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When Are Employers Required to Pay Overtime? - Associated Content

even though they are clearly employees ... no matter what you call him. By the same token, labeling someone "management" in order to get out of paying overtime is similarly slimy. Here's the deal: Some employees are ...

Taco Bell(R) And MTV Make Beautiful Music Together While Feeding Today's ... - Marketwatch

2010 (BUSINESS WIRE) -- Today's hottest artists are waiting to see if they will win at the 2010 MTV ... Present: A Concert with Jason Derulo and Never Shout Never," brought to you by Taco Bell and Feed the Beat,

What Do You Do with Reggie Bush's Heisman? Don't Give It to Vince Young. - Bleacherreport.com

While many will say that Young ... on CNNSI Wednesday that if they take Bush’s Trophy away he’d no longer vote for the award. That’s OK Joe I’ll gladly take your vote. Others have said if you are going to ...

How to Tell If You're Islamophobic: While I Hear Americans Say They're "Not Anti ... - Associated Content

no matter how much many Islamophobes ... as Muslims become afraid to say they're Muslim), that infringes on the first amendment rights of Muslims who, in most cases, are just as 'American' as you are.

Press-Register Sound Off: Beach sand is beautiful; No sympathy for serial killer - Everything Alabama Blog

Wish you had a life ... no matter what crime they have committed. -- I agree with the caller who has no sympathy for Thomas Whisenhant. I was a young bride, 19 years old, when this happened. I lived within a few ...

What Will the You of 2020 Say about the You of 2010? - The Chronicle of Higher Education

... worked so hard when they ... no matter what kind of person we are, and I want to focus a bit more on the person and not the accomplishments. What about you? What do you want the person you become in 2020 to say

Family Man ~ Movie Review of ‘The Kids Are All Right’ - Gather.com

... very sturdy they ... but no father. I have seen Hutcherson in several roles and I must say that this is the first one where he came off well. In his past roles he has played the sort of teen with a smirk that you

Stink bugs are coming for you, too - Pittsburgh Post-Gazette

I'd like to say ... is why they have no predators here. Even pigeons aren't that stupid. Well, I wasn't going to take this lying down. I was going to take it on tiptoe, cringing and yelling, "Sweetie? Can you come in ...

Are You Really Ready for the October LSAT? - US News and World Report

Here's what they had to say ... time wisely so you can submit your applications in EARLY January. (Late January IS the end of the world, and a February LSAT score for fall admission is too late – no matter what ...

Weekend brunch: Seven L.A.-area restaurants that are doing it right - Los Angeles Times

those all you-can-eat affairs where ... But no matter, I just left my name at the door and strolled up Abbot Kinney Boulevard to Tortoise to browse the store's Japanese ceramics and cookware. Half an hour later,

Open Question: Shall i GO for marrige coming in mod october 2010?

HI, i am 28, My parents were finding a girl 4 me since last 3 years, but unfortunately due to some job problem (as i m working in a private job but good earning but mostly peoples importance government sector). Finally my parents find a girl for me (she is 24, but financially week, live in a small town) and they asked me for see the girl face to face. My father is a Branch Manager in a public bank. After one week programme has been settled for meet the girl with my family. Actually my mother had seen this girl before and liked because girl home and my mom' real house is the same town. I saw d girl and talked her but i was little confused because she is average girl, not very beautiful and i am a very handsome and very fair, sharp features boy with very good looking. After this my parents told me for engagement for that girl but i told you that girl is not beautiful as i, my father convinced me that there are no other option in front of us, we have to marry you and you are 28 now. i don't know but after all opinions to my parents and relatives i replied "YES". Pta nhi us samey muje kya ho gya tha ki mene ha kar di…… After two days i got engaged with that girl. after engagement i started to talk on phone but she is very simple i feel, and replied shortly but she is caring about me (aisa lagta hai) . But i m still confused that she is not d write girl for me. I asked my many freinds that what should i do, then some of them are says that you are more beutiful than the girl , you can find a better girl for you and some of them are says that this is the write girl for you, looks does not matter than nature. After that i am so frestated and i talked my father for break this engagement but he says " Ladki ki Baddua lagagi, usne tumse sapne dekhe honge, usme kami kya hai, wo itni buri to nahi hai, average hai, lekin tumhare sath chalegi to pair accha lagega" n all that. and " sab ko pata chal chuka hai, kitni badnaami hogi, aage rishta bhi nahi hoga" Finally i m too confused that what should i do : how can i break this engagement without hurting my parents..Ladki walo ki nature bhi acchi hai...but i m very confused that shall i go for marrige or not..my marrige has been fixed in Mid November 2010...what should i do..Please Help me out Girls feeling is " she is very happy and she told that she has not expected such a beautiful boy as me" and of course in looks i am 100% more than her that's why i m confused. Furthermore i talks her only she wants without concert rationing her words. Shall i go for marrige or not..another my father is very strict and very happy with this girl..and giving advance for benquet hall, band, halwai and all.... more

Open Question: What do you think of this excerpt from my story?

I shifted uncomfortably in my little plastic seat and stared out the floor to ceiling window at Gate 15A. I took a deep breathe and rose to give my ticket to a smiling brunette. I barley heard her cheerful wishes for a “terrific flight”. I was too busy thinking of things only slightly more cheerful than the resent deaths of my mother, Hazel, my father, Wade, and my remarkable and irreplaceable twin sister, Fawn. But can one ever really replace a twin no matter how lackluster or unremarkable? I have a feeling the answer is no… I had loved Fawn. Like a sister because we fought, like a best friend because we laughed, and kind of like a pet because no matter what I told her she would understand and if she didn’t she would nod along as if she did. Fawn was the most beautiful person I had ever known, inside and out. And although we looked almost identical on the outside, her heart was probably three times bigger than mine. Maybe I should have asked the mortician to check… I guess you could say I had recently acquired a taste for dark humor, though it never made me laugh. My attempts to distract myself didn’t work and by the time I found seat 27E, my mind had found it’s way back to my impending doom; New York City. I didn’t clamor with excitement the way a regular 15 year old girl would if she were traveling there. My brain was buzzing with fear and apprehension because I wasn’t a regular 15 year old girl. I silently said my goodbyes to sea lions, sand dunes, and beautifully rainy summer days. I said goodbye to my home; Seaside, Oregon. Although the warm months had passed I also gave my adieu to 15 years of beautiful summers and sisterhood. And because they deserved so much more than an unspoken goodbye, I uttered a final farewell to my family, though I would never forget. Apparently Loren Bennett, the younger sister of my father, was very excited for me to come and join her in all the filth that I imagined New York to be. I had only met her once when I was 11 when she had come for Christmas. “She probably only wants the money”, I muttered under my breath, paranoid. The old man next to me probably thought I was crazy. Maybe I was. The Bennett family had been very wealthy thanks to an enormous fortune my father had inherited from his late parents and since I was one of the only Bennetts still alive I had inherited most of the wealth. I buckled my seatbelt and listened to the way-too-peppy flight attendant yap on about how my seat cushion could double as a floatation device. It seemed odd that someone could speak so merrily about the prospect of disaster and death. Halfway through her speech I turned on my iPod and drowned her out with the screams of Vampires Everywhere. I was feeling rebellious lately. Alot of it is really bumpy and I would like advice on how to smooth it out. Criticism is welcome! Thanks! more

Open Question: as a boss, how do i be likeable, but not friendly....if you know what i mean...?

i have a company and i have people that work for me. its a warehouse enviroment. i am generally an easy going person and i like to generally manage my life by steering things in the right direction, as opposed to pushing them. This is how i am most of the time. However, i am more than capable, and often do, do the opposite. I can often; not care if people like me, be totally hands on, and force thing to go the way i want them to no matter what it takes. Generally, i will often take the softly softly approach and then when things go too far i come down like a ton of bricks. actually thats an understatement. but otherwise i call people dude, i say cool and wicked a lot, i dress like a tramp and i love, for want of a better phrase, 'behaving like an idiot'. i just dont typically sound or behave the way i should do as a boss. its not that i am not capable. i am Extremely well educated and worldly, and when i put the right 'hat' on EVERYTHING changes. i even use capital letters at the start of a sentence! basically, i can be an intelligent, articulate, well spoken, groomed and dressed, extremely professional - add to the list whatever you like. i didnt get to be the boss of a new, strong, successful, rapidly expanding company by being a weak idiot. nor did i get my amazing and stunning beautiful wife, who could chose anyone, by being weak idiot (and several big BIG celebs have tried to get her, while she was with me!). My way is *my way*. I love it and its always worked, till now. I know i cant carry on like this at work much longer. Im getting a lot more staff in and i have to behave in a more conventional way. the thing is, i dont really know how to do it without A) being over the top and somewhat scarey B) do it in such a way that its 'me' and i dont have to 'put my serious hat on' because i dont like it very much and i think it will end up slipping off eventually and i will go back tp my old ways. sorry for the waffle...... MAIN QUESTION - how do i (or where can i) learn to 'grow up' in a way that suits my personality? (i am only 29 btw) more

Open Question: Is it possible to have been sexually abused as a young teen and not remember or know about it?

okay, so I've heard of situations where a child was abused and did not remember it until later in life. For a while now i've been wondering if something could have happened to me in my past that i'm not remembering. I've been depressed this year and very emotionally unhealthy. A lot of my emotions and mental issues seem like they could be the result of sexual abuse. The only thing is; I had a great childhood. I don't remember ever having any issues as a child. So it seems unlikely that i was abused then. However, my whole teen life i have been insecure with many many fears. I have anxiety attacks over little things, I hate people touching me. I don't like hugging guys; it makes me feel sick.I hate being near windows at night because i always feel like someone is watching me from the other side. I have a very low self esteem, i'm always apologizing for everything even stuff that i didn't do. I always think that people hate me no matter what. I remember being afraid for no reason when a man would be staying in our house and i insisted that my parents buy me a lock for my door. I ALWAYS slept with my door and windows locked. I also slept with a night light for quite a long time and still often can't sleep without some source of light. I've always had trouble getting enough sleep; staying up late, worrying, tossing and turning, waking up and turning on the lights to make sure no one was there, checking that my door was locked several times each night, checking my closet,ect. Recently I've also developed depression, self hatred, and started cutting. Even though i have friends and family that all say they love me and that i'm beautiful, i feel alone, ugly, worthless, selfish, filthy, hopeless, etc. Some days just lay in my bed or on the floor and feel like i can't move because nothing seems worth it and nothing interests me. I don't know why I have all these issues. They don't seem like the types of things that should go on with a girl from a perfect family. I know it sounds stupid but i use to always hear about girls getting abused and i felt bad for them. But i feel like there was always this thought in the back of my head saying that was me. Then i heard about this family that was abused and didn't remember it for years. I started crying because i thought that might be me. Ever since then I've been looking up signs and such on the internet and books. Many of the mental ones fit me. However, i don't remember ever being this way as a young child. So, please answer kindly but honestly. Does it sound like a possibilty? and could that happen later in life; like 9-13? or only as a young child? If you don't think i've been abuse, what do you think is wrong with me? I'm desperate, but i can't go to anyone yet. I need to figure this out first. Please help me, i'm hurting so bad and i feel so depressed and keep cutting myself. :( more

Open Question: POLL:Can you please answer I really need 2 know what this means!10 points!?

I found this rare song mother by Blind melon I really loved the song and singing along to it yesterday at my house on my computer http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yXtXRf8UR… in the dream some asked me to sing this song for them in school and I did I got up in front of class and started singing it and the strange thing is that I sounded a lot like the original singer who was a guy( im a girl btw) and everbody told me that was beautiful and clapped their hands. so what does the dream mean? here are the lyrics to the song The skies have darkened and the seas have dried. Your honest ways have turned to lies. Your hands of promise turned to hands of pain. You take for granted the life that God create The life that God created. The frost and flowers Mother gave to you, the muffled whispers bleeding true. And it doesn't matter what kind of eyes your looking through. Do you see our Mother's dying? Here's a picture for you. I'm gonna paint this picture for you! With every black choking for breath and every inch closer to death. Her hands are held out for you. You said the reasons we're in the cities that we all made was that we raped our poor Mother Now that she's leaving and she's thrown off all that she gave, we dig the grave of our poor Mother! The grass ain't growing in my front yard, no Poor Mother more

Open Question: what does it mean when you have a dream about a song you heard the day before?10 points?

