and hitch hiked around BC for a year and a half and had some really good and some really bad experiences. Then I ran out of money and went home. I stayed in my hometown for 8 years doing nothing, just working boring jobs I hated and feeling unhappy. I tried going back to school several times but always got scared at the last minute and backed out. I was in an abusive relationship and had some other horrible experiences along the way, too. I was also diagnosed with depression. Then last summer I decided to leave again because I've always wanted to live in the mountains, so now I am. It's beautiful here, and I'm proud of myself that I came, but being in a new place has made me realize how scared I've become. I don't really talk to people. I've become really shy and low in self confidence. I finish work, come home, and stay here. I have no friends here. It's partly because I don't really fit in. . .most people here are huge into smoking weed, doing coke and getting durnk every night. I go out dancing and drinking sometimes, but I find it really hard to connect with people, and it's frustrating and scary. I'm 27 but I feel like I'm 19 because I stopped living my life when I was around 19. I just want to have fun and enjoy my life like everyone else, but I don't know how. I'm afraid I'm going to become a spinster with 18 cats and no life. So. . .how do I break out of my shell? How do I figure out what I want to do and DO IT??? Thanks in advance! :) more