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LB Wilson looks to live up to promise for Illini - Huffingtonpost.com

... you about the way a jolt of adrenaline can hide the worst of the pain when a knife goes into your back, which happened to ... He was really pushing me to have the surgery because it was best, not just for ...

Lindsay Lohan's dad Michael to start rehab facility, says God wants him to create ... - New York Daily News

that the best way to live is to treat others like you want to be treated ... All of the things that have happened to me in my life have led to this," he said. "I know this is what God wants me to do first and foremost."

Hartline aims to go from game manager to game changer - Lexington Herald-Leader

... dirty to me ... cleanest thing I've ever seen." "Managing the game is probably the most important thing that a quarterback does at any level, whether it's high school, college or the NFL," Sanders said. "It ...

Michael Lohan: 'God wants me to' open rehab center - msnbc.com

that the best way to live is to treat others like you want to be treated ... All of the things that have happened to me in my life have led to this. I know this is what God wants me to do first and foremost."

Pivovar: Thank you for the memories, Rosenblatt - Omaha World-Herald

... you see, someone asked the stadium's longtime superintendent. “I see ghosts,'' he said. “Ghosts of players, people and events. That got to me a little ... Royals management did it best to keep things on a ...

Who are the most indispensable high school football players in Central Florida ... - Orlando Sentinel

That's not one of my favorite things, but it's funny ... you're so cool, Sam. I should go buy a Sam Richardson shirt.' But it's all in fun. I know a lot of people are counting on me this season." Richardson isn't alone.

Coleman's two touchdowns the only highlight from Eagles preseason loss to Jets - Philadelphia Daily News

Nobody can say whether this has ever happened in a preseason game ... and that is always a good thing. If he has the opportunity to hit, he usually makes contact and he gets you pretty good . . . He likes to punish ...

Disappearance at the Dairy Queen - msnbc.com

I took that file home with me almost every ... Scott was dead by the time this thing was put into this keepsake box? Derek McLaughlin: That's correct. Dennis Murphy: Was this the best evidence you had to date?

Annette John-Hall: Mega-block party seeks to engage - Philadelphia Daily News

you can count on plenty of cordoned-off streets. And that's a good thing. Block parties are so quintessential Philly ... Williams usually comes up with the best in entertainment and this year is no exception: Grammy ...

As MDA Telethon approaches, a shout-out from, and to, Jerry Lewis - Las Vegas Sun

... me. “I can’t talk to you if you’re not looking at me! OK? You need to look at me when I’m talking to you, OK, John!” Yes, long before anyone ever coined the term ... It happened. It can happen.”

Open Question: Being rejected and getting along well after some time?

So, here's my story.. I was rejected about a year ago (i'm male here, if that changes anything) and well, we didn't talk for that time being. We graduated from the high school and both of us moved to the same city. We caught up in a small class reunion (after summer, yeah).. Nothing much happened and nothing extraordinary. Strangely enough, few days ago she asked if i would want to go to a club (of course in another words: suggesting to buy a ticket, and when i asked if anyone is going besides her, she answered me no. (that's the strange part - a year ago she wouldn't have ever gone with me alone, even before confession-rejection, even though we were good friends)). So, we went to a club, had lots of fun and later walked her to a bus stop, but nothing happened and she didn't write to me yet, though she offered me to hang out more. The thing is i've been going crazy for those last few days - couldn't work, hands shaking.. Right now, from my point of view i think i've got three options - either to be just friends with her, or expect something to come out or just start to ignoring her. And i feel like going for a third option here, maybe that would be the best? But what keeps bugging me what if i still have a little chance to work something out here?.... The first option is kinda out of the question unless you you know a way to bear with all this frustration, anger, craziness..? :| Thanks in advance, i really want to know what other people think and how would they act in such situation. more

Open Question: My closest friend wants me to get her pregnant?

Im 22, and she's 21. I've known her since middle school. We go (went for her) to the same college, this is actually my last semester, she graduated earlier this year. She tells me that she wants to have a child. She says she has considered it since she graduated... She wants ME to be the father. She says she is "done" with having to deal with man after man, because she had some horrible relationships in the past and says this is how she wants to continue her life. She says that she wants me to be the father because I have all the genetic traits she wants her child to have (plus overall health). Also, she isn't having sex to get pregnant the normal way. She is taking the sperm, and inserting it inside her. She says she wouldn't "techinically" be a single mom, because I would be around as the father figure. So I asked her why we couldn't just have sex. She says, "Well, its a possibility, but the other way is alot easier..." But the thing is, I am in love with her. Since middle school. I told her (in high school) how much I liked her, but she said she didn't feel the same way. I've dated other girls, and I never really felt much of a connection. But that was 7 years ago, feelings could change.... And I want to have a child with her, and I want to be a father, especially because I never knew mine. And I wouldn't want that ever happening to any kid of mine. She told me this all a week ago, and I keep thinking about it all the time. But I'm only 22... and I have a whole future ahead of me. I told her that I would think about it... The best thing to do is to wait until I graduate, then I would consider it, but I cannot get it off my mind. Advice please? Thank you. more

Open Question: What happened to the Mind of Mencia show?

I understand it got canceled because of so many dumb jealous people wanted it off the air. I don't understand why they complained so much a bout it? If they didn't like it they could have just changed the darn channel its not so hard. It pisses me off that I actually saw a talented comedian who was actually funny get his show canceled. All the stuff he said was true, that's what made if funny.There have been so many jokes told in history that I don't think any jokes now days are original. Its just like music, its all been done before, no such thing as original comedians now. Even if he did steal jokes, so what? They're jokes, I tell them to my friends to and what? They were mean to be used and make people laugh. Carlos Mencia spoke his mind out and like my dad says, where a man walks, dogs will always bark at him. I don't know if he has another show now or if he does stand up, but I really hope he gets another show like Mind of Mencia, it was the best show I have ever seen hands down. To all his haters, you can either learn to like him, or just change the darn channel and watch your dumb George Lopez show. Its very disappointing how dumb people really are in this country, there's no such thing as freedom of speech anymore. more

Open Question: I miss him so much... What should I do?

This isn't going to be your typical "Ohh, he broke up with me, but I still love him" type thing... There's a bit of a story here, and I'm going to tell you: I've been going to this summer camp for seven years, Camp Hart. This was my last year as a camper, at 15, and I stayed for the entire summer session, 7 weeks. While I was there, I met the most incredible person, and his name was Alex. Alex was a counselor at the Nature and Wilderness program, which I chose during the first week. The second we saw each other, there was a definite connection. At first, he avoided me, which confused and saddened me. Alex was a fascinating person, and I wanted to get to know him (being hot helped too, haha). But as the weeks progressed, we became closer and closer, until by week 5 or so, he was one of my best friends. At Nature, my favorite thing to do was make teas and cook different plants I found around camp, and Alex would regularly help me with this. One day, while gathering firewood in the forest, a good deal away from camp, we found a tree that had fallen half down, and that looked easy to climb.... so we climbed it. While we were high up in the branches, he kissed me. It was the most incredible kiss I'd ever had, and we stayed up in that tree for a long time. He explained that he had avoided me at first because I was a camper, and he was afraid that exactly this would happen (camper-counselor relationships weren't allowed). Alex made sure that I would promise to not tell anyone about our kiss until the summer was over... The rest of camp was wonderful and terrible... I got to spend every day with Alex, but I couldn't be with him the way I wanted. And finally, it ended. I found out that he lives 2 states away from me, but before I left, he took me back to that tree and kissed me goodbye. He told me he would always remember me, but he couldn't work as a counselor next year because of college. It's been a few weeks since we said goodbye, and I can't stop thinking about him. We chat on facebook almost daily, and he says the sweetest things to me and it only makes me love him more. I can never forget him, but I'm afraid that I can never see him again. In November he'll turn 18, so not only will we be separated by 2 states, but we'll be separated by statutory rape laws as well... Please help me figure out what I should do, I can't let him go but I need to move on... more

Open Question: What would you do with the paintings?

I am an artist. I had a huge falling out with a childhood friend and her husband. We were friends for over 35 years.They are no longer and never will be friends again, and that is putting it mildly. Their kids were my god children, that is how close we were. Long story short, some things you just can't forgive. I also quit my job working for very low wages for their family business. Best thing that ever happened to me though, I got a new job and things are looking up. I still hurt from the breakup of our friendship and no longer want the paintings that I have that they gave me over the years. They were artists too. The paintings are somewhat portraits of me and of my husband. I can't throw them away, which I have thought of, but just because of being an artist myself, I can't destroy art. But I don't want them around though. I have thought of dropping them off at goodwill, or pawning them or something. Do you have suggestions? more

Open Question: is this OCD or am i just a selfish freak? (10 points!) long but oddly interesting!?

so hello i am a 13 almost 14 year old girl who is very unhappy in this point of her life, its really messed up and weird and not many people truly believe its as bad as it is but it isn't really what this question is about... for the first time in my life i am not unhappy because of my situation or the abusive people around me but being sad about being ME, i feel ugly. i feel so terribly ugly on the outside and i have been changing in my face a lot and drastically lately and i see my mothers face getting stronger and stronger in my face i just can't look at it without seeing all the ugly things she has done and put me and my brothers through, i hate her so much, i tried to kill myself at 11 yrs (not really understanding what would happen next) and planned on killing her, i swallowed only 8 pills from the bottle and got scared and stuck my finger down my throat and through them up into the shower and the night went on and i never tried to do it again but was very serious about doing it, it was a chronic fantasy, the best dreams i ever had was the ones that i died and vanished in, i told everyone i knew about my brother suicide attempts and got CPS called 4 times from four different adults i told about what was happening at home, they knew i wasn't lying because we had scars and marks and all the proof in the world, me and my two brothers were never enrolled into public school and were never aloud friends or even human contact with anyone but her, she was jealous and mentally ill OBVIOUSLY and the story goes much longer and i could spend all day telling you about what happened in that horrible house but this really is a question about something else, i am safe now. i am ready to leave this house and go live with my aunt and go to public school and have the rest of my childhood to the best i can but i have to see her everyday in the mirror, this sounds really weird but trust me when i say this... i have no idea if she is beautiful or ugly all i kow is that she is true evil and ugly and that is what i look like. i see her nose and i often fantasize about taking a razor blade to it and making it different, i see her thin M shaped top lips and her bulbous bottom one i move my top lip forward and LOCK my face in that expression and i have been doing this for several months and only relaxing it when i go to bed and i cover my face with the blanket at all times, no one knows what my real face looks like because i make it different and put on so much makeup (trust me its far more discrete than you might think) i shade my nose to look different and i am consumed with this obsession over my face, i take makeup everywhere and do not allow anyone to see me plain and dry, i look in the mirror COUNTLESS times during the day (in the car mirror and the one thats on the door, review mirrors, compacted mirrors, bathroom visits often to look) and whats the weirdest thing of all is that i don't feel lazy when i do it! i feel a compulsive need to do this and it gives me in a odd way happiness knowing my face is doing alright, if i keep my lips and nose in the certain spot as i said earlier to long it will twitch and it will look like i am sniffing something REALLY hard and i am scared people are gonna see either of the two "unwanted" faces and thats why i look. so do i have a disorder or am i just a freak and self obsessed vein person? more

Open Question: I don't want to let go.?

