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Lessons Learned: My Teen Daughter's Drug Arrest - Associated Content

I never believed in alien abduction until my daughter turned 13 ... You need to come to the school right away." "Is everything OK" "We have a situation with Regan." "What's going on?" " Well, we had reason to perform ...

Jones: 'My Goal's Not to Be Sam Bradford' - Scout.com

We love everything he’s doing ... you know, it’s just not fair.” Jones knows it. “That’s not my goal; my goal’s not to be Sam Bradford ,” said Jones, who threw for 3,198 yards and 26 touchdowns in 2009. “

We asked you: Are Americans Islamaphobic? - Orlando Sentinel

It troubles me to see my nation, which ostensibly prides itself on its foundation ... we would be seeing about a quarter of the world's population doing everything in their power to slay infidels.

If you need help setting your DVR, let me know - Dallas Morning News

It sucks you right back in ... my friend Mary finally begged and pleaded enough that I said fine, I'll join this Facebook thingy. And everything she said about it has proved true. I get it. Another pal recently ...

Wilson: Even if you give up one hit, you treat it as if you're not going to give ... - Dallas Morning News

Some highlights: On treating the game as if it was a no-hitter: The way I look at it is even if you give up one hit ... one of those things where I had just enough movement on my cutter, and that was really the key ...

You've arrived! True tales of the mysterious Black Card - CreditCards.com

... everything ... you had a good visit!' We just look at each other across the table and crack up laughing," she says. Charm works really well to get upgrades, but in these cases I got the perks before I ...

When Parents Are Pickled In Alcohol - Denver Post

... my paycheck, there's pretty much nothing left to save to get my own place. Other kids my age have parents who are helping them and guiding them toward living on their own. My whole life I've had to do everything ...

How to Protect Yourself from Bed Bugs in a Hotel Room: Don't Take These Critters ... - Associated Content

Don't Unpack Clothing I never unpack my clothing in a hotel room as it's not necessary, particularly if the hotel room has an iron, as you can iron everything you're going to wear right before you leave for the day.

Don't Like 'Clouds' You Can't Touch? Build Your Own Storage Solution - NPR News

I really don't want to turn over my music and ... heavy-duty case (and if you don't know what that means, you are normal and healthy). But for now, I wanted simplicity and wasn't worried if everything blew up.

College Football Predictions: My Dad's Son's Week 1 Edition - Bleacherreport.com

my Week 1 predictions should simultaneously pose as a distraction for the extended pain ... You’ll see a little bit of everything in this paramount matchup. Electrifying offense, hard-nosed defense, trick plays,

Open Question: How can I improve my acting?

I live in the UAE, and here media business is only starting to rise... and I study film making, I aim to being a director... but I also want to try acting... Here there's barely any auditions unless you know contacts, and I really want to try acting, I have a feeling I can make it, I just want to try everything in film making... just to have an idea... but how can I improve my acting when I can't even audition and get judged and improve... I don't need a book or anything like that, I don't believe in a book to teach me how to act, but I also can't afford someone to teach me like a professional... more

Open Question: How do we win against animal cruelty accusations?

Hey, it's Estelle. I'm a 15 year old girl, whose entire family is an avid animal lover, I'm currently taking care of: cats (4 of which are kittens),large tanks of salt water and tropical fish (around 10 fish in each), dogs (3 of which are puppies), ferrets, dry land turtle (planning on getting another one), male hamsters, female white rabbits, hermit crabs, male guinea pigs, cockatiels and budgies, female mice. My younger brother is taking care of: Tarantulas, Giant burrowing cockroaches, stick insects. My older brother is taking care of: Baby tigers (required a license here and planning on giving her to a local zoo), corn snake. Mom and Dad are taking care of: Cows, goat, sheep, horses, pigs (2 of which are piglets) chickens (hen and rooster) ducks. And recently we’ve been nursing 4 abandoned cats and 1 injured dog we found on the streets. We have plenty of space for all of the animal who require large areas to run around in, enough tunnels for the rodent families, enough grazing field for the farm animals. Basically we don’t have any shortage for the animals. Each of us take many hours cleaning for the animals, feeding the animals, playing with the animals and making sure they’re happy and healthy and met with every requirement needed to raise them. We don’t grow the animals so that we can eat them (referring to the farm animals) although we do get some plain eggs from Flora (the hen), milk from Sunny (the cow) and Jane (the goat). However, a family friend who had come over to our house had called RSPCA because they thought we were breeding the animals to sell them and thought that we weren’t taking care of them properly. Parents told me not to get into ‘adult business’ so I haven’t, yet. I was just wondering, how are we supposed to rebuke against this accusation? We don’t exactly video ourselves taking care of them and everything =__=. Help? Please and thank you :/ more

Open Question: How to be confident and make friends on the first day?

so I'm starting college and want to be a more confident person. In high school I was really shy and never said a word. How can I make friends on the very first day of college? How can I be confident but not rude/c0cky? I also want to be able to talk freely and not feel as if I am interrupting the class. You know the popular kids in school that always gets away with everything because everybody "likes" them. Well I don't want to be really bitchy and loud but just confident and refrain from saying things. I think my best asset is that I can make people laugh and take most things I take as a joke. What are some good tips on being confident and making friends? I used to have friends in high school but I could clearly tell they didn't like me. So I didn't like them and just hung around with them to survive high school. I hardly ever saw them outside of school. So basically how can I make real friends? I never go out partying , I never go out at all. thanks x more

Open Question: Why would my girlfriend of 2.5 years leave me for another guy?

My girlfriend and I have been together since junior year of high school. We lost our virginity together and experienced many good times. Everything was amazing, and I was in love. We chose our colleges near each other so we could see each other a lot. There was an incident halfway through the year where she became stone cold towards me and didn't want to see me for a while. She made me feel like it was my fault, where I had been very patient and loving to her. She was my world. It turned out she liked another guy, and was spending time with him. She told me later that she broke it off because she realized how much I meant to her. I gave her a second chance because I love her. She lead me on for another 10 months after this incident and told me she loved me, misses me, ect. She suddenly went stone cold again last week, a day after she told me she cant wait to spend a new school year with me. She said she needed space and I gave it. I finally confronted her tonight and told her I think she is interested in someone else and she said it is true, and even turns out to be the SAME guy (who is an absolute douche bag and is an insult to be left for him). She even admitted to using me for 10 months as a fall back in case something went wrong with that guy, and that she has been talking to him all 10 months behind my back. I kept my cool and tried not to yell or curse. At the end of the conversation she had the nerve to say "can you leave me alone now?" I gave this girl the world. I loved her so deeply that just being nearby her made me happy. It is so hard to imagine that I will never feel her in my arms again or have her tell me she loves me. On the other hand I feel so incredibly used and disgusted with myself for being played like this. Have any of you ever heard of a similar situation? How can people be so cruel to someone who gave them their hearts and devotion for so long, all for some ass hole guy who only wants to get in her pants (she also admitted that was probably his intentions)? Will she try to get back in my life down the line? PS I am sorry for the novel here, anyone who responds and gives honest feedback would be most appreciated. more

Open Question: FWB - I'm fine with it, but is he? (experienced advice needed, thanks)?

Ok I'm 22 years old and I have FWB relationship with a 46 year old man. We've been having this "friendship" for about 2 1/2 months and sometimes when we talk he keeps saying he doesn't want me to get hurt by becoming too emotionally involved. But I don't think I am. I think he might be. The general FWB rules don't apply with us. If you saw us from the outside you'd probably think we were a couple. He always makes the first move when it comes to physical contact and recently he's started to hold my hand when we watch movies, cuddle in bed, sending flirty texts and some more flirty/dirty texts. As well as nicknames like baby and huni. I'm just confused with the way he keeps saying "we have to remember we're not a couple", "we're just friends" and i'm like "I know". It makes me wonder whether he keeps saying it because he's trying to convince himself that he doesn't want more. We see each other twice a week, he'll cook a meal and we'll have wine if I'm staying over, watch films, go to the movies and have lunch together too. We're pretty close and we talk about everything from our life experiences to ex's and we've both admitted we have close friends feelings for eachother. But he says one thing but his actions say another. Don't get me wrong I do like everything we do but I'm not sure whether he might just be getting too attached. What do you think? What should I do? Any advice from women or men who have similar situations/experiences. Thanks. more

Open Question: My roommate/best friend wants to get an indoor/outdoor cat and I don't want her to. What do I do?

My boyfriend and I live with one of my best friends in a 2 bedroom apartment in Los Angeles. My boyfriend and I brought 2 indoor cats with us when we moved in (she knew about them and was fine with this). The cats are listed on the lease, but we do not have to pay extra fees for having them. Now, a few months into the lease, she wants to bring this indoor/outdoor cat down from Northern CA to live here. Apparently, the older woman who owns the cat can't give it the love it deserves, so she wants someone to take it... my roommate volunteered. My roommate ran it by my boyfriend and I and I brought up my immediate concerns.. 1. fleas/ticks (I currently don't have to buy flea/tick meds for my cats because they are strictly indoors) and 2. are my cats going to accept or get along with this new cat (introducing my 2 cats was extremely rough and emotionally trying on my me, my boyfriend, and both cats). Since then, I realized that there are a million other reasons that this concerns me.. 1. I believe it's inhumane to have an outdoor cat in a city like Los Angeles... plus it's illegal 2. She has never had a pet and doesn't really know what's she's doing. 3. She doesn't know if it's been fixed or if it's up to date on it's shots. 4. Fleas/Ticks (I don't believe I should have to pay for meds since my cats stay inside) 5. She's not getting it microchipped... enough said. 6. We have coyotes that live very close to our apartment complex and we see them out every night. 7. I don't want my cats to have to share their litter box and food with the new cat and I don't want to have to train the other cat not to use theirs. 8. The cat is going to get dirty outside and bring all the dirt in with it every night onto all the furniture that my boyfriend and I own.. I also can't close my bedroom door because my cats need to be able to get to their litter box and food which is in my bedroom and I don't want the dirty cat on my bed. 9. One of my cats is scared of everything and hates change and the other is extremely territorial... It just feels like a recipe for disaster. We spoke tonight and I brought up all these concerns with her. She basically said... "I'm sorry you feel that way, but we'll just have to see how it goes." She doesn't care that it's illegal to have an outdoor cat, doesn't think anything will happen to it, and doesn't care that I have to start buying flea/tick meds for my cats. I wouldn't have moved in with her had I known she would do this... I told her that too and it seemed to evoke some kind of emotion in her, but not enough for her to back down. Also, since the cat has been an outdoor cat for it's whole life, she doesn't want to make it an indoor cat because she thinks it's not fair to the cat (Even though in reality, indoor cats lead longer, healthier lives) My boyfriend and I both agree that this is a terrible idea in general and we don't want her to bring the cat here, but since we have 2 cats we didn't want to outright tell her she can't have one. SO I guess here are the options that my BF and I are okay with.. 1. She doesn't bring the cat here at all. 2. She brings the cat and lets it be indoor/outdoor but keeps it in her room when she brings it in at night. 3. She brings the cat and makes it an indoor only cat. And finally..... for the question.... Please let me know which option you think is best or if you have another option in mind, tell me that too. Also, do my boyfriend and I have the right to say no to the whole thing, we are all 3 on the lease and we out number her 2 to 1. If she does bring the cat here and it can't get along with my cats, how long do we give it before we make her find a new home for the cat? Sorry for writing a book. Thanks for reading.Another note: My boyfriend and I pay 2/3 of the rent. It is split 3 ways (even though we share a bedroom), not half and half. Does this have any weight in the decision making process? more