I found this rare song mother by Blind melon I really loved the song and singing along to it yesterday http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yXtXRf8URwc&feature=related in the dream some asked me to sing this song for them in school and I did I got up in front of class and started singing it and the strange thing is that I sounded a lot like the original singer who was a guy( im a girl btw) and everbody told me that was beautiful and clapped their hands. so what does the dream mean? here are the lyrics to the song The skies have darkened and the seas have dried. Your honest ways have turned to lies. Your hands of promise turned to hands of pain. You take for granted the life that God create The life that God created. The frost and flowers Mother gave to you, the muffled whispers bleeding true. And it doesn't matter what kind of eyes your looking through. Do you see our Mother's dying? Here's a picture for you. I'm gonna paint this picture for you! With every black choking for breath and every inch closer to death. Her hands are held out for you. You said the reasons we're in the cities that we all made was that we raped our poor Mother Now that she's leaving and she's thrown off all that she gave, we dig the grave of our poor Mother! The grass ain't growing in my front yard, no Poor Mother more

Resolved Question: Can anyone Help me ..this is really urgent?

Open Question: HI all help me..........?

HI, i am 28, My parents were finding a girl 4 me since last 3 years, but unfortunately due to some job problem (as i m working in a private job as a merchandiser N earning 13K per month). The other bad habit mine is drinking, and i normally do this 4 times a week. Finally my parents find a girl for me (she is 24, but financially week, live in a small town) and they asked me for see the girl face to face. My father is a Branch Manager in a public bank. After one week programme has been settled for meet the girl with my family. Actually my mother had seen this girl before and liked because girl home and my mom' real house is the same town. I saw d girl and talked her but i was little confused because she is average girl, not very beautiful and i am a very handsome and very fair, sharp features boy with very good looking. After this my parents told me for engagement for that girl but i told you that girl is not beautiful as i, my father convinced me that there are no other option in front of us, we have to marry you and you are 28 now. i don't know but after all openions to my parents and relatives i replied "YES". After two days i got engaged with that girl. after engagement i started to talk on phone but she is very simple i feel, and good natured ofcourse. But i m still confused that she is not d write girl for me. I asked my many freinds that what should i do, then some of them are says that you are more beutiful than the girl , you can find a better girl for you and some of them are says that this is the write girl for you, looks does not matter than nature. After that i am so frestated and i talked my father for break this engagement but he says " Ladki ki Baddua lagagi, usne tumse sapne dekhe honge, usme kami kya hai, wo itni buri to nahi hai, average hai, lekin tumhare sath chalegi to pair accha lagega, or tumne ladki se akele me baat kari thi, usi samey mana kar dena chaiye tha" n all that. and " sab ko pata chal chuka hai, kitni badnaami hogi, aage rishta bhi nahi hoga" Finally i m too confused that what should i do : how can i break this engagement without hurting my parents..Ladki walo ki nature bhi acchi hai...but i m very confused that shall i go for marrige or not..my marrige has been fixed in Mid November 2010...what should i do..Please Help me out more

Open Question: Is it not okay to want to wait?

I'm an 18 years old girl, in my first year of university, and I am currently in the market for a boyfriend. Firstly I have always been a firm believer in the idea that sex without love, is meaningless. So I have always had the standard that I would never sleep with someone, unless I felt, connected to them, and felt like I loved them. Secondly, I'm also a firm believer in the ideology that love at first sight doesn't exist and that it can take months, or sometimes years of knowing/being close with someone before you can be sure you love them or not. Thirdly, I'm the type of person, who really isn't too comfortable with physical contact with strangers. I'm not the type to just randomly hug guys I kinda know, etc. I get uncomfortable, easy, and would rather get to know someone personally, to a point that I can say I really trust them, before I get to know them physically. So taking all that into account, I decided for myself that know matter what, I would wait, at least, 5-7 month, before, I have sex with the person I'm dating. That way I'm not rushing anything, or feeling rushed myself, and I would have a better idea of whether, I loved that person, or not. And for the longest time, that was my plan, and I though it was perfectly reasonable. However recently, I have been talking to a few people, and they are starting to make me feel like I'm being compleletly, unreasonable. For example, I was chatting with a girlfriend, one day, and we we're talking about her and her boyfriend, and me and my maybe one day boyfriend, and I brought up, my whole plan thing. And to my surprise, she thought that it was crazy. She told me that knowadays, guys expect sex after only a few weeks, and probably won't wait 5-6 month for it. And she proceeded to tell me, I should just sleep with someone, in the first month, and that it wasn't a big deal, so i shouldn't make a fuss about it. Another example it, I was chatting with this guy I sit with at school, and were not really friends , but not really not friends either.(Does that even make sense) And the subject of dates came up, and them the subject of my plan came up, and he literally laughed at me, and told me to my face, that a girl, like me who was only mediocare in the looks department, will never get a guy with that kind of attitude, and that if I want a boyfriend, I should basically put out, and have sex early. Look I get that I'm not the prettiest girl in the world, but does that mean I'm not allowed to have standards, and I'm not entitled to my idea that I want to be comfortable, with someone, before I do anything sexual. So basically what I want to know is, I'm I wrong in thinking that, one should wait a while before having sex? Or in this day and age, is wanting to wait, no longer acceptable, and is something that will blacklist you among all the guys. Or is there some double standard where wanting to wait is okay, but only it your some unbelieavble, beautiful girl? It's not like I'm asking to wait until marriage or something, just a few months. Is that wrong of me? more

Open Question: Women Read This.!!!!!?

From a guys point of view: We don't care if you talk to other guys. We don't care if you're friends with other guys. But when you're sitting next to us, and some random guy walks into the room and you jump up and tackle him, without even introducing us, yeah, it pisses us off. It doesn't help if you sit there and talk to him for ten minutes without even acknowledging the fact that we're still there. We don't care if a guy calls you, but at 2 in the morning we do get a little concerned. Nothing is that important at 2 a.m. that it can't wait till the morning. Also, when we tell you you're pretty/ beautiful/ gorgeous/ cute/ stunning, we freaking mean it. Don't tell us we're wrong. We'll stop trying to convince you. The sexiest thing about a girl is confidence. Yeah, you can quote me. Don't be mad when we hold the door open. Take Advantage of the mood im in. let us pay for you! dont "feel bad" about it We enjoy doing it. It's expected. Smile and say "thank you." Kiss us when no one's watching. If you kiss us when you know somebody's looking, we'll be more impressed. You don't have to get dressed up for us. If we're going out with you in the first place, you don't have to feel the need to wear the shortest skirt you have or put on every kind of makeup you own. We like you for who you are and not what you are. honestly, i think a girl looks more beautiful when she's just in her pj's. or my tshirt and boxers, not all dolled up Don't take everything we say seriously. Sarcasm is a beautiful thing. See the beauty in it. Don't get angry easily. Stop using magazines/media as your bible. **Don't talk about how hott Morris Chesnutt, Brad Pitt, or Jesse McCartney is in front of us. Whatever happened to the word "handsome"/"beautiful" I'd be utterly stunned by a girl who greeted me with "Hey handsome!" instead of "Hey baby/ stud/ cutie/ sexy" or whatever else you can think of. on the other hand im not sayin i woulndnt like it ether ; ) Girls, I cannot stress this enough:if you aren't being treated right by a guy, dont't wait for him to change.ditch his sorry,disgrace to the male population *** and find someone who will treat you with utter respect Someone who will honor your morals. Someone who will make you smile when you're at your lowest. Someone who will care for you even when you make mistakes. Someone who will love you, no matter how bad you make them feel. Someone who will stop what theyre doing just to look you in the eyes....and say "i love you" ..and actually mean it. not a question but idc.! just tired of looking like an idiot more

Open Question: What type of category would you put this girl in?

I've been around the block with pretty women I dont jock them I say no and I stand up for my beliefs I have ambitions am decently good looking so I have alot of qualities that get me hotties. Keep in mind this one is a ten and she lives near beverly hills. I pick her up she's awkward I keep it real and bring her to a comfortable zone where I could find out who the real her is. On the way to the first place she says just please dont take me to a black neighborhood TRUST ME I WAS AS SHOCKED AS YOU ARE READING IT whats funny is i look at her and tell her my brother married a black girl just to keep that little mouth in check - next we get to a nice spot looking over los angeles shes not that into it and gets awkward again I put her on the spot and say you seem like youve met alot of dic*ks and then she rambles on about all the guys that cant please her - this is where i started thinking im dealing with a princess. Next spot we went for sushi I immediately take notice at how she orders like she didnt even think twice about my money which by the way i had slide the thought that i come from a poor family so she should of been more caring. Also her conversations were very bland no depth she would say im a republican but not get into detail YES SHE TRIED TALKING ABOUT POLITICS AND RELIGION on the first date and she had said I dont know im thinking about the jewish religion cause i live by alot of jews HA! talk about not knowing who you are - Next spot stand up comedy club she doesnt laugh out loud once and dane cook performed and had the place going nuts - the ride back at this point im ready to put a gun to my head im thinking to myself what a waste of a beautiful girl I drop her off hug her DID NOT ATTEMPT A KISS she had turned me off so much that it didnt matter cause I would never call her again - SO PEOPLE WHATS THE CATEGORY FOR THIS SPECIAL LITTLE GIRL? more

Open Question: Why is being curvy and womanly and built and manly starting to go out of style?!?!?

mmm. its a bit weird. I've noticed it for a few years now. but now I feel its at its peak. I hope I dont offend anyone when I say this but I really think its becoming a bit of an issue.. It used to be the "cool thing" and a "sexy thing" for a women to be curvaceous and womanly. you know like BAM big boobs and BAM thighes and hips and butt. it was just hot. for women to look womanly and heatlhy. Now that look is starting to get very scarce. You look at all models (fashion or clothing it doesnt even matter anymore) and theyre all skin and bones. ALL OF THEM. its rediculous. they dont even look like women. And please dont give me the speech about how "victorias secret models are curvy" no they are not curvy. ya sure maybe they have an extra 5-10 pounds on them as opposed to the anorexic ones but Vicky secret models are no way curvy compared to the likes of a normal sized women like Kate Winslet or the legendary Marilyn Monroe. Its kinda sad when Victoria secret models are looked at as "curvy". you can still see their ripcages and theyre bony. Look at all actresses and famous women. theyre all skinny and if theyre not alrleady skinny theyre starting to get skinny. its just SO SAD. why is this becoming a trend? what happened to the beautiful women who had shape? Then theres the men. I feel like big muscular men are suddenly going scarce too. I mean it was the hot thing for a guy to be muscular and built like a house. Now I'm seeing so many guys walking around with thin frames. counting their calories. and being totally obsessive. almost all male models now a days have these thin delicate builds. I can't think of any men in hollywood or modeling world who truely look masculine and strong anymore. at least not in the current hollywood circle. Theyre all starting to get that Zac Efron look. I mean sure some girls like that but ALL OF THEM are starting to look like that anyone else find this disturbing!?!? I know I sure do. The genetic and primal reasons for what makes each gender sexy are starting to go away and humans are making it go away on purpose. more

Resolved Question: Welcome to TWA Nitro with a WQ and Pick the Winners?