What we had was better than Romeo and Juliet. It was better than any of the couples I know have. I saw a video of John Lennon and Yoko and it was like that. But we had some bad times because of situational things, other people, and our own inexperience, and she has a bad past so she let go. I don't think she will ever find anything as good as what we had, but she might never realize that, she doesn't now. And I want the best for her. I also want her, but that is, of course, second. Something I did really hurt her, and she doesn't even want me to contact her at all. I want to contact her. I cry 4 days a week and it's been like that for a long time. I'm learning to be happy without her, but I don't want to give up. I know who she is, and I don't believe I will ever find someone like her. I believe giving her up is giving up a future by far better than any other possible future. Again above anything else, I want her to be happy. I want to respect her. But I want to and I think I should send her an email. What I did that really hurt her was that I told someone something about her and that person a drunken vengeful person and used it for vengeance against someone and then THAT person lashed out at my ex gf, and she left me, because it was already very bad between us because I was immature, and she had needs I didn't know how to fill at that time. I didn't understand and acted needy, and she distanced herself a bit, but then that happened. And then I thought she was intentionally hurting me so I told that person something else, and told my ex, so it was really bad. You may or may not realize that I am very very sorry, and I have worked hard to change who I am for the better, for myself, because of this, but I am suffering a lot, and have tremendous regret. I can't stress enough how rare a person like her is for me and how well we complimented eachother, and I'm a very rare and unique person. Trust me that you will not understand fully how special it was, and that if you have even a little bit of intelligence or trust in me, you will believe me in that... It was really a less than a once in a life time chance, and I am so thankful that it did happen, but at the same time, I just... for her sake, too... want to make things right, or at least to be friends. It's been about 3-4 months since the last thing happened. She hasn't talked to me in about 8-9 months... I know everyone is just going to say "you need to let go." Please don't say that, because it's just pointless. I don't need it beaten into my head, but thanks. Again, to reiterate, please don't say that. Say whatever else but refrain from saying that more

Open Question: :'( What would you do in this situation?

Ive been official with my boyfriend for only a short period of time... But weve been "together" for months... He told me he wanted to be with me forever, and that i was the best thing that ever happened to him... He talked about our future. He talked about how much he cared about me... Background: i work with him, and my bestfriend Today at work it was just my bestfriend and I. She said she "needed to talk to me" (never good). Then she told me that her and my boyfriend hung out the other day, and that he was trying to make a move on her. They were giving each other massages, and he looked at nude photos of her and asked her to send them to him. He also told her that he had broken up with me, then later said he was just kidding. Apparently the whole time she was telling him no, and reminding him i was his girlfriend. My feelings are so hurt. Am i not good enough for him? What do i do now? btw..he told her he wasnt planning on telling me any of this. I like him so much. :'( what now? AHHHHHHHHHHHHH more

Open Question: Dating online has anyone got good or bad experiences?

As a friend of mine once said, "Dating is war!" ( if you call an online interaction a relationship which i don't) If you let a bad relationship drag on, you're just fighting reality. And my principles are all about facing reality -- the sooner the better Because the online player's true colors will come out eventually and it's up to you to spot the signs. What i find really sad ? Not that these player's are liars, because that goes with the territory. What's sad is that people believe them They buy into the big lie. Why? Because they wanted to. You think you have a conventional, conservative potential man/woman who is made of the right fibre, the same moral code as you but the reality is you are fed what they want you to hear . You might be green or raw to the online "game" or vulnerable to the online player's advances. They will be experienced and know exactly what they are doing. Most likely will target you in a chat room. No doubt some have got low Self-Esteem and their addicted to the fix. One man/woman isn't enough for them. They have to have at least two turkeys eating out of their hand sometimes more. Their ego and hunger for attention is voracious and insatiable. I think it's paramount to make people aware of what's out their online especially long distance relationships you have no idea what you are walking into. Meet many, trust few and always paddle your own canoe. Most of these players are male but their is an increasing number of females acting and behaving to a disgraceful degree online. There are a clear number of signs that you've encountered a player. Sob stories are a clear indication, nothing ever works for me, and insatiable appetiite for cyber sex when you initially meet particularly from a male player. There are a lot of intelligent women and men out there who think their immune to not falling for the player but it can happen to the best of people. Particularly with human relations on or offline if your a good , honest ,on the level human being. I've seen the cold ,calculated planning of certain people , steam rising through people and lives and purposes and im sure many of you have too and i regard that as sick. It's a dangerous gig because it's a bond and a relationship between two people and you become so involved with and im sure believe people you have no right to believe especially online it's distortive to values important human values. We all want to see the goodness and beauty in people and with online them gifts are taken away because you have nothing physically to appreciate. Forget about it baby is my opinion. But one essential thing i've never mentioned is that these people have to want to change. If they ever get to teach a course on the Bible or give a speech on modesty and decorum they have to be able to do it with a straight face. Otherwise, like my cousin Sal "The Fish" said, "Fuh-get about it, baby!" Remember, guys: The prettier they are, the easier it is for them to hide their flaws. Not just women im talking about men too ( for any ladies reading this) more

Open Question: Online relationships?

Open Question: Have any of you felt these symptoms a couple days after you conceive?

I know its not typical to feel pregnancy symptoms until about 5 weeks or so, however have any of you felt other strange things go on a few hours or a few days after intercourse, and then later find out you were pregnant? Last year I strongly believe I had a miscarriage. I had all the signs except a positive test, and then one day I had a VERY heavy "period" with chunks in it, but it only lasted 1-2 days. When I believe we conceived, I felt crampy after sex. Then about 2 days later I felt bloated, and had- the best i can describe, a fluttering in my womb. I just felt like something was happening inside me. It wasn't anything I ever felt before, like a chemical reaction or something. Its something that was so subtle, that you have to be able to pay attention and know your body to feel. Now I'm feeling these symptoms again. I want to be clear that i know this is not a typical sign, and i know that gas can be mistaken for pregnancy. But like i said, have any of you felt this before and found out you are pregnant?Thank you lisa! I know, it sounds crazy---but the human body is a mystery....pregnancy adds to that! lol. Well, I'm crossing my fingers that I am, but trying not to be obsessive about it. more

Open Question: why are people so cheap?

I have a very close friend who has been around me all my life since we were like little 2nd grade girls...we used to do everything together when we were in our teens....party drink clubbing...you know those things teenagers do....we were always together until we both got with someone and had kids..she has a little boy and i a little girl...my girl is 1 and hers in almost 2..... i have always noticed she was a very efficient person...saving coupons here and there...always bragging how she got a good deal on stuff...and things like that. she is to me considered a cheap person. one day she ask me if i could watch her son so i told her i could since she ran into some issue with her aunt(the person watching him before) so she only needed me to watch him 2 a week and she told me she would pay me 10 a day. so me being nice and only trying to help said i would. 1st thing that went wrong-the second day she brought him to me she only brought 2 diapers in a bag. i mean that really pissed me off. how can someone expect her kid to be watched properly when they dont even care enough to pack him a couple of snacks and a meal?? i only offered to do this for 2 weeks so i sucked it in and let it go. 2nd thing that bothered me was that when she would say ill take him at 6 am and pick him up by 2..the dad wouldnt show up until 3 something...that bothered me too...so not only are they careless parents they dont keep their word. 3rd thing. was when they started to ask me if i could watch him another day instead of 2 it would be 3 days a week....i don;t want her to take advantage that im a good person be trying to help her out but thats exactly what i think she did. it bothers me cuz i feel like they were just gonna get used to it and dump their kid off and pick him up whenever they felt like it. so i mentionced one day before i was gonna watch him the next to make sure her son had a meal and snacks..cuz not only am i being underpaid i had to provide my own food...which i think is not right. i have always looked at her as a bad parent. in my eyes she has been...giving her kid solid food at an early age once giving him a whole size snicker bar at a nail salon so he can shut up...im not the best mother but i would never ever give my daughter a whole size candy bar at 5 months so she can shut up.i also would want her to be taken care of well paying the babysitter 20 or 30 dollars a day to watch my daughter. i would also provide her own meals and snacks..and anything the baby needed...so thats where me and her grew into separate ways...we are very different....so two weeks passed and she txted me asking me if i could start watching her son 4 days a week now instead of the 2.....i explained to her that i wasnt really happy about getting paid 40 bucks a weeks for watching her son from 6 to 3 or 4.i have my own daughter to watch. i told her i was just trying to help her out since whatever happened with her aunt. and that if she wanted to have a goodbabysitter she would have to pay for one....not like she had been paying her aunt when her aunt really never took good care of him. so i told her again trying not to over doit to pay me 15 atleast. well atfirst she said okay...so i asked her ok well do you want me to watch him tomorrow...so then she changes everything and says yes tommorow but then my friend will watch him from now on...so i was like ok. inmy mind i was like good cuz i didnt wanna watch your bratty kid anyways. then tommorrow came and she didnt show up she send a message saying her younger sister was going to watch him..her sister whos sopposed to be in school. by then i had had enough. i didnt answer back. now im wondering why the hell are people so cheap..even when it comes to their own kids??? it was only 15 a day for crying out loud! IM SORRY THAT THIS IS SO LONG>>>tell me what you thinkboth her and her husband are together and work a full time job. as far as im concerned we always talk and she never mentions shes having money problems she goes out to eat twice a week and gets her nails and hair done whenever she needs it. even though i voiced my complaint at first she agreed but then realize greediness is more important. thats why im so mad cuz i was willing to watch her kid but if she has money to do other things with it why can she pay atleat 5$ more a day? thats cheap and selfish of her in my eyes more

Open Question: Marine girlfriends and wives, will you comment on this poem?