Open Question: Am I transgender, or do I just have crazy anxiety?

I'm a gay man. I've known I was gay since I was around 14 years old, and I've identified as a gay man since. I'm pretty comfortable with my identity, and enjoy being gay and living the life that I lead. However, when I was a kid, I frequently used to think things like, "I wish I had been born a girl." I don't recall ever thinking things like, "I AM a girl." My suspicion is that I wanted to be a girl when I was a kid because I had a lot of feminine interests as a kid (knitting/crochet, hated sports, played with Barbies with my sister, whatever). I'm wondering if these thoughts were expressions of my "true" identity, or if they were products of having my interests rejected by others. I haven't really had thoughts like that since I was in elementary school, and I've always been pretty happy with who I am. Then, I watched RuPaul's Drag Race, and Sonique came out as being transgender. For some reason, that stuck in my head, and now I've had to deal with anxiety about being transgender since watching that episode. I'm a makeup artist as my profession, working for a beauty store called Ulta. I wear makeup, I style my hair feminine sometimes. Outside of work, I don't necessarily wear makeup. Usually, I'll wear it if I go out. I don't dress like a woman, nor do I really desire to do so. But I kind of find myself curious about what it'd be like to be a woman. Is it innocent curiosity, or delving into something deeper? This issue has been plaguing me for months, and I'm tired of feeling anxious. Yet whenever I think of being transgender, everything in me says, "NO! Resist it! Fight it! You're not transgender!" Am I anxious, or in a gender crisis? Am I fighting my "true self," or fighting my own mind? I've also experimented viewing different forms of pornography to see which elicits a response from me, and heterosexual (and even transgender) porn does nothing for me, while gay porn turns me on. Please help me figure out if I just make things up to worry about (which wouldn't be the first time), or if I'm really a woman and just refuse to accept it. more

Open Question: I need help telling if this girl likes me or it might be possible, or a string of coincidences.?

I’m almost 20. She seems about 19. We’re both going to community college. She works in the library, which is where I originally saw her. When I first saw her I thought she was cute, but didn’t have guts to talk to her because I have no game seriously lol, and couldn’t find the opening. I’ve seen her over the course of a semester while she worked in the library. I’ve only seen her with messy hair and not to dressed up, like shes just being a normal person doing her own normal shit like me. I ‘ve checkc out books from her before while in the library. I haven’t really talked to her a lot but theres a few times when I thought she was overly nice. First time, I go to check out a text boook she gives me this big smile and I forgot the dialog but that smile made me nervous she could probally tell. Later on I check out books beside a text book from reserve Stupidly I ask “ can I check out these textbooks” she joking leans over and says “ no you can’t check out books from this library” in a jokingly stern voice, laughs a little I do to. Can’t remember to much. Gotta remember I wasn’t remembering everything because I saw no oppurtunity and thought that those were just her being playful at work, mabye keeping herself entertained, if I worked there I’d do that. But heres where I start to think more now. Summer rolls over. I come to my classes, this Tuesday of this week, she’s in my class. I was like “shit, I’ve seen her, I’m attracted to her, I’m going to try and see if anything is possible here.” I think I noticed her first because she seemed really relaxed, then started getting fidgity. I didn’t think to take note of when it started but it was going on when tehre was like a hour left. It was just normal introduction stuff in class,the teacher rambled on about class and how its cool. I glanced over a few times at her. Were way to far to make eye contact it was a auditorium with 3 collumns of seats. She was way on the other side of the room so no kind of communication was possible unless I wanted to make everyone think I’m crazy by takling ot this person way on the other sid eof the room. So I just play it cool, were let out early. After class I run to the bathroom, ask I’m walking to my bus I pass the other bus stop that goes the opposite way I catch her boarding the bus. I don’t talk to her, and id on’t think she could have noticed me. I just walk by and go to mine thinking, “ wow I gotta try this at least, idk I might be crazy and connecting things that don’t mean to b econnected.” The next time that class meets I come prepared. I wanna come early to sit on the side of the room she was sitting on, I know she’s probally gonna be there early, my hope is to sit a row or 2 behind her. I’m late because I went to the bathroom to comb my hair. I rush in and go to my big side not thinking because I heard the teacher talking in the auditorium. Shes on the side I was, And almost where I was sittnig last time. She seemed to timid to me to do that, I was thinking I’d have to blatantly show interest. So I was like shit man shit just got real. I sit down way behind her because class was in session. I was probally 3 min late. Then I think it might not be her because her hair is straightened and I’ve never ever seeen her do that, shes also wearing different clothes then I’m used to seeing her in. It wasn’t better but it was different then anyting I’ve seen her wear before. I glance a few times and play with my glasses in my mouth the whole time trying to figure out if I’m dreaming or not. Class goes through. I paid pretty good attention.I pack fast so I can talk to her hoping she would to, she was slow. SO I was like “shit” then I just left and walked slow, stopped to tie my shoes she didn’t show, but I don’t know which patah to the bus she takes so I couldn’t go near her bus stop and have it be fruitful. Then I went home and started thinking real hard about everything that’s gone on.it was actuallly Monday, change that date.It wasn't 3 collumns i meant three big large chunks of seets. like a really lard middle area, a left side adn right sight. The first day we were really far apart on opposite ends. more

Open Question: im like inlove, but does this text he sent meen his love to me is true?

he sent me this couple hours ago. i told him i was going to sleep and while i was sleeping he sent this " babe,im just laying here in bed and i cant stop thinking about you. ever since youve been in my life, ive been so happy. you my everything babygirl. thatll never change. were going to get married and have a beutiful babyboy or girl. i cant wait to spend the rest of my life with you, and im glad you my girlfreind, and one day ill be able to call you my wife. i love you so so so so so so much baby. words cant explain it, but i hope i can show you soon<3 hah, i feel like a loserbecause i have a tear running down my face. but its a good thing. because i havent felt this way about anyone else."no hes very emotional...... and he crys somtimes when hes with me cuz he fights with his mom and it makes him sad. we been together for a year more

Open Question: What does my dream mean?

Hello. Sorry for this being long winded but I need an answer somehow. Hopefully you can help.. Read on:- This dream always comes to me every 6 months and always over a period of 2 weeks always on the same month - every april then november. I dream I am helping someone clean their pool which has a massive vent at the bottom and side to which a human can get into very easily. The pretention cover has came off and the fan is exposed so when its cycle is due on if you get sucked in you would be cut up ... Im asked to clean inside making sure all dirt is removed from the tunnels inside so I turn the fan off, take it off the fixtures so that is completly without power. I snuggle my way passed the fan as it is very sharp and get inside. When I get inside its like a house or hall way with 1 flight of stairs with 2 stairs to it (very small), the room or hallway looks very much like a hospital hallway, white, clean and airy. Theres a wooden handbars on each side of the staircase which is bolted down with large chrome nail and srew and bolt fixtures very securely. Upon being in the room and cleaning I hear this person outside (out of the pool) carry on with his work. He is drilling and hammering something so it makes alot of noise and if a conversation was to unfold it would be very hard if not impossible to hear the other person talk. So, I hear this man drilling, cutting, hammering ect and the fan drops into place and turns on. The vibration from it dropping in place has cause the button to be effected and the fan is now tepromental. As it turns on I sucks everything in which isnt a big concern for me as I can get sucked out but things could get sucked in.. thankfully the pools water had been emptied and the pool area was clean so I only had the issue of the fan stopping other then that I was guarented I couldnt get sucked into it but I hang on the banisters on the staircase anyway just incase it has a reverse effect. I start shouting for the guy to come and shut it off but he cant hear me, I can still hear him banging away .. Im shouting now for about 5 minutes and nothing. I cant get out and the fan is moving but not hurting me so I let go of the bannister on the staircase and try and find another way out. Its not that big and theres nowhere else to go everything has been sealed off. No air vents, its been sealed water tight (would make sense as its or the pool). So the fans on going fast the blades would cut me so bad Id be diced into pieces. So I continue shouting but nothing all of a sudden I feel the floors, banister and walls becoming hot! Its slowly getting hotter but gradually slowly maybe a degree every 2 or 3 minutes.. Im in here for about 30-40 minutes now and its about 20-25 degrees.... like a snow globe its tolerable but with the tempertaute increasing its concerning so Im still shouting at the top of my lungs im shouting!! Nothing. I start to cry but havent given up and start making as much noise as possible.. banging, kicking, screaming, yelling, throwing things.... Nothing. The fan still going and cant do anything Im a sitting duck. With another 40 mintes passed the walls and floor are now hitting 40-50 degrees and Im lying down exhausted and burning like nothing else. I do not look at my skin as I fear if I do Ill see it in boils and I will no my time is up and completely give up hope. As Im lying down I am slowly drifting away and I pass out. Im unconcous but still aware somehow that noone has found me and can still this everlasting burning on my flesh and it starts to really smell, giving off a very strong scent of rotting or dead flesh. I give up and I start to float, as I rise I see my body lying there, theres still life but I cant move, theres still a chance but Im totaly gone. It blacks out.................... Im no longer hovering above myself infact theres nothing. Next thing I realise is this mans hands grabbing me, my eyes have melted and so has my mouth - unable to speak or open my eyes but someone has me!!!! I hear him yell in pain as Im too hot to touch and he drages me out by the bottom of my trousers that are melted into my flesh. Thats it... I have this dream every april and november, recurring 2 weeks at a time every night every year since I was 12 or 13 What the hell does it mean?! Thanks Leanne leanne.mance@yahoo.com more