Promo 1 TWA Champion, The Rock and TWA Chairman Rocky W are in ring as The Rock says finally The Rock is back on TWA Nitro as The Rock says Rocky how in the blue hell you can give Randy Jabroni a chance to fight The Rock @Unforgiven? as Rocky says hey The Rock I didn't given him a chance Randy had that in his re-match clause as The Rock says contracts Rocky you sound like a jabroni as well as Rocky says The Rock try to talk to me with respect because I am not going to tolerate this and now get out of here as The Rock says before leaving The Rock wants to give you his blessings as The Rock sends The Rock Bottom to Rocky W and prepares for The People's Elbow as suddenly Randy Orton runs out as Randy enters the ring and wastes no time and hits an RKO on The Rock as during that time Rocky W hits a punt kick onto the head of The Rock but The Rock somehow manages to leave by using the ropes as Rocky says hey The Rock where are you leaving i guess you forget to sign this contract as Rocky W gives The Rock a contract and The Rock says hey you two guys plan to retire The Rock well thats not gonna happen if you smell that The Rock is TWA as The Rock signs the contract and handovers it back to Rocky W as Randy signs it as well as Rocky W says its official now The Rock's career is on the line against Randy Orton's dreams of becoming TWA champion Match 1 Rey Mysterio vs Kaval Match 2 Tag Team Tournament (Semi-Finals) The Colon's (Carlito and Primo) vs World's Greatest Tag Team (Haas and Benjamin) Promo 2 Triple H is backstage talking to Ric Flair and AJ Styles as Triple H says so what you guys had decided as Flair says Triple H I know we are longtime friends and me and AJ have talked and we say yes as Triple H shakes hands with Flair and AJ as suddenly Sheamus comes there and says so my old enemy is now going to work under me as Styles says I am not going to work under you Sheamus because I know I dont need The Federation, but The Federation needs me as Flair says calm down guys as Sheamus says Flair it's better if you will shut your mouth as a furious Flair tries to fight Sheamus, but Triple H comes between them as Triple H says stop it I dont care if you guys hate eachother. But if you guys are in The Federation you guys have to work together and I can't let anyone bring me and The Federation down because I have another matter to worry about and that is Drew McIntyre and at Unforgiven I am going to teach him a lesson and before that I dont want any distractions. Last week McIntyre crossed the line and tonight it's time for payback! Match 3 Tag Team Tournament (Semi-Finals) The Uso Brothers (Jimmy and Jey Uso) vs Ink Inc. (Shannon Moore and Jesse Neal) Match 4 The Beautiful Babes (Layla and Taylor Wilde) vs Alissa Flash and Gail Kim Promo 3 The Federation is standing in the ring as Triple H says Drew McIntyre last week you humiliated me, but now I am asking you if you really have guts then why don't you come out here and fight The Federation as suddenly Drew McIntyre comes out and says Triple H you want fight I am asking you are you ready? I said are you ready!!! as Triple H says I am ready, but tonight I am not going to waste my time on you Drew, but one of us is going to fight you as Drew says hey Triple H I think your scared anyways I am The Chosen One, but tonight I have choosen someone else to wrestle on my behalf a man who hates The Federation as much as I hate you and The Federation as suddenly Matt Morgan makes his way out along with Hardy Boyz and Jamie Noble as Drew says now Matt is going to wrestle any member of The Federation and if The Federation tries to interfere then Triple H we are going to give you guys one hell of a beating and most specially if you tried to interfere I am personally going to make sure that I will knock your teeth out as Triple H looks scared of McIntyre as Drew rises his Intercontinental Title belt. Match 5 (Main-Event) Matt Morgan vs Bobby Lashley During the match a brawl starts between The Federation and Hardyz, Drew McIntyre, and Noble as this time The Federation gets the upper hand when Ric Flair hits a low blow on Noble as suddenly Rey Mysterio runs out and hits Styles with a chair as Mysterio is also making fun of Ric Flair by saying Wooooooooo! with a each steel chair shot WQ: Who do you want to win NXT Season 3 and why? Thankyou for viewing TWA Nitro and please if you cant pick winners then dont answer i request more

Open Question: Please don't judge or say it's irrelevant... Want your help with what I'M ASKING?

I have posted this question before and people have all avoided the answer by saying it doesn't matter. I'm not a bad person so please try to remain Impartial and answer the QUESTION ONLY!! I've been in love with my amazing, beautiful and perfect girlfriend for 2 years. Were both 19 and she's rocked my world. Honestly she is the most beautiful person inside and out. However please don't tell me to stop dwelling on something so silly or I will lose her because I'm fully aware!!! Here the (non) issue lol, I've never kissed of "dated" before, she's had child/teen relationships before!! Never been an issue before, why would it seriously who cares right?? The thing is she's so adamant that she hated every single second of them before me and had not only failed to received and pleasure and comfort or physical enjoyment before me. She claims she was too young to want them and that she was just too shy not to hurt there feelings. She walked home from school with each of the 3 holding hands and met them a few times with a few French kisses and pecks goodbye!! Mseriously no issue, but why can't she admit it to me that part felt atleast okay, I know if it was me with the opportunity I would have had some comfort in these situations . I'm not bothered as long as we can atleast agree to disagree, but she's so adamant that she disliked it 100% ncant do that. It's silly and makes me feel like idiot that I must have to go along with it!! So I myself feel that she is trying to protect me and make me understand I'm so much more but it hurts to have to be an idiot lol.. Is it at all possible she hated it 100% and I'm just unable to see it or understand!! I won't lose her for it, so please don't just say it's irreleavant, tell me what I want to hear, or say it doesn't matter. I'm asking for honesty. Please and thanks to you if you take time to try and understand!! Thank you more

Open Question: Please don't judge or say it's irrelevant... I'm in love!!?

I have posted this question before and people have all avoided the answer by saying it doesn't matter. I'm not a bad person so please try to remain Impartial and answer the question only!! I've been in love with my amazing, beautiful and perfect girlfriend for 2 years. Were both 19 and she's rocked my world. Honestly she is the most beautiful person inside and out. However please don't tell me to stop dwelling on something so silly or I will lose her because I'm fully aware!!! Here the (non) issue lol, I've never kissed of "dated" before, she's had child/teen relationships before!! Never been an issue before, why would it seriously who cares right?? The thing is she's so adamant that she hated every single second of them before me and had not only failed to received and pleasure and comfort or physical enjoyment before me. She claims she was too young to want them and that she was just too shy not to hurt there feelings. She walked home from school with each of the 3 holding hands and met them a few times with a few French kisses and pecks goodbye!! Mseriously no issue, but why can't she admit it to me that part felt atleast okay, I know if it was me with the opportunity I would have had some comfort in these situations . I'm not bothered as long as we can atleast agree to disagree, but she's so adamant that she disliked it 100% ncant do that. It's silly and makes me feel like idiot that I must have to go along with it!! So I myself feel that she is trying to protect me and make me understand I'm so much more but it hurts to have to be an idiot lol.. Is it at all possible she hated it 100% and I'm just unable to see it or understand!! I won't lose her for it, so please don't just say it's irreleavant, tell me what I want to hear, or say it doesn't matter. I'm asking for honesty. Please and thanks to you if you take time to try and understand!! Thank you more

Open Question: had a broken heart, got over it, now it's coming back, help?

i'm 15 and i dated this guy a 5 months ago named josh for like a couple months, 3 or 4. and we hung out legit everyday and i swear it was amazing. we loved each other so much and he would spend the night at a guys house near me so we could sneak out together at night. it was like something from a movie, and we didn't go too far, we just made out and he went up my shirt so that didn't matter to us. i live on a lake, and we would drive the boat and watch the sunset together. everything was perfect. you could say we were in love..(: He goes to california for the whole summer, and, he broke up with me a month before he left because his dad said he had to. he cried, i cried, everything just fell apart over night it seemed like. there were no signs. he moved, we didn't talk much, i still think about him, i'm never getting over him, i know i'll always remember him. but his contact in my phone used to be..."JOSH *last name* :) I LOVE YOU<3" then i changed it to.."josh *last name*" i just got a new phone, and when they transferred my number it became to what it was when we were dating..... "JOSH *last name* :) I LOVE YOU<3" it almost feels like a sign, but then, i had a dream and we were together hugging and kissing, and then he told me i was even more beautiful after a couple months. it was like i was seeing the future, or at least thats what i hope /: now i can't stop thinking about him, he comes back soon. i want to get back with him. i miss my life with him. do you think i'll have a chance with him again? do i ask him to hangout right when he gets back? and how do i stop thinking about him? ha please help or tell stories more

Open Question: totally in love with my best friend help? (sorry its long)?

okay so i am totally in love with my best friend but she doesn't trust guys or date......... im gonna use this as an excuse to talk about her because i need yo get it out of my system she is the most amassing person i have ever met shes kind funny drop-dead-gorgeous smart everything a guy could want she has long auburn hair green eyes shes tiny and beautiful and amassing she has allot of guy friends girls dont tend to like her we think its because they feel threated by her which is sad and anway they all her guy friends like her but she wont date she doesn't trust guys and i know she had an abusive step dad last year which made her into an amassing fighter i have seen her floor guys who try it on and she once flipped a guy over her shoulder when he touched her arse and when a guy told her he was going to kiss her she replyed with "no you wont because i will have you on you arse before you can say ouch!" but she has a soft side we once went out for lunch and once we brought it she walked outside and gave it to the homeless man out side and shes so kind to everyone she always says everyone is her friend till they prove otherwise . guys litteraly fall over them selfs when they meet her and i get so jealous. she always asks me why im still single but i cant tell her its because no girl could ever compare to her because she says she likes me because i dont fancy her shes so little and sweet that i dread anything or anyone hurting her but she simply says she dosent need a guy to protect her shes crazy, clever pretty, beautiful, smart, kind, thoughtful, sexy, funny,a brillaint friend and all round amasing person she is never out of my head no matter what i do im thinking about her she seems to trust me the most out of her guy friends and always comes to me when she needs to talk etc and she once fell asleep on me :) but other than that she shows no preferance to any guy in fact she complains that guys dont leave her alone or wont take no so i dont want to push her in anyway because i dont want to loose her as a friend but i have never felt this way before i feel like im high when im with her my heart beat goes crazy when she touches me and when she talks i just stare at her eyes and her mouth i could talk about her forever and all the little thing she does like she chews her lip when shes focusing or how she raises her left eye brow when she gets annoyed i like her so much but she wont date and i dont want to push her what shall i do ??? i know it sounds corny but i cant help it any help is great thanks we are both 16 by the way sorry for the spelling :/ more

Open Question: What's wrong with me, please HELP and read ALL?

Okay, I'm 16, a guy, and I think there's something wrong with me. On the outside, I'm not "weird" or "strange", but mentally I know there's something wrong with me. I have said to be very good looking by many others, I have great friends, and I'm very smart. So if you were ever to see or and meet me, you'd think I was as normal as the next guy.. But I think I might be insane, or at least I think I have a few social and mental disorders. Here's why: For starters, I have a bad case of anxiety. For example, I am somewhat of a good basketball player, but before games, I get so worked up and nervous that I mess up and can sometimes black out when on the floor. Another example would be how I get nervous before I call people, no matter who it is, unless its my mom, and ONLY her. I even get nervous calling my closest friends. I can't speak publicly because, unless I know exactly what I'm going to say, I black out. I can't read script in English class without getting very anxious to finish. Unless I'm having one of my "confident days", which I'll explain later, I usually try to avoid people in school. Like, a certain girl I like, or a group of outgoing people in the cafeteria. I always think people are judging me. I'm afraid to try new things. I really don't even have many hobbies. Unless I'm invited out, I'll stay in the house all day. For a while I thought I had bi-polar disorder, until my ex girlfriend convinced me I didn't have it (she was bi-polar). One minute I can be extremely happy and confident and outgoing, and the next minute I can be very isolated and introverted and nervous. I have had several thoughts of suicide, especially when in a relationship. Actually, all of them were when I was in a relationship that ended. Sometimes I think I have no personality. I think that if I didn't look so good, I would be a nobody. A lot of people know me, but I have few friends. I really thinks its my fault, because I lack the motivation to become interested in people and I rarely contact any one. Like I said, I really only go out when people talk to me. I have low self esteem and I'm always in the mirror checking on myself. I had a great child hood and my mom is great. So it wasn't any isn't that. Now, onto why I think I'm crazy. This isn't intended to be funny and I'm completely serious. CENSORED! I love animals, especially dogs, but I also enjoy hurting them. Its really weird. I've had thoughts of what it would be like to torture an animal by baking it alive, and other sick things like that. I've had sex before a many times, but I am addicted to masturbation. I masturbate to images of girls in my head. If I see a girl that I found to be sexy, later on I'll eventually think about it and masturbate. I masturbate with objects as well. T-shirts, socks, blankets and pillows. I know its sick. I'm sexually obsessed with my ex. I look at her Facebook pictures and masturbate to them. I am also obsessed with beautiful feet. I have took pictures of pretty feet in public and have masturbated with them. Isn't that being a sexual deviant? I am also paranoid. For example when I walk down the street at night and pass someone I visually imagine in great detail them stabbing me in the back of the neck Like, I'll have a instant day dream of them doing it and not even notice myself thinking about it. I know this is a lot of information and examples to process, but do you think you can help me and tell me why I am so fucked in the head. Thanx. more

Open Question: What do you think? I need help?

