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Timing Is Everything - Yahoo Finance

Those calendar effects have influenced stocks before, and you can expect they will again ... My hypothesis is there was short covering the day before the holiday in particular, and traders put back their positions after," he said. Fosback added that ...

Where Do You Find Sewing Inspiration? - Associated Content

... all of that is just considering my clothes, but I also design and sew stuffed animals and dolls as well, and I get ideas for them from everything in nature as well. When it comes to innovation and great ideas quantity is key. You have to kiss a ...

Nothing says 'I love you' like a $20,000 iPad - CNET News

The $20,000 iPad is not exactly my cup of tea ... Everything is relative. If you plan to pick up the $20,000 Diamond iPad, you can start placing orders on the Mervis site in June. But if you do, just beware that some of us will question your modesty ...

Why Not Help It Pass? - RedState

If you ask this question without any sense of irony, you have so far removed yourself from reality ... Hell, their lowest paid BA made more than my commissioner, we had a total professional staff of 5 in those days, and they were just one of 13 ...

Hawks are top overall seed - Tulsa World

You would think if we had a chance to play any of those teams, it could mean ... I think the players that were here my freshman year understand the venue and everything that's there. But it's a great opportunity. We get a chance to go into the ...

Els Blog: WGC-CA win is just what my game needed - PGA Tour

... everything on the line. I wanted to prove something to myself out there, so to shoot a bogey-free 66 felt great. I was very calm, very confident. It was like I used to feel when I was winning a bunch of tournaments earlier in my career -- you ...

Best Comics you have seen. - Chud.com

Inspired by my trip to see Dave Gorman on Thursday last week who is the best Comic you have seen live? For me its ether Gorman or Dara O'Briain, who both prove you don't have to pepper everything with swear words to make your set funny. O'Briain ...

Should you tell spouse everything ? - CNN

Philip Roth, of all people, says, "You can tell the health of a marriage by the number of teeth marks on your tongue." Admittedly, Roth is not the poster child for intimacy, but my own grandmother advised repeatedly, "Bite your tongue," and she ...

Friends and Family Are 50% of the Happiness Equation - Salon

... moment that makes you rethink everything and realize you're wasting your time with someone you don't love and "friends" you don't really care about and who don't really care about you. I find the older I get, the more I appreciate my family, my ...

Lindsey Vonn: Next season will be tougher - Denver Post

I'm really happy with everything I was able to accomplish this ... I want to have kind of a normal life, hang out with my friends and family, and not have too many obligations for a while. If you're biking up Vail Pass this summer, keep an eye out ...

Open Question: I want to gain 80 pounds of muscle by football season...?

i weigh 170 and im 5 foot 7.5 inches im pretty strong already but i want to be able to run over the other team even better. IS it possible for me to do this? and i'd rather not gain fat cause i still want to be attractive for the ladies haha this is me to give you an idea, i think i still have room to bulk up around my shoulders and everything http://www.flickr.com/photos/42818007@N03/4435829644/ http://www.flickr.com/photos/42818007@N03/4435061789/ more

Open Question: anyone else feel like their partner is one of their children, instead of a spouse?

Does anyone else feel like they are raising their spouse? It is like dealing with a teenager 85% of the time? I am baffled by my husband's behavior at times. I have so much to do to prepare for the birth of our second child. I only have 5 weeks! Not only does my husband refuse to help me do anything, but when I get things done alone he complains about how they are done! When I ask him to watch our two-year old so I can get some things done, for just a little while, he gets angry and/or asks why my mother won't watch her! He does just fine with her while I am at work (2 days a week!) but the second I walk through the door I am expected to do everything until I return to work again! And riddle me this? How can someone not feel good every single day? He is fine when he leaves for work in the morning! Or lose things almost every day, then it is my fault that he can't even keep up with his own wallet? I am supportive when he needs to get out of the house and go watch the game or what have you, so why is it a big deal when I need to go do something? And how am I supposed to raise my husband? It is worse than a surly teenager! What happened to equal partnership? What happened to teamwork? more

Open Question: My puppy won't eat!!?

I have a female Rottweiler/Sheperd puppy. She's about 5 and a half months old and we got her from the rescue program when she was 3 and a half months old. A few weeks after getting her, she decided she hates eating. We feed her three times a day at the same times everyday (9am, 3pm, and 9pm). I leave the bowl out for 30 minutes and then take it up, regardless of whether she ate or not. The vet recommended that I don't give her treats just to make sure she's not holding out for them. I don't stand around and watch her (vet's recommendation). I put the food down, go on with my day, and pick it up 30 minutes later. As far as her not liking the specific brand of food goes, I've tried quite a few and all have the same result. Science Diet, Puppy Chow, Nutro Large Breed Puppy, and now I'm in the process of weening her onto Blue Buffalo for large breed puppies. I've tried mix-in sauces such as the Iams Savory Sauce and the Yum-It-Up cheese flavoring. Both do well for about a day or two and then she goes back to not eating. She's only gone an ENTIRE day without eating once. Usually she'll take a couple of bites from maybe one meal a day. She won't touch the other meals usually. She knows it's there and knows it's for her, she just smells it and walks away. The vet found no physical problems with her that would prevent her from eating. She's very energetic and seems completely fine. She's a little on the thin side according to the vet (40 lbs) and she clearly is. You can't see her individual ribs. The wierd part is that when I take her to my friend's house to play with their dog (2 year old boxer) she alwatys tries to eat its food. I don't want to switch her to adult dog food but it seems that that's the only food she'll eat. Sometimes I'm also tempted to just leave the food out all day but I've heard that free feeding isn't good for puppies. What are the disadvantages of free feeding a 5 and a half month old Rotti/Shepard? What are the disadvantages of feeding her adult dog food? I don't know what to do. I feel like I've tried everything and nothing works. more

Open Question: i want to gain 80 pounds of muscle by football season...?

Open Question: Why do army wifes cheat?

my brother is 22 years old and he started dating this girl that was 18 he told her he was going in the army she was fine with it he wanted to marrie her befor he left for the first 6 months my mother and I as a big sister looking out for him talked him out of it we told him to wait till his fisrt 6 months where up then he came home and they got married I still didnt like her and there was soemthing wrong about the hole deal they seemed to be fine for the fisrt few months cause she got to go with himout of state his best friend from all his childhood went into the army also he went to see my brother when he was on leave and he ended up sleeping with my brothers wife this was not known untill she had to move back to the sate where from cause my brother was going to korea he set her up in a house with everything and anything she needed she didnt even have to work. She turned into a big slut he came home for a few weeks and he told me the same day he got home as he was telling me i seen he didnt have his ring on I knew I knew all alonge she was no good for him now there not staying together hes back in korea and you can see all they do is fight over the internet its so sad and I am worried when he comes home this time {in 2 months} shes going to make more trouble for him Iam not in the army of anything but Iam married and I couldnt ever even think about a nother guy in that way now. Why when people have everything they do shit like this. Now i dont ever want him with a nother girl more

Open Question: Teens: WHY ON EARTH!?!?

I hate when people say that life sucks. Life sucks? Life is great. Sure it can be hard, even at times it can seem downright hopeless, but it does not suck. How many people die without wanting to? Do you know how much they probably didn't want to die yet there are people who have to complain about everything and say life sucks? I get bad stuff happening, I have had my share. But that doesnt make life suck. It is all about your attitude. If you always think life is bad, then it will be bad. Sorry for the rant but I am SO sick of people saying life sucks because their iPod broke, or they didn't get what they wanted for their birthday. Life is amaizing, be grateful! Opinions? more

Open Question: I'm not sure what I should do...?

I’ve known this guy for about 3 years. We haven’t talked in a loooooong time and we recently saw each other at the mall on Friday. We ended up hooking up and later that night over text I found out he has a girlfriend who he’s taking to the prom the next day. And he didn’t tell me until after everything. And he told me he really likes me and I really like him too….but my friend was talking to him today and when she asked him about me he told her, “Me and ivy are NOT a thing. I have a girlfriend. Ivy’s just a friend.” I have an urge to tell his girlfriend to get back at him but I don’t know what I should do…I mean…am I not good enough for him or something? And his facebook status’ (since Friday) have been things like, “I love you so much Jamie (his girlfriend). You’re my life, and I want to spend forever with you.” ALL WEEKEND. But if he really loved that girl;;he wouldn’t have cheated. And keep in mind::I wasn’t aware he had a girlfriend. more

Open Question: Whats Bromley like to live?