Open Question: How do I tell my boyfriend who's going into the Army next year..?

that I'm not sure I could deal with it? I know he and I are both very young...but trust me, we DO love each other very much despite the age. I'm 18, he's 21. He's going into the military next year, but is still deciding on police or military. He's told me many, many times before that if I want the sort of relationship where I get to see him everyday, he'll stay and do police. I told him not to do this because I'd want him to do what makes him happy. We DO have plans for marriage...but I'm going into university next year to study veterinary surgery and in the beginning the plan was to go to uni, while he was in the police...and we would live in our own flat together (we worked everything out) then he had thoughts about the Army, and I'm sure that's what he'll choose. My course is going to be a minimum of seven years, and he'll be in the Army for months and months at a time so I doubt we'll see each other very much. I want us to work out more than anything, but the ONE thing I'm really worried about is infidelity. I DO trust him, but no one plans on cheating until it happens..and with all the temptation there for him, I'm not sure I'd be able to handle just thinking about it. I love him more than anything, and we do have plans for marriage...but I still worry about it everyday. I'd miss him too much, I'm not a very social person, I have no family whom I'm close with, no friends I'm close to. He's basically the only person I'm close with in my life. I tell him everything, I suffer from severe depression (I'm getting help with this) and I don't know what I'd do without him. I cry myself to sleep every night knowing I'm not going to have him in just a few months.I brought up the topic of giving 'us' a break for a few weeks so we could see how it goes, and he almost went into tears. I don't want to end it, but I feel as if this may be best? He and I have this dream where after he's done the Army, and me university he and I will buy a house in the Lake District...but I'm just scared it won't work out. I DON'T want anyone else, I don't care if it's common meeting others in university, he's the only one I want to spend the rest of my life with...but I'm scared I won't be able to handle it. I'm not an emotionally strong person and I'm just afraid. I don't want to tell him that I wouldn't be able to handle him going into the Army because I DO know that if I were to tell him, he wouldn't go. This is his dream, and in 20-30 years I don't want him looking back and regretting his decision...but I'm starting to feel it's best to at least take a break while he's there. How do I go about telling him this? I know that if I tell him he'll begin to say "I'l just choose the police instead, I want you more than anything" etc. he's said if it was a problem he would pick it over the Army..but I'd hate myself for it. He goes on and on some days talking about how he's excited for it, and I would hate getting in the way. I'm sorry if I sound selfish, that's not my intention, I only want him to do something that'll make him happy, but I also don't think I'd be able to handle it all. How can I tell him this? I more

Open Question: Gay and or lesbian people, how would you feel about this?

I have a friend at school named Sam* who is gay...and just about everyone in the whole school knows he is gay. I am not gay myself but have absolutely nothing against him (well he is my friend duh)...and respect his sexuality very much :D He and I hang with a group of about 8 people, and they all accept him the way he is! We are all pretty much 16. Anyway...some girl commented on how I had selective hearing today. While another girl said..."hes a guy, what can you expect". Sam joined in to say that he heard everything, and does not suffer from selective hearing. The first girl then tells him..."Your gay, of course you dont!" but in a friendly way as if it wasnt intended to offend him. A few people have had him stay the day, and when faced to introduce him to their parents...they say, "mum, this is Sam...hes gay" and leave it at that. This really annoys me! Yes Sam is gay...but there is no need to tell everyone in the universe, every couple of minutes! I wouldnt introduce you to my parents mentioning the fact you were sexually straight. I wouldn't relate every single activity we do with your sexuality. I guess I just wanna hear some opinions from gay or lesbian people themselves who go through this. Does it annoy you to be reminded of your sexuality constantly? Or to experiance moments like these? "Hey have you seen Sam today?" "Oh which Sam?" "Sam...gay Sam" I guess maybe I just care too much, but I fully respect peoples choices, and him being gay is really no big deal that has to be brought up all the time. *Sam - name used to keep privacy :) more

Open Question: is it common for a child not be potty trained at the age of six?

okay, im worried about my little cousin. well actually he is my cousin's son. he is six. its really sad that he still wears pull ups and hasnt been potty trained yet. its also sad that my aunt raises him. she is his legal guardian because my cousin, her son doesnt want to raise him. and also she says his mother never wanted him. its horrible that the kids parents didnt want him. but i think she was lying somewhat because his mother did try to visit him throughout the years and my aunt refused to let her see him he calls her mom but ofcourse he would think that. anyway he also has 2 brothers that he never seen. she told me to never tell him the truth. that she is actually his grandma. she doesnt want him to know he as brothers and who is real mom is. i think thats wrong. when he is older i think he deserves to know the truth. okay back to the topic. so he will be 7 in march. he is not a slow kid at all. he is very smart. he is a normal kid to me. although she claims he has adhd. but i dont think he does. i think its the candy and sugar she gives him all the time that makes him hyper. because he can be calm at times and he knows a lot of things.he doesnt go to school(probably because she hasnt potty trained him) she does home school him. and he knows a lot of stuff already like the states and capitols. so thats a good thing. well. she told me she thinks he's unhealthy because his poop has always been mushy and he never pooped a turd. even so i dont think thats an excuse for him to wear pullups at his age, i mean its crazy to not have your kid potty trained by 3. unless your kid is not normal and either retarded or something then i think all children need to be potty trained at 3. its not healthy to let a kid continue to poop his pants and not use the toilet. whats odd is oh he can pee in the toliet but not poop. i just dont get it also its also not right for a kid to be sucking a bottle over 4 years old or to be breast feed over 2. these are unhealthy to kid also. they will be made fun of later for it and might cause them to not develop normally. he doesnt drink a bottle or is breast feed. i just wanted to throw that in there. anyway you have to teach your kid to walk,talk, and potty train at the right age and to try. parents that dont try or neglect to do this, then i find that bad parenting. i just hate what my aunt is doing to my cousin's kid. i think she doesnt potty train him on purpose because she wants money from him. its sad but i know my aunt to be very manipulative. shes also two faced and lies about everything. on the brightside she doesnt abuse him but she hardly diciplines him either. its so sad. and the fact that she has the nerve to say i cant raise a child? when first of all she never raised her son. her aunt did. second i dont know if she is raising her grandson now because she missed out on raising her son and wants a second chance at being a parent. or third because she just wants to use to the kid for her own benefit so she can get money. im worried this kid will be made fun of when he's older. now hear me out. do you think popping in your pants on purpose is just as bad as peeing in your bed? i dont think so. when kids pee in the bed its an accident. but pooping.. that different. unless the kid has loose bowels or has diarrehea then he should go to the bathroom on his own. well can anyone tell me what they think? i dont think its normal for a child over 4 not to be potty trained. unless they have mental problems and really cant help it. but if they can send a text message, beat other people at numberous video games, say all the states and capitals at the top of their head.. then they should be smart enough to do number 2 on the toliet. i just dont get it... more

Open Question: Did I get the job after a second interview?

I had my second job interview today for a great company. Everything went great! i was totally prepared, dressed professionally, and had questions for the interviewers.They even said there is no doubt in their minds that i wouldnt be able to perform the job. It got to the point where i was interviewing them! I asked for a projected start date and they said i will hear something for sure by the end of next week. We also went over salary expectations and if i was ok with the amount. Of course i was! I feel very confident and had both of them smiling and nodding the whole time. can anyone give me some feedback on if it sounds like i got the position. Thank you! more

Open Question: Do you ever feel like your significant other is also your kryptonite?

I've felt invincible for most of my life but there have been moments of weaknesses here and there. Something strange is happening right now. Something unfamiliar, like entering uncharted territory. I love this girl and she just makes me feel weak and very sissy-like. We first got together last year exactly around this time and we spent 5 happy moths togther, hanging out alone away from everyone. It was all very idealistic, until she had to move out of town- far. We ended up breaking up in February. Last month she came to visit and we decided we can not afford to give up. I do love her. I've realized, I love her a lot. She's the only girl I've never doubted that her feelings are real. She makes me feel warm and kind of safe/ at peace when we are together. Physically.. I mean within 10 feet of each other. She lives in California now and I live in New York. Idk if its the distance or what it is, but my love for her, thinking about her makes me feel very vulnerable, very weak. When we broke up she took a lot of emotional stress and cried a lot and became an emotional mess so she showed me a very fragile side of her which I wasn't entirely aware that it existed. Now I take a lot of stress knowing that she is so delicate. I keep thinking messed up thoughts that are my fears- pretty irrational. i know. like someone is gonna kidnap her and rape and murder her. sometimes, I think about taking her and running away to a remote place away from everything where it would be safe and we can be together finally in peace. Someone please reassure me that this is normal and the root of all the problems and fears is this distance, and that things will be right as rain once again when we move in together and she's within a 10 feet radius of me. I don't know why I am so fearful that I'm going to lose her. I hate this. I hate falling in love. If I lose her then I'm pretty sure, I'm just going to close the book on all things romantic for good. I'm just going to focus on other things like career and making a name, maybe changing the world a little bit or something. more

Open Question: What would be the effects if you're going to fall down the stairs?