I have to write a chapter for my English class about my name and idk what to do or if what i have is worth working with, i know it needs work. “What do you like to be called Liz, or Lizzie?” My teachers ask. I reply “Elizabeth”. It seems by the next class they always forget. What is so hard in just saying Elizabeth, that is my name and what I would like to be called. Every since I started school I realized people would call me Liz, no matter how much I tell them it will always happen. On occasion I don’t even bother to say anything because I know it won’t last long until they call me Liz again. I don’t understand why you could take Elizabeth such a beautiful name meaning, my God is bountiful and want to be called Liz. A name like Elizabeth doesn’t need a nickname its so beautiful you would do the name harm by cutting it down. Over the years I have got used to be called Liz but, I don’t like one second of it. When I was a little girl even I had to put up with the nickname even from my own family and in the present sometimes, too. My grandfather called me Lizzy Dizzy for a while. I thank God that it never stuck for long, I don’t know if I could keep sane if I was called that now. My cousin Maddie has recently given me a new nickname, Lizard. I don’t mind that too much because it won’t last long and she is the only one that will call me Lizard so I know when she is talking to me. Since I was a little girl I have adored my name for the majority of the time, other then the nicknames it comes with and the length of it. If you haven’t noticed Elizabeth is an extremely long name, there are nine letters in my name. Along with a last name like … …….. it takes forever to write my name down. Taking a nickname like Liz would save me so much time in my life by writing a three letter name down instead of a nine letter one, but I cant do that to my name, it is who I am. Choosing the easy route wouldn’t serve me in any justice, I have grow to love my long name even if it means spending an enormous amount of time to write it down. more

Voting Question: What to do with this girl.?

So I've met a girl around a week ago and we hit it off pretty quickly like we txt'd each other for a few days then we met and we just got a long great. I love listening to her, She's just beautiful and I want to make more to our relationship in the future but I have a slight problem. She keeps asking me "Why do you like me?" "You deserve someone better than me". Like We we text you is so affectionate to me and it makes me feel like she cares about me but when we get face to face it's like its not the same girl im talking to on the phone. She will hold my hand and maybe give me a kiss but as the night goes on she just gets distant with me and I've talk to her about it and she says that she starts thinking about us and that she is afraid she will get hurt and she doesn't know why but she is still torn over her past relationship and she does realize that its been over a year since they broke up. She also would rather her have to fight for him than just let her have me but I tried to be the and showed that I cared for her and she wants to take it slow but honestly I feel like I can spend the rest of my life taking it slow with her and we will never get past where we are now. She told me she thinks she deserves to be alone for the rest of her life. What could be the problem I want to be there for her and I will be no matter what I just need to know how I can help her and show her that she does deserve a good guy that will love her and take care of her and make her be happy. Help me out plz!Well she said she is over her guy but she feels like she doesn't deserve a guy and that she is torn which doesn't make sense to me at all. Another thing like when we txt she is all about the love telling me she misses me and how much she cares about me but when it comes face to face its like its real and she doesn't know how to react. more

Open Question: Please help me I'm having relationship problems I don't know what to do?

I'm 15 years old, I don't know what to do we knew each other since 6th grade and that's when we first met in math class.When I was talking too much and my teacher moved me next to her and we started to have alot in common and she liked me but I didn't because I thought people in my class would make fun of us like the k-i-s-s-i-n-g song or whatever and I liked her alot and didn't thought I would see her again until next year I did but we were in different classes and we chat online and then I fell in love with her the more I got to talk to her more and more.Everyday I went home fast as I could after school on my computer to see her then later I said I like you too and we started to like each other more and our relationship grew.Then when 8th grade came we were in the same class again but back in 7th grade I was tardy alot because I had so many problems I was sick alot so I stayed home and I got into so many fights and I got scared because the kids in my class told me they would like pick a fight with me.So I came tardy but then later I thought they wont stop unless I teach them a lesson so then I kind of came early sometimes then I just acted my normal self being nice talking to my classmates doing all my work then they were talking about my mom with mom jokes which made me mad and pushed my books on the floor.So I punched him in the face and I had like six fights in one school year but then this lady came to my class when we were in 8th grade together but then she told me I have to back to 7th grade because I had so many tardys.I was so sad I was crying and I wanted to be with her because this would be our last school year then we might go to different high schools but then when we chated online she told me she luved me.I was so stocked I didn't think she would say it first I was going to but I thought she might not love me and then I said I didn't think I would ever say this but I Love You will you be my girlfriend and she said yes and then I got her phone number and we talked on the phone like everyday for hours and hours.Everyday after school I always walked her home and holding hands and later when days and days pass I thought and that I really want to kiss her because im so in love with her but I don't know if she wants to kiss me so I took everything really slow but then I really messed up one day I walked her to her house and I said ummm do you want to kiss me? and I was nervous and shy I never kissed a girl before and she was my first girlfriend and and got nervous then like 30 secs later her dad came outside and I was like awww man then she just said a quick bye and went with her dad.We talked about kissing each other before and she said she would but if I didn't do this, this wouldn't happen later she felt like she doesn't love me anymore and I didn't get to see her that much only after school and in the morning.I always walk with her and I cant like remember the rest, this happen like in April 2009 and later she broke up with me and we were so in love with each other. On valentine's day we talked on the phone for 3 hours and 1 or more hour a day and I promised her after high school and college I will marry you and I promised ill have kids with you and she ment everything to me she is like my true love and everyday in school I didn't do my work or anything all I did was sat at my desk with my head down thinking about her and how much I miss her and days and days and months passed.I still talk to her but I think she hates me now and like ignores me I just don't know what to do I don't want to be alone for the rest of my life I'm scared too. I love her with all my heart and I promised I love you forever and ever no matter what and she promised as well.We never argue or anything and she is my future my life my everything she is special to me and is different from any other girl she is the nicest most beautiful girl I ever met and is the perfect girl I been looking for and I know that we were always ment to be together.I really need her I'm so lonely and depressed without her.I feel like doing suicide and I might later in life and this is NOT a joke and I won't get over her or find anyone else shes the only person that ever made me happy I been depressed like almost all my life and she just makes me so happy I don't want to lose her I am sorry for typing so much but this is really like about my whole life and how I'm so depressed and I just want to get her back please someone help me =(P.S. I haven't slept in days cause of this I am up at night everyday and I force myself to stay up I might die so I lost track I haven't slept around a week or so forgot but please someone tell me how I can get her back I really need her =(Sorry for typing so much that's how depressed I am and about my life kind of. I don't know what to do please someone take the time to read it.I know its alot and I can't live without her without her I am nothing my life is falling apart I feel like the most depressed boy in the world and I might do suicide or I don't know I haven't slept since she broke up with me.I have Purple bags under my eyes and my eyes hurt like hell.I think about her everyday and I'm just home alone thinking of her and now I'm alone in school because all my friends passed and her but me and she was going to fail a grade just for me I mean just for me that's how much we both loved each other since I got send back to 7th grade (more details from story) I'm so lonely and depressed everyday without her =(I miss her so much I'm so lonely and depressed without her and this happen in April since then I been crying almost everyday, haven't slept in days or weeks forgot lost track, my eyes hurt like hell, and I got purple bags under my eyes.I think about her everyday I can't live without her and she means everything to me and she is my first girlfriend and I'm her first boyfriend and I know shes the one because my heart tells me and I listen to my heart she is my true love I need her =(I miss her....... =( more

Resolved Question: Please tell me what you think about this :)?

So this is a fiction story i just finished recently.this is part of it, let me know what you think. Oh, and this is about a girl and a guy she loves. he gets with his ex while she is gone and she is heart broken. ANd he calls her Angel because he sees her as just a beautiful thing and thinks she's his angel. “Angel,” someone said. I jumped and began to slip off the rock. I tried to grab something, but the rock had no cracks in it. I was doomed and I was going to fall onto all those other little rocks below. A hand grabbed my arm and my waist and pulled me onto my back. “Dammit! Don’t just pop out of no where like that!” I said and hit Claude’s arm. He chuckled. “Your welcome,” he said eyeing me. Oh...that’s right. “Thank you,” I told him. He was the last person I wanted to see right now. Because every time I looked at his face, the pain would come back, not hard, but I would feel his betrayal and false love. Gosh! I couldn’t get a hold of myself, even if my life depended on it. One minute I would think he didn’t matter but the next I would be wanting to fall into his arms. I looked away and up at the sky. “What are you doing here?” I asked. “What I’m not welcomed?” he asked. I laughed softly. “No, I mean. Why aren’t you having fun with the others?” I asked. “They’re getting crazy over the games. So I wanted to come get some peace,” he explained nonchalantly. I didn’t say anything. I began to count the stars, I always did this when I wanted to avoid something. Count. “Why aren’t you over there?” Claude asked. I stopped at fifty-seven. “I don’t really enjoy being around many people, especially one’s I don’t know,” I said and began counting again. Fifty-eight, fifty-nine, sixty, sixty-one, “Well then you should go meet new people. Thats what this stuff is for,” he said. I groaned. “Thanks a lot Claude! I lost count,” I said frustrated. He laughed. “Sorry. You should have told me you were counting stars,” he said. I looked over at him. He was grinning. Then brought a bottle to his lip and drank. My eyes widened. “You drink?” I asked. He but the bottle down. “Only one,” he said and shrugged. “Claude you never told me you drank!” I yelled. He laughed. “This is nothing. I drink wine too, but I don’t get drunk,” he said the last part sternly. I shook my head. “Wow, there’s a whole side of you I don’t know,” I told him. I couldn’t believe my eyes. It’s like the Claude, my sweet Claude changed before my eyes. “Adela, when you were with the band, it was only like a week. You need to spend a lot more time with me if you want to know me like the boys do,” he said and looked at me right in the eyes. He was stupid! Does he think I have all the time in the world for him? I snatched the bottle from his hand. He looked at me quizzically. I poured out the beer and let the ocean wash it away. “Adela,” he said. I handed it back to him. “Well, I don’t want you drinking. Got it?” I asked. He looked at me like I was boring. “I thought you were going to drink from it,” he told me. I scrunched my face. “Heck no. You kiss Stella, so that means you guys share the same saliva, and I don’t want her saliva in my mouth,” I said annoyed. He laughed. “That doesn’t mean anything. I kissed you,” he said. I jerked. I knew it. It didn’t mean anything. Huh. The way he just brought the subject up. This guy was alien to me. “It means a lot,” I told him and looked at him angrily. He looked shocked. “I didn’t mean it like that angel,” he told me sternly. “Don’t call me that,” I told him. There it is. please be nice i am new at this. :) Thanks for you time! Tips would be awesome!MChannn, Thank you! I am 14 as well i really appreciate the example you gave. The reason I don't give descriptions is because this isn't the beginning it' like in Chapter 20 something. LOL so sorry if it was confusing. Thank You SOO much and have an awesome day! :) more

Resolved Question: Why are both sides so incredibly dense on the Ground Zero Mosque issue?