Hi I'm a British Indian with partner child who is 3 and a cat. We are looking to move to Bromley as the area's nice, theres everything under 1 roof eating out, bars, shops etc...and also the rent is cheap. Is Bromley a racist area because it use to have a reputation for being racist, Also for my daughter i will need a good primary school...........Could you recommend any... Whats it like to live in bromley I'm looking to move within a 10 min walk of the town centree any recommendations on any nice areas around the town centre Your answers will be very helpful more

Open Question: Me and my boyfriend's strange behavior?

well, I am in a relationship for more than 2 months. Everything is under control. We both are graduate student, financially stable, We really like each other (I don't want to say Love, although we think we love each other). Like many other relationships we have some conflicts as well: Both of us are really relaxed and peaceful. But when I am mad, or I do have problem with something I need to talk about that, argue and solve the problem. I hate to leave the problem unresolved since in this case, it causes other problems as well like miss communications, ... but my boyfriend he is the one who loves to be quiet when he is mad. At the beginning both of us couldn't handle each others behavior so we had lots of problems. Now we know each other more and this situation has gotten better. But one thing that really annoys me is that he enjoys making me mad and watch me crazy!!!! I believe some of my behaviors are irritating too, like i insist on something and never give up and he loves to stand in front of me. when I tell him about something that I do not really like (when I talk about that A LOT), he intentionally tries to do that! And when I ask him if he enjoys making me mad, he says YES!!!! And I become crazier!!!! Do you think I am sick or he is sick?!!! And what I can do? I sometimes really think if he loves me, he doesn't like to see me mad! But believe me he enjoys seeing me mad if HE is the problem. (But if something else makes me mad, he fights for me). My friends say he likes to test you how much you love him, or he wants to have your attention! Tell me what to do!!! Be serious please!!! Thanks more

Open Question: What do you think about my poem? Its really important to me...?

So next week is my dad's birthday. He passed away a year ago, and my family wants to have a party in his honor, with everyone saying something. I decided i wanted to read a poem. I've written this poem. Please criticize me in every way, instead of feel sorry for me. I need it to be really good. Today is the day, when in harmony the birds sang Today is the day when the bells of happiness rang Today is the day when the world seemed sane Today is the day the heavens cried through rain From joy they could not contain Today is the day where no one lost, only gained Today was the day when all hate was obliterated Only love left to remain Today is the day, everyone felt the sun's warm rays Today is the day where everything changed Because to the hearts was born someone great Because years ago, to the world you came Happy Birthday Dad more

Open Question: How do I handle this problem with my step son?

I have been with my husband now for almost 7 years. I met him when his son was 3 1/2. At first my step son and I got along great. Because of situations that have happened to the boy when he was living at his mothers he has very bad anger issues. He LOVES to fight with authority and does not like anyone to tell him what to do. He has been asked to leave 3 day care programs because of this. That is not the issue though, unfortunately I am one of the people he has NO respect for. He does not like if I tell him he cant do anything. He will argue anything and everything with me, even if I tell him his shirt is blue, and it is blue he will argue it. Well, lately it has become much worse. He has told his dad he does not like me, and does not want me around. He told me yesterday (his father agreed) for me to longer act as his, mother/ step mother or his friend. And I have been told to just let him do what ever he wants and not worry about it if he shouldnt be doing it. This is very hard for me as I have a son of my own who is 10 ( step son will be 10 in May). This is totally heart breaking to me that my OWN husband has told his son I am not to do anything when it comes to parenting ( or protecting him). I spent most of the night crying as I am so hurt that I am to act like his maid now, make his meals wash his clothes and clean up after him and not to ask for any respect in return. How would you handle this?My husband believes that I need to just leave his son alone, and stop parenting him because I am making his son hate me. his son is with me more than both his parents. He lives with us 20 days a month, and I am the parent with him after school until about 6-8 PM when his dad comes home. His father says I am at fault here and I am pushing his son away and make him not want to live with us. He even told his son, if he wants (WE CAN MOVE AWAY). I think his son thought that meant he can live with his mom, I took it as, he would leave me with his son, because his son and daughter both dont like me being a parent to them more

Open Question: We are in love so how can this work? parents or anyone with experience please help me?

Hey so I have been talking to this guy for about a year now, over the internet. We Skype every weekend tell each other anything and everything and he couldn't be there for me when I was in hospidal but he phoned me and sent me flowers, he would answer his phone at 2am his time if I felt ill or sick, he would not go into college for a while if he felt something was wrong with me. He has been their for me, he is my best friend and my soulmate. I have never gotten attached to guys in the past so I no this is real. He lives in New York and I live in London. When we first started talking we were both 17, it wasn't planned our feelings grew, we were both lonely but soon realised we were perfect for each other, we are now 18 and we are ready to meet each other. This is almost impossible, his parents are strict and can't face the fact he needs his own space:( and my parents will let me go abroad but not with someone they don't no. Do they really understand? They don't no how we feel, that we are if all goes well in person both ready to move in together, how can we do that when my parents won't even let me out the country? I've tried saying I am responsible and I will be safe and I will phone them everyday but they just don't understand that our lives without each other really isn't worth living. He feels the same , so many times my parents have told me I can't go and I have felt what is the point, I can't not tell them and go to a different country. Maybe if i told someone in my family really how we feel they would understand and let me go? I wanted to be independent this year as I am getting older but they won't let me. Maybe I could talk to my brother who I'm close with. Parents reading this how should i approach the problem? I'm very mature for my age, we both are and I feel completely ready to do this, I have told them this but they can't let go, if they don't let me go I would probably start depression all over again. Anyone speak of experience or anyone a parent? Thank you, parents don't no we are in love more

Open Question: will he pop the question soon?

me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly 2 years, and living together for a year, in his own house. not long ago i moved out to try and figure out what i want, where i want to be, just get my own life back on track, as i wasn't very happy. i came to the conclusion that i wanted/needed some change, as everything just become so routine, and not much work was being put into the relationship, but he seemed perfectly happy. then we had a very serious conversation, and it got to deciding to split up, but then he really opened up to me. he said that i was the only one that he'd ever thought about having children with, which really confused me, as i'm not too keen on having children before marriage, and so is he (as i found out). anyway he said he does want to marry me, but is scared (which is fair enough), but he's really scared of having children, because he doesn't know if he'll be a good dad, if he can cope etc. this got me thinking if he doesn't want to pop the question cause he's scared of having children. i don't think he said it cause he was in tears (and he's quite macho). sooo confused!! lol but now he's alot more open to talking about children and marriage etc. do you think it will come anytime soon? he's also become alot more affectionate, and surprising me with little things, and lots of cuddles. i feel so anxious now, but don't want to be disappointed. what do you think? more

Open Question: how do you teach a puppy to walk nicely on a leash in an uncontrolled environment?

I know the technique to teach a 7mo. old puppy to walk nicely on a leash but that only works in the controlled environment. what do you do when you are in the "uncontrolled" environment? the puppy basically goes agro at everything-- from what I could research this is normal. But, it's doesn't seem healthy for the pup to be constantly pulling and tugging. is it better to not go on the walk? i don't want to hurt the pup. I don't want to do leash corrections (because that doesn't work). Stopping and not going forward seems just as futile. Leaving the premises when he is calm is a given. the best I have been able to accomplish is to have treats with me and give constant encouragement when he walks nicely but the attention span of a puppy and my ability to do this are both limited. are these all the right steps and it just takes time? I also have an adult dog with me as an example and the pup doesn't try to copy his behavior (I actually have no clue if that would even work). furthermore I've also extended the leash training inside the house because he doesn't pull inside (no distractions). I figure the training will extend from inside to outside... over time... i hope. more

Open Question: Will a kind person help me with this story about a girl im insanely in love with?