I wish one day you would just say I'm perfect Or tell me I make all your dreams come true Your the best thing that has ever happened to me I will always be missing you Your deployments are always hard I hope you never stay longer I'll wait for your every letter Cause' the distance between us will only make us stronger Half my heart will always go where you go As long as you always take it I know your very smart And will never try to break it I hope you know how much you mean to me I will always be the one to try My life with you will always have one rule And that is to be Semper Fi. I miss you and come home to me soon! more

Open Question: Blocking the father out of my life while I am pregnant? Bad? Good?

I am going through one of the hardest things in my life right now. I have no support from anyone and I can't fall back on the dad. When I say support I don't mean money. I mean like a listening ear or sincere understanding. The guy who got me pregnant is constantly writing me messages (we were in an LDR) about how I am destroying his life, that he was never happy in the relationship, and I don't care about him because I decided to keep it. I feel it's in the best for me to block him out of our life. He's said things I can't forgive and if I ever saw him with our kid I would be reminded of all the times he said that this was destroying him and the worst possible thing that could ever happen. Or how he said that he wanted to hook up with a bunch of girls and practice his freedom but instead he stayed with me because he felt bad I was so heartbroken. Which I suppose means he just slept with me to pretend because he felt bad for me or something. He is pushing me to a mental break down. Like I've never been treated as horribly as I have by him. But I keep leaving the door open for him to come into my life because of the kid. I am at the point that I think the best thing is to keep the door closed or I might actually end up hurting myself and the kid. I never ever drink, I am not a drinker. But last night I drank because I've just been pushed to limits that I can't handle. I felt horrible waking up this morning. But I cannot take this verbal abuse anymore. I've given him too many chances to be there and be supportive. I've left the door open for him to leave. But there comes a point when you abuse, it won't remain open. He wanted me to have an abortion. He is verbally abusive everyday. I was scared to tell him I was pregnant and he told me that if I just told him the truth that he would be supportive and we could figure this out together. So I told him I was and then he started screaming and yelling at me to get an abortion and I was destroying his life. So I pretended like I got blood work done and it was negative. I told him it was negative because I was getting headaches from him yelling at me to get an abortion. I figured when I told him it was negative, he would just go away and I could move on too. Then he started feeling like I wasn't telling him the truth. And it started eating him alive and he sounded really sincere (again) and asked me. He told me that if I was please to let him know because it's not fair he got to miss out on this moment in his life. I felt bad for him. So I gave him the final truth. That I was. And I wanted to keep it. He flipped and blew a fuse. Now I am the reason everything is wrong in his life. I am scared and alone. But I feel like if I got rid of him then it would rid a negative burden and I could actually focus on what's best for my pregnancy right now. Should I block him out completely? I feel like I'm really really mad and I am at the point I will ice him out for good and hate him forever. more

Resolved Question: Will you Pray for the day of The Lord of Darkness with me? + Would you say The Lord of Darkness is Best?

As you can tell, I'm a strong believer in The Lord of Darkness. He's so intense, dark, strong. He's arguably the best thing to happen in this aspect... ever. He is just the greatest. No other being, mortal or immortal, can compare. The Lord of Darkness has died time and time again but revived himself better than before. Unfortunately his "demon" brother thinks he's now become too weak, what do you think of that?Sometimes... it is Hell... trying to get to Heaven! All because of The Lord of Darkness, Judgement Day is upon us.I'll be too busy getting down on one knee to pray to the Darkside. For I am now the Devil's Favourite Demon... more

Open Question: Resenting my father more and more?

I've had a real rocky relationship with my dad growing up. The first memory I have of him is me hiding under my bedsheets crying, and him running in and then it just ends. I've had really amazing times with my dad, at times he can be the best dad I could ever ask for in the world. But the bad outweighs the good, because it seems like the bad memories overtake the good and they're more frequent than the good ones. I don't want to get into all the stuff that went on, it would take forever. But it got really bad, the verbal abuse he put me through. My parents divorced when I was 11. Since I've been a teenager, our bad relationship escalated. He really dislikes me, and favours my sister. I live with my mom, and she understands how I feel because her dad was the same to her. After a really, really big blow up he had on me, my mom FINALLY yelled at him. (I can't speak up to him, I'm afraid he will hit me). He's been better since, but he's never apologized for any of the things he has done to me. I'm past the stage of being upset and depressed over it, I was for a long time. Now I'm just angry. I'm angry at the fact that he shows favourites between his 2 kids, I'm angry at the way he treats me, and I'm angry because he never feels bad about it. I see him everyday basically because my younger sister still wants a normal relationship with him, but if it were up to me I wouldn't be seeing him as often. Now I just find that I'm resenting him and pushing him away more and more. I can't stand him when I'm around him. I have my back up around him constantly, I always feel super defensive and on guard when I'm around him. I keep conversations short because it's like everything that's happened is a constant reminder of why I shouldn't ever be close to him. He has caused me so much fucking shit and insecurity in my life. I'm not trying to complain or whine, but all I ever wanted was a dad that treated me like he loved me, like he was my dad and I was the daughter he always "said" he wanted. I don't want it to be like this, I don't want to go on having these shitty memories of him. I want the good ones. But no matter how hard I try to look at him in a better light, he does something else to push me over the edge, and I keep on resenting him and the anger just builds you know? I'm just so confused on how I feel about him, whether or not I love and trust him or I hate him and feel scared around him. I feel like I'm always trying to prove myself around him, I don't understand what I did to him to make him treat me like shit. What do I do? I'm at my wits-end. :( more

Open Question: How can I get rid of this ugly attitude?

I am a 13 year old kinda over-privileged kid with this very nasty attitude. I always have the mindset of "I want to follow technology". I have these things: Xbox 360 Elite A Powerful Desktop PC but needs reformatting Dell Inspiron 1440 on Windows 7 Sharp Aquos 32" LCD Screen TV iPod Touch 3G 32GB A decent slide-mechanism phone And recently I heard of this new iPod Touch 4G which is coming out soon and I really wanted it but then I thought twice about asking my dad to buy one for me. My divorced parents are struggling for a stable finance and yet they care about buying me these things. And I also have this mindset that someone would come up to me and say: "Haha I have an iPhone and you only have that piece of crap". And I didn't want that to happen so I always tried my best to keep up with technology and etc. But It is a really nasty attitude. And I don't really think anyone would care about me having only an iPod or someone mocking me is highly unlikely but if that ever happens, I'm pretty sure someone would kick the guy's ass if he overheard it. So I want to get rid of the attitude. I want to be contented with what I have. My friend also told me that technology is corruption and makes people lazy. So I hope someone can help me get rid of the attitude. It always makes me regret things over and over again and I don't want my parents to keep getting stressed because of me. Help! :( more

Resolved Question: which one of my poems do you like best?

poem 1: Once in my life there was no pain, Then I saw him hit you, Then my life I only feared pain, Until I felt him hit me, It was then when I questioned pain, And so i laughed when he hit me, Once in my life i believed i had concurred pain, Then i saw him hit you poem 2: I wish some days that there was one person, just one person who knew everything about me. Knew every angry hand that had hit me, knew every sexual caress that had brushed against my skin, So that when you and all your friends tell those jokes, about those stupid irrelevant things, That one person who knew everything, could look at my happy laughing face and know that deep down I was torn inside by your words, and for one moment, they would remember that nightmare with me and feel the pain and sorrow I felt. It’s only some days that I wish you were that person... poem 3: I hunger for Love. Such an odd thing to hunger for, but I do, almost every day of my life... No. Wait. I hunger for it every single day. And I have, ever since you stopped loving me. I used to wonder, if it was something I had done, or something I didn’t do. But now, I realise, it was all you. And even though all those hateful, forbidding, bitter words fell from your lips, I finally see, they were all a lie. You never stopped loving me. It was me whom stopped loving you. poem 4: i miss the 'old me'. she was fun, and funny. she was smart. she believed that everything happened for a reason. she believed that all people were inherently good. she believed in herself. she believed in others, and inspired them. she was a good person who would do anything for a friend. she would even do things for total strangers just because she like to help people. I miss her, and she’s probably not coming back. i don't like the girl that replaced her at all. she's sad all the time, and cries sometimes to the point of dehydration. she's really good at faking it, though... it's pathetic. poem 5: When I was 12, I smoked, I drank, I had done things most 16 year olds hadn’t, I was failing... are you proud of what you did to me? SORRY ABOUT POSTING SO MANY POEMS! I JUST WANT SOMEONES OPINION :) THANKS GUYS :) more

Open Question: ahh help me and then ill help you! :)?