When I was a 6-7, or 8 years old I fell down the stairs I was with my cousins' house and they have a long stairs- i didn't know that I'm going to fall, i didn't expected it! I remember I was dancing near to the steps and... that was so fast I suddenly fell down, and my aunt called my dad, he lifted me for 2-3 times and my thumb bled (not too much blood) so I felt fine! my body wasn't bad, I didn't have a head injury, after that I was sleeping and forgot everything... I didn't go to the hospital, so no examen... I wonder what would be the effect if some one fall down the stairs.?I do have an examen when I came here in the US. I did x-ray and the doctor told me nothing... so my bones are good... more

Open Question: Cao you help me fix my bath? The tiles are with mold, and the floor is soaked as water goes underneath.?

The bath itself is not sealed, so water falls on the floor that is not sealed properly and soak it. How to seal and clean everything? Which materials should I buy in Wilkinson pref.? Thanks. more

Open Question: My girlfriend broke up with me today?

We're in high school, and she'd been acting really weird lately, as in not answering my im's and not talking to me at school. I already had a feeling that this was coming, I was prepared for it. But today, after school, she had finally gotten to me after the whole day. She saw me and said: "I need to talk to you. You've probably already heard because everyone's talking about it, but you know.." "Yeah, I know about it" "I'm sorry, do you know why though?..." "No, I actually don't." "It's because I just can't do this anymore." "?..." "I can't keep lying to my parents, and you already know about my brother. I just, I just can't do this anymore. Are you okay?" "I'm ok, not really, no, not at all.." "Please, you know I don't hate you right?" "Yeah, I know" "Please don't hate me?" "Actually, I still really like you." "Don't make me feel bad please?" "I'm sorry, it's just that I don't want you thinking I hate you." And then later in the day, when I was at the front of the school, she was there too. In the corner of my eye I saw her talking to her friends and occassionally looking at me. She and her friends were obviously talking me. I'm not sure if she was looking at me to see if I was okay, or just looking at me because she really feels pain in our breakup. Because when I looked back at her, several times, she looked like she was about to cry. I'm really sad, but for some reason, I'm not as upset as I think I should be... after reading that, do you guys think she still loves me? Oh yeah, afterwards, she sent me a message saying this: "heyy, i know that you've known for a week and everything already.& im sorry for making you wait, i was just like, i dont even know. youu dont have to be withh me to be happy, i meann you did say even after this would happen we'd still be friends, just not exactly like before thoughh. you have your whole entire life aheadd of youu, dont let something like this bring you down if it even does. whether you hate me or not i wont forget you either. you did somewhat make a difference. so dont be sadd or what not, be happy, we're in HIGHSCHOOL :D haha. ohh &btw i hopee you wont be goinng off tellinn people things, & dont changee. thankks for everythingg♥ " It was heartbreaking reading that message, but it really did give me hope that I'll be okay. Do you guys think she still loves me? But it was family that got in the way? I honestly really liked her, she meant everything to me. But I guess it's time to move on... more

Open Question: My payslip is always wrong?

I work at a hotel as a receptionist, and on my payslip it says "housekeeping". I've been working here for 4 months and it's always like that. Shouldn't it say reception or front of house? Could this cause a problem in the future with tax stuff or does it not make a difference? Also, I worked 235 hours this month. I got a check for the entire amount but on my payslip it says I only worked 213.5 hours? Should I say something to my boss? I don't like errors or lies. I prefer everything to be completely correct. They don't pay over time here and even though I work about 10 hours a week overtime I just get my normal amount. Doing the math it shows that 213.5 hours is exactly the legal amount of hours for week, (48hrs) could this be why she put 213.5 instead of my real amount? Because since she's not paying me overtime she can't put it on my slip that i'm working overtime? Once again, why do you think she did this? Could there be a problem in the future? Should I say I'd like it corrected? more

Open Question: I got a speeding ticket in California?

Well, I got a speeding ticket on the freeway for going 82miles where the limit is 65miles, which is kinda dumb because I know a lot of people that go 80. Anyways, I'm 18 years old. It was my first offense, and the officer said that I could do traffic school. The car was under my parent's name, and his insurance. My question is what should I do? Will traffic school clear everything up, so that the insurance premiums won't go up? Also, if i do do traffic school, how much total will i have to pay? Is there anything that I can do to get out of the ticket? I wasn't really able to talk to the officer since he left immediately after issuing the ticket to me. I'm a college student working a minimum wage summer job to pay for school, and I was late for work which was why I was going 82. Do you think I should call the police station to talk to the officer face to face to try to ask for leniency? I have heard of officers giving verbal warnings for a first offense. And my last question is whether or not my parents will find out??? I would rather they didn't because we're tight on money as it is, and I don't want to give them unneeded stress Thanks more

Open Question: Potty Training Rebel + Regression?

My daughter is 2 years & 5 months old. She is very bright and understanding of concepts. She sat on the potty variously before one years old to "introduce" her to it. She's never been afraid and has used both the big potty & little potty many multiple times. At one I began putting her on the potty when she woke up, before bath time, and before bed. This became the schedule and in no time she picked it up & knew exactly what to do. Everything was fine and she progressed steadily forwards in the year of 1-2. Turning two was a totally huge turning point in her life, it was right on point that she was using a few sentances and within maybe two months she was speaking in complete sentances and almost fully potty trained during the day. Almost potty trained really means she was just about there. She was wearing big girl panties and we could go out in them, and she could take naps in them. She told me when she had to go potty and held it until we got there. The one and only problem was that at school she acted untrained. She was a very rough one year old so I thought maybe she had a terrible one instead of terrible twos because her behavior was improving every day and on top of that communication was getting easier too. We went on a two week vacation the first two weeks of August so i brought her big girl panties and the half a bag of her pull ups that was left hoping to be done with them for good (besides night time just yet). Like I said she did a great job with me and a horrible job at school. I was thinking that now in two weeks since I would have her all day every day uninterrupted this would be the perfect opportunity to get it done once and for all. Instead, she regressed completely back to newborn stage, meaning if she even had to pee two drips then she let it go right then, with no effort to do anything about it. I know my little girl is very stobborn and strong-willed, but what is the reason for this. I've read about it and what I've turned up is only what I already knew- that kids make a big deal of changes and that if it's not working to just "take a break" . I am not satisfied with this and I have to admit it has most definately become a power struggle! I know she knows what to do and has done such a great job all along, which makes it very hard to accept this disgusting stage. I have fought her and forced her and smacked her and yelled at her because it is simply unacceptable to stand in front of me and pee, to pee on the floor a few inches away from the potty without making the slightest effort to get there, to lie about not having to go, to not go on the potty and then pee directly after getting off, and the list goes on and all of the above applies for poop as well! She is not phased by cleaning up the mess (rather she likes to), she doesn't care if she's in big girl panties or pull ups, negative nor positive incentives influence her, she is just stuck on no longer going potty, ever! I'm sad at how common and acceptable this is, and I know if I give her a break she will never decide to go! She HAD to be pushed by me all along, and that is what got her so far to begin with. & She HAD it. I have to know what to do about this and knowing the background story I am hoping for someone with experience who can personalize this answer just for me. Thanks for any and all help though. I'm sure if you've been there you can definately understand the frustration. more

Open Question: What To Pack On A 2-day Motorcycle Trail Ride?

Ok my bike is a 100cc so i can't carry a lot... Just so ya'll know ;) So I'm finally getting my bike fixed and am already fitting some new packs and a sleeping bag and a tent etc. On her. It works great! btw.. Anyway i pretty much know everything that could ever go wrong with the bike, or at least can trouble shoot it. So I'm not to worried about going to far. I'll be riding 6,000ft - 11,000ft. And the environment ranges from, hot desert rough, to high evergreens. So my question is basically what do i NEED to bring? I don't really have room to spare because it's so small. So what are the essentials? Water, tools, 2 park plugs, oil, tent, a knife, sleeping bag, map, food, more water, (a chihuahua?), cell phone, 2 gallons of gas along with my 2 1/2 gallon tank (approximate of 250miles), fix-a-flat, cooking supplies, and TP (lol). Those are just some of the things i could come up with off-the-top-of my-head. Any more suggestions? Also i plan on going roughly 100miles in a 2-day ride. Thanks! Also the bike is a rebuilt 1983 Kawi Ke100. If you really want to know...Oh and a few lighters! Duh!And a first air kit more

Open Question: poll: have you meant your cowboy casanova?

im 16 i just have my 1st, before every thing went to hell it was all perfect, he did tell me everything i wanted to hear )-: what about you?the song cowboy casanova by Carrie Underwood http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oM7NQQ0Lfu4&ob=av3e more

Open Question: I slept with my best friends boyfriend?

Over the past 10 months my life has been hell. My mother and grandmother died and I have been so stressed out and one day my best friends boyfriend come over to my house because he thought his girlfriend Nina was there. So he asked how I was doing and stayed at my house for a few hours and we talked about everything and things got out of hand.(I wasn't in my right state of mind) He kissed me and I needed someone to be with at the time because I was alone and we had sex. So last week, I found out I was pregnant and I'm so scared to tell anyone about my situation. My best friend has forgiven me before in the past for other things I've done to her but I'm not sure how she will react to this. I'm around her everyday and I feel so guilty about this secret. What should I do? She has a really bad temper and I'm just very afraid to tell her. Help please. Thank you.@Josh: Honestly, I don’t really know if I’m going to keep this baby because of how it was conceived. At the same time I do want to keep the baby because the baby is an innocent in this & deserves a chance to live. After looking at this situation I have learned that my behavior is really heart breaking and I really need to grow up. But, I know I will never do anything like this again. @PraoWolf: Yes, I clearly wasn’t thinking at the moment when this was all happening. I feel very stupid about not having a condom and I’m just disgusted with myself.@jorge : Yes, there are female condoms. But the point is that one of us should of had one on. I'm very disappointed in myself and my mother and grandmother most certainly are looking down from haven and shaking there head because they didn't raise me like this. They taught me to be classy and have self respect. I have no one but myself to blame for this situation.@Emii x I'm calling her right now and I'm just going to tell her. I'm going to tell her in person because I don't want to get hit or put the baby in harms way. I will give you all a update. Wish me luck! more

Open Question: changed the open with.. option on a .dll file?

my mom was on my computer and she had to download a .dll file for something and she changed the right-click option "open with.." to adobe and it wasn't meant for a set program from the list, if you understand what i'm saying can you please help me? its messing everything on my computer up.. more

Open Question: How do you assign each team a task?