Hey all! This is a long story, so don't read further if you are tired or something. Let me say that im a 14 years old boy, im not very horny, and i have respect for other people, i drink and get drunk. Okay, i have a girl in my class that i have feelings for. Lets call her for E.T. Ive know E.T for a year now, and we are very very good friends. About a month ago we had a big party at my place, and we all got drunk and we fell asleep next to each other. We hold ed hans and hugged each other until we fell asleep. Now... My best and her had something going on... i thought! A week ago i asked her if they had something and she said maybe... She didn't really know, and at the next party she would find out and tell me. Fine. So 3 days ago me, E.T, and one of my best friends went to my place for a day and then we would go to a party with no alcohol later at one of my classmates. That day me and E.T played around, tickling, annoying, and steal each others mobile. At the party we talked a lot. She came to me several times and talked to me, and took my mobile and we fought for fun, but it looked like rape.. Lol. Later that evening she sat on my lap and we just talked about things. Then we took back to my house. Me, E.T and my friend. There me and her both fell on the bed very quick. There we lied hugging, caressed, holded hands and kissed. All night long. She held me tight and when i needed to pee she would not let go. We touched each other and we kissed for about 30 minutes and we fell asleep. Next morning we was waked by my friend hearing music, and we hugged into each other for warmth. Again we kissed, and we looked each other in the eyes and smiled. Now... I am a punk and a metal head, and she is into pop and rap.. Also in clothing. But she told me she loves that im different and she thinks its sexy that i have this kinda rebellious look. She went home, and that later evening i threw a party. The guy who E.T had something going on with was there too. When E.T came, we just talked and things like that. Then we went to the hallway... Me, her, the friend, and another girl. We talked, and E.T hushed them away for 2 seconds. She told me that she is not in love with the guy, and that it was sweet of me to help her know if she is or if she is not. Then the others came back in and there she laid her head against my legs and we talked again. At the time they had to go i tried to convince them to stay, cause the other guests was too wasted and weird to sleep with. E.T rubbed me on the cheek and said she felt sorry for me, and then we hugged. Finally they didn't stay, so we hugged goodbye and they left. I also today made a picture for my 4 best friends, where they all have a picture on it, and she is on it. She wrote how she would never forget me and that we could not be separated and that she loves me. Yesterday she also wanted to go to my place, and we did. There we just cuddled and kissed, and talked about everything while holding hands. Then she said that she wants me to take her home, even tough she wanted to stay. Now we write every day and we always use hearts. She also writes on her MSN ''You and me baby, we would fit perfectly <3'' We also call each other honey, babe, cutey and stuff like that. We tell each other everything, and we promise each other that we will forever be there for each other and we will never lose contact and that we love each other. We have each other as backgrounds on our cellphones, where we wrote ''My beloved''. But heres the bad thing. Ive helped E.T with some trouble with a guy at my class. They wrote ''honey, cutey'' and stuff like that to each other. She cant decide if she likes him or not she tells me, and i told her how i felt about him and i gave her some tips. I need to be a good friend of course. She also told me that she will it end it. We also had a sleepover yesterday with the guy she didn't have fellings for. That day before he came over, it was just me and her. We fooled around, made out, holded hands and gave each other pet names. But later when he came, she went down to him and started to hug him and fell asleep beside him. The day after we wrote to each other and told each other how much we miss each other. I asked her if she liked the guy from yesterday, and she said that she did not. Im insanely in love with this girl, and i never wanna lose her. But im scared to tell her. I know she is very shy too by the way. Help! more

Open Question: Correlation and statistics?

Research has shown that the people often see a correlation between two events when one does not really exist. Why do you think this happens? Can you think of at least two situations in which this should not occur and at least two situations in which it is more likely to occur? Make sure to provide enough details that others can understand and evaluate your response Could someone explain this question to me in plain english where I can understand everything I need to. My textbook did not help so much. Thanks and God Bless You more

Open Question: plz help i need some advice from pregnant ladys or woman who had babys !!?

I am 11 weeks pregnant and my bleeding started last two saturdays ago i been cramping i been to hospital like? 4 times everytime everything is ok the babys heart rate is still good and i go tomarrow to check heart beat again ... what i thought was weird is on the U/s showed i was 11 weeks the hcg levels was at 7887 which is like 5 to 6weeks? right? idk maby someone can explain that to me would be very reasuring ...anyone else exsperienced cramps and bleeding started brown staining like...then pink and brown then red small clots very small like a corn size sorry tmi.....now it just pink very light i am just frustrated cause every time i go to the hospital i think its a miscaridge and its not i dont wish for one trust me but if you where going threw what i am right now you be like this ...really hard babys heartrate was at 150 so very good they say plz HELP!! 14 minutes ago - 4 days left to answer. Additional Details doctor saids i have 95%percent chance of carrying full term still so idk she saids she thinks the bleeding is between my uterus and my placenta but she could not tell me where the bleeding is coming from but..... she saids cramping is normally associated with bleeding and she dont think i need to worry but i had a miscaridge 2 yrs ago so its hard not to worry these cramps hurt everytime i get them to i have to pass gas sorry tmi more

Open Question: Do you think we're moving on 2 fast?

So,we're not dating. We're just friends..best friends. I have never had a bf and I have some priorities like school, religion, responsibility in front of everything else etc.I don't lose my personality to anyone or anything and when I feel like I don't want to do something, I say no. So, this was more of a joke than something serious. We were laying on my couch ,watching a movie, and he started do go over my back with his hand. It was like really nice...He told me turn around..I was like why? And he said I'll see. I turned around and he kissed me. Like, 10 minutes kissed me. And while we were kissing he touched my boobs.over the shirt ofc. Later he apologized. Does it mean he didn't mean to do it ? How can you do that as accident ? I don't understand, I'm not mad at him or something but still, it just got me thinking...what did he mean when he apologized?? We're 15 and I feel kind of weird.is this bad,wrong? i feel comfortable, i like him,i trust him, it's not about him and me, just this everything..is that too much ? Bcs people of our age do much more and I still feel kind of guilty. why do i feel like that ? He told me he likes me last week,and he was pretty nervous..you think he might apologized because he was nervous again? tnx more

Open Question: both crazy in love yet thousands of miles apart. Any mature answers or any parents out there answer?

Hey so I have been talking to this guy for about a year now, over the internet. We Skype every weekend tell each other anything and everything and he couldn't be there for me when I was in hospidal but he phoned me and sent me flowers, he would answer his phone at 2am his time if I felt ill or sick, he would not go into college for a while if he felt something was wrong with me. He has been their for me, he is my best friend and my soulmate. I have never gotten attached to guys in the past so I no this is real. He lives in New York and I live in London. When we first started talking we were both 17, it wasn't planned our feelings grew, we were both lonely but soon realised we were perfect for each other, we are not 18 and we are ready to meet each other. This is almost impossible, his parents are strict and can't face the fact he needs his own space:( and my parents will let me go abroad but not with someone they don't no. Do they really understand? They don't no how we feel, that we are if all goes well in person both ready to move in together, how can we do that when my parents won't even let me out the country? I've tried saying I am responsible and I will be safe and I will phone them everyday but they just don't understand that our lives without each other really isn't worth living. He feels the same , so many times my parents have told me I can't go and I have felt what is the point, I can't not tell them and go to a different country. Maybe if i told someone in my family really how we feel they would understand and let me go? I wanted to be independent this year as I am getting older but they won't let me. Maybe I could talk to my brother who I'm close with. Parents reading this how should i approach the problem? I'm very mature for my age, we both are and I feel completely ready to do this, I have told them this but they can't let go, if they don't let me go I would probably start depression all over again. Anyone speak of experience or anyone a parent? Thank youwe are now 18I feel if I tell my parents we are in love they wouldn't understand more

Open Question: Could I be pregnant if I had sex on the last day of my sugar pill? Help!?

I'm 21 years old and I have been on birth control for about 6 months now. I waited one month until I started having sex with my boyfriend (to make sure it was fully kicked in) and everything has been going great. About four weeks ago, I was on the "sugar pill week" of my birth control pack. I got my period that week, as I normally do, but because my periods are rather short, I was not bleeding the full week I was on the sugar pills. On the last day of the sugar pill week (the night before I would start my new pack), my boyfriend and I had sex without a condom. While he did not ejaculate in me (he never does even when I'm on the pill) and the birth control is said to protect you during your sugar pill week, I am still very paranoid about pregnancy. The next day, I took my active birth control pill at the same time I normally do, yet I am still very worried. I am due for my period today, but it's still morning and I haven't got it yet. Could I be pregnant or am I just worrying too much? more

Open Question: Very wealthy yeah... but what's the point?