I've chosen not to listen to any of the hateful rhetoric being fanned by either side. On the right you have people saying that all Muslims are crazed psychotic maniacs and that every Mosque in the world is a breeding ground for terrorism. I know only a few right wingers believe this, but its still disturbing. Fact is, the vast majority of Muslims are good, peace-loving people. Do you know how tough it must be to be a Muslim in post 9/11 America? It's gotta suck! Have a little compassion, people. They didn't come to this country to get persecuted. But on the other side the left is claiming, "so sorry your family was slaughtered in the name of Islam, but if you don't fall in love with the fact that they get to build a shrine to that religion right where your family died, you're a hate mongoring bigot." You b*stards wouldn't know tolerance if it bit you in the *ss. OF COURSE THERE'S GONNA BE HARD FEELINGS. And also, saying "its an Islamic community center about two blocks away from ground zero" is splitting hairs and you know it. How can people be this insensitive on an issue like this? Propoganda is NOT what we need, yet inevitably both sides seek to exploit these feelings to use to their advantage in November. Disgusting. Personally, I think the mosque is a terrible idea. If they really are trying to prove a point by showing America that they are good people, trying to reach out to us when we should be reaching out to them, that's an amazing and beautiful message, and more power to them. And that's coming from a Christian. But this is NOT a good way to start reaching out in love, in my opinion. You can't start breaking down barriers without first respecting those you are trying to reach. If people this offended by the issue, then the respectful and loving thing to do is to move the mosque. It doesn't matter if YOU feel you're not being offensive. The families of the victims feel humiliated and provoked. It doesn't matter if you think that's ridiculous (which it's not), because that's the way things are. If you're trying to reach out to someone, their feelings supercede yours. Just because you HAVE the right to do something, doesn't mean its the right thing to do. Not all Germans are Nazis. In fact, most of them are undoubtedly good people, too. But would it be okay to open up a German community center outside Auschwitz? Hell no, it wouldn't be! If the Jews didn't like that idea, would that make them bigots? Even the Pope removed a Catholic center from Auschwitz, because the Jews didn't like it there and he respected the people who suffered there. (I'm not Catholic, but that's what any good person should do in that situation, I believe.) Just because I don't support this Mosque does not mean I hate Muslims. As a Christian, I believe it is my duty to reach out to Muslims through love. In fact, I should do that as an American. But that doesn't mean I'll be tolerant of something inflamatory like this. This is from a 17 year old's perspective. What's yours? And please be respectful. This is a really touchy issue on both sides.obviously I'm not claiming that all right wingers are Islamaphobes are all left wingers are spitting on the 9/11 victims. Just a few outspoken ones. If you don't feel like this, then you don't fit into my description, which means I'm not insulting you.Also, I'm not saying that Islam is a beautiful or peaceful religion. It's not. Just some of its followers are. Doesn't really make sense but oh well lol more

Resolved Question: what do you think my kids will look like? based on me & my hubbys ethnicities?

okay, so I'm 50% italian, my dad is full italian my mom is half black half white. her dads from africa (not african american) and her mom is russian, english, german, and greek( i know, a lot) My hubby is 50% puerto rican, his dads full rican and hes 25% french canadian and 25% polish I have dark brown hair, and brown eyes he has dark brown hair and green eyes I have like, "olive" toned skin, as they call it, and most people always think im 100% italian. everyone thinks im white, but im not, im mixed race because im 1/4 black. but my skin is kind of a natural tan, people usually say im like a twin of sammi sweetheart from jersey shore(lol not lying.. this is what everyone has said since the show came out) if that helps you get a visual image. my boyfriend looks puerto rican mixed with white.. pretty simple. hes a tad darker than me. he has green eyes dark dark hair OK so i know that nobody can know what their kids will look like, but based on these descriptions what do you think ? my kids are gonna be soooooo many things hahah. like everything in the book! I know they will be beautiful no matter what and ill love them to bits. so what do you think they'll look like based on my description? please no hateful comments im just curious. its an easy way to get points just to give an opinion so dont get bitter with me. more

Voting Question: how can i let go without having a aniexty attack?

every day i tell myself that im a strong beautiful woman.. that i can handle this break up with my ex whom i was with for 15 yrs... we have 3 kids together.. but once i start thinking like that i start to panic.. i start breathing heavy, my chest starts hurting.. i feel like i have to throw up and like im going to pass out.. i told my therapist about this and she says i suffer from anixety... she wants me to take pills.. but im not to happy about that... i want to be able to get over him on my own.. i still love this man with all my heart.. i would and still do anything for him.. we still live together.. but he plans on leaving for good in feb... he broke up wit me because he cant take my jealousy.. he gave me 4 chances to change and i kept messing up.. well now hes done with me.. he used to be so sweet and loving and understanding.. now he gets mad easily.. he told me he doesnt see me as his best friend any more and that hurt me because hes still my best friend.. he told me that hes ready to turn his back on me and never see me again.. that hes tired of me.. and than 4 hours later he tells me he will always be here for me.. no matter what.. im always crying.. i dont know how to move on... i dont know how to stop thinking about him and what hes doing.. hes always texting other people.. most of the females.. who he works and worked with.. and a family friend.. mind you they all know about me.. i miss him so much.... i want my best friend back.. the old him... but i know hes never coming back.. how do i let go?? how can i let go with out having an anixety attack?? he says he loves me.. but if im crying or hurt he tells me to shut the F#$% UP.. that my tears dont affect him anymore.. that hes tired of me and my ****.. i would like advice from people who have gone through this.. i need a way to move on and be strong again for me and my 3 kids... more

Resolved Question: The best way to act with a stranger girl you like?

I have low self confidence, maybe it is because my mom left me when i was 3... and i always feel rejected, i never had a girlfriend, and i didn't knew why! but this year i knew that girls like alpha males, with high self confidence... sometimes i feel ugly, and i hate my full huge lips... anyway, i don't feel conformable in company of girls, any beautiful girl... i tried to get over my fears, and i did actually, but i always get rejected because i don't know how to act NORMAL, as if i came from an other planet... i can't act NORMAL with a girl i know just a little about, i don't know how to get a girl to like me.. i tried every way to flirt and it is just not working, tried to be myself no matter what, turned out to be stupid, tried to be playful and funny.. i hate it when i try to say something funny and people just look at you like "what a freak", i tried to be less "available" for girls and reduce attention to make them peruse me.. no chance. i always think people gonna judge me and i hate that... what should i do :/ i have few there questions too, does girls look at each guy like a "potential lover"? more

Resolved Question: I believe in God and The Word, but I do not enforce my beliefs on others, I love all even athiests am I wrong?

I am a christian today, it has been a journey though. I was born a christian, then I broke away from it because to me it all seemed like a fairy tale, all this majestic stories in the bible, really how am I to believe this, but I kept on searching for the truth, for I know that one thing science cannot really answer is why we are here, the purpose of life, how it all happen, the whole Big Bang and Evolution theories fall short, I rather listened to my soul to what felt right and realised that God is real. Hey but thats not my question, the thing is I love all, I do not care if you do not believe in God, if you are Gay, or how you worship your God, I was out in the world being a non-believer knowing these so-called bad people and realising that they are beautiful people who deserve no less respect, however my fellow christian brothers and sisters, tell me that I am in a way approving to sin by showing acceptance, its a matter of treating another human being with respect regardless of whether I agree with their beliefs or not, and I surely do not force down religion down their throat, yet my christian brothers say that I must, if its meant to happen for those who do not believe it will happen on Gods terms. Am I wrong am I too liberal, liberal ideology they say is tainted with satans deception, how do I find a balance. more

Resolved Question: Did you know that the so called 'Black Americans' are the descendants of the Ancient Israelites of the Bible (?

It is a scriptural fact and through archeology that the so called African American / Caribbean "Black Man / Woman" is the descendant of the biblical Israelites. "Descendants of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob who God said would be enslaved for 400 years. The scripture in Deut 28:15-68 clearly explain the curses upon Israel for the breaking Yah's laws and worshiping other G_ds. There are several prophecy's throughout the old and new testament of Israel being scattered throughout the four corners of the earth. The temple that you see today in Jerusalem is prophecy fulfilled and it was destroyed in 70 AD by the Romans, which has scattered all the 12 tribes of Israel into Africa and then in later time as per prophecy mentioned in Deut 28:68, the Israelite s were sold into slavery...According to the prophecy mentioned in Deut 28:68, the only race of people who were sold into slavery by ships (bond men and bondwoman) were black people, as per scripture are the true descendants of the biblical Israelite's The so called Jews and/or Israelis that you see in Israel today are not the descendants of the Biblical Israelites, however does make you wonder why they don't call them selves Israelites, becuase the truth is knowed that Israel became a state after 1948 through the assistance of the United Nations after world war 2. These so called Jews in Israel today are impostors who lie about being the descendant of the biblical Israelites. 92% of the white jews that you see today are Ashkanazi's from the khazar empire, from the European region. They also believe in the Talmud, which is to them considered higher than the bible. This Talmud (oral law of Moses) is nothing but a book of hate and immorality. The Talmud is no where where mentioned in the Holy bible nor is it mentioned in theTanak (Torah) The word Judaism is also not mentioned in any of the scriptures or in the Tanak. Judaism is a MAN MADE RELIGION that has adopted the laws of YAH Genesis 15:13,14 And he said unto Abram, Know of a surety that thy seed shall be a stranger in a land that is not theirs, and shall serve them; and they shall afflict them four hundred years; And also that nation, whom they shall serve, will I judge: and afterward shall they come out with great substance. Acts 7:6 ,7 YAH (God) spoke to him (Abraham) in this way: 'Your descendants will be strangers in a country not their own, and they will be enslaved and mistreated four hundred years. But I will punish the nation they serve as slaves,' YAH (God) said, 'and afterward they will come out of that country and worship me in this place (Israel) Revelation 2:9 I know thy works, and tribulation, and poverty, (but thou art rich) and I know the blasphemy of them which say they are Jews, and are not, but are the synagogue of Satan. Revelation 3:9 Behold, I will make them of the synagogue of Satan, which say they are Jews, and are not, but do lie; behold, I will make them to come and worship before thy feet, and to know that I have loved thee. Unfortunately, there are today people caling themselves "Black Israelites" who are racist and are misinformed about the true message of the Messiah. It's all about showing love and teaching salvation to another human being. (no matter the what color the person is)...I have come across many white Hebrew Israelites that are aware of the truth (in America and in Europe) and I find that to be a beautiful thing.....Salvation is for everyone (Yah is no respecter of persons and he does not care what color the person is, as long as they aware of the truth and what he requires)....Also we do not tolerate evil or lies that is being taught from other religions or cults....The Jews that you see today in Israel is a lie and right now the truth is coming to the world about this lie.... They CANNOT provide any evidence through Archeology or through the Holy Scriptures on their claims on being the Chosen ones and/or being the descendants of the ancient Biblical Israelites..IF I'M WRONG..I would kindly ask anyone to please email me the evidence, especially evidence that can be provided through the HOLY SCRIPTURES (The Bible) or better yet, I would suggest for the individual to post this solid "STRONG"credible Evidence as it would be considered the "Best Answer" that would undoubtedly prove me and every Hebrew Israelite in this forum wrong, however the information that we have provided, is derived from the HOLY SCRIPTURES and through historical facts. It would be strongly suggested that this "STRONG"credible Evidence needs to be based on the same (WITHOUT claims, opinions or man made theory's).Hebrew or so called N_gros-12 tribes of Israel http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-2762010013788438774# 92% of European Jews, were originally Khazars(series 1 of 4) World War 2 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ry37mKMh04U&mode=related&search= Images of the Black Israelites http://www.zaqen.info/israeliteimages.html 400 year captivity prophecy http://israel.ysrayl.angelfire.com/400_Year_captivity_prophecy.html Map of the Hebrew slaves (trans atlantic trade) http://www.fortunecity.com/victorian/palette/59/hebrew.html more

Resolved Question: Why is this question even asked? "Why do Black Women Have A Hard Time Finding A Man"?