I can follow online tutorial about Most adobe products (photoshop, flash, dreamweaver, etc) so I can Handle pretty much everything... My fellow members... they only know how to manipulate html codes... so they are not familiar with most of adobe products... Tnx more

Open Question: How much is my iPod touch worth?

I have a 2gen iPod Touch and I wanna sell it. So I have scratches on the back of it that wont come off. I have a small scratch on the front screen that is barley noticeable. Its not in the best condition but it runs well, everything works fine. It's an iPod touch 2gen with 4.0 on it, I have had it for 2 years. How much do you think I can get for it and where can I sell it? more

Open Question: Which military establishment is better to join when you're 18? Army, Air force or Navy?

I'm graduating next June and before I make my decision I wanna know which is the best and that will benefit me in the future more. I'm pretty sure it's Air force, but I still want to know everything about the Navy and Army. more

Open Question: I don't know how to deal with my stress?

Over the summer, I moved in with my mom's boyfriend, 90 miles away from where I used to live. We were paying off a house that we bought, everything in my room was how I wanted and I was even painting a mural on my ceiling with my boyfriend and my mom's going to be renting the house out, which bothers me since a lot of my college fund was put toward that house, so I feel as though it is mine. What bothers me most is that they were only in a relationship approximately 3 months before we moved him, I've been dating my boyfriend longer then them by several months. But since my mom has been dating this guy, she has seemed to withdraw from everything I do, I understand she is happy and wants to spend time with him, but I feel like I've been abandoned on the sidewalk like an ugly homeless puppy. I haven't really like her boyfriend every since I met him, he just seems like a bad parent figure in general in my honest opinion. He tries to be funny and tries to make me happy, but he always ends up hurting my feelings in some way by being...insensitive? I've tried to talk to them about how I don't like things they do and all that, but it seems to just go in one ear and out the other. They're always trying to talk to me in public places, always while we're out at a restaurant when I can't run away. I'm a very sensitive girl, so I always cry--hard. I also feel like they're trying to make me pity their situation or make me give them sympathy for their problems. Today, I came home from school crying, I addressed all of my problems and they try to tell me how bad they have it at work/as an adult. It's very had to listen to them since I feel like they don't know what they're doing in parenting. But I started school about a month ago, and I really expected things at my new town/school to be so much better than my last town (I moved from a slightly small town)-- things are terrible. My school has no air conditioning which makes me extremely exhausted and everyone is a prick. I was already stressed before I started school here since this is my first year in high school and I wouldn't know anyone. Like I said, it's been about a month since I started school and I haven't made friends yet and I'm not 100% sure if I want to make friends because of how the majority of the people seem. I believe I've been doing everything right, asking simple questions, complimenting people, trying to make conversations, ect. But they seem to ignore me and just give me a heart breaking glare. I haven't ever had a school year where I haven't made friends on the first day of school. A lot of my teachers aren't the best, either. I, myself, am an artist, and I have no other "good skills" besides the arts. I took an art class, but I hate it and I hate my teacher. I'm also having a lot of repeat classes that I had last year, but there's no way to change that. So, I guess this is my situation, I actually have more, but I figured it would be best to give my main problems. I would like to mention that I don't exactly have an hobbies. I haven't draw anything most of the summer and I'm on slight artist's block. There are no clubs at school that I like, (we only have sports and foreign languages) and I'm very limited on what I can do here. I can't go outside often because of my past and fear of being alone outside, plus this is a really bad neighborhood/city. I have a cat that seems to cheer my up than my "parent's" attempts. Thank you so much in advance. Questions are always welcome. more

Open Question: What is she trying to prove?

Me and a girl (european exchange student, if that is even important) work together at our student job on campus, and we HAD been friends for over 2 years. So LONG story short I fell for her but she wasn't interested. After I asked her out the first time and got rejected, about a month later she started being really friendly with me eventually she asked me to help her look for a car. Well a few weeks and a lot of my time later she had a car and I had helped register it smog check the works. Well I stupidly saw all this time she was spending with me as a sign she liked me so i asked her out again, WRONG. A close friend pointed out to me that this was just one time out of MANY where this girl was just using me because she knew I liked her and how when ever I needed something she was always busy. I am more ashamed that I let myself become her personal lap dog and let her walk all over me. I could deal with her not reciprocating my feelings but I was angry that she abused my kindness like that because she knew I liked her. I have learned a lot about her since then that i did not realize before that would probably turn any guy off of her (she is a user, a tease, manipulator, future gold digger,etc..). So now skip forward a couple months and believe me I am no longer her 'go to guy' for everything thing. I don't even speak to her outside of work. she probably still thinks we are BFF's like we used to be but she is strictly a co-worker to me now. we are back in school and all of a sudden she is dressing really 'scandalous', 'revealing', 'trashy', 'slutty', whatever you want to call it. I know she is doing it to attract attention from 'whoever' at school but the way she dresses in completely inappropriate for work. and no matter how much I don't like her now it is hard not to stare when she dresses like that. Why would she even dress this way around me, especially with the awkward past we have? (she can dress however she wants at school but I don't appreciate her being that way around me at work) Besides would you dress that way around a guy who probably still has unresolved/mixed/confusing feelings about you even though you don't like him? P.S. I may not have to worry about it though because I have informed my supervisor about her inappropriate work attire. more

Resolved Question: Where can i find these?

Ok, so i want to try shrooms (i have researched everything and whats bad and good and the right place to be and what to do and what not to do and which ones are poisonous) So i was thinking what environment do you live in to find magic mushrooms? I live right next to a marsh and there is a forest in between the marsh and my house and it is very wild and has many trees and we havent had much rain but we are getting some tomorow and it has many plants small aanimals like some frogs and it can get kinda humid and it has been the last few days. So the main idea is WHERE CAN I FIND SHROOMS IN NATURE??? i dont have time to grow them myself and i dont have anything to grow them with PLEEAASSEE HEELP!AND IM IN EASTERN MASACHUSETES more

Open Question: Rehashing something that happened at a range a few years back?

If you have a problem with long questions, stop now and leave. A few years ago I was at a range. One rangemaster didn't quite grasp the fact that single action revolvers do not have a cylinder that you can open, So on this occasion, I was shooting a couple pistols. The people shooting next to me, were a man and his teenage son. They had two revolvers. One was a Ruger Super Single Six .22 single action revolver; the other was a Ruger Blackhawk .357 Magnum single action revolver. The father/son team had the worst time with this rangemaster. The Dad emptied the guns, half c o c k e d the revolvers, and then opened the loading gate, and placed the revolvers on the table. The rangemaster was angry; it turned out, this range master wanted ALL CYLINDERS opened, whether they swung out or not. So if you owned a Ruger Single Action, he wanted you to actually remove the cylinder. I guess this guy wore suspenders with his belt, because he kinda overdid the safety thing. Anyway the Dad left to go do something at the range office, and left the 16 or 17 year old son to shoot the .22. The problem was the son was not quite sure how to put the cylinder back in. You kind of have to finesse it, and put it in just so. He was trying to put the cylinder back in, and was having no luck. My first .22 revolver my father let me shoot was a Ruger Bearcat, which although smaller was basically the same gun. I was very familiar with taking the cylinder out and putting it back in. So as the guy was fiddling with it, I asked him if he needed help putting it back in. He said "Yes," so I started helping him. I was at first trying to show him how to put it back in, but apparently he was one of those people you can't teach because they don't listen. I think he just wanted me to shut up and put it back together. So I did. As a courtesy to him, I put the .22 down, and then picked up the .357 and put the cylinder back into that. That's when everything when wrong. I looked up, and the son was suddenly yards away, acting like he didn't know me. And the Dad was standing right there, and looked furious. He snatched the .357 out of my hand, slammed it back down on the table, and then screamed at me "Keep your G***** hands off my gun!" I think he assumed that I just walked up to his guns without anyone's permission He then totally shocked me by pushing me. The guy must have been at least 250 pounds. I went flying. I am five foot four, 118 pounds. I hit one of the ancient tables, got an enormous splinter in my arm, and then fell down like a ton of bricks, tearing my elbow open on the disintegrating blacktop. I couldn't believe it. This place was surrounded by guns. A shoving match there could turn into blood and brains flying everywhere. Apparently this guy had never met people with a temper or he never planned ahead. I have a cousin who gets so mad he loses his mind. If this guy had shoved my cousin like that, my cousin would have simply shot the guy and his son, no if, ands or buts. I assume the guy didn't realize just how skinny I was. I think he MEANT to push me back. I don't think he intended on knocking me to the ground. It was a cold day, and I wear really bulky clothing when it is cold and windy. I think he thought there was more to me than there was. OK, so guess what? Remember the fussy rangemaster who was MR. SAFETY? Well, SUDDENLY he is struck blind and can't see anything. . I was so angry tears welled up in my eyes. I wanted to grab my gun, slap a clip in, and well, I will leave the rest to your imagination. What I actually did, was quickly load up my guns in their cases, and then rapidly walk out. I felt I needed to get out of there. The man showed me he was insane/crazy. The rangemaster showed me he was suddenly a coward who didn't want to get involved. And I was enraged and humiliated that 1) I was shoved and thrown bouncing around so easily 2)Embarrassed because some people there assumed I DESERVED this by touching another man's guns without permission. 3) I have this rage issue regarding being bullied by people bigger than me. I had literally been bullied and picked on my entire childhood due to my size. My face turned brick red, my mouth got dry, my heart was racing, I suddenly had a raging migraine, and had tunnel vision, and didn't see or hear other people until I got to the car. I didn't bother to get my targets to return them for the deposit. I just left. I felt I wasn't going to win no matter what. All the conservatives would just take the side of a good old boy. The rangemaster was a coward who didn't want to get involved. And the guy who pushed me proved he was crazy. Craziness and guns make a bad combination. I felt I had nothing to win and everything to lose by staying. But I am ashamed and humiliated every time I think about it. But what else could I have done? more

Open Question: Is my Girl friend is cheating on me?