he's been my best friend for about 3 years. when we first met pretty sure he liked me we used to text 24/7, plan to meet up, he'd always call me cute :) and shizz so someonethen decided to ruin it and spread stuff like he was planning on getting with me and that was it and i managed to make it like.. super clear that would never happen. a few weeks ago stuff started being really weird and then like literally overnight i realised that i actually LIKE him. and it's just getting worse. Before i thought of him differently all my friends would come around telling me he is like in love with me and id be like uhh no how would you know! and theyd be lke just the way he looks at you! and once i was drunky drunky and he was looking after me (i take him to all my parties) and my friend asked me if he liked me and he was like "no, why? what did she say?"and my friend was like no.. the same as you. and he was like oh.. yeah. so i went to his a few weeks ago and we were playing a game and i was his partner and we were not acting friendly. our legs were completely intertwined the whole night,we were being all flirty and giggly and at some point he dropped something and was like where did it go! and put his hand in between my legs and i just giggled being like i dont think it went there! another thing you should know is - there is no way i can like hint to him i like him or be more flirty because our relationship is literally like we are inseperable, we annoy eachother on purpose, our fights only ever last like 10 minutes and we dont even end up apologising we just look at eachother and laugh... and its just like cuddly cute whatnot. and we always get like are you going out? and we're always like nooo. anyways so after that night it got really awkward, he started acting weird around me and like one moment itll be awkward the next itll be couply the next tll be normal and i was really frustrated but we'd still talk. and last night i found out that he is having really bad problemos at home - his parents are seperating his girflriend told him her friends are more important than him to her and he feels like she's not good to talk to about things - he talks to me about everything. so last night i made him come to this little exhibition thing from another school and he came, when we were in the car he told me everything about the girlfriend and seperation etc and he was really sad about everything and we ended up doing like.. he came to the thing, we went and got food, we went to a park im really freaked out about at night and then he came over till about 11 and then i took him home. at some point of the night he brought up people asking if we're going out and i was liek yeahhhh. and he was liek yeahh. its funny cause we're not going out. not even a little bit. and i was like howw can you be going out a little bit stuuupeed? and he was like :) shut yourr face! but yeah i really. it's so hard because at some point im a bit glad im not with him now because i dont think itll work out when he's going through this stuff and he's so determined to hang out with me but thats probably to like forget about everything. he used to be all "ewwww!' everytime anything my boobs or ass would get mentioned now he just like doesn't talk or looks like weirdish. my question is... what am i meant to do :s like.. do you think he likes me? and dont tell me to tell him because that could completely mess our friendship up maybe more

Open Question: GIRLS! I really need ADVICE?! HELP!?

A year ago Labor day weekend, I hung out with a guy I’d known vaguely for years, at the county fair. We both showed animals, and we ran around all weekend. We hit it off, and we started a friendship that turned into a long distance relationship when he went home (he lives 2 hrs away). We were together 6 months. I put most of the effort into the relationship: driving to see him, etc. He was my first kiss. to me. He told me he loved me for the first time in February..And dumped me 10 days later out of the blue. I was devastated. I now see it as one of the best things to ever happen to me, but it left a scar. In may, something started to click with a guy I’d known since I was a small child. He seemed head over heels (in fact he told me so). He seemed really hooked, and said he wanted ot pray about it while he was on vacation. While on vacation, he met a 15 year old. When he came home he told me, “God said I cant date you.” Months have passed. I started attending university and Ive literally seen thousands of guys. None of them are attractive to me. I don’t really care. A guy I know, Dave, who I’ve know since I was a kid, who I friended on facebook, and I have been writing back and forth all summer. NO. HE’S NOT A CREEPER, I KNOW HIM, AND HIS FAMILY. HE’S A NICE GUY. MY AGE. He just asked me to hang out AT THE COUNTY FAIR, THIS WEEKEND. I said sure…But Im actually kind of not wanting to. YOU SEE, MY EX, WHO I HIT IT OFF WITH AT FAIR LAST YEAR, WAS A TALL, KINDA HANDSOME NERD. This guy…IS A TALL, KINDA CUTE, NERD. I feel like Im having déjà vu. I don’t wanna hurt myself all over again. I really like this guy (Alex) I’ve been working with, and have known since I was 16. He just admitted, in his own stubborn way, on Sunday, that he likes me..But I don’t know what to do about it, and I know he wont ask me out cuz he’s never asked out a girl before. WHAT SHOULD I DO? IM 19 YEARS OLD, AND I HAVE NO GOOD EXPERIENCES WITH GUYS. Im scared I’ll just end up hurt and feeling dumb again? What should I do about Dave and Alex? WHY AM I like this? more

Open Question: When Im bored, I get the urge to start an argument with my boyfriend just because?

Idk its like when I'm bored and im irritated I just get the urge to argue with him or turn the smallest things into something big. Its like I take my anger our on him. Im starting to realize that he's getting fed up and i feel really bad.. I wonder why I do mean things to him of all people. Im a really nice person but when it comes to him, Im just mean. I feel so bad I want to cry. WTH is wrong with me ? Does anyone else out there do that to their significant other ? If so, how did you stop? Because I really want to before I lose the best thing thats ever happened to me..ive been hurt a lot in my past so i feel me being mean to him is like payback for alll the guys who ever screwed me over. what i do is a lot deeper than how it seems. much deeper. i just want to stop. more

Open Question: i think im falling for my best friend.. its all cliche and it might be long but i really need some advice.....?

Open Question: GIRLS! I'm REALLY CONFUSED? HELP!?

A year ago Labor day weekend, I hung out with a guy I’d known vaguely for years, at the county fair. We both showed animals, and we ran around together all weekend. We hit it off, and we started a friendship that turned rapidly into a long distance relationship when he went home (he lives 2 hrs away). We were together six months. I put most of the effort into the relationship: driving to see him, sending him care packages, etc etc. He was my first kiss. He meant the world to me. He told me he loved me for the first time in February..And dumped me 10 days later out of the blue. I was devastated. I now see it as one of the best things to ever happen to me, but it left a scar. In may, something started to click with a guy I’d known since I was a small child. This guy had it all together. He seemed head over heels (in fact he told me so). He seemed really hooked, and said he wanted ot pray about it while he was on vacation. While on vacation, he met a 15 year old. When he came home he told me, “God said I cant date you.” I was shocked. Months have passed, and Im good with all of it. I started attending university and Ive literally seen thousands of guys. None of them are attractive to me. I don’t really care. People flirt all around me and I just gag. A guy I know, Dave, who I friended on face book, and I have been writing back and forth all summer. He just asked me to hang out AT THE COUNTY FAIR, THIS WEEKEND. I said sure…But Im actually kind of not wanting to. YOU SEE, MY EX, WHO I HIT IT OFF WITH AT FAIR LAST YEAR, WAS A TALL, KINDA HANDSOME NERD. This guy…IS A TALL, KINDA CUTE, NERD. I feel like Im having déjà vu. I don’t wanna hurt myself all over again. Especailly with a guy who wouldn’t be worth it. I really like this guy (Alex) I’ve been working with, and have known since I was 16. He just admitted, in his own stubborn way, on Sunday, that he likes me..But I don’t know what to do about it, and I know he wont ask me out cuz he’s never asked out a girl before. WHAT SHOULD I DO? IM 19 YEARS OLD, AND I HAVE NO GOOD EXPERIENCES WITH GUYS. Im scared I’ll just end up hurt and feeling dumb again? What should I do about Dave and Alex? WHY AM I like this? more

Resolved Question: Was it weird when everyone around you started getting married?

Let me begin by saying I am married, I met my husband very young (17) and we got married young (21). But at that time, besides my best friend who had gotten married at 18 to her husband, no one else was even remotely close to wanting to settle down. I always felt like the odd one out when I went out to bars and ckubs with friends because they were all looking for hookups or guys to date while I was just kind of....there. I had a loving husband at home, I never knew what to do with myself because they were all into talking to guys and stuff, and I just wanted to have fun with my girl friends. Now things are starting to change. My friends are all looking for/in serious relationships, are getting married off or are already married. Now they're starting to come to me and my best friend for advice, because we have been there for a relatively long time and have happy marriages. But I "grew up" with my husband, we were never independent of each other because we were married young, our relationship dynamic is very different because of that. These are independent women and men who have lived lives without a partner or different partners for a long time. They havent ever had combined finances with someone, shared things completely with someone, had to find resolutions with someone ect... My advice doesn't apply so much because I chose not to take that route in life, It's just been in the past year or two this has been happening. It is very weird, I feel like an old lady with people coming and asking me about advice before they get married. Then there is one of my closest friends from childhood who happens to be a guy, and a very decent a nice one at that. I feel so bad for him that he so badly wants to start settling down, find a wife, and of all surprises, have children. He can't even find a decent girl to take on a date, and I'm starting to feel like he's almost jealous of the relationship I have with my husband, because he doesn't have someone to have a close relationship with. When he calls, it's ALL he talks about anymore, I send him a text saying "hey what's up?" he always replies with his latest girl problem. I feel like I'm loosing one of my best friends, I can't help him either. This sudden marriage craze within my group of friends is driving me nuts. Just wondering if anyone else is going through this or has been through this? How did you cope? It seems like marriage has suddenly become the "it" thing to be doing. My husband and I have always taken our marriage very seriously. We didn't get married for the fun or fairy tale aspect of it (which is probably why were still happily together). I feel like I'm loosing all my friends. Advice, similar experiences, stories, just something on the subject you'd like to share? more

Open Question: MMO Suggestions please?

I was wondering what games should play, and i couldnt think of any i havent been bored with. So I was wondering if anyone knew any games thatd be really fun to play! MMO;s anyway. I mean playing single player games are fun but no matter how vast it is it starts to get stail. I also want to find the one game that draws me in and is really interesting all the time to me or just really fun. So basically a vast explorable world liek saint rows, wher eyour level and weapon choice in grand like disgaea, fighting like kingdom hearts, you can have heavy custom options for about anythign to make it yours or atleast have a preset list for people who hate that, and can do things beside sfighting liek sims or gaia, wher eyou can go in vehicles or what ever. I know thats aot and it may never happen but thats my dream game. i mean with all thiws just thing of the time and effort and money they would need, unles slike a town of people with unlimite dmoney did it itd be done fairly quick lieka year or two. i said this becaus ei thought itd give people a better insight of what game i would prefer, i want a fast paced mmorpg with good char customization atleats. i have played alot of mmos and they mostly suck. i liekd world of warcraft the most tho its a little overrated and its battle styles not that exciting it is vast and fun to play. i played gunz which i hate now s4 which is till do play like it alot perfect world is okay hate batle system, atm since im a digimon freak im layign th eonline game so yeah haha. so anyway got any suggestions. if its got a good battle system ill atleast try it. i rmember playthign this fighting mmo it was cool but servers lagged alot. since ive been ramblign alot and cant even spell check beczue im so tired im not gunna list all th emmos ive played but onoly a few. First is ragnarok it was good but i want a free gaem unles sim crazy for it, perfect world hated battle system gunz got tired of hackers and lost my lvl 60 supreme destiny i oly played with friend and now thats its wyd global it sucks the ruine dit aika its cool i liek the able to hit giant horde of enemies at a time secrets if solstice suuuuucks ya know i think ive actually tried atleast 60% of all mmos trieiid atleast so yeah. if you play a game and really love it please tell me ill research it and look at vids on youtube and try it if it looks good. the game slisted i wont try anymor ehto. also it doesnt have to be online any ps3 games woudl be great to list cuz i dont got an xbox or wii anymore so yeah. anyway yeah sorry for al the spellin error new laptop with wierd keyboard and im tired as heck. also tell me what you think of my idea for the best game ever lol, email me or get me at ps3 at KingOfHeartsTANK or various 0othe rgames with that name. ye si am a huge nerd oh well lol. ps i had to delete motst my idea caus eit waas like 15000 characters or smthin lol so email me if ya wanna hear it imma spellcheck n make it neat n ill send it to ya, small descriptions up there more

Open Question: is my best friend bi like me? does she like me to?