A very poor and hopeless guy named Bill gates is now the 2nd best! It must be a disappointment for a man who used to be the standard of excellence in business. He only needs 500 million, we must help him, we must give him 500 million, he may kill himself if we don't! Probably every man on this earth dreams that one day he would become wealthy (except me, I don't care about that, and I don't want to get married I think there are lot more better things to do in life.) Don't care about my thoughts and philosophy in life because I have a very special one and very different of every man that have ever lived, I need to know what you think about this question: Lets suppose that I'm very wealthy, I'm so selfish and greed (Just giving an example) I don't care about poor Men and sick Men...I keep getting wealthier I bought many residences, cars yachts, airplanes,whatever...Even if I want to go to space, the ticket coasts 35 million, it's nothing for a millionaire. So practically all you need is about 1 billion to live the luxurest life on earth and to have all your dreams come true. What to do with the rest? How do you use the rest? I'm really asking this question, if you have 3 billion or more and you don't want to help anyone what is the use of your wealth? You can tell me that you create more companies and get more money, I say yes you can but what's the point you have everything, how do you use the money? Note: I have to say this, even though it has nothing to do with my question: Many people say that bill gates lost his place because he helps poor guys, with all do respect to bill, that's rubbish, the man had about 50 billion last year and this year he has 53 billion which means that he has more and in my book if mr bill really wants to help others he should have given away about 15 billion, I don't believe that any wealthy man really helps others. I believe that those man just give a little bit money to poor guys in order to let the media see them and say wow look what they did! they give money to advertise for their companies for God's sake, and they get more! It's just business. Take for example Carlos slim, as soon as he becomes the first, he came to Lebanon and promises to help Lebanon....And the media is always around, advertising. What a good man! He had dinner with the president, PM, made some promises and left. I know that because I'm from Lebanon! more

Open Question: think i have a mental disorder?

honestly somethings i think are so twisted it's unbelievable here are a list of some things i feel 1.it would be better if i wasnt on the earth (suicide threats on multiple occasions) 2.what it would be like if i stabbed myself 3.would love to faint (i will be in a situation with someone close and i will think how nice it would be to faint and have them by my side when i wake up) 4.when i go out to town thinks everyone is talking about them, gosh i hate that so much. 5.cant sleep at all i've been suffering insomnia a lot recently this is my 3rd week of being awake 6.i am afraid around ther people who i have not meet i think there out to get me, i have 1 close friend and i can be very aggressive people find it really hard to get along with me. 7.i get stressed a lot so much i get headaches everyday and i currently suffering acute back pain havent been able to move for 2 days 8.i have really bad anger problems, i should see someone about this is threw a chair off someone the other day because he called me fat (i am really touchy about my weight though) still ... lets just say im very violent 9.i am a emotional person my parents split up when i was 1 year old i have grew up with no dad, and when friends say i hate my dad for what ever i throw fits, then mam got a boyfriend and i was happy for 11 years he was like my dad i even called him dad but he left and i fell into manic depression for 3 years and i got help for that, but if people mention thier dads i throw fits. 10.more enotional when i do something wrong even small things like i drop something i feel like crying, reason why work experience was horrible. i cry at the smallest of things.thought when i am happy i am too happy 11.i can go from being happy to really sad within 10 seconds, i have mood swings it' really horrible. i can be really happy laughing and everything then i will remember something and be really sad and breakdown. there the main ones at the moment but well that should be enough for you to get a taster of my life a normal day can go something like this, i get up go to school someone complains thier family i breakdown crying then build that sadness into anger and destroy everything, then i can be either sent to the toilets to clean up or i get told off, then lessons start i will get something wrong in a lesson cry again, then lunch comes i dont feel like eating because of being upset then someone will pick on me for being the way i am then i get involved in fights after school because of thme picking on me and how i am. more

Open Question: Is it normal to feel like this after just a kiss...was this 2 fast? Please help xx?

Open Question: Do you have time to help me? Thanks?

Ok so I met this girl about a year and a half ago. Me my friend and her and her friend always hung out for about 6 months. This girl and i started seeing each other and even spent a few night together(everything but "it". She had asked me where I felt things were, and I said I was having a good time getting to know her. After that weekend I didn't hear back from her for a few months and found out she started dating this other guy ( and that's why she didn't talk to me but I wasn't jealous b/c we weren't committed to each other). Now she text-ed me a few weeks ago(after 9 months) saying hi and that we need to hang out sometime. We go together with a few other friends and went to the movies(during the movie she told me she broke up with her ex), she bought the food(each our own ticket), during the movie she sat next to me and as we enjoyed the popcorn we flirted a little by her teasing me with the bag and a few other little things. We went to a pub after and had a few drink ( I bought them b/c she bought the popcorn) and played pool. I knew she was working all weekend and didn't text her or call her. So my question is should I text her or wait for her to text me? Is she interested or just wants a friend? Thanks more

Open Question: How do you enable forms based authentication and windows authentication in SharePoint?

I finally got FBA to work on my SharePoint site (WSS 3). The problem is that I can't log in with windows users. I did the steps to enable dual zone following steps here: http://blog.summitcloud.com/2009/10/enable-dual-zone-windows-and-fba-authentication-for-sharepoint/ The problem I'm running into now is I want the following URLs: http://myproject.mysite.com --> login via FBA http://myproject.mysite.com:100 --> login via windows authentication It only recognizes http://myproject.mysite.com:100 on the web server but not outside that. I want that to be accessed anywhere by just typing in the URL. Do I need to open the port or something? If so, how do I do that? Of course, the perfect solution would be for both windows and FBA users to login on the same URL, but I don't think that's feasible. By the way, I'm running Windows 2008 Server with IIS7 and I have no clue where Microsoft hid everything in IIS. Any ideas? more

Open Question: i am 11 weeks pregnant and my bleeding started last two saturdays ago i been cramping i been to hospital like?

4 times everytime everything is ok the babys heart rate is still good and i go tomarrow to check heart beat again ... what i thought was weird is on the U/s showed i was 11 weeks the hcg levels was at 7887 which is like 5 to 6weeks? right? idk maby someone can explain that to me would be very reasuring ...anyone else exsperienced cramps and bleeding started brown staining like...then pink and brown then red small clots very small like a corn size sorry tmi.....now it just pink very light i am just frustrated cause every time i go to the hospital i think its a miscaridge and its not i dont wish for one trust me but if you where going threw what i am right now you be like this ...really hard babys heartrate was at 150 so very good they say plz HELP!!doctor saids i have 95%percent chance of carrying full term still so idk she saids she thinks the bleeding is between my uterus and my placenta but she could not tell me where the bleeding is coming from but..... she saids cramping is normally associated with bleeding and she dont think i need to worry but i had a miscaridge 2 yrs ago so its hard not to worry these cramps hurt everytime i get them to i have to pass gas sorry tmi more

Open Question: What if you try and fix your marriage, and along the way you decide you don't want to fix it anymore?

I used to like my wife but she wouldn't have sex with me. I've tried everything and nothing works. Along the way, I've seen her responses to my concerns, and I'm totally turned off by it. In fact, I am now seeing her in a new light, and it's not pretty. Now I see her as cold and mean, unfriendly and selfish. If she finally got on board with my sex concerns, now i'm not so sure I'd want to anymore. Now I'm thiniking I should just get a divorce, because if she was such a butthead during these conversations, how could I trust her for anything in the future? She's just going to be a crappy friend. more

Open Question: <<Are we moving on too fast ?? How do you slow down when you feel like that...?

Open Question: How much should I sell my collectible jordan 21's (XXi)?

They look like this, exact same. Grey Suede/baby blue lining/white http://www.uptempoair.com/ProductImages/2006/313495-002.GIF They're a bit used and everything looks brand new, but the bottom has a noticeable wear. size 9 in mens. They don't sell this anymore. It's been discontinued nor can you find it anywhere else but ebay.com. Or should I wait it out until prices get even higher?I've found some that retail to about 380$. more

Open Question: I really like her but i never met her!!!!!!! helppppppp?