She is latin and I am Asian , Somedays ago we changed our pawwords and everything but today when i got online from her account she was chatting with her ex boyfriend, she called her my love and and also told him that I am gonna buy a new laptop soon and then i started writing then after a minutes they both said bye ... I went to her and asked her that why you did like this she said that her mom is sick and she is in the hospital I want to talk with her because he wanted my fone number I did'nt give him and i said only chatting I told her that do you love me or him she said that i only love you so if she loves me how can she chat with her ex boyfriend I really love her and I am so confused ....... I KNOW THAT THIS FORUM IS MARRIAGE AND DIVORCE BUT I WANT GOOD ANSWERS FROM YOU >>> PLEASE DON"T JUDGE MY PERSONALITY ONLY REPLY TO MY QUESTION THANK YOU AND APPRECIATEDSORRY , I USED *IS* TWICE >>>Is my girlfriend cheating on me <<< more

Open Question: My gf of 3 1/2 years gave me an ultimatum to at least propose or she would leave me why is she....?

My girlfriend and i have been together 3 1/2 years and well she has been giving me hints that she wants to get married but i have commitment problems after being left at the alter by my ex. So as you can imagine i am highly scared of getting married and it frightens me to death =/. I love my girlfriend more then anything and i get the feeling she is the one and everything just so scared of going through that again =/. Well we were talking tonight and she basically gave me a ultimatum telling me she wants me to at least propose to her by this time next year or she is gone she doesn't just want to be my girlfriend she wants to be my wife. And that i shouldn't be scared because she would never hurt me and everything. I don't understand why she is being like this i don't understand why she is pressuring me like this i do not know what to do =/. Advice? more

Open Question: why am i never happy anymore?

Okay, so i am 18, turning 19 this month, and i realized i am never really, truly happy...Which is really strange, because when i was little i was always so happy.. I have everything i want, and it's even pay day at work tomorrow, but i can't find a reason to smile. I mean it is so bad that i don't even know what i want for my birthday, and i don't know what i want to do for my birthday and i am turning 19, in 16 days. I just wish i was happier.. Sometimes i wonder if not having a boyfriend contributes to it. which i hope it does not, because i believe in making your own happiness without a boyfriend. I just feel sad, and i wish i could tell someone, so i just want to know what you guys think. OH, and please do not tell me to talk to my friends, because they really don't care about me, or my feelings...and yess. i DO know that for a fact. Sorry this got so long, but what do you think, why am i so unhappy?? thanks more

Open Question: Blank Verus Blank: Manic Street Preachers?

Hopefully somebody has heard of them! Songs: Patrick Batman VS Faster Ifwhiteamericatoldthetruthforonedayitsworldwouldfallapart VS You're Tender And You're Tired Nobody Loved You VS Yes My Little Empire VS I Close My Eyes This Is Yesterday VS Motorcycle Emptiness Albums: The Holy Bible VS Everything Must Go Members: Can you name them all? BQ: Any unknown bands you'd like to share? BQ2: Which band tomorrow? BQ3: Do you play bass guitar & drums (like yours truely)? more

Open Question: Should I leave my husband?

My husband and I have been dating for 3 ½ years, and married for about eight months. We started dating at nineteen. We currently have a seven month old daughter. He quit his part time job when I was five months pregnant, and went on unemployment until it ran out in June. And he is STILL unemployed, and his dad is paying our rent. Now my mother in law is going to move in to compensate for his half of the rent. Among that very big factor on why I want to leave, he also recently broke my PAID OFF car about 2 weeks ago while looking at my cell phone. (Yes, my cell phone. He hasn’t had a cell phone for 2 years.) Before that he lost my wallet, and then once again lost my bank card. And then he somehow managed to lose our house keys on the way from our car to our apartment and managed to lost my car key too. Although it doesn’t matter now, because I had to sell the car for $263 dollars because he busted the transmission and couldnt afford to pay for it. He is also VERY addicted to porn. When we first met he was a full time student in college and receiving all A’s. He had a job, perfect credit (which was shot to hell after about a year of dating.) And you know it, he has now successfully failed all of his classes three semesters in a row. Me? I have um… name calling issues. I also pay everything his father doesn’t pay and its really starting to piss me off so occasionally when we fight I call him a loser or a bad father. I know its not constructive. Despite all of this, I love him deeply . He has dramatcially changed before my eyes, and he is a very devoted father (emotionally.) He also tells me he loves me everyday. I have told him I want to leave, and he's hurt but it always turn back to the name calling thing. He sincerely does not completely understand why I thinking about leaving no matter what I say. I am only 23 years old and I feel like Ive been married for sixteen years and I am pushing 40. I also feel like hes my son sometimes. I just want someone to give me an unbiased opinion that has “been there.” Do I give him more time to change? Or do I leave and get separted? Or am I a blabbering idiot that should have left ages ago? more

Open Question: Where is a good scenic point in hoboken, nj?

I hear that there's a romantic ( somewhat away from everything) scenic point in hoboken somewhere that overlooks the nyc skyline where you can just go, park your car and relax ? I wanted to take my boyfriend there for something cute and romantic... any help?? Thanks so much!! more

Open Question: Had a falling out with a friend do you think she liked me more then just a friend do you think we'll make up?

1.I reconnected with a childhood friend on facebook she has always been into girls *she's the type to dress like a man like a butch* ever since I've known her. (my dad recently told me that she told him she was suicidal long time ago) She's 31 and I'm 23 any how we started to talk i made a few wall post and she liked and commented them. For example i posted something like this.(i want something i can't have I'm having a restless night) she then commented saying (what do you want) then another day i posted something else on my wall this time it was kinda sexual and she said (wow what are you talking about?). Everything was going good for awhile i started to text her a lot i told her i thought she was cute and she asked me if i only liked the boyish looking girls. We texted each other back and forth she called me a few times. I went to visit her we talked for a minute i hugged her she told me to cut back on the texting so i did. One night me and her was on facebook posting on each others we got into a argument and i told her i didn't think she liked or wanted to be my friend and that me wanting to be friends with her was all in my head. 2.She said she thought we were friends and that she was a little hurt. She told me she didn't want a girlfriend right now and that she was trying to get her life together and that I'm too pushy and that she feel like she always have to explain herself when we talk on the phone. That’s when i told her i had a boyfriend of 5 years and that i never wanted to be with her (but I did tell her I had a boyfriend on the phone) . She then said "U funnier but I understand that your feeling R hurt and I'm sorry for that U went out into the deep end telling me about our boyfriend of 5yrs but U NEVER and U mean NEVER wanted to be my girlfriend, right HA U need to stop it. And i hope everything works out wit U and your boyfriend. Happiness is everything good luck." I posted on my wall about my bf saying that i was going to make him the same kind of food she likes. That's when she blocked me i called and asked her why she blocked me. She said i was crazy and the way i call and text her is like i want to be more then friends. And something about i wanted to be friends opps i have a bf of 5 years. She said she didn't care that i had a bf i told her i was sorry for leading her on she said i didn't lead her on that she never took any of the things i said to her seriously. And that she was done with me and told me not to call or text her again and that i couldn't fix this. Now she flirts with my friends on facebook, Did she likes me for more then just a friend though? 3. Now after all that above:I want to help her buy books for school but everyone tells me i shouldn't because she'll just use me :( I don't know what to do i told her i wanted to help. She said why do i want to help do i want something in return. I told her no she asked how much i can give her i asked her how much she needed she said 'i'm good' so i guess this means she doesn't want me to help her?* more

Open Question: what is necessary to qualify for a music college?

I am 15 years old and going to be a sophomore in high school. Music is what I love to do. I play the piano, guitar, ukulele, drums, steel drum, bass, clarinet and the trumpet. I have taught myself all of these instruments with the exception of the clarinet. I write and compose my own music on all of these instruments, but I realize that what many people keep saying is that you need a private instructor. Is this really necessary? I can also read music fairly well from playing clarinet in my band at school but I prefer teaching myself everything and figuring things out on my own. Will it be impossible for someone like me to get into a music college, because although I happen to understand music very well, I have never been coached? Thanks :) more

Open Question: Please answer seriously... what's wrong with me?

Answerers, I have a serious problem. I want to apologize for making this question too long, and for being an absolute freak of nature. I'm sorry to all of you. I truly am. I'll try to be as clear as I can. I've just started college. I'm roomed up and everything and I'm going to start class in the morning. I haven't had much luck getting a girlfriend, and I'm told that college will be a great place for it. The whole summer, I've been banking on getting a girlfriend in college. But, also over the summer, I've been getting a lot of doubts about whether I deserve a girlfriend. I suppose I'd better show you the heads and the tails of the coin I'd like you to flip for me. I know that "all my life" is usually used as a euphemism, but literally all my life, the one thing I've wanted most of all, enough that I'd be willing to forsake everything else for, is a girlfriend. I want a cute, kind, funny and intelligent girl that I can relate to, who isn't afraid to be herself around me, and I don't have to be afraid of being myself around her. My idea of a nice date is to go out with the girl I'm dating, show her a good time on the town. Maybe a movie, and dinner. I like the girls that I date to feel like I'm treating them fairly, the way they deserve to be treated. I want romance and a loving relationship. But I can't do that when I'm afraid to leave my dormroom for anything other than class. But, the flipside, and problem with this is: I have been having some fantasies about girls... Sexual, mainly. Sex is constantly on my mind, and I wish it wasn't. Everywhere I turn, "Latin roots homework. Sex. Sex. Se- Where's my- Sex. Sex. I need to make sure that I have my iPod- Sex. This is delicious. Sex. Sex. Sex. Oh my! There's a pretty girl! Sex x 6." This may not seem like it's a big deal, but I've also been having really kinky fantasies of girls all tied up, at my mercy, not being able to stop me from having my way with them. The thing with this, though, is that it's not something I want. I mean, I want it, but I also don't really want it. My body is what wants sex, not me. I want to have sex so badly that I find myself having to have private time and get myself off in the most inconvenient times of the day. But that's not even the half of it. Lately, I've had the feeling that normal sex won't be enough for me. That I won't be turned on enough by just my girlfriend alone, and that I'll have to strap her to something in order to do anything. I also read this erotic story of a boy and his girlfriend who get caught up in a horrifying sex scenario, and it did not have a happy ending. It turned me on a great deal, but I've realized that none of the things I fantasize about are morally right. All of the things that I think about, make me feel that I don't deserve a girlfriend, let alone sex. Because of this, I've gotten really depressed. I got so depressed today that I couldn't even find it in myself to get off the floor of my dorm room. I'm actually breaking as I type this. This is all really kinky stuff that I think about, but if anyone tried to do that to me, or to a girl that I love, I would just... die. Lately, I've been wishing that I would die, so that I don't have to worry about whether I'm going to hurt someone or not. I can't take having sex on my mind all the time, and wanting badly to have my way with the nearest thing without a Y chromosome. I don't want to be some sex-starved monster. I want my urges to die down, because it's not doing any good right now to have urges and no outlet. I think that if I can just get a girlfriend, then sex may come eventually, but as stated, I want a girlfriend more than I want sex. I can't find a girl when I look, but I can't just wait around for a girl to walk into my life. However, I'm also too afraid of putting myself out there. I'd personally like to get a girlfriend by the time I'm thirty. Just so you guys know, I *have* had a girlfriend before, I just haven't had a girlfriend in three years. I want to say one more time that I'm truly sorry for what a freak of nature I've become, and that I want to be a good person, a good friend, a good boyfriend, and anything else I hold a title to. Could somebody please help me? Offer me some advice? more