Ive known my best friend for a year and a half now but i didn't start having feelings for her until about 6 or 7 months ago.. Ive known im bi for a few years now but she has no idea.. I didn't actually have my first sexual encounter with the same sex until her. one day we got very drunk and partially high and she kept saying how much she wanted to have sex and make out with someone. she persisted on about it and continuously kept saying she "wished she could kiss someone right now" and "was curious to see what it would feel like" . i kept agreeing with her and she kept pressing on about the situation. eventually we went upstairs to her room and she brought it up again, saying she was curious to kiss someone because she felt so good right now and she wondered if the tingly sensation she felt would feel good with a kiss. we started moving closer and soon, we started to make out. she pulled me on top of her and this went on for a while before we passed out. in the morning i was embarrassed and didnt know how to deal with the situation so i acted like i couldnt remember what had happened that night. she said the same thing and we moved on and pretended like it never happened. but later that day she mentioned the idea of being bi curious .. but we stopped talking about it. still to this day i dont know if she remembers or if she was lying like me but we never brought it up again. Another time, we took ecstacy and the whole night she kept touching me and caressing me, and telling me she loved me. she insisted we take off our clothes so we could feel better and the whole time she was asking me to feel her up, and the whole night she kept saying how much she thought i was extremely pretty .. then when we were taking pictures she kept kissing me on the cheek a million times in every picture and a few times on the lips as well, and when i would give her small pecks she would complain and tell me i need to give her "real kisses" and would show me by doing it on my cheek. Then a few times we would just stare at eachother for a long time and she said i was looking at her like i wanted to do something. i obviously wanted to make out with her again, but i said how so? and she said idk, you just look like you really want to do something right now.. what do u want to do? we paused for a really long time looking at eachother almost seductivly and eventually i said "nothing." and then she said ohh i was kind of wishing you did .. so we dropped it. After we started getting our come down we layed in bed and got very close, i ended up putting my arm around her waist and we cuddled. i honestly don't know if these signs mean that she feels the same way i do? or if shes straight and was just curious or wanted to experiement. obviously both of these times were not when we were sober so im also considering the fact that she was just fucked up and it didnt mean anything. but everyday i regret not kissing her that night because i got the feeling she wanted to just as much as i did. I really don't know what to do, but we have the best relationship ever. we're absolutley crazy around eachother, we act completly different around eachother then we do with anyone else, we tell eachother everything, we like all of the same things, and are incredibly alike, sometimes we fight like couples do and flirt like them as well, she always calls me pet names and we hangout almost everyday. she constantly tells me she loves me, and always makes comments like "if we were lesbian, we would make the hottest couple ever" so i dont know what to think. Shes my best friend and my world but im also in love with her. It kills me everytime she talks about guys and her relationships with them .. right now she has a boyfriend and they have been dating for about 5 months now and she recently told me they had sex for the first time a week ago and it about killed me. shes crazy about him and they get along great, but now im scared to make a move because im afraid that shes likes him too much to have feelings for me. she never talks about him too much when we're together so i dont know how strongly she actually feels for him but occasionally she'll admit hes not the most attractive guy ever .. and the time we did ecstasy she admited she felt insecure because she had a "nasty boyfriend". even though she says these things i know she likes him alot, i just wonder if she likes me to? or maybe even more? im completly confused. and she only seems to make moves on me only when we're fucked up. I dont want to wierd her out and tell her, and lose her as a friend. sometimes her brother will make jokes about us being gay for eachother and she always denies it and sometimes gets pissed off. she says "im straight, trust me." so why does she act this way towards me? and even though im the one who has feelings for her, shes always the one that makes the first move and persists on more

Open Question: What movie or book is this quote from?

-You're the best thing to ever happen to me. -And? -And I'll do anything for you. -And? -I adore you. -That's not the word that I want to hear right now. -What are you talking about? -It's the same word as the other word. -It's not the same word. -Look, if I say the other word now and you forced me to say it, it won't mean anything, plus, you haven't said it either. So, don't get mad at me for not saying it. -Yeah, but I haven't said it because guys always run when you say it first. -Yeah, well, so do girls. Especially girls like you, with options. -So, this is all part of your elaborate plan to keep me interested? - It can be. - I hate that it's working. -Can I have a kiss? -We're going to make it work, I promise. more

Open Question: Question for any women who do or have work in lingerie sales. Need some help!!?

Sorry for the length, but I could really use some help... I see posts a lot on message boards about guys who wear lingerie and go shopping for it with no problem. They claim that they walk in the store, and when the associate asks them if they need help or who are they shopping for, they tell the associate they are shopping for themselves. And they all claim that the associates, without skipping a beat, say "Great, what were you looking for?" They claim that the associates never look at them funny, or give them a hard time. Some even claim that if the store isn't busy, they'll let them use the dressing room (That part I'm sure is BS. Maybe the mens fitting room in a department store.). Most of them say that the associates usually tell them that its not a big deal, and that there are more guys than you think who come in shopping for themselves. Well I happen to be one of those guys. I have recently discovered that I prefer panties to boxers, and have gone out and bought some of my own. I was tired of wasting money on lingerie that didn't fit or feel right. So I figured I'd give it a try, asking the assistant for help in sizing and fits. My experience was nothing like what I've read. Nobody was rude or anything, but most associates avoided conversation, and you could tell that they were very uncomfortable, and this obviously wasn't something that happened too often. You could tell they wished I had of went somewhere else. So my questions for women who do or have worked in lingerie sales, are: Is a guy buying lingerie for himself actually a somewhat common thing (and by common, I don't mean daily or anything, but more than once or twice)? Have you ever been that associate? If you have, what were your thoughts about it? Were you uneasy, uncomfortable, unfased, intrigued, etc? What region of the country were you in? I'm in the south, and think maybe that is why my experiences were so different. 10 points for best answer. Any stories of personal experience get bonus points! (JK, but still share!). I'm trying to figure out if its worth it for me to keep trying to find that friendly associate who just wants to make a sale, or if I should just be prepared for all associates to look at me like I'm a freak. more

Open Question: Question for any women who do or have work in lingerie sales. 10 easy points!?

Open Question: I'm getting all these signs and idk if they mean anything?

I'm getting all these signs and i don't know if I'm going crazy or its true. I was on a train and I met this guy, I'm from a small country town and he's from south detroit. And we clicked, and I think I love him. We spent every moment together and he's perfect, and when we were saying goodbye 'Don't stop believing' came on. We were hugging in silence and we listened. And then he started crying and said that thats like us. Well, he's gone. In a different state hours and hours away. Now I keep getting all these signs. Like I was walking down the street and a homeless person was hanging onto a sign that said "You'll find a way. Don't Stop Believing." and then when I was crying about him all of a sudden, on the hippest most up to date radio that ONLY plays rap and pop...came Don't Stop Believing. And theres another one but nobody would believe me and I wouldn't get serious answers which is what I'm looking for. I don't know if I'm acting crazy or these are signs. I've never had a guy cry over me and he told me he finally found happiness and that I'm the best thing that has ever happened to him. And he said he just cried for the first time in 4 years. Theres not much we can do though, we're in high school and he's the only one who can drive legally and he can't go out of state. I truly TRULY don't believe this is a summer love or puppy love or anything. I love him. And I don't know if these are signs or if I'm crazy, and sorry if this is all messed up I'm crying my eyes out right now. And I don't cry. Please help. *we spent the whole summer together. *and not south detroit like 3 minutes south of detroit but still. he's not even close to bad news, i got kinda close with his sister who is my age and she told me about him. He's never had a girlfriend. Never touched alchol/drugs. Goes to church every sunday. And she said all he can talk about is me, and she said "I think he really does love you." more

Resolved Question: Is my best friend bi like me?