Lately I have seen alot of hating going on against Black Women. I know from experience that Black women are some of the hardest women to get. It took me years to learn how to get Black women. I have met guys from other races who have dated Black women and they say it is super hard to get them. But what I find is once you got one she will have you back. You a handsome guy? Not enough for a Black woman. You dress nice too? Not enough for a Black woman. You make alot of money? Not enough for a Black woman. You got good game? Not enough for a Black woman. You got swagger? Impressive but alone not enough for a Black woman. You religious and attend church? She will love that but still not enough. The thing is to win a Black woman you got to have all the above in many cases. The one of these I have seen Black women look past is the money. The other requirements not likely to happen that a Black woman looks past those. You can go to forums with Blacks and see how difficult it can to get a Black woman. I myself have greatly gotten better at talking to women based on seeking out Black women as partners. I have dated other races at a time but that was before I learned how to talk with Black women. You can talk to men of all races who actually won a Black woman I know no man I met ever complained of how easy it is to get a Black woman. I found that getting woman of other races was easier. I think in lies the problem if you wanna call it that. Black women are harder to get therefor many men prefer easier targets. Even many Black men complain about how demanding Black women are and opt to persue White women. A good case could be made that if Black women just accepted any Black man, Asian Man, White Man, or Hispanic man their dating and marrying rates would go up to the level of women that I have seen with Fat and Bald men, mainly White that are in some cases twice their age and three to four times their weight. Highly desirable, in the case of women would mean they only take the best of the best men. You got to have all your stuff together and probably look fairly handsome. If you look carefully you will see the fewest missmatches i.e beautiful girl and ugly guy then other races. Matter of fact I think Black women beat out White woman(thought to be prime choice). So in summary I think it is just that Black women have high standards, but I would be interested how others answer this question. more

Resolved Question: i can't get over my hate for my mother? any advice (sorry for the long story)?

(and no do not tell me that "she is your mother and you are suppose to love them no matter what". that is not true. some parents scar a child so much that it can't be forgotten) i am 29yrs old now, and i still get so angry every time she tries to act concerned about anything. she treated me like crap up until the day i graduated high school and left for good the day of graduation. i have 3 siblings, and she would mentally abuse me everyday of my life. and for those of you who understand that mental abuse can be far worse than physical sometimes, you get where i am coming from. i was the most well behaved one with the best grades who never got into trouble. one day when i was 25yrs old, she got my sister to give her my number and she called me up and apologized for all the 18yrs she treated me like crap. she admitted to everything. i had everyone tell me that my mother was jealous of me and that is why she treated me so horribly. they said she hated the fact that everyone talked about how i was such a beautiful child all the time. i am anti-social and barely like going out or bringing any attention on myself because i am afraid of what people think of me because she always put me down constantly and ridiculed everything i did. my little brother was her favorite. she even said it herself. she would buy my little brother everything he wanted and leave me with nothing. i even remember when i had the same pair of shoes for 3 years straight while he got 9 pairs of shoes within that same 3 years. she would buy him school clothes and me only one outfit. my hair was long and beautiful just how i loved it and past my butt, and she made me cut it into a pixie cut just out of spite. i was laughed at in school and teased because how she told the stylist to cut it on purpose. she would leave me at school after practice for sports and make me walk home but would always pick my brother up and the school was very very far. it got so bad with my brother picking on me everyday because he knew he could, that i almost killed him by strangling him. he never bothered me again after that. these are just examples to show you what i mean, but it was a lot worse. i can't get past my anger. i am traumatized for this. there is no way to get over 18yrs of abuse day in and day out. i mean, how is a mother jealous of a baby? how do you pick favorites out of your children? how do you single out 1 child out of 4? does anyone else have a similar problem like this? how do you handle it? or if not, do you have any advice? AND DO NOT REPLY WITH MEAN COMMENTS, IF YOU CAN'T BE NICE THEN GO SOMEWHERE ELSE! more

Resolved Question: Very weird dream. Does it mean anything?

If it does mean anything, don't just put yes, also put what it means. I was in a house. Almost everything was made of gold I was grown up with 5 children. 2 boys and 3 girls.The two boys were identical twins. One was name Allan, the other was named Jacob. As for my daughters, my oldest daughter was Amanda, then Ashley, then Isabella. The boys were both 13 years old. Amanda was 15, Ashley was 12, and Isabella was 6.I was married to a man named Charles.He was a lawyer while I was a computer animator. When we are home, we would all gather 'round a table and talk about the best part of our day, then it's off to the park. One day while we were at the park, I saw a group of squirrels sitting on logs. They were sharing a walnut and helping each other. I thought it was neat, so I stayed for a while, but soon, I had to move on. I walked around a beautiful lake, and as I was walking, I saw a fish swimming, and as it swam, the path would have bubbles. When it was done, the bubbles said, " You are not full of evil, you are just too blind to see the good. I had to take a picture. I understood what the fish meant by that, but it was amazing. When I got home at last, The children went to bed, and so did Charles. I stayed up drawing pictures in my sketch book. I opened it, and in it was a note that says, "No matter how bad your life may seem, there is always room for happiness" I smiles and went to a blank page and drew a tree. After that, I thought I heard a god telling me to wake up, but it turned out to be my pa, and I woke up. more

Resolved Question: Is this short story good enough for me to win the top prize $2500 in the "best short story" competition?

"THE LIFE OF A DANCER" My friends Alan, Bob; and I were loaded with booze and K. We had just had the bash of the year at Alan’s apartment in Chicago, and wanted to prolong the euphoria over the night. Bob had flown all the way from Nor Cal, and was flying back tomorrow. We had just turned 21, and wanted to enjoy our first shot at manhood: we decided to go to a strip club. It was 11 at night. We picked up Cartman, another friend of ours from his house in Naperville, IL. He was the only one sober among us, and it seemed like he was feeling out of place with us. We reached the Diamond club aka The Gentleman’s Club at 12am. We sat at the nearest table to the stage, where luscious women were displaying their ‘goods’. Before we knew it, four strippers Amanda, Becca, Cecilia and Elaine were ‘heating us’ up. Amanda was a beautiful British girl, with an amazing body and a killer smile. She sat next to Alan, and started biting on his ear gently. Elaine was a beautiful Latino girl: she sat on my lap and started touching my face. Cecilia was a pretty white blonde, but she wasn’t getting too much attention from us. Becca was a beautiful lanky girl, and she was engaged with Bob. Cartman was sober as hell, and like Cecilia, wasn’t getting too much attention from us. A lap dance in the VIP lounge cost $30, and out in the open cost $20. Each lap dance lasted about 10 minutes. Alan and Bob were raring to go; so it seemed like Cartman and I were the only ones getting no action. But I was having a great time talking with Elaine, while Cartman wasn’t making any inroads with Cecilia. I asked Elaine her name. She told me, and then she asked for mine. She seemed like a very pleasant person, and I felt like talking to her a lot more. “So what else do you do besides your job?” I inquired; “Well, I’m a fashion designer; and I’m also studying in college, and then I have this job,” she told me. “Wow. That’s so cool. You’re so talented,” I told her. “Thanks. You have a really nice smile,” she told me. “Thanks. You’re really pretty,” I said. “Awww thanksss. Are you trying to hit on me?” she chuckled. “No, not really,” I laughed. “I’ve never met anyone like you before. How old are you?” she asked. “21. You?” “Wow. I’m 21 too,” she said. We were looking into each other’s eyes intently. “So like, how do you like working here and stuff. How do you like the girls you work with, and the guys that come here?” I asked her. “Ummm it’s ok I guess, not really thrilled with it. The girls here are really really nice, and this club’s really great because they don’t treat us like crap. The guys, well they’re cheap.” “Hold on, I’ll be back,” she told me. She went onto the stage and did her ‘routine’, and I felt guilty for occupying her. I didn’t feel like getting a dance from her, and I was wasting her precious time when she could be making a lot of money. From the VIP lounge, Alan was getting his third lap dance from Amanda. Bob was finished with Becca. I could hear Bob saying “blow on them harder” and then a lot of laughter. I was feeling a bit guilty. So it was just Cartman and I, looking like idiots sitting near the stage. I decided to check on Alan and Bob in the VIP lounge. As soon as I reached halfway, Amanda was done with her routine with Alan and she caught up with me. She gave me a wide smile, and started grinding her body against mine. “Dahling. You look like you can do with a dance,” she said, pressing her hands against my butt. I was slightly taken aback by her forwardness. I muttered a few things, without looking into her eyes. “What’s the matter dahling? Are you shy? I like shy guys,” she said, sliding even closer. “Ummm no actually. I just got out of a serious relationship, and I was ——“she cut me off. “Dahling. You just got over a relationship. If you were in a relationship, I’d say you wouldn’t need the dance. But let me blow some of that steam off you, you’ll like it.” “No, I’m good I think. Thanks,” I told her. “Ok. But you know where to find me,” she said with her bright smile, pointing towards the VIP lounge. “Yeah,” I told her. She twisted my nipples gently and left, searching for her new prey. It was 1:30am now: the club was starting to pack up. I searched my pocket, and found a $20 bill. I looked at our table, but Cartman was not there. Where could he be? I wondered. Then I saw Amanda treating Cartman with some hot action, in the $20 area. Cecilia was sitting by herself on this other table. I went up to her, and started talking to her like I did with the other strippers. We talked for about 10 minutes. I was really getting to know this girl: she was an extremely warm person, and she taught children Math in her day job. She was a college student, and she looked like a 19 year old. But she told me she was 23.CONTINUED.... Then she suddenly asked me: “Can I ask you something?” “Sure,” I said. “Do you want a dance?” I was taken aback by her straightforwardness. “No,” I told her. “Ok.” She muttered. She was about to leave, when I stopped her. “Sure. I want a dance.” I told her. She seemed a lot happier now. “Ok. Let’s go there then,” she smiled, motioning towards the $20 area. We went towards those chairs. I sat on one of the chairs, and then she sat on my lap. “I need you to take your jacket off,” she said sweetly. “Oh of course. How stupid of me,” I chuckled. She was getting ready to undress. I stopped her when she was getting ready for the dance. “Where do you live?” I asked. She burst out laughing. “Did you stop me for that?” she inquired. “An hour and a half from here.” “So what are you going to do in the morning, after this shift is over,” I queried. more

Resolved Question: I Need Some Best Friend Help!!?

okay so my best friend is literally the most perfect person in the world shes the most beautiful person you will ever meet and everyone is always talking about her. She gets perfect grades and if she gets a good report card which is always she gets a new HIGH end designer hand bag or something. Shes always tagged in notes and stuff as the perfect one or most beautiful and people always tell her shes beautiful and they say i look pretty but i think its because im around they say it. im always borrowing her clothes because she has a huge closet with high end designer, and everyone loves her house because its really big and on a private drive and stuff.me and my friend sara heard two of our teachers talking about her and they said something like its impossible for a girl at the age of 17 to look that beautiful. my friends are always hovering over her and invites her to amazing concerts and stuff and i feel jealous. and im a little shy but not very much and she is a little more talkative but everyone always likes her more. no matter how hard i try. i kinda copy her sometimes but it doesn't work and guys like her SO much but she can be a bit oblivious. We have the same exact birthdays and for her birthday she gets a two thousand dollar party and a trip to NYC and i get a sleepover with a few friends in my small house. So i try to put her down sometimes and i know its kinda mean but im really jealous and it makes me feel better, but shes my best friend and shes more there for me than i am for her, but i dont want to be because it makes me feel jealous..what should i do? more

Voting Question: Did I make the right choice?

I am attractive, successful, fun, good in bed, etc. My girlfriend was beautiful, smart, fun, and we were like the perfect couple. Then she cheated on me. I dumped her. It was horrible and painful. A few months later, she came crawling back, begging me to take her back, and I did. She promised it would never happen again. Well guess what? After a year together she started doing it again. She must have slept with 5 or 6 more guys...it totally destroyed our relationship and I had to get rid of her for good. I have learned that women are emotional junkies...they are slaves to their own emotions. For a woman, love is just a feeling. But for a man, or at least for me, love is a commitment you make in SPITE of your feelings. It is a decision "for better or for worse" to work things out, no matter what. But I can't count on a woman to make that kind of commitment. She is a woman - she will go with her feelings. As soon as she doesn't feel "in love," all bets are off! Because of this, I no longer trust women. I don't think they can be counted on for truth or fidelity...thus I cannot respect them either. And because of that, because I can no longer trust or respect women, I plan not to get into another relationship. I have become a player. I use women for sex because I honestly don't believe they are good for anything else. When was the last time you heard a woman say, "word is bond" ? NEVER because they don't think in those terms. I wish things weren't this way, I grew up believing in the cartoon version of romance. But this seems to be how they behave so I might as well enjoy them for what they're good for (sex). Did I make the right choice? more

Resolved Question: can someone please tell me why GOD spare Satan and easily destroy mankind.....?

why why why why why why why......................????????????????????? if he is all loving................why is he letting Satan and/or the angel of death to do these things on our beautiful planet and mankind's....................????? if he destroyed Satan and all the rebellious angels when they rebelled against him, life on earth would be different and you people can't say that without Satan's fall god wouldn't create mankind's..... If God already have us in plan He will do it no matter what..... end of story. this planet would be very beautiful and we would live in earthly kingdoms like how the religions speak of(paradise on earth).......... and if Satan exist Not before mankind's.... we would never sin for the father of lie's would not be here to whisper lie's into our mind's. more

Resolved Question: Philisophically speaking, do you think I am morally wrong?