I met this girl on my space, she was 1 year younger than me. She was from Florida but she was living in the UK at the time. She used to call me a lot when she was there. She always used to tell me how she likes talking to me. She used to tell me everything. Her mom was lived about 5 miles from me so I used her mother as an excuse to make her come back to Florida. She finally decided to come down and she was even texting me while she was at the airport. She wanted to meet me the same night but I didn’t know my address (embarrassing). The next day, I asked her if we could hang out and she started acting funny. She told me that she does not know me and she would rather meet me at a public place. So I felt bad and I told her that I am going back with my ex. So she stopped talking to me and deleted me on my space. After that, knowing my mistake, I try to request her again and she would not accept me. She finally accepted me through face book a couple weeks ago. I was happy but still she would not reply to my emails or anything I post on her wall. Finally she started talking to me after she posted a picture and I told her that she looks pretty. She IM me seconds later telling I look familiar and also how she missed me, she was also opening up for me again my telling me every little things that happened in her life after we broke up. She even started calling me babes. Her boyfriend was cheating on her which is the reason why she s in New York now. But the only problem is that I feel like she still has feelings for her ex. Because he still calls her and she was telling me how good the sex was. It looks like when I try to downgrade her man for hitting on her she is getting uncomfortable wit me. Now she takes a little longer to reply to my texts. How should I handle this. She agreed to go on a 3 days cruise wit me. She also told me that before she moved, she found a card that I sent to her when we first started talking before we lost contact and she said the card got to her but she did not know my number. This morning she posted this on face book. Is she talking about me? FB FAM...DO YOU BELIEVE IN LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT? IS IT POSSIBLE TO MEET SOMEONE THAT MAKES EVERYTHING ALRIGHT WITHOUT EVEN TRYING? :-)~POSTED BY THE GIRL THAT I AM TALKING ABOUT. more

Open Question: help me please................................?

please help me to draft this. I am only 17 and English is not my mother language.I want to draft this letter for one of my boss who helped me lot to get my first job not only that he is a nice person.Now, he leaving this office. feel free to add more if you want.thanks in advanced for your kind help. honest ans please.................. Dear Sir, Yesterday I heard that you are leaving Human Rights , India. If is true , its the most shocking news for me caz, I worked for your never for Human rights. You the one any only person who pick me for the program. My father always told me , don’t go for job. Business is the only solution. But, suddenly, he told me , don’t look back and join. I asked him , why you changed your mind. The answer was, I talked with him and you will be safe. My father died after 15 days of my joining. My duty station was in khulna. Again, you felt my situation and after 26 days I came back to Dhaka. it was a great relief for me. I decided not to continue because, I felt tons of family pressure and responsibility on me. Whenever I felt any problem or difficulties from any corner , there was your advice. Most of the time you talked me with anger voice , which my father did. I was not normal with my father as well you because , I felt nervous. At the same time I felt the love on the other end.It will be very hard for me to work in this office without you. I dont have that much wish to work here . Not more then this year because, salary is great but , the position is the one any only problem. You did lot for me. A single latter or thanks is noting. I just want to say. Thanks for everything.Specially, to made a good impression to my father that his son doing a good job. you are the only person who made this possible. its very hard say good bye. please keep in touch and give me your personal e mail id. at the same time I am very sorry, if i heart you in any way.plz, forgive me. Finally, hats off to you sir. Actually, I work for you not for the office. Right now, there is no meaning to do this job. Sir, take a very good care. And here I am for you. Just let me know , if you need any thing. Best, Juliya sumiya juliya sinthia more

Open Question: I AM LOOSING MY MIND!!!!!?

Open Question: Would you date a guy that is practically a sex addict?

and a druggie. Everything im a virgin and grew up in a christian household it seems to me that i want to be rebellious? He has everything that my parents are against in tattoo,earning and not a virgin? and has a personality! You probably thinking how does a pothead have a personality? Am i being desperate i do not know?! more

Open Question: what would have caused my accellerator to go ?

i have a fiat Stilo 2003 and its crap its caused me no end of trouble since we got it the other day my partner was driving it home from work when the accelerator stopped working and all power to the dash and Stereo cut out it lasted for a few seconds before all coming back on he managed to get to his mum house where i was and was quite worried about it, later as we went to go home it wouldn't work again and still isn't working now all power is going to the car ( everything lights up ) and all seems to be fine accept the accelerator it doesn't even rev when you put your foot on it any ideas anyone i have booked it in at the garage for wed and no doubt it will cost me an arm and a leg again !! i just paid for a new windscreen and exhaust Grrr more

Open Question: Would you be irritated by this?

My husband and I have always tried to be civil to his ex gf because they have a daughter together. We've always tried to be as friendly as possible and she has always been unpredictable. She kept him from meeting his daughter until the court forced her. She would offer to get along and do things nicely and then a week alter she'd change her mind and be as difficult as possible. She is two faced, untrustworthy, and backstabbing! Despite all this, we still tried to get along. She was living with her dad and his gf for several months. During that time her dad's gf tried to get involved in the situation with my husband and I, his daughter, and the ex. She tried to encourage the mother to grow up and get along with us. Things were going well for a while until the ex started her old games again. After that we cut off communication with her unless it had to do with the child. We deleted her dad's gf from our friend lists on Facebook because we didn't want her spying on us or causing drama. We figured we'd tried enough and it was time to just be civil and expect nothing more. The dad's gf got so mad and messaged us saying that I'm the crazy one who causes all the problems and that my husband needs to grow a pair and stop letting me control everything. We ignored it. Now my husband's ex has shown her dad and his gf exactly what we were talking about. She was lying to them and spying on them for her mom. She got kicked out of their house and is now keeping them from seeing the child. She was texting my husband last night that he was not to let the child see her grandfather. My husband told her that he would do no such thing. He said he wouldn't make his daughter a pawn and that she had every right to see any member of her family. He also messaged his ex's dad and his gf about what his ex was saying.He said that he didn't want in on the fight, but that he wasn't going to keep them away from the child if they couldn't get things worked out with her mother. They replied that they were grateful and that was so mature, etc. Would it irritate the crap out of you if someone called you crazy one week and a few weeks later was singing your praises because you were completely right?? more

Open Question: what do u think this song means?

idk i just want to know everyones interpretation of it... i think differenty things about songs than most people its "for what its worth" by the sunstreak heres the lyrics Breaking down the walls that we've been climbing from the start I knew this would be hard And I dont know where I should go now, I dont know what to say today Cause nothing is okay For what its worth I'm sorry, For what it's worth I'm wrong Deny whatever led us here, forget about our love For what its worth I'm sorry, For what it's worth I'm wrong I'm beating myself up and breaking myself down again Cause everywhere I look (You're staring back) I knew it wasn't right, your heart has turned it's back on me Welcome to my life, yeah.... For what its worth I'm sorry, For what it's worth I'm wrong Deny whatever led us here, forget about our love For what its worth I'm sorry, For what it's worth I'm wrong Someone told me you said that everything is okay But when I look into your eyes the lies are black as night Believe me when I tell you and listen to these words, Theres nothing left to say more

Open Question: HELP! Don't know what's wrong with me?!?

Over the past few years ive been feeling down at times. Ive been able to manage it and its been fine, until recently. It comes and goes again this depression. It normaly last a week-ish and during this time im unable to get out of bed, to go outside, to do anything. I think 'whats the point?'. I'm not suicidal, nor do i want to self harm. Its just when i get these periods of depression it think whats the point in doing anything. We're born, we work for 50 odd years (never having enough money even though working) and then we die. Thats it. Most of the time i feel 'normal' its only every so often i get this down feeling. Sometimes i even get a little bit hyper. Like i could be feeling down then all of a sudden ill switch, and be so hyper. i wanna go do everything, just go driving anywhere i want, buy watever i want, without any consequences. Even times when ive felt like i can do things without facing the consequences, like being able to jump from great heights without fearing ill be injured, or stupid things like that. Although this 'hyper stage' doesnt last long, normaly just a day or so. Can anyone help me and tell me what could be wrong. Im not expecting a diagnosis, i know this is only a website. But i went to my GP and she said its one stage further than mild depression and is reffering me to a psychiatrist, i just got to wait for a letter. (this was last week) its been like 4 days and ive heard nothing! Anyone know what could be wrong? thank you :) Oh btw im 19 & female. more

Open Question: Did anyone try for a second baby shorty after having their first?

I love being a mum, I had my baby 8 weeks ago, I have always said I wanted 2 or 3 children and I can see the benefits of having them close in age, On the other hand I love my daughter so much and I want her to have the best and as much attention as I can possibly give her, obviously if I have another child everything would be divided. Did anyone have another shortly after having your first - how did it work out for you? Thanks. more

Open Question: Why would a man do this?

I had a good friend. We were very close but just friends. I was in a relationship and everything was ok. I did have some problems that he was helping me with and he was a great help. At one point when things in my life were at the worst (on top of normal life problems I found out my man was a con and nothing we had was real-so I was very upset over that breakup) this friend told me he wished he could help more and that he cared a lot for me. He was like a best friend or little brother to me. I am older than him. After he told me he cared his life got busy-which wasn't unusual-and we didn't have time for each other. I was still there for him but he was very distant. I recovered from my breakup and he stayed very busy. Now it was unusual. When we tried to talk about it, I wasn't sure if something had happened or what, he said we were fine. Only thing is, it had been months and others had noticed. I decided he must be dealing with something and he knows I'm always here for him so I let him be. Meanwhile as my life got back on track I started really caring about someone else but was afraid to start another relationship. That isn't important except to show that time has passed and I really adored him as a friend but he really had changed towards me. Recently (it's been a year) he's been even a little mean to me. We've known each other for over 10 years and always been close. It only changed right around when he told me he cared about me-but he didn't say it in a way that made me think he had feelings OTHER than being a friend. So...why would he change toward me right after saying that? Is it possible, likely, I missed something because my motives and feelings were pure? I never would have hurt him. I guess things can just change but looking back now-I'm wondering because it was very different. I just don't want to fix things if he is trying to protect his heart-as I don't want to hurt him. I also don't want to be hurt but can't think of a reason for him not to still be friends. Any ideas from the men out there? Sorry it's long--hope I explained it well enough. Basically I guess it's: we were friends--said he cared (actual words were "you know I love you") - and then he grew distant and now he's a touch mean, but not always. However he is always distant now. more

Open Question: I begged the person to talk to me, but person stopped loving me instead, stopped caring, I am garbage?