Ive known my best friend for a year and a half now but i didn't start having feelings for her until about 6 or 7 months ago.. Ive known im bi for a few years now but she has no idea.. I didn't actually have my first sexual encounter with the same sex until her. one day we got very drunk and partially high and she kept saying how much she wanted to have sex and make out with someone. she persisted on about it and continuously kept saying she "wished she could kiss someone right now" and "was curious to see what it would feel like" . i kept agreeing with her and she kept pressing on about the situation. eventually we went upstairs to her room and she brought it up again, saying she was curious to kiss someone because she felt so good right now and she wondered if the tingly sensation she felt would feel good with a kiss. we started moving closer and soon, we started to make out. she pulled me on top of her and this went on for a while before we passed out. in the morning i was embarrassed and didnt know how to deal with the situation so i acted like i couldnt remember what had happened that night. she said the same thing and we moved on and pretended like it never happened. but later that day she mentioned the idea of being bi curious .. but we stopped talking about it. still to this day i dont know if she remembers or if she was lying like me but we never brought it up again. Another time, we took ecstacy and the whole night she kept touching me and caressing me, and telling me she loved me. she insisted we take off our clothes so we could feel better and the whole time she was asking me to feel her up, and the whole night she kept saying how much she thought i was extremely pretty .. then when we were taking pictures she kept kissing me on the cheek a million times in every picture and a few times on the lips as well, and when i would give her small pecks she would complain and tell me i need to give her "real kisses" and would show me by doing it on my cheek. Then a few times we would just stare at eachother for a long time and she said i was looking at her like i wanted to do something. i obviously wanted to make out with her again, but i said how so? and she said idk, you just look like you really want to do something right now.. what do u want to do? we paused for a really long time looking at eachother almost seductivly and eventually i said "nothing." and then she said ohh i was kind of wishing you did .. so we dropped it. After we started getting our come down we layed in bed and got very close, i ended up putting my arm around her waist and we cuddled. i honestly don't know if these signs mean that she feels the same way i do? or if shes straight and was just curious or wanted to experiement. obviously both of these times were not when we were sober so im also considering the fact that she was just fucked up and it didnt mean anything. but everyday i regret not kissing her that night because i got the feeling she wanted to just as much as i did. I really don't know what to do, but we have the best relationship ever. we're absolutley crazy around eachother, we act completly different around eachother then we do with anyone else, we tell eachother everything, we like all of the same things, and are incredibly alike, sometimes we fight like couples do and flirt like them as well, she always calls me pet names and we hangout almost everyday. she constantly tells me she loves me, and always makes comments like "if we were lesbian, we would make the hottest couple ever" so i dont know what to think. Shes my best friend and my world but im also in love with her. It kills me everytime she talks about guys and her relationships with them .. right now she has a boyfriend and they have been dating for about 5 months now and i can't stand it. she recently told me they had sex for the first time a week ago and it about killed me. shes crazy about him and they get along great, but now im scared to make a move because im afraid that shes likes him or loves him too much to have feelings for me. she never talks about him too much when we're together so i dont know how strongly she actually feels for him but occasionally she'll admit hes not the most attractive .. and the time we did ecstasy she admited she felt insecure because she has a "nasty boyfriend". even though she says these things i know she likes him alot, i just wonder if she likes me to? or maybe even more? im completly confused. and she only seems to make moves on me only when we're fucked up. I dont want to wierd her out and tell her, and lose her as a friend. sometimes her brother will make jokes about us being gay for eachother and she always denies it and sometimes gets pissed off. she says "im straight, trust me." so why does she act this way towards me? and even though im the one who has feelings for her, shes always the one that makes the first move. and persists on trying something. Is she bi? does she like me to? what should i do? more

Resolved Question: boys!? BFF'S!? help!?

My best friend has been on and off with her boyfriend for 3 years. I don’t want to be mean but she is kind of obsessed with him. When ever she is going out with him she cant talk about anything but him and me and my other friends get annoyed. It’s always well he did this and we did that and then he said... I hope you get it. But when they are not going out she still cant shut up about him she is crazy! I feel bad for him to because he knows how crazy she is and he can’t even like another girl if he wanted to. Anyways the other night we were all at my friend’s house and he broke up with her for good because he couldn’t take her anymore. That same night right after he broke up with her he started flirting with me A LOT! It was weird he was touchy and saying all these nice things about me and he was carrying me around the whole night like we had just gotten married. After all that he carried me up stairs to talk to me alone and was like I think you are really pretty and nice and smart and to be honest with you I like you a lot… more then a friend and I have for a while even when I was with my ex. This took me by surprise I didn’t know what to say to him, but at that time I realized I liked him too, I always have in the back of my head. But right after I was filled with excitement the thought of my friend who dated him came in my mind. I told this boy that everything he said was really nice but I need time to take this all in. I went back down stairs to the rest of my friends. I was thinking I could never be with this boy and still have my friend stay my friend it wouldn’t happen! I went up to my friend who just got her heart broken, again and said if your ex went out with another girl would you be mad at her and immediately she said yes I would be very mad at her especially if she was my friend. After that I went home upset because I really like this boy and I want my other friend not to be mad at me for liking him. I want to go out with him but I don’t know how to tell her and explain everything without her hating my guts forever because I really want her to stay my friend and I don’t want things to be awkward between us. Please help me what do I do?!? more

Open Question: Boys!? Best Friend!? HELPPP!!!!!!!!!!!?

Resolved Question: Why do people in here hate immigrants to death?

I have always noticed that people on here always say bitter things to immigrants. It's like an immigrant wife asks about how to make her abusive husband stop and everyone says "That's what you get now for coming here now suffer". It's like they automatically assume that being here is the best thing that could ever happen to her and if she is in trouble then that's like an icing on the cake cos she is an immigrant. For a normal simple woman being married and being in a normal and healthy relationship with her husband is the basic and the most important thing. If a woman values her marriage and is a good wife to her husband and her husband is abusing her she is still a victim irrespective of whether she is an immigrant or not. Sometimes the reaction of people towards troubled and tortured immigrant women makes me re-think that there is normal terrorism and stuff and this is a modern day terrorism.. Like someone cutting off this person's neck in public and someone saying these things here, there is absolutely no difference between these two things. Both are the same except one does it directly and the other does it indirectly. I am not trying to be discriminating but just trying to know why do ppl on here have so much hatred towards immigrant wives. 4 minutes ago - 4 days left to answer. more

Open Question: Would you give this guy another chance, or is this unforgivable?

My best friend (we dated a couple yrs ago very seriously) went out of town for work for the summer and asked me to come so we could "work on things" and try and start something. Things had been going great until I went home last week. He didn't want me to leave, but i had to for work. Then out of nowhere a day later he stops calling 4 or 5 times a day like he usually does. Finally he told me that he doesn't know what he wants although he knows he would be happy with me and he wanted to marry me all summer. I emailed him and said I was willing to step things up if he wanted to to make us work, and I haven't heard from him since then. He finally text me after a whole wk of not talking to me (he's never not talked to me) and said he's not ignoring me, just thinking, and no need to be upset. Yesterday I found out through his brother and sister in law, who is also my close friend and in the same city with him for work, that the day after I left he met some woman with 2 kids and started hanging out with her all the time. When they called him out on it, he claimed he and I weren't anything and I knew that (this was days before he actually told me). Then after a week of knowing this woman, she leaves her kids to drive all the way across the country with him to "visit" while he moves back home. I told him he's a player and a liar for doing that and not telling me. Now he's furious, saying what am I upset about, they're just friends and aren't ever going to date. I said he played me, he said he didn't beacuse he and this woman are "just friends" and "hanging out" and he wants to be with me. I said you don't drive across the country with a "friend" you have known for 5 days unless there is something there. I can't even think straight now. There's no way they are just "friends" right? You don't stop speaking to the woman you claimed you wanted to marry because someone new showed up and went on a little road trip with you after knowing you for 5 DAYS if it's all innocent, right? And why would a single mother with two small children leave them to go cross country with a guy she's known 5 days if he didn't lead her to believe anything was going to happen with them? I feel like he was dishonest bc when he started being distant I asked him if there was someone else and he said "No." more

Resolved Question: HE RANDOMLY KISSED ME?? D: HELP PLEASE!!?

Okay, so theres this guy, Alex. And this girl eleanor. And this other girl cindy. K. This is gonna be long. Alex and I, we've known each other for around 3 years now, but we've only been friends ever since we met. Now, we're like best friends. I've liked him since...idk when. When I first saw him i had a HUGE crush on him. Then i got to know him and hes a really nice guy. I told my friend eleanor about it, and a few days later..i found out that they got together. Eleanor knew him a few months before I did, so yeah..But since she and I were close, I just congratulated them and wished them a happy relationship. After they got together, eleanor was really protective over him cos she knew that I liked him. And it just puzzled be cos like..she knew i liked him, we're close friends, and yet, she still got together with him knowing her close friend liked him. \: But well, she knew him longer than I did so I just kept quiet. She is skinnier, sexier, taller, prettier, whatever than me anyway. They lasted for about a year then they broke off. Alex was really heartbrokened. He told me about it almost immediately after it happened on msn, and i got so shocked. I comforted him and was there for him. Then we started talking ALOT almost everyday. That was probably the happiest ive ever been. We spent alot of time together, but only as friends. But he'd always get me soooo confused. He'd go "Bella, you're really a great friend, thanks for being there for me." Then he'd hug me. He'd hold my hand, take me out for ice cream and lean on me. I was really happy, but i knew the whole time he was only thinking of eleanor. He'd do all those sweet things to me then almost right after, he'd go "I miss eleanor.." Now, almost 9 months has passed since they've broken up. We've been meeting up alot in this period of time up till now, and we talk alot too. But alex still talks about eleanor. Eleanor and I are still friends, but we've drifted alot. We're kinda more like mutual friends now. And alex and I, we're like best friends now. But I still like him, he's still reallyreally special to me. I don't know why, i've tried so hard to get over him, but I can't. Hes just soooo special and so amazing. Yesterday night, i met him, he came opposite my house and we were at the playground. We were fooling around and kind of tickling each other, then i grabbed his guitar pick (its really precious to him its like his baby or smth -.-) and held it in my fist. It kinda went like this: Him: GIVE IT BACK!!! *grabs my hand and tries opening my fist* me: HAHAHAAH~ you're never gonna get it back~ him: GIVE ITTTTT *Tries to open my hand more* *leaning closer and closer to me* At this point my heart was beating really quickly cos i knew something was weird. Earlier that evening he was also talking about this other cindy. Cindy's a girl from his class that he kinda has a crush on recently. And he sits next to her in class and he always talks about her. He was leaning so close he was practically lying on my chest. I was really nervous but i thought nah this isnt big its just friends fooling around. Cos we play games like that alot and theres always a bit of physical contact involved. But then suddenly he was like "I know how i can get it" Then he turned and leaned closer and closer to my face. I moved back but when he realised me moving back he just pulled me in and kissed me on the lips. I pulled away and asked "What are you doing?" but he just pulled me back and kissed me more. I couldnt think at that point of time cos its like OMG ALEX IS KISSING ME!!!!!! So I just kissed him back. We made out for about 5 mins then he smiled at me and lied on my lap. Then we just talked like everything was normal. I was so awkward and i really wanted to ask why he did that cos he has a crush on cindy. And. I just don't know what he was doing. I didn't know why he did it. I was just shocked i couldn't think of what to say at all. Then he held my hands and wrapped them around his neck, and pulled my head down to kiss him again. and we made out again. I really dont know what hes doing..... It really means something to me. Im reallyreally happy it happened but im also confused/upset cos he might just be doing it cos hes lonely..? I dont know. ): Help!!!!Im sorry if this is lengthy, i tried my best to keep it short lol. And I really don't want to lose our friendship just because of what happened we didnt talk at all today, we text almost everyday but today he didnt contact me at all!!!!!!!!! ): more

Open Question: What should i say to him? is this ok?