Well to start, I am a 43 year old man with no wife or kids and my family and church have rejected me because of my... "hobbies" for lack of a better term. I used to be a devout Christian but I came to a point in my life where I was very conflicted with myself. I was ashamed of what I was doing and knew that God did not approve of me and my actions. It wasn't long after that my family found out what I was doing, and then of course everyone at my local church community found out as well. I suffered great harassment and scrutiny as a result of this and was forced to leave the church, I had to listen to my family hound me about how I was "going to hell" and how I'm living a life of sin..etc. I couldn't take it anymore and I came to a breaking point where I even questioned the very existence of God, it just didn't make sense that I was born with such a harmless fetish but yet I was to be sentenced to hell for it. I had now rejected the idea of God and Christianity, I had rejected religion altogether and reformed myself as an Atheist in my own right. As I'm sure most of you are wondering, what exactly is my hobby or fetish that led to all this? well, I work at a car tire shop that's right next door to a dance studio. Throughout my days working there, I constantly see beautiful women clad in tights and spandex walking into the dance studio. And to say the least, curiosity got the best of me one day so I decided to walk into the alley behind the dance studio where there are several windows. The windows are up high so I had to borrow a medium-sized latter from our car shop to and stand up on so I could see in through the windows of the dance studio. I did this, and as I watched the women inside bending and stretching and jumping around in there spandex pants I began to become aroused and before I knew it my hand was down my pants and I began to masturbate as fast as I could while watching them. I finished, grabbed the latter and ran back to work, I got away with it...nobody had seen me, what a rush it was. I did this many different times usually around my lunch hour, until one day a police car came driving down the alley I was in and spotted me on the latter masturbating. I attempted to escape but ended up falling off the latter and breaking my arm, I was arrested and charged with indecent exposure, avoiding arrest and misconduct. This is how my family and church found out about my fetish and the rest is history, I even lost my job over this whole thing. Now the way I see it, there is no heaven, no God and no higher purpose to life other than what we make of it. And we only have one life to live, so why can't we just enjoy ourselves while we are here? If you're not hurting anyone I think you should be entitled to do whatever you want. Do you agree? I honestly don't believe what I did was morally wrong, by the laws and dogma of Christianity or any other religion for that matter I am wrong, but in reality what did I do wrong? All I'm doing is enjoying myself!! There is no God and life is inherently pointless so why can't I just enjoy life the way I want it without hurting others? more

Resolved Question: ATHEISTS, I need your help, will you listen to me please?

Well to start, I am a 43 year old man with no wife or kids and my family and church have rejected me because of my... "hobbies" for lack of a better term. I used to be a devout Christian but I came to a point in my life where I was very conflicted with myself. I was ashamed of what I was doing and knew that God did not approve of me and my actions. It wasn't long after that my family found out what I was doing, and then of course everyone at my local church community found out as well. I suffered great harassment and scrutiny as a result of this and was forced to leave the church, I had to listen to my family hound me about how I was "going to hell" and how I'm living a life of sin..etc. I couldn't take it anymore and I came to a breaking point where I even questioned the very existence of God, it just didn't make sense that I was born with such a harmless fetish but yet I was to be sentenced to hell for it. I had now rejected the idea of God and Christianity, I had rejected religion altogether and reformed myself as an Atheist in my own right. As I'm sure most of you are wondering, what exactly is my hobby or fetish that led to all this? well, I work at a car tire shop that's right next door to a dance studio. Throughout my days working there, I constantly see beautiful women clad in tights and spandex walking into the dance studio. And to say the least, curiosity got the best of me one day so I decided to walk into the alley behind the dance studio where there are several windows. The windows are up high so I had to borrow a medium-sized latter from our car shop to and stand up on so I could see in through the windows of the dance studio. I did this, and as I watched the women inside bending and stretching and jumping around in there spandex pants I began to become aroused and before I knew it my hand was down my pants and I began to masturbate as fast as I could while watching them. I finished, grabbed the latter and ran back to work, I got away with it...nobody had seen me, what a rush it was. I did this many different times usually around my lunch hour, until one day a police car came driving down the alley I was in and spotted me on the latter masturbating. I attempted to escape but ended up falling off the latter and breaking my arm, I was arrested and charged with indecent exposure, avoiding arrest and misconduct. This is how my family and church found out about my fetish and the rest is history, I even lost my job over this whole thing. Now the way I see it, there is no heaven, no God and no higher purpose to life other than what we make of it. And we only have one life to live, so why can't we just enjoy ourselves while we are here? If you're not hurting anyone I think you should be entitled to do whatever you want. Do you agree? I honestly don't believe what I did was morally wrong, by the laws and dogma of Christianity or any other religion for that matter I am wrong, but in reality what did I do wrong? All I'm doing is enjoying myself!! There is no God so why can't I just enjoy life the way I want it without hurting others? more

Resolved Question: Nicee Understandingg Nonjudgementall Pplz Only Pllz.?

OKay, i'm only 13 . My name is Winter . I feel like I am ready to become sexually active . -(iknow,you'resayin'omgthisgirl'scrazy')- i dont give a fuck what you thinkk . I know all the risks andd how too prevent it all, so does thaa guy, * [dont tell me 'just masterbate' or 'you're too young'] cause no matter what you say, imn still gnee deww it. [: anywayy, i need a way to askk my momm for birth control . --she's thaa type of mom who's all 'God says you can't have sex till you're married' and 'if you have sex before you're married you're a dirty whore'(she had sex withh my dad before they were married :0 ) and no, dirty whores have sex with multiple people. this is one person and prolly gna be one time, for a whilee . so i need a way, or a lie, or somethng to let me on thaa pill. cause i make good grades, im talented, 'beautiful' ..so, i got everything going for me. i don't neeed a kidd, i cudnt takee caree of itt!! && I WOULD NEVER HAVE AN ABORTION AND KILL MY OWN BABYYY! :/ so, there. gimme answerss! thanks, more

Resolved Question: I don't get you girls. I give you attention but then I'm a player? Some advice please.?

I was at a party the other night and I saw a girl that I like. I was doing a lot of flirting and trying to be smooth. I was joking around with her and laughing and all that. I said to her "I love this game we are playing" She asks me "What game?". You know the game where a beautiful girl like you looks at me and wonders what my intentions are?". So I thought I would eliminate all doubt about my intentions. I approached her, she was standing against a wall. Put up one of my arms and said to her while only a few inches from her: "Should we define the rules of the game". And then waited for a few seconds with a little smile on my face. Then I walked away saying "Maybe next time...hehe. I'll be seeing you sweetie". I thought I'd be cool and you know make her feel desirable. We're going to see each other on a bbq on saturday so I thought we could continue then with the games and the fun. But she's been asking her girlfriends about advice and all of them have been dissing me. Saying that I'm a player and only want one thing. None of her friends know me and I'm not a player. I broke up with my ex 4 months ago and haven't met someone since. I'll admit, I'm a flirt and a bit of a tease. But not a player. Just wondering how can a guy do it right? It seems no matter how we always do something wrong. How can I still be myself and show this girl that I'm not a player? Can I just tell her? more

Resolved Question: Why is it when I talk to Muslim girls about the hijab they always bring the west into it?

They claim to be more modest and they turn on the west deeming them on the way women are portrayed in the media, as objects! Although I agree something has to be done about the media but the hijab isn't any better, I mean they are still objects but shrouded from the public eye. Like money in a wallet. If you read the quran and hadith it objectifies the women so much! it treats us like worthless pets who need to be baby sat and are only needed for home tending and sexual matters. It has a strict and unhealthy approach to modesty. I mean women can still be modest without a cloak around their head or walking around in a tent. That's just the impression I got whilst studying islam. And they can't just say the western media represents all women, I mean there are so much women out there with class, they aren't all sluts. I know the hijab is supposed to allow men to see you as human but common WTF! men aren't animals. Not all of them are gonna stare at your titties while you talk to them. I've been around a lot of respectful men, my best friend is male! (I know that's scary for a Muslim right?). Plus, what about the women, men are beautiful to us aswell and they don't have to cover (And no hijab doesn't make any difference to whether a man will rape you or not it's about being in the wrong place at the wrong time). Sorry for the rant lol but this has really been bugging me lately, I just needed to get it off my chest. Anyway what are your opinions, Muslims too I'd appreciate your answers.Rowan: I am refering to certain cases, obviously not all media portrays women as objects (sorry for leaving that out) but you do get some advertisements and even magazines that little girls are reading that objectifies women. Your also right, it's better for women to choose how she lives her life because in the end the consequences (whether good or bad) are hers. more

Resolved Question: Could someone please critique my song?

Beautiful girl Why Can’t I find you I’m just waiting at corners for you to appear I know you’re out there I know you’re near So why can’t I reach through the curtain and pull you near Don’t want to be alone no more Don’t wanna be the only one sitting there want someone right here Someone to laugh with to cry with to live with to die with Someone, out there, someone, some where, I know you’re out there, no matter what they say, I know I’ll find you….no matter what they say I’ll find you, I won’t give up, no matter how long it takes, No matter whats in my way… Oohhhhh, you beautiful girl, oohhhhh, beautiful girl, I’ll find you, don’t worry, I’ll find you I don’t care how long it takes, or how hard it’ll be, I want you No one else will do, oh I want you You beautiful girl, oooohhh, you beautiful girl, As I lie awake at night, with thoughts racing through my head First and foremost, at all times, is you I know you’re out there..no matter what they say I’ll find you…no matter what they say And when sleep descends upon me, all my dreams are full of you….. For now I’ll keep on searchin, everywhere I go, just waitin for the time you’ll come around the corner, And there you’ll be…… And I’ll tear down the curtain, and gather you close, Put my arms tight around you, and whisper….. You beautiful girl ooooh you beautiful..... girl Best answer goes to person whos answer is mosy in depht. Thanks! more

Voting Question: Thinking about having a child, but with a thousand doubts?

I apologize in advanced that this will most likely become quite sappy. I've always wanted to be a mother. Longed for that feeling of Truly loving a life you've created, and having the child love you back. I suppose it is because I've never felt that before, and I want to put all the care I have into this one thing. Every time I think about it, I feel a purpose I guess you could say. Feeling the baby as I rub my tummy, talking to it, singing to it. I see babies smile, or hear them laugh I just melt completely. Not because it's "cute", because of the whole idea of something so pure and innocent, and the fact that you will watch and see what they'd become. It's just so beautiful, but here is my problem. I know I will make the child my world, but I'm not sure if my personality will quite fit. I grew up with an abusive, neglectful father. He lies, he cheats, he's the most selfish person I know. I've always wanted to change that for someone else. But the thing is, I've came to the fact that I have all the factors I hate in my Dad. I'm scared of my temper, I know what it can do. I want nothing more than my son/daughter to grow up happy and healthy, and love me as much as I do, them. Theres a chance they will change everything for me, make me a better person. I'm willing to take the chance that maybe they'd grow up to be a brat, or anything displeasing, because I'd love them no matter what, even if they do hurt me. I don't want to hurt them either, but what if I can't control it? Thinking back to my dad, I'm afraid theres a monster in me, too. more

Resolved Question: Is virtual cheating really cheating? (Husband asking about wife)?