See, I told the person they meant everything to me, but it does not matter because I am garbage to the person. I wrote these things many many hours ago and the person never answered, still has not, because I am garbage!!!! I have waited hours for you to say you love me and want to work things out. Today is one of the worst days of my life because you abandoned our friendship after all this time. Why did you write to me for months? How could you do this? I have waited hours in pain all day. I will be in torment pain all night. Why did you stop loving me today? Why did you stop loving me today? Why will you not answer? Why will you not talk? Why do you not care after all this time that I am hurting? Please answer me. Please talk to me. This is worst day of my life. You have abandoned me. Please don't do this. I am falling apart. Please answer me. Please answer. Please say you are sorry and that you still love me. Please, I am begging you to answer me and talk to me. Please say you still love me. more

Open Question: Does any one realize no one will ever believe me?

you'll all probably call me schizo and in fact this is probably what they want me typing..after all elite people want us all dead so that everything is there's..though the real joke is they have already probably created another earth..they have the power to create things in our mind perhaps like the matrix that is the only other possibility.. if hell is real this must be it because they torment me on a daily basis.. you could cough up the word schizo and have me take drugs but the truth is they are so powerful they can neutralize the death effects of the schizo pill and make it appear like I'm doing well and all me to die which is their ultimate goal. Mass control is their other issue..they want us all to think a certain way or else..but I get the feeling that even that is a lie..that what they really want is all of us dead. and sure I have seen a blue looking flame maybe that is God I don't know maybe it's them .. I could go on and on..bottom line I know they will probably try to kill me for writing this or control the site so it doesn't even punch through... no one will believe me..I guess I figure my life is a piece of crap.. I can see the comments now.. "your fucking crazy" "go take your medication" "liar" and maybe I am a fruit cake but maybe over half of you are them.. and to all you who do believe me don't do anything stupid..like I am going to do. I'm not going to bomb anything or kill any one .. but I do know everything is monitored... reality is more like 1984... do you remember the movie the island? where there were little bugs in the guys body .. well this is similar..they can monitor our thought waves with sound and or light.. they can literally read atoms like magnetism when a magnet latches onto a fridge or when gravity takes control.. I don't want to know the truth anymore because I've thought of everything.. I could write and never stop writing ..this is probably pointless and my question will probably get deleted as a rant oh well.. and as they love to rant to me "shut up".. oh and p.s. if they aren't real how come they've almost killed me several times my mother even asked if I was alright because they were jabbing a steak knife through my heart... I'm a lunatic bye bye now..p.s. nobody believes me not even my familypowerful? do you consider a dog in a cage powerful? a dog who is being poked and prodded..? oh wait you wanted me to say that.. get your sick twisted way yet? want some more? not that you haven't already openly raped me and my mind... taken everything I thought I loved and destroyed it.. though I am sure if some one read the story of my life they'd consider me one selfish b*tch I'm sure your laughing it up you sick fucks. I shant return - goodbye. I'm sure their laughing..and they want us all to commit suicide.. p.s. for all you know alex jones is one of them... they seem like the nicest people until they hit the kill switch when you look at them a certain way..oops .. I can see them laughing in their bunker or maybe their in their space ship hovering over our planet cloaked..all super human and retarded fuckers.. how can I push this b*tches buttons until every one's dead.. nice story? only for lunatics - when they get you you will wish you never existed. goodbye now..demons? they use the bible as a tool as far as I'm concerned. they probably created the damn thing and have been watching us flourish until the time was right to kill us all off I am not going to get into a spiritual rant here as I said I could write and not stop writing but I am not going to do that..goodbye ta ta I'm not returning to this site.lastly they might allow this body to be destroyed as a religious tool or whatever they wish they might even allow me to spontaneously combust but I am not going to try to convince you all that their mad - INSANE.actually I'm the dude who doesn't trust what I see because they could clone me- they could make me believe I went to heaven because they have powerful projection systems.. but you know what I don't care - no one belives me oh well. and even if some one did we can't stop it..SOL more

Open Question: First steps to Trying To Conceive?

My husband and I have decided to try for our first child when some current issues have cleared up, which should be the in the coming 6 months. In the meantime, I was wondering if all the women here had tips to things I could do to prepare for trying to get pregnant?I am still on the pill and will be for the coming months. I am planning a visit to the gynaecologist to check everything is fine and do full tests. I'll welcome any tips regarding anything you can think of from health issues to dealing with family, the future daddy and any psychological or practical aspect. Thanks! more

Open Question: Need help badly. my HP photosmart 4180 ONLY COPIES, DOES NOR SCAN OR PRINT.?

I found out I will not get any help from HP that I can afford. I have the above mentioned copier, and have had it for 3 years. For the last 6 weeks my printer won't work, and now I've found out my scanner doesn't either. The copier works, but you don't even need a computer for that. I didn't know the warranty was only for one year, I've had it for 31/2. I was completely computer illiterate when my brother lent me the money to by this system, (Dell Dimension E510, and the HP Photosmart "all-in-one" with printer, scanner and copier. Of course the copier still works, but I can't find any suggestions to fix my problem except to make sure everything was connected. It is. Is there a computer (I guess I mean HP also) Genius (to me, anyway) out there who can help me? I was completely PC illiterate when this was purchased and found out the HP all-in-one is only warranted for a year. I can't get anyone to help me, and I KNOW there must be somebody out there who knows how to fix this. Please HELP!! Thanks. more

Open Question: Girl Problem, Advice really Appreciated, Losing sleep ?