Open Question: What do you think about this situation?? Advice please:/?

I've been with my girl friend for the past two years and everything has been fine until last week. My female best friend recently broke up with her bf and has been taking it really hard so my gf told me I should spend a little time with her to cheer her up. We're all friends and she doesn't really mind me being around her if she's not there which is really convenient because I'm not dropping a friend over jealously. My best friends is actually the one who got us together. They become really close friends through work so they're always together. So here's the problem. Of late my girl has been all over me whenever my best friend is around. I don't mind the affection but what she's doing was a little much. I told my gf to relax a little because it was obvious that she was trying to make her jealous. She flipped and we had a huge argument that ended our relationship. As of now we're trying to work things out but her biggest thing is that I dont see my best friend as much.. I talk to her throughout the week, but I only see her a few times a month due to work, school and alone time with my girl. I really dont know how to go about this.. someone talk to me please.. I really do love her but if she's implying that I throw away 8 years of friendship then idk.. more

Open Question: How do you know if he still wants to be with you?

I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now but lately he just wants to spend all his time working and spending time with his mates.I offer to cook him dinner but then his like I will come over been then I have leave straight away.He always does what he wants and has even admitted that he is selfish.I have my own job and I pay for everything for my myself.He bought my one flower on my bday that was it.He keeps his money to himself and we don't go out much.The relationship was a lot of fun at the beginning but now we fight more and I have a bad feeling.What should I do? I have tried talking to him today but his busy at work. more

Open Question: Can't connect my ps3 to my new router...?

So I just bought a new wireless router for my house. It's a actiontec PK 5000. Today I tried to set it up with my ps3 so I can play it online. But I can't get it to connect. I never had an issue with my previous router. I can't get it to work now. After I test the connection it says "the key exchange information timed out. The wpa key you entered may be incorrect" I know for sure I'm entering it right. I've checked and double checked. I entered everything manually and automatically. I still can't get it to work. How can I fix it? more

Open Question: My house is always a mess, Bugs wont go away, i dont know what to do. help?

I am 15 years old, i live in a apartment with my mom, and my cat. there are these cocaroaches that just wont go away no matter what, the inspectors have came like 3 times, they just wont go away, My house is always messy, my mom always blames it all on me and expects me to clean it, i dont because everything is so nasty and i didnt even do it, i would move to my dads house but he is poor, but he is wayyy more supportive than my mom is, my mom works at a resturaunt and gets payed way more than she tells me, thats what i think, she is not supportive at all, i want to move to my dads but dont want to be poor. he has a nice house and everything. i would stay at my moms, but she is to messy for me to be living here, i havent told my dad about any of this because he would freak out and like call Cps or something, please help. i tell my mom this but she never listens. this sounds bad but im amost never happy, im not emo or anything its just my house is gloomy and my friends most the times are assholes, What do you think i should do. My mom drinks alot, and blows all her money away on that and ciggarettes, i dont do drugs or drink or anything, so im not always sad because of that, This sounds like a CPS case but its not that, i just want to go away, thanks more

Open Question: My Husband is causing problems, help?

salam o alakum wa rehamatullah wa baraktu In the name of Allah, most merciful, most gracious Brothers/Sisters, can you help a troubled sister out? I have just been married in Somalia with my husband Omar, and we have been living peacefully with the grace of Allah(SWT). Everything is going fine, but on the marriage Omar's dowry was only 50 Shillings(Somalian currency). I don't know if Allah is trying to warn me of how this Marriage is supposed to be. I am very scared, and I don't know what to do. I was kind of forced to marry him with the pressure of my family, but Allah has willed it for the sake of good. He is a very cheap man, but he seems very nice. He makes me wear Hijab in public and I have never really liked wearing it that much, only in the Masjid. Should I Divorce him? May Allah guide us all to the right path Welleycom Salam@Microwave You Kuffar, you do Shirk. Lanat be on you. more

Open Question: (10 points) Do you get a Dieting 'high' the first few days of a diet?

Hey guys, I've noticed that when I first start a diet or life style change, I get this awesome high feeling. I feel better than ever, have more energy and I love myself and my life. After about three days this usually starts to fade. The come down is pretty hard.and I just feel hungry and no longer feel like everything is great....Anyone get this? Or have any suggestions for hope to deal with this?Okay, but that doesn't explain why after about three day I feel a huge let down...I always eat 'healthy' just not low cal. or low carb... I don't eat take out or tv dinners. I cook all my meals. I use veggies all the time. How come went I cut the carbs down to a minimum and try to watch the calories, this changes? more

Open Question: I hate my mom and my dad.?

I'm not too sure as to whether this is teenage angst or whatever, but I hate them. My dad's an irresponsible alchie and my mom is a catholic who likes to pretend that her marriage isn't a complete fucking failure. She goes to church all the time, yet never even bothers to even TALK with her husband. They can't get a divorce because without my dad's money, she wouldn't even be able to support herself. If she moved out, I'd have to move with her, work two jobs, and kiss all dreams and ambitions I ever had goodbye. She never had a future. I simply hate my parents for who they are and that they just don't care. My mom likes to pretend that she's involved in my school work, but she simply doesn't know shit. My dad doesn't even try. I rarely have a conversation with him; the only thing we say to each other is hi when he comes home smashed from the bar at 5 pm. Occasionally I have to constantly bug him about bills and shit that he doesn't pay, but that doesn't really count. My mom goes to work, comes home, never cooks, never cleans, and berates me when I ask her why she doesn't. She says that if I can cook food, I should cook food, even though I counter that 20 years ago when my brothers were my age, she cooked 3 meals a day for them. Now, I get something around a sandwich and a bowl of cereal each day. I just want to move out and never have to speak to them again. I just want them to be gone. They never raised me, they don't know anything about my personal life or what classes I'm taking or how I'm doing in school, nor do they care. My mom doesn't care about anything I do, she doesn't care as to whether I sit on my ass all day on this computer, or if I go out and hang out with friends, but she insists that she knows where I am. She treats me like I'm some god damned 12 year old that's light his arm on fire and would jump in front of a truck. She assumes that as soon as I hit 18 I'll be a mature and responsible adult who will know how to manage his money and do everything correct. I fucking hate her more than my dad, because at least my dad doesn't pull all the stupid shit she does. I am completely independent at my house; I work a part time job, buy my own food, cook my own food, and am self-efficient. I guess I should be grateful for my dad allowing me to live in his house, but him being a poor excuse for a father doesn't fucking cut it. Just because you pay the bills doesn't mean you're father of the year. I don't really have anyone to talk to, and I just wanted to let this out. I've disliked my parents ever since I was 9, when I discovered how real, functional families work. I'm not looking for sympathy, or a pat on the back. I just want someone to read this, and just listen. Nobody knows how I really feel about my parents, I try to fake everything with my friends; I imply to them through lies that I live with a functional family, and my mom and dad love me very much. I never invite anyone to my home, since I don't want them to see my dad when he comes home in the evening completely smashed. I don't even know how he's fucking alive, he practically drinks beer and bacon grease everyday. He eats like shit, just goes to a bar all day, and he's still alive. Yea, his knees may be giving out, but he doesn't seem to be dieing anytime soon. One of my closest friend's father died. I knew his father, he was a fantastic and awesome father who worked his ass off for his family, and loved them all. He was a great guy, in great shape, and guess what? He dies of a heart attack. Now my friend is mentally unstable, and without a dad, and is in deep financial shit. It's not fucking fair at all. I'd much rather have my dad die than his dad.I try to just act completely normal and want to blend in, but I can't fucking take it anymore. My mom is as bad to my dad as he is to her. They both make fun of each other and mock each other. Sometimes they act like god damned 9 year olds. My mom makes no attempt to reconcile with my father, even though she is a die hard Catholic. Sometimes I really just want to go to the church she goes to, tell the priest/father about the situation, call her out on it, and FORCE her to stop avoiding her damn problems and FACE THEM like a RESPONSIBLE, MATURE ADULT. I really want to do good in school, I want to get good grades, do community service hours, and just get the fuck outta my house to Calstate. I don't ever want to see my mom and dad again. What the hell should I do with them? Should I seek counseling? Is this normal? Should I talk with them about it? Should I talk with my brothers about it? more

Open Question: SO FRUSTRATING stupid friends!! (mature)?