(sorry it's so long, i tried to make it short but i couldn't lol) ok so we were best friends for about a year, he's the best friend i've ever had, he knows more about me than anyone else does or ever has, we talked about everything. so about 3 months ago he stopped talking to me, i have no idea why. nothing happened just one day we were talking one day we weren't. it happened between the end of school and the beginning of the exams. his phone was broken so we couldn't text (we used to text all the time, all evening even if we were together at school all day) but when he got a new phone we still weren't talking. if he was standing in a group or just with another person and i went over he wouldn't talk to me and then would walk away after a minute or two. the only time he talks to me is when he's drunk and he still isn't as talkative as he was before. the only thing that's a possible reason is that he saw me as more than a friend and when i started going out with another guy in our group he felt hurt or something. NOTHING happened that would make him mad at me, seriously, nothing different happened at all. i try and text him but he texts back once or twice and then just stops. he texted me asking my results and when i replied and asked his he answered but then didn't answer my next one. ok so in 2 weeks we will be going away to college over 3 hours apart so i will barely see him and i can't bear to lose contact forever so i have to sort it out now or i'll lose him forever and i can't bear that. i miss him so much and i have to let him know. so i have a draft message saved on my phone to send him, i wrote it pretty late last night so it isn't great, it's the gist but i need help fine tuning it. so based on what i said what should i send him? i have: "just wanted to say you're the best friend i've ever had and i miss you a lot, i dunno what happened with us but i hope 1 day you'll wanna talk to me again xx" please help thanks in advance to anyone who reads it all and answers :)xok the question isn't "why did he stop talking to me" the question is "what can i say to him" i'm saying in the text that i don't know what happened cos i don't wanna tell him why i think he stopped talking to me cos that sounds really big-headed more

Open Question: Please help...am I right in thinking they are more than "friends"?

(Sorry this is a repost, I accidentally deleted the last one before i read the answers!) My best friend (we dated a couple yrs ago very seriously) went out of town for work for the summer and asked me to come so we could "work on things" and try and start something. Things had been going great until I went home last week. He didn't want me to leave, but i had to for work. Then out of nowhere a day later he stops calling 4 or 5 times a day like he usually does. Finally he told me that he doesn't know what he wants although he knows he would be happy with me and he wanted to marry me all summer. I emailed him and said I was willing to step things up if he wanted to to make us work, and I haven't heard from him since then. He finally text me after a whole wk of not talking to me (he's never not talked to me) and said he's not ignoring me, just thinking, and no need to be upset. Yesterday I found out through his brother and sister in law, who is also my close friend and in the same city with him for work, that the day after I left he met some woman with 2 kids and started hanging out with her all the time. When they called him out on it, he claimed he and I weren't anything and I knew that (this was days before he actually told me). Then after a week of knowing this woman, she leaves her kids to drive all the way across the country with him to "visit" while he moves back home. I told him he's a player and a liar for doing that and not telling me. Now he's furious, saying what am I upset about, they're just friends and aren't ever going to date. I said he played me, he said he didn't beacuse he and this woman are "just friends" and "hanging out" and he wants to be with me. I said you don't drive across the country with a "friend" you have known for 5 days unless there is something there. I can't even think straight now. There's no way they are just "friends" right? You don't stop speaking to the woman you claimed you wanted to marry because someone new showed up and went on a little road trip with you after knowing you for 5 DAYS if it's all innocent, right? And why would a single mother with two small children leave them to go cross country with a guy she's known 5 days if he didn't lead her to believe anything was going to happen with them?I feel like he was dishonest bc when he started being distant I asked him if there was someone else and he said "No." He also hooked up with her and was completely open to starting something with her just a day after I left. more

Open Question: what should i say to him? is this ok?

Open Question: Don't get this girl. Am I stupid to believe that she is interested? 10p. for best answer?

I've known this girl for about a year, well since I moved to go to college. And we usually have fun together when we hang out in a group. We always flirt and I call her sweetie and she calls me babe or something. But nothing has ever happened. The weird thing is she is really hard to talk to when she is alone and she ends the conversation very fast. I that makes me think that she isn't interested in me that way. But then she calls me or texts me and asks me how I'm doing and all that. And that makes me believe she is interested. A few weeks ago we played a game, it was like truth or dare. And some other girl dared her to kiss any guy in the room. And she kissed me. So I thought that I could ask her out. I asked her out the day after to go out for a few beers and some pool. But she quickly responded by saying "Yeah sure. I'll ask the others if they want to go to." And I of course rolled with the punches saying "No, that's ok. I'll take care of it" So I don't get it. Is she interested, not interested? Is she playing hard to get? What is it? Any of you have an idea? more

Open Question: I don't get this girl? I would appreciate some advice, thanks. 10p for best answer!?

I've known this girl for about a year, well since I moved to go to college. And we usually have fun together when we hang out in a group. We always flirt and I call her sweetie and she calls me babe or something. But nothing has ever happened. The weird thing is she is really hard to talk to when she is alone and she ends the conversation very fast. I that makes me think that she isn't interested in me that way. But then she calls me or texts me and asks me how I'm doing and all that. And that makes me believe she is interested. A few weeks ago we played a game, it was like truth or dare. And some other girl dared her to kiss any guy in the room. And she kissed me. So I thought that I could ask her out. I asked her out the day after to go out for a few beers and some pool. But she quickly responded by saying "As long as I am not the only one." And I of course rolled with the punches saying "No, you're just the first one I've had the chance to get to." So I don't get it. Is she interested, not interested? Is she playing hard to get? What is it? Any of you have an idea? more

Open Question: I need help with a game i want to play so badly!!!!!!!!!!?

Ok now this game is on online its a desktop game when you start it i don't know what happens but then you be in a farm than you can choose activities to do and which ever one you pick you get to choose the difficulty Easy Medium or Hard if your tied a beetle could help you not a beetle its like a bug thing if you pick hard and you want a hint it would say "why did you pick the hard mode if you know you want a hint" anyway its not about planting its about doing jobs in a farm and you click which part of the farm you want do an activity in you don't have a character you just see through screen whats that game called???? its name is like a sentence i used to know it its like a sentence like this: you learn from the farm... its like a sentence like that i don't remember who ever helps me i promise to give you 10 points and best answer plz help more

Open Question: Yo, why you be hatin'?

On my lovely Anky? I mean, she's brilliant. Rollkur is the best thing that's ever happened to horses! Then you go and bash Parelli.. do you guys hate on EVERYONE?!Dude, I'm not hatin'. D: more

Open Question: Will he say he's sorry and come back..Was it all my fault?

I was talking to this guy on the internet for two months (skype and a chat application that has a bunch of rooms it's like a world) and I liked him so much, he could convince me to do things I don't ever do with people online. Like phone sex and watching him pleasure himself on cam. But those were at the very end of and only happened a few times. So I grew extremely fond of him and grew insecure and jealous. Wondering if he did the same things with other girls. I knew deep inside he did and older users confirmed it but I would believe his denial. His words saying "Do I talk to other girls? Yes. Do I talk to them the same way I talk to you? No." So he got upset at me two days ago because of the situation and told me we should end it because he didn't want me to get hurt. I told him he was doing it right now and he said "well tough chick" and said that it was all true that he ****** every girl on pal and he did it for kicks because that's just who he as but he sounded so upset that I thought he was only saying it to hurt me. I went to school (I'm 18, had to repeat a grade because my parents divorce got me depressed and I didn't go to school but that's not what matters here) and I cried the whole first period in the bathroom and I texted him saying that I over reacted and that I didn't want to not talk to him anymore, that I didn't want him to leave me. And then he called me during lunch and hung up because we wasn't sure it was me. It was the first time we ever used the phone, by phone sex I meant he called me from his skype to my ipod skype account. And well I got home and saw that he said he we could talk and so I told him that I was being ridiculous and that he made me happy and I couldn't control what he did on his side of the world. But I guess I was just trying to make myself believe that all along too. He said okay and I initiated cyber sex then he stopped talking. And answered me half an our later and then nothing at all. Then in the morning I checked and nothing so I figured he was at work (he's 25) and let it slide. But then I just felt he was avoiding me because he kept changing from iPhone to PC. So I made a fake account and he answered my fake in a jiff. As the fake I asked him for sexy photos and he was 100% willing and he asked my fake for them I obviously didn't have and told him I wanted more photos of his c*ck. And he was being all flirty and then I called him by his real name which crept him out and then told him it was a common name that it could happen and then told him three names in those mine. So he went all "you sneaked on me using a fake?" and told me that i had said i didn't care and I told him how could I not? By the way, whilst I was talking with him as my fake I sent him a message as myself telling him to please say hey. And so he told me that it be best if we didn't talk. Anymore. But what I really want to know is why he lied to me? Why couldn't just talk with me online when he knew I'd always be there for him whenever he felt naughty and not just naughty. I know I'm stupid for wanting this but do you think he'll come back to me and talk with me and say he's sorry? Or is he just going to leave me like this? Did I do wrong making that fake? Why would he avoid me after the cyber sex? Why? more

Open Question: How can i get over my first love, who is also best friend ?