Hey, hoping you can give me some advice here if you don’t mind. This will probably take a while to read and understand but I’ve been sooo depressed and worrying about it for the past week that I would really appreciate if you can help me out :( First of all I’m a 17, nearly 18 year old guy which may help In September I started my college course and its been going pretty well, made a couple of new friends but missing out on stuff from school but that’s not my problem… Anyway, there’s a girl in my class, Cheryl. She was 17 at this time too. I get on quite well with her. We’ve done things outside of college like bowling, cinema etc just usual things that friends would do. I wasn’t too sure if I liked her as more than a friend, I mean, I found her really good looking but I wanted to get to know her better as a person first. Within 2 weeks she was seeing someone from our class, Connor who is 24. Anyway, he broke up with her at the start of the year. Think he found the age gap to be a problem. She still liked him a lot and when drunk wouldn’t stop going on about him. He then came to her 18th birthday party, as did i. And she was again, drunk and all over him. They then shared the couples dance at the end which she thought meant he wanted to get back together and he took as a normal dance. By this time I really liked her, I think its fair to say I felt crushed! On the way home, I was driving and gave her best friend, Tess, a lift home. We were discussing them and she turned to me and said “Do you like Cheryl too?” Just out of nowhere and I instantly just said “Yeah!” Now I NEVER tell anyone who I like, even the actual person. I have never told a girl herself that i like them either. Anyway after Connor realised that she still liked him a lot he decided to stop speaking to her altogether! He began to appear offline on msn in order to avoid her, if she invited him to anything he would say no every time, didn’t want any contact really except the very rare odd word in college. This was affecting her college work quite badly, I guess she just couldn’t concentrate and she failed 2 assessments plus an open book assessment where you basically have the answers in front of you as you have duplicate previous excercises! In the past couple of weeks she seemed to have realised that he is just a complete immature prick and gave up on him, I was at her house for a small social gathering on Saturday. I very rarely drink alcohol, just on the very odd occasion. So I was driving round to her house so therefore wasn’t drinking. Cheryl got slightly drunk but not majorly so she sobered up very quickly and the only time she mentioned connor was when Tess said she was texting him to see if he’d come and she said “Just leave him! Its his loss!” So I’m sure she is over him now. Anyway, Connor started speaking to me on msn Last Sunday (about this time a week ago) about Cheryl. The conversation went a bit like this Connor “Hey, how was the party? Get lucky? ;)” Me “It was decent, good to chat to new people. And nah I didn’t” Connor “ :O Why not?” Me “I like someone else” Connor “Oh yeah, X from class was saying you liked Cheryl” ----Now obviously Tess didn’t keep her mouth shut when I told her :@ --- Me “Okay…” Connor “Look, I’m not talking to Cheryl for a reason! Tell her you like her so she starts to like you and stops liking me so much!!” Me “What?! No I’m not telling her just to make things better for you! And if your not talking to her at all then why are you texting her to ask what ‘X & Y’ in our class got as results for the assessment when you have their numbers! Tess told me” --By this time, I guess I was getting slightly annoyed with him stringing her along when he said he didn’t like her (not mentioning what he did)-- Connor “Your obviously not thinking with your Dick/cock then! Right, I’m fed up of You, Cheryl & Tess gossiping about everything! I’m going to delete all of you off facebook now! You can get the **** out my life” Me “Noooooo please don’t, okay delete me but not the other two because then they’ll wonder why and blame me for it!” Connor “Tough ****! Not my problem! I’m fed up of you guys being so petty!” Me “Oh just delete me right, Leave the other two. If I hadn’t brought this up you would still be fine” Connor “Done, all deleted! Done in 4 clicks!” Connor has went OFFLINE So Cheryl spoke to me the following day and asked if I’d spoke to Connor about them and I just told her exactly what happened and she said “Ah he’s so immature! But its between me and him” I just said yeah I know, I didn’t want to get involved but he started speaking to me about it” I apologised on msn then and in person that if I’d made things worse between them I was really sorry and both times she pretty much said the same thing “Its alright, honestly. I don’t give a **** about him anymore. You were only trying to help” On the wednesday i barely spoke to Cheryl or Tess, not even a Hello or Anything fOn the wednesday i barely spoke to Cheryl or Tess, not even a Hello or Anything from them... Craig on the otherhand, avoided contact and deliberately ignored me. The following day, There’s usually only Me, Cheryl, Tess and Connor in our first lesson from our class as everyone else is in a lower group. Tess was off ill so I sat with Cheryl. Connor sat away from us on his own. We were chatting away, she seemed fine. Didn’t seem like anything was up at all, we then spent the half hour break we had together and we went for a walk to starbucks  So I thought that everything seemed fine between us.Now on MSN, she ALWAYS talks to me within a few minutes of me coming online, I don’t usually get the chance to message her first but since about Wednesday, Thursday she just doesn’t want to make conversation. I’ll get very short responses and its not even an instant reply like I usually get… I’ll ask her what she’s been up to, she’ll say something like “watching tv, you?” then she won’t ask anything new or make any conversation whatsoever. Its as if she doesn’t want to speak to me! I asked her if she was okay and if anything was up and said that she was Fine, nothing was bothering her and that it was just because she hasn’t been feeling too great…but I can’t see why this would effect the way she talks to me, I just know something is up with her :(The only reasons I can think of her being this way is because: a) She’s annoyed at me because I’ve made things worse between her and Connor (even tho she said I was only trying to help and that I she doesn’t care about him anymore) and that I stuck my nose in their business even tho he was the one that spoke to me and IMO caused all this! OR b) Connor decided that he would tell Cheryl that I like her as more than a friend in order to make things easier for himself! I’M CONVINCED THIS IS THE REASON, EVEN THOUGH I HAVE NO PROOF REALLY…… I think that because she knows I like her (apparently she had an idea already according to one of her other friends) she probably doesn’t feel the same (as I expected anyway which is why I haven’t told her) and because of this she doesn’t want to make conversation in case I think that she likes me back and I get my hopes up… this may be because she knows what it feels like after experience with her and Connor?OR Maybe its because her best male friend is going home abroad and is then coming back to a different city to go to uni and she won’t see him again for agessss. He’s leaving within the next month I think…..BUT I can’t see why this would affect the way she speaks to me? I think I know what I need to do tho :/ I need to speak to Tess myself and ask her whats bugging Cheryl as she tells her everything and its likely if I ask she will tell me whats up with her. IF it is that she knows I like her then my thoughts are that I might aswell speak to her in person, alone and say something along the lines of:“Look, I’ll admit, I really like you! More than any other girl i’ve met! I kinda gathered you didn’t like me back which is why I didn’t tell you myself. I didn’t/don’t want to lose you as a friend. I’m going to be open with you and tell you that I’ve never actually had a proper female friend that I can do things with outside of education like Bowling, Cinema, Stroll round town and talk to before. I enjoy just having you as a friend and I’m okay with you not liking me in the same way I like you, I just don’t want to lose you as a friend! I just enjoy spending time and chatting to a girl for a change and I don’t want to lose you just because you know I like you”How does that sound? Any better way I could put it at all? I know that her best male friend has asked her out before agesssss ago and nothing came of it and they are still BEST friends and I can’t see how we can’t be as good of friends like that. I would really appreciate if you could give me some advice, both guys and girls would be helpful. I know it must be hard to understand it probably took you a fair while to read through this but I really appreciate it.MORE ADDITIONAL INFO (didn’t know where to put this above) - About a 2-3 weeks into college (while Cheryl had actually started going out with connor but I didn’t know at the time) Connor told me to tell Cheryl I liked her and take my chance, THIS IS WHEN HE WAS ALREADY GOING OUT WITH HER! So to me its as if he wanted to make me jealous and make a fool of myself! He also made remarks on the odd occasion when they were going out like when he was staying the night at hers with a few others that he was going to sleep in her bed, It was obvious to me and tess that he only wanted her for one thing…. - Anyway, this past Friday when we were having lunch, Connor openly told Me and 2 other guys how he was round at his girlfriends house the night before and that he they were having sex in the living room til 2am then went up to bed and carried on for 2 more hours! I really didn’t care about this but he’s spending the weekend with her somewhere by the sounds of it so its clear he has moved on.Sorry about adding so much additional info at the bottom, typed this up on word, transferred it across here and when i click preview it shows everything i typed, all of it! But as soon as i post it, it cuts the end chunk off :S Sooo Annoying, unless anyone knows if theres away to "see more" and its just hidden the bottom half? Anyway thanks for reading all of this...I know i should tidy this up and cut it down, ALOT but i just don't think you will understand as much without the full details :( more

Open Question: Have you ever felt like you were living Romeo and Juliet's story? Or Tristan and Isolde's?

I have--and do. My girlfriend's parents don't like me, her brother doesn't like me. Her parents want her to marry someone else. She asked me once--after our first night together, "You think everything will be alright? Like in fairy tales...there's a hero and a princess. And it ends with happily-ever-after. But there's no objection from the queen. Unless she's the evil stepmother. You think we'll have our own happily-ever-after? We already have three components of the story. Me, the princess, you, the hero, and of course, the wicked stepmother. With the exception that she's my REAL mother." more

Open Question: ex-husband has told 16 yr old son that he is not going to pay child support as i am not entitled?

My 16 yr old son will be coming to live with me this summer, permanently. I have been divorced from my ex for 1 year now, separated for 2yrs. In our divorce decree, there were no disputes about custody as our son was old enough to decide on his own, no judges either...he decided to stay with his father as he did not want to change schools at that time. Over the past 6 months, they moved to MO....I moved to Fl....Our son now wants to come live with me as his father has met another (much much younger woman, and is always gone) His father has told him that since i was the one who left, I am not entitled to child support and he will not pay. We were married for 16 years, i was a military wife, and walked away with none of the entitlements that were due to me by law...because i did not want them. From what i understand, when our son gets here....I am entitled, by law, to child support for our son.....so i gather he is lying to him about this. His father has told me "im not paying anything to you, good luck in court trying to get child support". plz no slamming of me as i wrote a bit yesterday....I have always held a job, while being a military wife, i DID support my son as my ex paid no attention to him, even down to buying him new clothes as he got bigger, holidays with his father were non existent....and i am not anti women's rights or a 'piece of work' as one woman called me. I did everything possible with the resources i had to provide food, clothing and love to our son.Yes, i did pay support....ie, Clothing, shoes, school supplies, enterntainment (when he stayed with me during weekends and some weekdays) ...i never gave my ex actual money as it would have been spent on himself...so, instead i just went and bought what he needed (and/or wanted) . What i find funny is that some of you on here do not realize that by me being married to him for 15+ years, that the military entitles ME to a percentage of his retirement etc...which i CHOOSE NOT to take. I wish some of you would not put your negative comments about me not paying him actual money...isn't child support to go towards the child..not the parent? I am not a greedy person "out to get him" I live my life according to how God would want and am not out to cheat the law or my ex..I only would like to know if what he is saying are lies. more

Open Question: Confused about this long distance relationship!!!!!!!!!!!!!please take your time to help.?