Me and my friends are 22 and we are all sexually active. I was talking to them about condoms and such and they were saying the DUMBEST things ever. They honestly believe in the rhythm method and the pull out method... and the worst of all is they believe that wearing TWO condoms is better than one. I was like... WHAT THE F is wrong with you?? So I was explaining how that is so dangerous and you can get pregnant and THEY got mad at ME, saying things like "well, i've been doing it like this for a year now and I never got pregnant" ... and I was seriously so mad at them for doing that. I obviously can't convince them because they think they know everything, so I said that if you get pregnant, I will only laugh and say I told you so, because it is just not worth talking to them about it. I'm just so pissed at them for being so stubbornly stupid and ignorant. Should I even try to convince them anymore or just drop it? more

Open Question: RWE Friday Night Frenzy Rate & Promo Please?

RWE Friday Night Frenzy *The Show Starts With All NEO Members (Matt Dagger, Trevor Hicks, Ray Austin, Jay Savage, Colton Kobra, & Second City Saint..SCS Grabs A Mic* Yeah, Yeah, Yeah..Shut Your Traps!!!! *Crowd Boos* as you all know our leader will be revealed tonight, and we will run the show.. so i decided why wait any long to reveal our leader.. lets bring him out here...*Camera focuses on the ramp but none comes out* SCS Says, hahaha what a suprise.. the leader has been here all along.. I AM THE LEADER OF THE NEW AGE OUTLAWS! * The Rest of NEO steps behind SCS as he continues to talk* Yes i organized everything.. i put together this group of nobodies.. I am the biggest star in this company..and i deserve a title shot..people watch this show because of...*The Lights Go Out..Slow Music Starts Playing And On The Stage Walks Out The Crow, He Makes His Way To The Ring* SCS: Who do you think you are interrupting me and sticking your head into my business The Crow:......... SCS: Oh! wise guy ey you dont wanna talk.. you wanna keep you mouth close? well how bout we make that permanent...your gonna wish you never came out here! *NEO Walks Toward The Crow And Stops At SCS, All Of A Sudden They Grab Him And Restrain Him, And The Crow Takes His Mic* The Crow: So your the leader of SCS...your the one who said tonight was going to be the Reincarnation of RWE? ... your the one that took out dick gregory...thats strange because i find that hard to believe.. theres no way a "NOBODY" like you could pull this off.... your telling me you put together this group of young men and had them attack other superstars?? your taking credit for this?? Let me ask you something guys...Is he the one that did all this? *NEO Slow Shakes Its Head No* The Crow: i didnt think so.. you see i wasnt going to come out here and do anything to you SCS because i liked you.. well i thought i did..guess i was wrong...and i bet your wondering why none of... your men are attacking me right?? well its simple..IM THE LEADER! I CREATED NEO TO CARRY OUT MY BOSSES ORDERS! I TOOK OUT MR. DICK GREGORY...I DID ALL THE WORK AND YOU CAME AND TRIED TO TAKE MY CREDIT..SO NOW you will have to PAY! Guys do what ever you want with him and since im the new GM YOURRRRRRR FIRREEEDDDDDD! *NEO Destroys SCS* The Crow: Now that that is over with, yesterday i made tweaks to matches.. Every match involving a NEO member is a NEO Lumberjack Match...Since we are all out here lets get this show started! RWE Pure Championship #1 Contenders Tounament Cody McAwesome vs Matt Dagger *Cody makes his way to the ring NEO circles the outside and the ref rings the bell* cody is cautious to begin the match almost as if hes afraid to touch to touch matt... they lock up in the center of the ring.. cody suplexes matt and he rolls out side to recouperate.. as hes rolling back in cody meets him with punches and kicks to the gut.. Jay savage hops on the apron and distracts the ref while Ray austin climbs the turnbuckle and hits Cody with a crossbody.. matt pins him and the ref turns around to count...1...2...cody kicks out.. matt picks cody up and throws him outside the ring and NEO attacks him like a pack of wild dogs... they roll cody back in the ring and Matt pins him....1...2...cody kicks out again not willing to give up..matt throws cody out again but this time he fights back and his tag team partner Luis V. comes through the crowd to help.. they eventually keep NEO at bay..cody goes to climb in the ring.. Matt dagger punches him and turns him around and hits a german suplex pin..the ref counts 1...2...3 Winner: Matt Dagger *outside the ring NEO is still beating up Luis V. Ray Austin gets in the ring and tells them to roll Luis in.. and this starts match 2* Luis V. vs Ray Austin After the beating Luis just took Ray Austin goes up top and hits a 450 splash and pins Luis V. 1...2...3 Winner: Ray Austin *Mr. Chicago makes his entrance to the ring, before he could even get in the ring Colton Kobra attacks him with a chair and then rolls him in to trevor hicks Mr. Chicago vs Trevor Hicks right when the ref rings the bell trevor pins mr. chicago 1....2.... mr chicago kicks out..trevor tries to kick mr. chicago but mr. chicago cathes his legs and rolls him up in a small package..NEO distracts the ref and the crowd couts 1...2....3....4... finally Trevor kicks out and the ref turns around.. as Mr. Chicago is screaming at the ref Trevor hits him with a back stabber and pins him 1...2....3 Winner: Trevor Hicks*The ring is cleared after NEO celebrates and Genocide Genesis makes his way to the ring* Genesis: RWE Galaxy i should be happy i should be excited i should be...well i should be me.. but im not... idk whats wrong with me... theres something eating away at me.. The NEO is taking over RWE and no one is stepping up to stop them..so im going to take this into my own hands and defend the brand i love RWE will not be taken over by some ruthless bandits... you guys are parasites.. you are scum! and me and who ever else wants to join me will take you down! i am thee RWE World Heavyweight Champion and i will not...I REPEAT...WILL NOT LET YOU RUIN WHAT I HAVE SHED BLOOD SWEAT AND TEARS TO CREATE! So im forming a sort of group if you will...its going to be called "The Sentry" why did do i call us The Sentry well is simple NEO is a Void and The Sentry (in the comic book world) is the only one who can defeat the void!*The Crow is seen back stage talking to Shaun Cold* The Crow: Tonight im going to give you an oppurtunity to join our ranks... i want you to do the smart thing... ive seen your talents.. you deserve to be my second in command..i want you to be the special guest Ref tonight in my match Vs The 3xtreme Jeff H@rdy...what do you say? Shaun Cold: i dont choose sides.. i want no part of this war.. im fighting my own The Crow: have you nolt noticed? i took care of your friend dick gregory.. but look you dont have to be the ref... just make sure i win? GOT THAT! Mr. E & Suicidal D Vs Colton Kobra & His Tag Team Partner *Mr. E and Suicidal D make their entrance then Colton Kobra comes out and stops on the stage and grabs a mic* Colton: guys guys calm down.. i know you wanted Revalations but im sorry i couldnt find him so i got a replacement.. a new guy that wants to join our ranks.. and his name is BIG Mike! *big mic comes out psyched to try and earn his spot in NEO*the match starts with Mr. E in the ring vs colton but colton tags out immediately and brings big mike in... big mike quickly over powers Mr. E with a set of clotheslines and a big boot.. Big Mike picks up Mr. E and slams him into the turn buckle.. Mr. E staggers away and Big Mike his the F-5 on him.. then pins him...1...2.... Mr. E kicks out and makes a hot tag to suicidal d *then the lights blackout, when the lights come back on suicidal d is busted open in the ring with a satanic cross made from his blood below him on the canvas..Big Mike pins him 1...2...3 Winners: Colton Kobra & Big MikeRWE Internet Champioship Match The Crow Vs (c) The 3xtreme Jeff H@rdy *colton kobra and big mike stay in the ring as all of NEO comes down, The 3xtreme Jeff Hardy comes to the ring, Then The Crow enters* the match starts with Jeff fighting with everything he has..the crow is taking a beating early on but somehow manages to throw Jeff out of the ring NEO starts stomping jeff as Shaun Cold slowly walks down the ramp..NEO throws jeff back in and the crow goes for the pin...1.... jeff kicks out..the crow slow to get up turns around jeff tries to hit him with a twist of fate but the crow reverses it into a neckbreaker..the crow goes up top to hit his patented reverse 450 splash but while he is at the top taunting Shaun Cold hops in and stunners him from the turnbuckle..the crow falls to the ring and jeff covers him..1.........2....the ref stops counting... jeff looks at him and screams why did you stop.. the ref didnt answer.. meanwhile shaun cold is standing at the top of the ramp while.. while NEO is focused on Shaun Cold.. Genesis enters from the crowd and jumps from the back of the turnbuckle hitting the crow with a ddt...genesis then slides under the ring and NEO hasnt realized what has happened... jeff makes the cover but the ref looks the other way... not wanting to count.... jeff goes crazy on the ref slapping him repeatedly asking why wont he count and the ref replies... i cant... at that point jeff realizes he is in a match he cant win.. all of a sudden the crow comes from behing and locks in a sleeper.. immediatly with out jeff tapping the ref calls for the bell.. Winner: The Crow *NEO enters the ring and celebrates with The Crow..then the crow grabs a mic*The Crow: you see this is only the beginning... Shaun Cold you made a mistake but you know what next week im going to give you one more chance to join us.. and Genesis.. trust me you just became involved in something you shouldnt want a part in.. we were gonna save you for last and try to get you to join.. but no you chose your side and now you will pay...MY NAME IS THE CROW AND I AM THE NEWWWWWW INTERNET CHAMPION OF THE WORLD AND THE REINCARNATION OF RWE HAS JUST BEGUN!The Crow: you see this is only the beginning... Shaun Cold you made a mistake but you know what next week im going to give you one more chance to join us.. and Genesis.. trust me you just became involved in something you shouldnt want a part in.. we were gonna save you for last and try to get you to join.. but no you chose your side and now you will pay...MY NAME IS THE CROW AND I AM THE NEWWWWWW INTERNET CHAMPION OF THE WORLD AND THE REINCARNATION OF RWE HAS JUST BEGUN!This is the second part of the INTERNET TITLE MATCH between the whiles... i messed up NEO has made a line infront of the ring block him from interfering again.. back in the ring jeff still arguing with the ref doesnt see the crow from behind setting up the zigzag.. he hits it and pins jeff..1.2. jeff kicks out after the refs fast count.. pissed he goes up top again.. more