Right, it first started when i was 14, I started speaking to this guy on myspace, and then msn and then texting and calling eachother. It wasnt until a year later that i finally met him, but i knew i had already fallen for him. As i got older i found more people taking an interest in me and some guys were perfect but in my head no one compared to this one guy. So four years on and hes now my best friend, i see him everyday and we stay up all night talking but i cant get over the fact that im still in love with him after all these years. It has stopped me from moving on and finding someone else, and now at 18 its slowly dawning on me that if i dont do something soon then im going to be even more trapped. Me and him have never actually been together and i have been there for him through 3 relationships, one of those relationships i helped make by introducing him to one of my other friends, i thought that this would help me get over him if i saw him with someone else... but it didnt work. He has been my first kiss, first 'time', first crush and the only person ive ever liked. Ive told him how i feel and he says he appreciates how much i care and if certain things hadnt have happened in the past then maybe things would be different because initally he did like me but then the first time i met him my mum kicked him out of the house and it kind of ruined anything that could have happened which has turned out to be my biggest regret. My feelings have got so bad that we end up having stupid arguments if he mentions that he thinks one of my other friends is nice looking and he cant understand why i cant help him get together with someone. As his best friend i should encourage him to go after people and help him find a girlfriend but im so scared of losing him that i cant do it. I just want to be his friend and i hate feeling this way because it feels like i can never move on with my life. Ive looked at other help on the internet and most advice says that i should cut all contact with him but when someone means that much to you and hes your best friend its also impossible to do. I just want the day to come where i can be happy for him and walk past him on the street with his girlfriend and not have to force a smile, or the day where he can talk about a girl and i can give non biased advice to him and encourage him to find love. Please if anyone can relate or help me it would be appreciated more

Open Question: Advice, please?!. My fiance is finally meeting my parents... I'm pretty nervous...?!?

Okay, well, I'm 25, and I live about three hours away from my parents. I haven't really spoken to them for about 6 months, because we never get along. I'm a musician, and my parents are both lawyers, and believe that I'm "ruining my life" with choices like that. They also raised me very strictly; I wasn't allowed to go out with friends often; I had a hell of a time dating as a teenager, because they hated all my boyfriends; I was raised extremely Catholic. However, when I moved out, I found that I dislike Catholic beliefs, and although I still believe in God, I'm simply spiritual now. So I've made a complete turn around from the person I was raised as. So, two nights ago, my boyfriend, Kris proposed to me, and I said yes, since he's the best thing to ever happen to me. However, my parents know nothing about him, and I just told my mom that I was engaged yesterday. She invited Kris and I to stay with them for a few days this week, and I said okay. I'm getting really nervous, though, because Kris isn't exactly who my parents would want me to marry. He wears dark clothes, and has dark hair and everything... just everything he believes in would probably make my parents dislike him. Don't get me wrong, I'm completely in love with him, and he's an amazing, kind-hearted, down to Earth guy, but my parents have a hard time seeing past certain things... So I'm just afraid they'll hate him and be really cold to him or something... I just want them to like him; I'm going to spend the rest of my life with Kris, whether or not my family likes him... but I still would like for them to, you know? I mean, we'd like to have kids in the future and everything, so I want my parents to be there throughout that, and I want them to be happy about it, not just go along with it. Kris means the world to me, and I just want my family to like him... So what should I do when we're staying with my parents? Advice, please? Thank you.Excuse me, but please don't tell me that he might not be the "one." I'm 25, I've dated plenty. Sure, I had a hard time dating while living with my parents, but I sure as hell know what I'm doing, now... more

Open Question: Advice? My fiance is finally meeting my parents, but I'm pretty worried... Help?!?

Resolved Question: Purgatory and helping?

Background info seems the place to start. Paternal grandmother was someone that if she got mad at you once, she hated you forever and anyone that was with you. So she hated my mom and my birth caused her to hate me. She never forgave either of us much through life, my greatest sin was being born. My mothers greatest sin was getting pregnant before they were married. I ended up just staying as far away from that grandmother as possible and leaving her stew in her own misery, like most of the world did. She was not a nice person to anyone other than one son who would have nothing to do with her, my dad she treated like a slave that she would verbally abuse all the time. Towards the end i did my best when things went really down hill for her, she was her same nasty self. I was saddened to see her go, there would never be a chance to ever move forward from there on, though i did not believe she was the type to ever do so anyway. But i had always held out a bit of hope, 25 years should have taught me differently, but it didn't. I was also slightly relieved she went. 14 years later i worked hard to forgive her for all her nasty comments during my life time, for all the misery she inflicted upon me and my family. I worked hard to let go of any ill emotion i had towards her and went onward with my life. Now... a bit more of a background is that i have always had "Dreams". I don't know what else to call them. I am sleeping and my dream suddenly stops on part of it and someone i loved or some relative of my husbands will come through and stop the dream and talk to me for a bit. No dream is going on during it and it just turns really bright though the light isn't bothersome. I feel very awake in fact.... it's hard to explain. Most times it's to say something important about another relative who is still living. These "Dreams" don't occur very often at all, thankfully. Though it's saved a few lives, so if i have to deal with them so be it. Most of me would rather they never happened again and i've prayed and prayed for that. And no, i don't see into anyone else's lives or try to! None of that stupid crap like on tv!!!!!! After the so called "dream" ends i am fully awake and feel extremely refreshed even if i've only been asleep for 2 hours, though i often try to force myself to go back to sleep. Ignoring doesn't work and i don't want to explain that right now. Now.. for my question. I've never once dreamed about that grandmother i started to talk about in the beginning of this. I've never even dreamed about her husband, my grandfather. So two nights ago my grandfather, who was ok to me even though he wasn't the best of guys in life to others, came to me and it was grey and not bright. I got the feeling he was in transition still which worried me since he's been gone for 20 years now. But what bothered me most is he then turned his attention to a dark area and said i needed to help my grandmother. From out of the black a tar looking head and arm reach out for me, like they need me to help pull them out. I can't tell who it is and my reaction was to step backwards 2 steps without thought. Then i heard the piercing scream that asked for help, which made me take a step back even further. I saw the image all through the day and kept hearing the scream for help and it is now 2 days later and i cannot clear any of it away. My fear is if i did grab on i'd be sucked down instead of able to pull someone up. Should i try anyway? And how can i help either of my grandparents? Nothing in my "dreams" are ever vague or need figuring out. Normally quick and to the point. My son Scott is going to have a heart attack in two days and you need to tell him to go to the doctor today. We hadn't seen Scott for 11 years and all knew him to be in perfect health. He went to the doctor and sure enough, his heart was in crisis. Nothing vague, nothing to work out. Just simply pass it along and be done with it. This is the first time which makes me think it's not good. My grandpa also said 3000 like 5 times in it which means absolutely nothing to me, something else vague and makes me think i should just push the whole thing away from me. But at the same time, no matter how hateful they were, if i could help them move on in a better way i would try. Ok, so most of you are just going to say mean things or claim crazy. But i am hoping one person out there has some sense of a clue.People who answer there is no purgatory are not helpful. Just a dream and no purgatory answers are not worth your time in writing.Small minded people are busy telling what isn't, they have no value and know nothing beyond their own noses. False prophets exist everywhere and understand nothing beyond his/her own mind. more

Open Question: What do I tell this friend? She asked for a picture of my chest?

I ran into an old friend I fell out of touch with just before I went back to college. We live 1000 miles away right now cause of classes, but we've been emailing each other every other day since I left. We talk about all kinds of stuff, hugging technique, best friend drama, even stuff like deodorants and favorite bones. Her favorite bone is the clavicle (collar bone). I told her medical professionals were baffled at the shape of mine (it's shaped like a wide 'v' instead of being straight like most others). Her responses have just gotten weirder since then: "Haha that's amazing! Now I'm curious... I'm not going to ask for a pic of you with your shirt off but I'm truly curious!! Well for the “v” thing I enjoy when the stick out so bet yours are perfect ;) " After this I told her I would be happy to take a picture, my shoulder is hardly scandalous and I feel comfortable talking to her about anything, and here's her next reply: 'Sorry but I still feel scandalous asking for a picture of your shoulder!! So we either need to talk about more scandalous stuff so that doesn’t seem that bad or it should just happen to show up ;)' , she then told me about her nude drawing classes, asked if I had a girl I fancied here at college, and then sent me a text a few hours later saying 'so I checked my clavicle isn't visible at all, it wouldn't be fair to send me a picture of yours since I have nothing to offer in return :( ' How should I respond? It almost seems like she wants a lewd response given this context, but she always talks about me being such a gentleman. I don't want to scare her off, I love talking to her every now and then like this. I don't know if anything will ever happen between us though since I go to college so far away. Send her the picture? Ask for something else back? more

Resolved Question: has depression made u ever doubt whats most important to you?

Hey.sorry for the lenght..I just wanted to tell my story...it all really started wit a panic attack I had in jan.what happens is I had jus got together wit the love of my life my gf whom I am still wit n love more then I cud say...I was back home txting a friend at the time..she was this gurl who was my friend before I had a gf..n we were pretty close and ccool..however I think she liked me a lot more then I liked her...and one day she showed her true colors..we were having a reg convo..n she kinda got a lil too fresh which I told her aobut herself..n said I have a gf n to chill..n she got mad at me ...cursed me out..n then sent me a naked pic...out of no where...that I did not ask for out of the blue..n me being the good guy that I am..told her off deleted the pic..n was fine..so I thought...3 days later..something came over me..I duno what...but something caused me to think I cheated on my gf bc I didn't tell her about the pic..(even thought I know I didn't..)..n it caused me to freak out and have a panic attack..bc I wud never do n e thing wrong by her..n I am not that type of guy..so I told my gf...n she laughed about it..lol..bc she said everything was fine n I made a deal out of nothing..n I tried to igorne it..but I kept dwelling on what happened..to the point where I actually started having negative thoughts...n view points that are untrue about what had happened..like I wanted the pic...or I sent her one first..all these bad thoughts..n that wat basically had started the depression..fast foward to now ..I have the best...most caring loving gf in the whole world..this woman is my future wife and I love her more then life itself..how ever I have tons of negative thoughts...most about myself...a few about her..but I notice my depression goes after what's most important to me...my relationship ...my bad thoughts tell me I am no good..or that I ve done bad things that I haven't and wud never do..or that I am not worth it...or that I ll never be happy..or that my gf isn't the one for me..when I know in my heart and soul if I cud marry this woman tommorrow I would be happy for the rest of my days.....like its a block on my happyness somedays..n I hate itso my q is..has n e one else had this happen to them?..also I am taking lexapro 20mgs for the last month after uping from the 10s...I am thinking bout switching from the lex to a stronger dose or something dif cuz I feel it helps..but not to the point where I heard a shud..thank u! - more

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