I MET THIS GIRL ON MYSPACE, SHE WAS 1 YEAR YOUNGER THAN ME. SHE WAS LIVING IN THE UK AT THE TIME.SHE USE TO CALL ME A LOT WHEN SHE WAS THERE. SHE WAS TO TELL ME EVERYTHING. HER MOM WAS LIVING DOWN HERE SO I USED HER MOM AS AN EXCUSE TO MAKE HER COME BACK TO FLORIDA. EVERYTHING WAS FINE, SHE WAS TEXTING ME AFTER HER FRIEND PICKED HER UP AT THE AIRPORT AND TELLING ME WHERE I WAS BUT I WAS NOT ABLE TO GIVE HER DIRECTION. (NOW I M GROWN) SO THE NEXT DAY I ASKED HER IF I SHOULD COME SEE HER AND SHE TOLD ME SHE WOULD HAVE TO MEET ME IN A PUBLIC PLACE. THE SECOND TIME SHE TOLD ME THAT I FELT SO BAD THAT I TOLD HER I AM BACK WITH MY EX THAT I WAS TELLING HER ABOUT. AND SHE STOPPED CALLING ME AND WE LOST CONTACT. AFTER THAT SHE DELETED ME FROM HER MYSPACE, I TRIED TO REQUEST HER BACK KNOWING MY MISTAKE BUT SHE WOULDNT APPOROVE ME. NOT I LOOKED HER UP ON FACEBOOK AND SHE FINALLY APPROVED ME AND I TRIED TO EMAIL HER MY NUMBER BUT SHE WOULDN T REPLY NOR CALL. FINALLY 2 DAYS AGO SHE POSTED A PICTURE AND I COMMENTED HOW CUTE SHE WAS AND SHE SAID THANKS. SECONDS LATER SHE IM ME ON FACEBOOK TELLING ME I LOOK FAMILIAR AND SHE FINALLY REMEMBERED ME. UNFORTUNATELY SHE JUST LEFT FLORIDA AND NOW SHE S LIVING IN NEW YORK. SHE WAS TELLING ME HOW HER EX AFTER WE STOPPED TALKING CHEATED ON HER AND HOW SHE MISSES ME SHE GAVE ME HER NUMBER WE WERE ON DA PHONE FOR HOURS DA NEXT NIGHT. SHE WAS ALSO TELLING ME WHILE SHE WAS PACKING SHE SAW A CARD AND FLOWERS THAT I SENT TO HER WHILE WE WERE TALKING. AND SHE WILL NEVER FORGET GOOD GUYS. THIS MORNING SHE POSTED THIS ON FACE BOOK AND I AM CONFUSED IF SHE S TALKING ABOUT ME? HOW SHOULD I HANDLE THIS???? FB FAM...DO YOU BELIEVE IN LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT? IS IT POSSIBLE TO MEET SOMEONE THAT MAKES EVERYTHING ALRIGHT WITHOUT EVEN TRYING? :-)~POSTED BY THE GIRL THAT I AM TALKING ABOUT. more

Open Question: Do you think I'm doing the right thing?

I'm going on 15 in the summer so i'm a freshman in highschool and about 5 months ago i met my boyfriend who is perfect we do everything together. We are always together. But he is going to be a marine and his date for bootcamp is June 28. I promised him i would wait for him. And i know im so young but i know its the right choice. My first question is do you think i should wait for him? I'm truly in love with him. When i'm with him it's like nothing can go wrong. I laugh and smile. Everything just feels so perfect. I used to have a best friend who was a guy and i've known him since preschool. When my soon to be marine boyfriend heard i had a best guy friend he didnt like it. So i basically said to my boyfriend i'd stop talking to my best friend who ment mostly everything to me. My second question is do i loose a best friend for the guy i love?I'm going on 15 in the summer so i'm a freshman in highschool and about 5 months ago i met my boyfriend who is perfect we do everything together. We are always together. But he is going to be a marine and his date for bootcamp is June 28. I promised him i would wait for him. And i know im so young but i know its the right choice. My first question is do you think i should wait for him? I'm truly in love with him. When i'm with him it's like nothing can go wrong. I laugh and smile. Everything just feels so perfect. I used to have a best friend who was a guy and i've known him since preschool. When my soon to be marine boyfriend heard i had a best guy friend he didnt like it. So i basically said to my boyfriend i'd stop talking to my best friend who ment mostly everything to me. But at times he wasnt a best friend. I would put him first but he wouldnt do that for me. Of course he was there for me when i needed someone. My second question is do i loose a best friend for the guy i love? more

Open Question: Why do writers publish articles about "why you can't get a job"?

Are they out to discourage potential employees and job seekers? It seems like when they write these articles or blogs that they are trying to send messages. Like giving the Top 10 reasons why job seekers aren't getting hired. And they always make the point that employers or hiring managers complain about not finding qualified candidates and that even the smallest flaw will cost them the job. It's not fair, like if I make one human mistake and it let's say it has nothing to do with giving a bad reason to hire me or doesn't damage my character, I don't get hired. Why does everything have to revolve around judgment? I frequently update my resume, I play the political game sometimes during interviews, I don't lie on my resume or application, I always send cover letters, thank you notes, and replies to confirm interview times to show I can follow up properly. I always answer interview questions honestly, I always keep upbeat even though I could be having a bad day, and I tell small stories to fill dead air. I am tired of playing roulette with everything and adjusting myself not knowing what will please the employer. How do you combat everything? Please help me? more

Open Question: Can anyone help me with my very complicated love situation right now?

Im a bimale ( nobody knows this) with an extraordinary love problem. Im 23 my life right now is a mess in career, financially, family. In everything im a mess... Comlication no. 1(mr. A) I have a boyfriend in Saudi (30 yrs old) we have not yet meet in person. We meet through skype, He is so handsome,sweet, caring, sexy and understanding. He loves me so much, he calls me at least 6 times a day and he makes several texts. He pays for my rent. He promise me that when he comes home(may 1) we'll be living together in his home in pampanga, I do love him before but lately i meet a guy...... Complication no.2 (Mr. B) In a mall. he is good looking. He is the one who make a move to know me. He's 29, he's so makulit that we go on dates almost for straight days. To make the story short I fall in love with him. He loves me too, he's so caring and sweet that whenever I'm with him I felt so special and he makes me feel I'm he's jewel. The problem is he is in a relationship with a guy( an i.t engineer in sykes, also a ramp model and they have plan to migrate in Singapore) and they are living(4 years) . I knew it after i say i yes to him, he confess to me that he don't really love the guy, he just can't quit with him because the guy is threatening him that he will commit suicide if he leaves. The guy already commited suicide twice before.... whenever he brings up the idea of breaking up with him.The second reason why he can't quit is that the father of the guy is a general in camp crame and the mom is a politician. There have been already understanding between their parents. Now he wants to rent a house for us because he don't want me to go away I love him so much I don't know what to do and say... Complication no.3 ( Mr. C) I meet him when he returns my wallet na nawala sa isang moviehouse. Since then we became friends, i already meet his family and i get well along with them the problem is this guy is attracted with me Theirs nothing bad i can say about him he is kind and sweet, masyadong malalahanin. He is cultured and owns a little business we on dinner as friends pero iba na pla yun sa kanya. Lately he confess that he loves me and that he can prove it to me, kaya niyang ipaglaban sa parents niya. He doesn't knew my situation.... Complication no 4( Mr.d) I have an ex we had a relationship for almost 2 years I broke up with him because i fall out of love. He already had a boyfriend but whenever i had a problem he is their, whenever I need a company he is their, when ever I need a talk he is their. Until now he is still protective to me just like before. I told him why he is still doing these things to me na meron na syang bf because i feel its unfair he answers me back with this statement which strucks me"fuck you kahit meron akong ka relasyon kaw pa rin prioirity ko" I don't love him anymore I don't know how to handle this.. Complication No.5 In a job fair I meet director of a call center. He is offering me a nice job without any kapalit but i doubt i didn't say yes i didn't say no. He is so nice and he often invite to stroll around the metro in short for a date but i'm hesitant to go...He is so makulit...he is pushing me to get he's offer.. marami pa akong kakilala na nagpaparamdam may it girls, gays, bi not 1 or 2 or 3... lots. I don't know what they sees in me ... im not a hunk( i'm slim). I dont have a big d**k...im just cute. Guys i need a serious advise..t.y more