This is hard to talk about, but here it goes. I love my wife with all my heart and soul and we have been married for almost 6 years after dating for 4. I won't say that it was always perfect, but we have usually been pretty good about at least seeing a counselor when things get rough. She has battled depression due to body image, I have battled depression, but no matter what we always seemed to be able to work things out. About a year ago, I found out she had posted a personal ad on craigslist looking for a girlfriend in the W4W section, and that she had talked to a few people. We got in a big argument, but I felt like she was telling me the truth in that she never did anything besides post the ad and that she was done with it and was sorry and that it was because she had deep body image problems and didn't think anyone could love her. Now, I am the serious romantic sensitive type, and I tell her multiple times every day how much I love her and how beautiful she is, and I was sort of shocked by her answer, but I thought it was done and over with. Now, a couple days ago, I went to sign in to yahoo on her laptop but it autofilled it with an account with her name in it that I had never seen, and I thought I knew all her email addresses, so I got a little nosy and signed in to her account. Now the hard part... I basically found out that for the last year she has had an account at a bbw hookup and porn site that she frequents. I also found out that she had posted more things to craigslist and not just in the w4w section. I discovered that she basically had several ongoing on/off again online cyber sex based relationships with various people, men and women. And I discovered that she has sent several people completely naked pictures of herself to these people; not playboy type pics but hustler types. And she has gotten several similar pics back from men. And her emails back and forth have no solid things in them that she actually met up with these people, but they 98% suggest it, things like her saying "I don't know if I can again after last time", and "I really liked what we did in the car" from a guy. I confronted her about it, all in tears and such (I cried for 2 hours) and she really truly is sorry about it. I could see the last contact she had with these people was in May, and over the last couple months she has done things to really turn around; we are trying to have a baby, and she is going to the gym, and graduating from college finally. But I can't shake the feeling that she actually cheated on me. She says that she did cyber with these people, and that any references he made were about fantasies that they chatted about and that that was all it was, but she admitted to talking to the main one on the phone after I saw that he shared his phone number. All of the emails that suggest they actually did something in person come BEFORE several emails that suggest they meet up at a hotel or something. She told me that after he kept bugging her to meet up in person, she realized what she had done and that it was wrong and that she was trying to turn her life around since then and had stopped all her communication with these people. Here is my final ultimate question. After hearing all of that, would you say that virtually cheating really is cheating? I can't sort it out in my head if it is or not and I need outside opinions. more

Resolved Question: Joke: What a scarifies.....?

A married couple was in a terrible accident where the woman’s face was severely burned. The doctor told the husband that they couldn’t graft any skin from her body because she was too skinny. So the husband offered to donate some of his own skin. However, the only skin on his body that the doctor felt was suitable would have to come from his buttocks. The husband and wife agreed that they would tell no one about where the skin came from, and requested that the doctor also honor their secret. After all, this was a very delicate matter. After the surgery was completed, everyone was astounded at the woman’s new beauty. She looked more beautiful than she ever had before! All her friends and relatives just went on and on about her youthful beauty! One day, she was alone with her husband, and she was overcome with emotion at his sacrifice. She said, “Dear, I just want to thank you for everything you did for me. How can I possibly repay you?” “My darling,” he replied, “I get all the thanks I need every time I see your mother kiss you on the cheek.” more

Resolved Question: what do u think of my Anime so far??? plz be honest?

if it needs corrections, plz tell me! Part one “Excalibur” He ran faster. And faster. But no matter how hard he tried to make his legs speed up, the something or someone was still close behind. And it was gaining up. “You can run, Kenji, but you can’t hide!” It bellowed terrifyingly, its deep voice echoing across the forest. It was dark around him. He could feel it closing in on him, its invisible walls squeezing the air out of him, making him run even faster. He could feel his heart thumping widely inside his chest. It felt as if it was about to explode. Suddenly, he skidded to a stop in front of a dark pond. Gasping ravenously for breath, he shifted his cerulean blue eyes around the odd pond. Whatever or whoever was following him had vanished along so with it’s horrible voice, as if sucked in by the tall trees. Cautiously, he bent down and ran his hand through the pond, then recoiled, gasping in horror. It was blood! “What the…” he shrieked, staring wide-eyed at the dark red blood trickling down his arm. Then he saw them. Two heavenly, but lifeless, bodies were floating close by. Who were they? Suddenly, Kenji heard a low musical voice immediately realizing who had called out his name. Kenji felt tears sting his eyes as his body felt numb, his pulse throbbing. “M…mother?” he stammered, calling weakly. “Mizuki Sama?!” He felt like the little boy he was eight years ago, the time his mother and sister were killed by his cruel father. Finally, the two spirits confronted him. His mother looked down at him, more exotic than ever. They were so beautiful; each had long, lustrous black hair that curled down their spine, and clear, azure eyes. “Kenji, child, you must bring peace and tranquility to Japan! Your disgraceful father will soon set conquest on the nation and destroy Japan along with you!” His mother said in a melancholic voice. Kenji hesitated as visions of his father on that day came up. His father had killed his mother and sister then turned to him and asked if he wanted to live or die. Of course he wanted to live, but Kenji silently vowed to destroy the Chinese Empire someday along with his wicked father. And that someday was soon. He could feel it. “Mother, Mizuki Sama, I vowed to destroy China along with my father, and I’ll keep my promise! I won’t let you down!” he called in a strong voice. Mizuki tenderly smiled and reached out her ghostly hand. “Excalibur” she said then they both vanished. Kenji stood there dumbfounded. “Excalibur? Isn’t that the sword of…King Arthur?” he thought out loud, not noticing the large shadow that draped over his body. “Kenji!” The haunting voice came again. He spun around only to be face by glowing red eyes. more

Resolved Question: VK FANS!What do you think about this article: The Japanese Rock Revolution in America Should Not Go Mainstream?

Any criticism would be helpful. I'll copy and paste it here... Visual Kei (Visual Style), VK for short, is a form of Japanese Rock fashion that revolves around modern rock culture in Japan. This male dominated form of fashion is not about the misconceived notion of becoming drag queens but rather looking like beautiful guys. However, despite general belief, this fashion has nothing to do with the type of music that these artists choose to play. VK musicians play many types of rock including, metal, alternative, melodic, and symphonic rock. Visual Kei has some million fans in America. With so many fans in the US you may ask, ‘Why does not’t this show in mainstream media?’ Americans who are not fans of this genre may say that it’s weird and “uncool”. However, in the words of the visual kei and metal artist Mirai Kawashima of the band Sigh, “It’s not meant to be cool.” I remember being attracted to the visual kei and pop rock artist Gackt when I was 12 years old. I just ran up on his song Redemption while watching random videos on YouTube and that was the end of it. I fell in love with this man and his voice. I was never a fan of pop music of any kind but the way he presented his song with such elegance and power just made my eyes and ears melt. Never once did I think that Gackt seemed feminine, I just saw beauty. When I eventually became a dedicated fan or a “Dear” as he calls us, as many Americans advertise their favorite performers, I did mine. When my friends saw him for the first time, they thought him a girl and possibly homosexual. When my family discovered my newfound fandom, they thought that something was mentally wrong with me. I then started searching for internet communities that were “Dears” of Gackt and other VK artists. I only found a few. The people would generally say that people, for various reasons, had trouble accepting their tastes as well. That’s when I realized that not many, if anybody, would understand this art. America, being the melting pot of all cultures from all countries, would never be able to understand VK less long accept it into mainstream culture. My journey deeper into VK would lead me to find that some musicians will make you want to dance like Antic Café and SuG, some artists ease your mind into meditation like Acid Black Cherry and Rentrer en Soi, and some bands such as Dir en Grey and The GazettE purposely awaken the hidden anger in your soul. Rock may be able to awaken anger but it was never meant to make people dance or meditate. Despite this, these bands were able to make people around the world do such things while using the universal language of music as their vessel. Many of these artists can speak and/or sing in three or more different languages. Many can play five, maybe six instruments and often times record their own songs instead of relying on recording bands. The dialect of visual kei allows the individual artist to explore different angles of their style and memorize the crowd not matter what. But the American senses are adjusted to the computerized, oversexed, and oover-hypedimages of the celebrities and superstars of the media. Not to say that there is no talent among American media, but the demand of the hype has sucked the senses dry. Most American celebrities are mere advertisements of themselves and whoever else they decide to sell themselves to. Visual Kei artists see themselves as artists first and then performers, storytellers, and mostly subtle, occasionally provocative, eye-candy. Advertisements are dead last on the list. There’s no doubt that celebrities are the face of the modern people but not all can actually move a person’s emotions. The American people have lost its ability to understand this and therefore, the ideology, work, and talent behind visual kei is a foreign concept. Visual Kei in American mainstream media would involve raping VK of these concepts. In order for VK to exist as it should be, it must stay in the American underground. more

Resolved Question: looking to get a first tattoo, help me pick ideas?

Everybody knows that you’d break your neck to keep your chin up. pain is weakness leaving the body everything im not makes me everything i am. how we survive is what makes us who we are to the ownself be true life teaches , love reveals for those i love i will sacrafice the past is practice la vita e bella (life is beautiful) la vita e amore (life is love) through the clouds love shines Just one touch Now baby I believe Life is what we make it Imagination is more important than knowledge fall seven times stand up eight one step at a time Being happy doesn’t mean that everything is perfect. It means that you’ve decided to look beyond the imperfections. In this great future you can’t forget your past. Strong lives are motivated by dynamic purposes Love builds bridges where there are none Dealing with backstabbers, there was one thing I learned. They're only powerful when you got your back turned. What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us you can keep knocking but wont knock me down well the moon is up and the stars are bright and whatever comes is gunna be alright hold your head high heavy heartt, take a chance and make it big cause it's the last you'll ever get cant nothin hold me down, im gunan touch the sky laugh as much as you breath, love as long as you live my heart will stay the same Imagine all the people Sharing all the world take these broken wings and learn to fly may angels lead you in ... May your heart always be joyful, may your song always be sung, and may you stay forever Young who says you can’t go back, been all around the world and as a matter of fact Smile though your heart is aching, smile even though its breaking Live right now, just be yourself It doesn’t matter if it’s good enough for someone else I am not afraid to keep on living I am not afraid to walk this world heart burst into fire; ill wait forever to be apart I play hard, I play to win Count me out, count me in I'll be bouncing back again I'll take the hit but not the fall I know no fear, still standing tall live for the fight when it's all that you've got you give love a bad name more

Resolved Question: Have any of you seen/heard of this poem before?

So hold your head high gorgeous, People would kill to see you fall, In the dead of the night they can’t hear you screaming You swear revenge, against them all. So stay strong beautiful, It won’t matter it they think less of you here, But you cry by the window when wishes in moonlight don’t come true Doesn’t mean you have to fear. So never take the words he said to heart darling, He has no idea what he meant, To you it meant a life time, To him, a lie worth less than a cent. So don’t drown yourself in what you call medicine honey, It will only do you harm, because you never got drunk enough to get him off your mind. So don’t believe you will never amount to anything sweetie, You truly have no idea what your worth, I see what you’re trying to hide from me, I understand how much you’re hurt. So don’t be afraid to crumble love, Have you even forgotten who you are? You walk around thinking you aren’t beautiful, The truth could never have been more far... So when you forget about him, Don’t regret the pain you felt, It’ll only make you better And you’ll know how to play the hand you’re dealt. So Hold you head high gorgeous, Show the world your fine, Don’t give in to the heartache, Because People would kill to see you fall... I really like it. Do you? more

Resolved Question: what is an opinion really?

some people hate today's music they HATE it but i say its music.....i don't give a fuck what it sounds like i love all music because its all beautiful no matter what. so am i agreeing with everyone at the same time? or am i in my own category? is there really such a thing as not having an opinion? or if you don't have an opinion is that your opinion? whats the point of opinions anyways? if they didnt exist the whole world would get along......well even with out opinions i guess we would still find a way to hate each other more

Resolved Question: ADVICE FROM GUYS (What does this mean)?

Okay I had a thing with this guy for five months where we were hooking up, texting/on the phone 24/7 and he always made comments about how beautiful I am/how much he loved my body ect and how he promised he would never use me for sex and then leave. Then one day he left me.. A few months later I asked why and he said because "I am not athletic". What does that mean? It never mattered before...and I have a good body so I am confused. I look the SAME! ALSO I asked if he ever liked me and he said no. Is it possible to hook up with someone/tell someone you like them and really not mean it or could he be lying? more

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